Heart Focused Parenting

Belinda Letchford

The heart-focused podcast that helps Christian parents raise their kids with faith, character, and life skills. Short encouragements, tips, and prompts to help you in your everyday interactions with your kids - always keeping in mind that the heart is more important than the behaviour. Join me every week.

  1. 3 days ago

    Homeschooling High School Is About More Than Academics (#119)

    A bigger vision for the high school years can help you make confident decisions about your teen's education.  About this Episode The high school years can make homeschool parents question whether they are doing enough or making the right educational choices. In this episode, I look at the purpose of high school and why I believe it is about preparing our teens for adult life, not simply academics, university or a job. Having that bigger vision gives us a framework for making decisions about our teen's education based on their strengths, interests and needs, rather than simply following what high school is expected to look like.   Heart-focused Parenting Action Step Take some time to define what you believe the purpose of the high school years is. Then use that WHY as a guide when you make decisions about your teen's education. Consider signing up for the free Deschooling workshop to help you homeschool your kids while processing this important step.   Links Mentioned Whole Child Based Homeschool Scope and Sequence Starting Homeschool Hub on my website   Read the blog here:  Homeschooling High School Is About More Than Academics (#119)    Continue the conversation If you'd like to learn more about Deschooling for a Strong Homeschool Workshop (free 2-part Heart Connect Video Class). If you'd like personal support applying this in your own family/homeschool, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    Homeschooling High School Is About More Than Academics (#119)

  2. 9 Aug

    How to Change my Child's Behaviour (#118)

    In this episode, we're looking at the difference between changing a child's behaviour and simply trying to control it. I share why heart-focused parenting aims to teach children what is good, right and wise by growing in the virtues that motivate wise choices, rather than just expecting outward obedience. When children understand the values behind everyday expectations, they're better equipped to make wise choices long after we're no longer standing beside them. Heart-focused Parenting Action Step: Choose one behaviour you want to see in your child, identify the virtue behind it, and begin talking about and practising that character trait together this week.   Read the blog here:  Changing Behaviour Without Behaviour Modification   URL: https://belindaletchford.com/how-to-change-child-behaviour Continue the conversation (3 links) If this episode resonated with you, you're welcome to join my weekly Heart Booster emails - regular encouragements for parents who want to be intentional, relational and heart-focused.   I mentioned the episode about parental authority - you can catch up about that here. How to Use Parental Authority to Help Your Children Grow https://belindaletchford.com/how-to-use-parental-authority-to-help-your-children-grow/   You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    How to Change my Child's Behaviour (#118)

  3. 19 Jul

    How to Use Parental Authority to Help Your Children Grow (#117)

    In this episode, I unpack four healthy ways parents use their authority in family life. We look at how authority isn't meant for control or convenience, but for setting values, creating expectations, teaching and training children, and putting structures in place that help them grow in wisdom and character. When we have a right understanding of authority and how it is used in our family, parents can give their children the direction they need without sacrificing the relationship.   Heart-focused Parenting Action Step Take a few minutes this week to reflect on what you believe about parental authority and ask whether the way you use it is helping your child grow with dignity, wisdom and responsibility. Read the blog here:  How to Use Parental Authority to Help Your Children Grow   Continue the conversation Listen to the previous podcast about our parental authority:  How to Use Parental Authority Without Controlling your Kids   If you'd like personal support applying these ideas in your own family, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching   You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    How to Use Parental Authority to Help Your Children Grow (#117)

  4. 10 May

    How to Use Parental Authority Without Controlling your Kids

    Many parents step back from using authority because they don't want to be controlling. But removing authority doesn't remove responsibility. We are still responsible for our child's safety, development, and training. Authority is simply the position we hold because of that responsibility. In this episode, I talk about how we find the healthy balance of parental authority and respecting our child's personhood.   Heart-Focused Parenting Action Step Take time this week to consider how you view your authority as a parent, and whether you are using it as a responsibility to lead your child towards what is right, good, and true. Read the blog here:  How to Use Parental Authority Without Controlling your Kids  (#116)   Continue the conversation  If this episode resonated with you, you're welcome to join my weekly Heart Booster emails - regular encouragements for parents who want to be intentional, relational and heart-focused.     If you'd like personal support applying these ideas in your own family, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching   You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    How to Use Parental Authority Without Controlling your Kids

  5. 12 Apr

    Letting Go as a Parent: It is a good thing we need to do (#115)

    In this episode, I talk about what letting go as a parent really means. If we understand what we are letting go of it changes everything.  Letting go as a parent doesn't begin when your child leaves home - it starts much earlier, in the everyday decisions you make as they grow. This post explores how to transition from directive parenting to becoming an influence in your child's life.  With practical examples and clear mindset shifts, you'll learn how to prepare your teen and yourself as your kids grow towards being an adult.  Letting go isn't about losing connection or relationship - it's about changing how you let your child grow to be autonomous and self-governing.   Heart-focused Parenting Action step: Choose one area where your teen is ready to take more responsibility and take a step this week to hand it over, allowing them to carry it and learn from it.   Read the blog here: Letting Go as a Parent: It is a good thing we need to do   Continue the conversation As mentioned:  Have this conversation with your adult child, especially if they are living at home.  I mentioned this idea of having a transitioning conversation with your adult child so you are all on the same page  - you can find that article Have This Important Conversation When Your Child Becomes An Adult   Need help?  If you'd like personal support applying these ideas in your own family, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching   Instagram:  You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    Letting Go as a Parent: It is a good thing we need to do (#115)

  6. 29 Mar

    What to do when your Child says "I'm Bored!" (#114)

    What to do when your child says, "I'm bored" When a child says they're bored, it's easy to respond quickly just to stop the complaining, but this episode invites you to pause and look deeper. I share why boredom is usually not a heart issue but a lack of skills, particularly around decision-making and using their time wisely. This matters because how we respond in these moments either shuts the problem down temporarily or helps our children grow into people who can think, choose, and act responsibly on their own. Heart-focused Parenting Action Step Pay attention to your instinctive response when your child says they're bored, and instead of reacting, prepare a simple list of options to guide them in making wise choices with their time.   Read the blog here:  What to do when your child says, "I'm bored" Don't forget to copy my list of 5 different things for your kids to choose from - copy it from the blog.   Continue the conversation  If this episode resonated with you, you're welcome to join my weekly Heart Booster emails - regular encouragements for parents who want to be intentional, relational and heart-focused.     If you'd like personal support applying these ideas in your own family, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching   You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    What to do when your Child says "I'm Bored!" (#114)

  7. 16 Mar

    How to Help Kids Handle Sibling Conflict Before It Turns into a Fight (#113)

    Most sibling arguments don't start with shouting, they begin with little moments of annoyance. In this episode, I talk about what I call "the Niggles," those early signs that relationships between siblings are starting to unravel. I share how parents can notice these moments early and guide their children to pause, adjust their attitude, and take responsibility for their responses before conflict grows.   Heart-Focused Parenting Action Step This week, pay attention to the early moments of irritation in your home and gently help your children notice them so they can adjust their attitude before an argument begins.   Read the blog here:   How to Help Kids Handle Sibling Conflict Before It Turns into a Fight   Continue the conversation If this episode resonated with you, you might also find my Siblings Can Be Friends Parenting Class helpful. In this free video class I share practical ways parents can shape the relationship between their children, and help siblings learn how to live well with each other.  The class is available inside the Heart Booster Hub for subscribers. 👉 Access the class here: Siblings Can Be Friends  (parenting class)   If you'd like personal support applying these ideas in your own family, you can learn more about one-on-one coaching here.  Parent Coaching   You can also find me on Instagram, where I share something most days.  Instagram.

    How to Help Kids Handle Sibling Conflict Before It Turns into a Fight (#113)

  8. 1 Mar

    How to Strengthen Your Marriage According to the Bible (#112)

    In this episode, I reflect on Colossians 3:12–14 and how these verses shape the way we should relate to our spouse. Rather than focusing on romance or shared interests, we look at the daily habits of compassion, humility, patience, forgiveness, and love that actually strengthen a marriage over time. This matters for for our own sake but also as parents, because the health of our marriage forms the emotional and spiritual environment our children grow up in. Heart-focused Action Step - for your Marriage: Ask God to show you which attitude from Colossians 3 you need to "put on" in your marriage this week, and practise responding with that one intentionally.   Read the blog here:   How to Strengthen Your Marriage According to the Bible    Recommended Resources on Marriage, Forgiveness & Boundaries If you are navigating a healthy marriage and want to strengthen it biblically, or if you are working through more complex challenges like forgiveness, emotional harm, or boundaries, here are a few trusted resources I often recommend.   📘 Expedition Marriage: Chris Bailey & Jamie Bailey Chris and Jamie encourage couples to build resilience and spiritual unity, offering a practical framework for strengthening marriage over the long haul.   https://expeditionmarriage.org/   📘 Leslie Vernick Leslie offers biblically grounded and psychologically wise guidance for women navigating difficult or destructive marriages. Her teaching helps clarify the difference between normal relational struggles and harmful patterns, while encouraging healthy boundaries. https://leslievernick.com    📘 Lysa TerKeurst Through her writing and leadership at Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa ministers to women walking through the painful complexities of marriage and relationships. Her work addresses forgiveness, boundaries, betrayal, and emotional healing with biblical honesty and compassion.  https://lysaterkeurst.com/

    How to Strengthen Your Marriage According to the Bible (#112)
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The heart-focused podcast that helps Christian parents raise their kids with faith, character, and life skills. Short encouragements, tips, and prompts to help you in your everyday interactions with your kids - always keeping in mind that the heart is more important than the behaviour. Join me every week.

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  • Creator
    Belinda Letchford
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    120
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2022
  • Show Website
    Heart Focused Parenting