Life in Private Staffing

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Welcome to Life in Private Staffing, where success knows no bounds, whether you're aboard a yacht, jet-setting on private planes, managing palaces, households, or cozy chalets. Join Philippa and her guests each month as they unravel recruitment tidbits and the secrets to triumph in the world of private staffing. Whether you're a recruiter, job seeker, or are already working in the realm of UHNWI, this monthly podcast educates and inspires, taking a deep dive into the fascinating opportunities and challenges of the industry 💫

  1. 3 APR

    S7 E5: Alice Bornarel - The Role Every UHNW Household Needs (But Rarely Has)

    What if running a private household required more than just hiring staff? In this episode of Life in Private Staffing, Philippa is joined by Alice Bournarel, a private household consultant supporting UHNW families with everything from recruitment and training to operations and bespoke event management. With over 13 years of experience across private households, yachts, and international residences, Alice shares how she built her career from the ground up — and why she has now launched her own business to support households in a more flexible, consultancy-style capacity. They discuss the reality behind managing private homes, the gaps many households don’t realise they have, and why structure, clarity, and training are key to building a high-performing team. 💼 A unique, consultancy-style role within private households🏠 The difference between hiring staff and building a functioning household🧠 Why structure, systems, and onboarding are often overlooked🌍 The challenges of managing teams across different cultures📈 Why demand for flexible household support is growing A fascinating insight into the behind-the-scenes reality of running a UHNW home — and the role most households don’t even realise they need. 🔗 Visit ⁠www.silverswanrecruitment.com⁠🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on Spotify or Apple Podcasts📱 Join our Silver Swan Communities – email ⁠enquiries@silverswanrecruitment.com⁠💬 Follow us on Instagram @silverswanrecruitment, @silverswanpodcast and LinkedIn Silver Swan Recruitment In this episode, Philippa and Alice cover:Resources & Links:

    39 min
  2. 20 MAR

    S7 E4: Weslley Frick - Building Confidence Through Sport in UHNW Households

    What if childcare in UHNW households went beyond traditional roles? In this episode of Life in Private Staffing, Philippa is joined by Wesley, a specialist working with children in private households to build confidence, discipline, resilience and fitness through personalised coaching. From his background in sport to launching his own business in Dubai, Wesley shares how he has carved out a unique role within private staffing — working closely with families to support children’s development through structured, one-to-one programmes. They discuss the importance of sport in early development, the responsibility that comes with working so closely with children, and why more UHNW families are investing in specialist support beyond traditional childcare. In this episode, Philippa and Wesley cover: 💼 A unique and emerging role within private households🧠 How sport builds discipline, confidence and resilience in children🌍 Working with UHNW families across different cultures🏠 The reality of working one-to-one with children in private environments📈 Why demand for specialised childcare support is growing A fascinating insight into a side of private staffing that many people don’t even realise exists. Resources & Links: 🔗 Visit www.silverswanrecruitment.com🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on Spotify or Apple Podcasts📱 Join our Silver Swan Communities – email enquiries@silverswanrecruitment.com💬 Follow us on Instagram @silverswanrecruitment, @silverswanpodcast and LinkedIn Silver Swan Recruitment

    35 min
  3. 5 MAR

    S7 E3: Maja Novak - Flexibility, Team Dynamics & Life After Yachting

    From working on superyachts to building a flexible career across private residences and luxury hospitality, Maja Novak shares what it really takes to succeed in the private service industry. After more than a decade in yachting, Maja made the transition to contract-based roles in private households, villas and chalets, designing a career that allows her to balance professional opportunities with personal life. In this episode, Philippa and Maja discuss the realities of working in private service and UHNW environments, from the importance of emotional intelligence and professionalism within teams to the challenges of working far from home. Maja also shares valuable insight into networking, personal branding, and building a reputation within the industry, as well as why visibility on platforms like LinkedIn can open unexpected doors. In this episode, we cover: 💼 How Maja built a career across superyachts, private households and luxury hospitality🌍 The benefits of short-term contracts and seasonal work in private service🤝 Why team dynamics and emotional intelligence are essential in UHNW environments📈 How networking and personal branding can create career opportunities⚓ The realities of transitioning from yachting to land-based private roles A candid conversation about the realities of private staffing, career flexibility, and life behind the scenes of luxury service. Resources & Links:🔗 Visit www.silverswanrecruitment.com🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on Spotify or Apple Podcasts📱 Join our Silver Swan Communities – email enquiries@silverswanrecruitment.com💬 Follow us on Instagram @silverswanrecruitment, @silverswanpodcast, and LinkedIn – Silver Swan Recruitment

    46 min
  4. 20 FEB

    S7 E2: Chef Joy - From Private Jets to World Tours: Life as a Celebrity Private Chef

    From cooking for world-famous athletes and global touring musicians to navigating extreme dietary requirements inside private households, Chef Joy’s career offers a fascinating insight into life as a Private Chef at the highest level. Originally from New Orleans and now based in Los Angeles, Joy shares how she built her career from professional kitchens into the world of private staffing — travelling internationally, cooking in unconventional environments, and adapting to the unique demands of UHNW clients. She opens up about the realities behind the glamour, the importance of attitude and flexibility, and how challenges like cooking without onion or garlic have actually helped her grow creatively as a chef. In this episode, Philippa and Joy discuss: 🍽️ The transition from restaurant kitchens to private households ✈️ Cooking while travelling and working on global tours 🥗 Managing complex diets and food sensitivities for clients 💡 The mindset needed to succeed in private staffing 🌍 Why networking and personality matter just as much as skill A brilliant conversation that highlights the creativity, resilience and adaptability required to succeed as a Private Chef behind the scenes of the luxury lifestyle. Resources & Links: 🔗 Visit ⁠www.silverswanrecruitment.com⁠ 🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on ⁠Spotify⁠ or ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ 📱 Join our Silver Swan Communities – email ⁠enquiries@silverswanrecruitment.com⁠ 💬 Follow us on Instagram ⁠@silverswanrecruitment⁠, ⁠@silverswanpodcast⁠, and LinkedIn ⁠Silver Swan Recruitment⁠

    39 min
  5. 5 FEB

    S7 E1: Imron Zulfikar - Private Wellness Managers: The Role You Didn’t Know Existed

    From luxury resorts and private islands to UHNW households in the Middle East, Imran Zulfikar’s career offers a rare insight into one of private staffing’s most discreet and misunderstood roles — the Private Wellness Manager. With a background spanning elite hospitality, private islands (including three years on Necker Island as the first male in the role), and now working within a private household in the UAE, Imran shares what it truly takes to manage health, wellbeing and lifestyle at the highest level. This is not about personal training or spa treatments — it’s about long-term prevention, accountability, trust, and guiding principals towards sustainable lifestyle change. Imran opens up about working closely with UHNW individuals, navigating resistance to change, building trust over time, and why wellness in private households must be deeply personalised. He also shares how psychology, observation, and emotional intelligence are just as critical as physical expertise. In this episode, Philippa and Imran dive into: 🧘 What a Private Wellness Manager actually does — and why most people don’t know the role exists 🌍 Transitioning from luxury resorts and private islands into private households 🩺 The five pillars of wellness: nutrition, sleep, lifestyle, movement, and stress management 🧠 Why trust, psychology, and relationship-building are essential in private service ⏳ The realities of long-term, in-house wellness support versus hotel-based roles 🚪 What professionals should consider before moving from hospitality into private households A thoughtful, insightful conversation that reveals the realities of wellness behind closed doors — and the growing demand for preventative, holistic care within UHNW private households. Resources & Links:🔗 Visit www.silverswanrecruitment.com🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on Spotify or Apple Podcasts📲 Follow us on Instagram @silverswanrecruitment, @silverswanpodcast, and LinkedIn Silver Swan Recruitment

    43 min
  6. 11/12/2025

    S6 E9: Rien Thoma - From Butler School to House Manager: Rien;s Decade Inside UHNW Homes

    From training at the world-renowned International Butler Academy to running households for aristocratic and UHNW families across the UK, Rhian Thoma’s journey is a masterclass in resilience, professionalism, and the evolving reality of private service. With ten years’ experience across stately homes, formal estates, and high-expectation principals, Rhian shares the truth behind the job — the pressure, the unpredictability, the burnout, and the moments that make it all worth it. He opens up about managing understaffed homes, navigating employer expectations, building strong household teams, and how becoming a father has reshaped his view of work–life balance in an industry that rarely slows down. In this episode, Philippa and Rhian dive into:🧳 How Butler Academy training prepares you for real UHNW households🏰 The transition from butler to house manager — and why most people skip crucial steps⚠️ The rise of health & safety, M&E knowledge, and the pressure to “know everything”👨‍👩‍👧 Why boundaries and balance matter more than ever in private staffing🧠 The mindset required to survive (and thrive) in demanding service roles A grounded, insightful conversation that reveals the real working life behind the gates — from the traditions that still hold strong to the rapid changes shaping the next generation of private service professionals. Resources & Links: 🔗 Visit www.silverswanrecruitment.com🎧 Follow Life in Private Staffing on Spotify or Apple Podcasts💬 Follow us on Instagram @silverswanrecruitment, @silverswanpodcast, and LinkedIn Silver Swan Recruitment

    46 min

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Welcome to Life in Private Staffing, where success knows no bounds, whether you're aboard a yacht, jet-setting on private planes, managing palaces, households, or cozy chalets. Join Philippa and her guests each month as they unravel recruitment tidbits and the secrets to triumph in the world of private staffing. Whether you're a recruiter, job seeker, or are already working in the realm of UHNWI, this monthly podcast educates and inspires, taking a deep dive into the fascinating opportunities and challenges of the industry 💫

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