Other Peoples Parenting

Schuyler Hurwitz and Karen Quinn
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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

  1. Fat Talk - How to Parent in a World Obsessed with Weight

    4 days ago

    Fat Talk - How to Parent in a World Obsessed with Weight

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we explore the book "Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture," which delves into the relationship between parenting, body image, and societal expectations regarding weight. We examine how diet culture impacts both parents and children and the detrimental effects of fat bias and the often harmful messaging surrounding weight. We discuss fostering an environment where children can appreciate their bodies, regardless of societal standards. By addressing the challenges parents face in navigating these complex issues, we aim to provide insights that promote a healthier, more compassionate approach to body image within families. As we dissect the book we reflect on our own experiences and the broader implications for raising children in a culture fixated on thinness. We reflect on our own experiences, revealing how societal pressures have shaped our understanding of weight and parenting. We advocate for a paradigm shift in how we perceive fatness, emphasizing the importance of fostering a nurturing environment that encourages self-acceptance and body positivity in children. We also explore the practical aspects presented in Smith's book, particularly the language parents use when discussing body image with their children. They highlight the detrimental effects of negative rhetoric surrounding weight and the need to cultivate conversations that promote acceptance and love. By sharing anecdotes from the book, we illustrate the psychological consequences of weight bullying and the impact of diet culture on children's mental health. The episode serves as a vital reminder of the responsibility parents hold in shaping their children's perceptions of their bodies and the importance of fostering a culture of acceptance that transcends societal standards. We critique the broader societal implications of diet culture, especially within educational institutions. We express concern over practices such as BMI screenings in schools, which we argue can exacerbate anxiety and body image issues among children. We advocate for a more holistic approach to health that prioritizes mental well-being over numerical assessments of fitness. This episode is a clarion call for societal change, urging listeners to engage in conversations that support body diversity and challenge the harmful narratives that dominate contemporary culture. Takeaways: This episode delves into the profound impact of diet culture on parenting and child development.The book discussed, 'Fat Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture,' offers critical insights into body image issues.Parents are encouraged to foster a positive body image in their children, emphasizing acceptance over criticism.The podcast highlights the harmful consequences of weight stigmatization and the importance of understanding body diversity. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comtestingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: New York TimesHabit CoachTesting MomVirginia Soul SmithAmerican Academy of PediatricsMetaInstagramTikTokLizzoMegan Thee StallionAshley GrahamPaloma El CesarKelly Clarkson

    1hr 2min
  2. Good Inside - The Parenting Rules Most of Us Weren’t Taught.

    20 May

    Good Inside - The Parenting Rules Most of Us Weren’t Taught.

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -The focus is the exploration of Dr. Becky Kennedy's parenting philosophy as articulated in her book "Good Inside." We consider that misbehavior in children serves as a window into their emotional states and unmet needs, rather than a reflection of their character. Throughout the discussion, we examine the significance of fostering emotional intelligence and resilience in children, emphasizing the necessity for parents to approach conflicts with empathy and understanding. We also appreciate the book's structured approach, which offers practical frameworks and specific strategies for addressing common parenting challenges, thereby equipping caregivers with the tools necessary for effective guidance. This episode covers the transformative power of nurturing a compassionate, connected relationship between parents and their children. Takeaways: In this episode, we explore Dr. Becky Kennedy's book, "Good Inside," which provides valuable insights into understanding children's behavior beyond mere discipline.The podcast emphasizes the importance of viewing misbehavior as a clue to a child's emotional needs rather than a reflection of their character.Listeners are encouraged to adopt the perspective of assuming the best in children, known as the 'most generous interpretation', to foster better communication.A critical takeaway from the discussion includes recognizing that children's emotional development is influenced by their early years and the attachment they form with caregivers. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comotherpeoplesparenting.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomDr. Becky KennedyTesting Mom

    53 min
  3. Being There - The First Three Years Don’t Come With A Redo Button.

    13 May

    Being There - The First Three Years Don’t Come With A Redo Button.

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we discuss the importance of maternal presence during the formative years of a child's life, as posed by Erica Commissar's book, "Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters." We talk through our opposite opinions of the content, particularly regarding the implications of a mother's absence and the societal pressures surrounding motherhood and career aspirations. The conversation covers balancing professional obligations with the emotional and developmental needs of children, emphasizing that while some aspects of the book resonate, others warrant scrutiny due to their potential to induce guilt in working mothers. We advocate for a more inclusive perspective that recognizes the nature of parenting and the varied circumstances that families encounter. This book focuses on the compelling argument that a mother's presence during the years of infancy is paramount to the emotional and psychological development of the child. Throughout our discussion, we dissect the author's assertions, noting that while one of us finds profound resonance in the author's perspective, the other perceives an overtly prescriptive stance that may not universally apply. The conversation covers the delicate balance between maternal employment and child-rearing, ultimately questioning the societal implications of the author's thesis. Takeaways: This episode examines the book 'Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters', authored by Erica Commissar.We explore our differing interpretations of the book's core thesis, focusing on maternal presence during early childhood.We expressed concerns about the implications of guilt placed upon working mothers by the book's arguments.The discussion also emphasized the need for societal support for working mothers, noting that economic factors often dictate parenting choices.The podcast highlights the importance of being emotionally present for children, regardless of whether the mother can stay home full-time.The episode concludes with a reflection on the balance between career and motherhood, advocating for individual choice in parenting. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.comhabitcoach.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomErica CommissarGail SheehyDr. Ellen JacobsKardashiansTesting Mom

    1hr 6min
  4. Mom Groups - Because Parenting Isn’t Stressful Enough.

    6 May

    Mom Groups - Because Parenting Isn’t Stressful Enough.

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - the discussion revolves around the dynamics of mom groups, an exploration prompted by recent discussions surrounding the experiences of celebrities like Ashley Tisdale. We explore the nature of these groups, which can range from supportive and nurturing to toxic and exclusionary, reflecting the complexities of female friendships. We highlight both the challenges and benefits associated with motherhood and communal support, emphasizing that while some groups may foster camaraderie and understanding, others can perpetuate feelings of isolation and inadequacy. The discussion also touches upon the importance of moderation and the potential need for structured guidance within these social circles, as evidenced by the experiences of a long-standing mom group that has successfully navigated interpersonal conflicts over the years. We invite listeners to consider the significance of finding or cultivating a healthy support system in their parenting journeys, as the right group can profoundly impact one’s experience of motherhood. Articles Discussed: Breaking Up With My Toxic Mom Group The Reason UES Momma's Disappeared Marriage, Kids, Careers: For 44 Years They've been Talking it Out Takeaways: In this episode, we explore the complexities and dynamics of mom groups, emphasizing their potential to either nurture or harm women's friendships.We discuss the recent controversy surrounding Ashley Tisdale's experiences in a toxic mom group, highlighting the social pressures involved in motherhood.The episode underscores the importance of supportive communities for mothers, contrasting healthy groups with those that foster exclusion and negativity.We examine a long-standing mom group in Long Island that has thrived for decades, showcasing the benefits of facilitated discussions and mutual support.Listeners are encouraged to seek out or create local mom groups that foster genuine connection and support without excessive barriers to entry.Throughout the episode, we reflect on our personal experiences with group dynamics, emphasizing the value of communication and understanding in nurturing friendships. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.comotherpeoplesparenting.comthecut.comnymag.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomAshley TisdaleFacebookThe CutNew York magazineNew York TimesMoby MaxBrain PopScholasticTesting Mom

    47 min
  5. Dad Truths - The Unfiltered Truth About Fatherhood

    29 Apr

    Dad Truths - The Unfiltered Truth About Fatherhood

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -we explore a parenting book that offers valuable insights into the experiences of fathers, particularly emphasizing the unique challenges they face in contemporary parenting. We delve into the humor and heart author Mike Julianelle (@dadandburied) leads with addressing the often unrecognized burdens of parenting. Our conversation highlights the importance of shared responsibilities and the necessity for fathers to be actively engaged in nurturing their children. The book not only illuminates the practical aspects of parenting but also fosters a deeper understanding of the emotional landscape of fatherhood. Takeaways: The podcast emphasizes the unique challenges and experiences of parents in navigating the complexities of child-rearing.We explore the concept that parenting books are often geared towards mothers, leaving a significant gap in literature that addresses fathers specifically.Throughout the episode, we delve into the notion that no parent is ever truly prepared for the responsibilities of raising a child, highlighting the unpredictability of parenting.The discussion reflects on the societal expectations placed on mothers versus fathers, illustrating the differing perceptions of parental involvement and competency.We discuss the importance of open communication between partners in parenting, particularly about the division of responsibilities and emotional labor.The podcast also touches on the funny and poignant reality of parenting, where every new stage brings its own set of challenges that require adaptability and resilience. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comexpectingbetter.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomMike Julianelle (@dadandburied)Expecting BetterEmily Oster

    1hr 3min
  6. Calm The Chaos - Parenting the Most Challenging Child

    22 Apr

    Calm The Chaos - Parenting the Most Challenging Child

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -we talk about the insights found in the book "Calm the Chaos" by Dana Abraham, which presents a framework intended for parents grappling with the complexities of raising children exhibiting challenging behaviors. Abraham believes the key to navigating such tumultuous parenting landscapes lies in fostering positive interactions, establishing effective communication, and employing structured strategies to cultivate emotional regulation in children. Throughout the episode, we reflect on the necessity of understanding the underlying causes of disruptive behaviors, emphasizing that all behavior is a form of communication. We also explore the significance of maintaining your composure during volatile moments, serving as a stabilizing presence for your child. As we delve deeper into the various techniques proposed by Abraham, we advocate for a tailored approach, recognizing that parental strategies must be adaptable to the unique dynamics of each family. The podcast delves into the intricacies of parenting, specifically focusing on the challenges faced by parents of children who exhibit disruptive behavior. Schuyler Hurwitz and Karen Quinn, illuminate the themes presented in Dana Abraham's book, *Calm the Chaos*, which aims to provide insights and strategies for managing and understanding the emotional turmoil that can arise within the family dynamic. The discussion reveals the emotional weight borne by parents who feel overwhelmed, often questioning their ability to effectively nurture their children in the face of chaos. We examine the author's perspective that behavior is a form of communication, urging parents to uncover the underlying needs that drive their child's actions. They emphasize the importance of positive interactions and the necessity for parents to maintain their own emotional reserves in order to foster a supportive environment for their children. Overall, the episode serves as a poignant reminder that amidst the challenges of parenting, understanding and connection remain paramount to fostering harmony within the familial structure. Takeaways: In this episode, we delve into the parenting book entitled 'Calm the Chaos', authored by Dana Abraham, which provides valuable insights for parents.The author emphasizes the importance of understanding that all behavior is communication, which can help parents address their children's needs effectively.A significant takeaway from the discussion is the concept of positive interactions, highlighting the necessity of five positive interactions for every negative one.The podcast underscores the necessity of parents maintaining their energy reserves, suggesting practical strategies like journaling and self-care to manage stress.The episode articulates a framework for supporting children who may struggle with behavioral issues, encouraging a focus on root causes rather than punitive measures.Lastly, we explore the idea of reframing a child's struggles as potential superpowers, which can lead to positive outcomes and personal growth. Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomCalm the ChaosDana AbrahamZaraBed, Bath and Beyond

    51 min
  7. The Whole Brain Child - Get All Parts of Your Child’s Brain to Work Together for One Happy Kid

    15 Apr

    The Whole Brain Child - Get All Parts of Your Child’s Brain to Work Together for One Happy Kid

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - the focus of this discussion revolves around the book "The Whole Brain Child," by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, which explains the relationship between various functions of the brain and child development. Throughout the episode, we delve into the significance of integrating the emotional and logical aspects of a child's brain, emphasizing the necessity of fostering emotional intelligence alongside cognitive skills. We cover several practical strategies presented in the book, such as “connect and redirect” and “name it to tame it,” which can be instrumental in nurturing a child’s emotional resilience and ability to articulate their feelings. Additionally, we examine the importance of storytelling as a therapeutic tool, allowing children to process their experiences and fears in a constructive manner. Through a series of anecdotes, we illustrate how children process emotions and the importance of parents being attuned to these dynamics. The episode also touches upon the necessity for children to narrate their experiences as a means of emotional integration, highlighting strategies such as 'connect and redirect' to effectively manage emotional outbursts. By advocating for open communication and understanding the child's perspective, the discussion underscores the critical role of empathy in parenting, allowing parents to navigate the often tumultuous waters of childhood emotions with grace and insight. Takeaways: This podcast episode delves into the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of understanding children's brain development and emotional regulation.The hosts discuss a parenting book that provides strategies for integrating various brain functions to enhance children's emotional and cognitive growth.Listeners are encouraged to foster open communication with their children, allowing them to express their feelings and recount their experiences to aid emotional processing.The conversation highlights the significance of empathy, suggesting that parents should model empathetic behavior and promote family bonding through shared activities and fun. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.comHabitcoach.com Companies mentioned in this episode:Habit CoachTesting MomDaniel SiegelTina Payne Bryson

    54 min
  8. Hunt, Gather, Parent - What Ancient Cultures Teach Us About Raising Children

    8 Apr

    Hunt, Gather, Parent - What Ancient Cultures Teach Us About Raising Children

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -we discuss the insights in the book "Hunt Gather Parent" by Mickalene Duclef, Ph.D. The central idea is that contemporary Western parenting often overestimates children’s emotional capabilities while underestimating their physical abilities. This episode encourages an exploration of alternative parenting philosophies, particularly those observed in diverse cultures where children are raised with significantly less direct interference from adults, allowing them to develop autonomy and emotional intelligence. We consider the benefits of integrating communal activities into parenting, encouraging children to engage in responsibilities and chores that foster independence and confidence. Join us as we unpack these transformative ideas and reflect on their implications for our own parenting practices! In an analysis of 'Hunt Gather Parent' by Mickalene Duclef, Schuyler and Karen dissect the fundamental parenting principles outlined in the book. They emphasize the author's quest to understand why children in certain indigenous cultures exhibit qualities of cooperation, emotional control, and adaptability that seem diminished in Western societies. Through anecdotes and cultural observations, the book believes that children thrive in environments that promote independence and collaborative efforts. They advocate for the adoption of these principles in our own parenting, suggesting that a shift away from hyper-involvement and constant stimulation can lead to greater emotional resilience and self-sufficiency in children. They argue that the Western approach often overlooks the innate capabilities of children, placing undue burdens on parents to constantly guide and instruct. By sharing personal reflections on their parenting journeys, they illustrate the transformative potential of embracing a more communal and less prescriptive parenting style, ultimately encouraging listeners to consider the broader implications of their approaches to child-rearing. Takeaways: The podcast episode discusses the book 'Hunt Gather Parent', which explores global parenting practices.The authors highlight the importance of allowing children to develop autonomy within a supportive environment.Cultural differences in parenting strategies reveal that Western methods may sometimes hinder children's emotional growth.Implementing communal parenting practices can enhance children's confidence and their ability to contribute meaningfully to the family.The episode emphasizes the significance of modeling behavior for children to learn effectively from their surroundings.Overall, the discussion provides valuable insights for modern parents seeking to improve their parenting approaches. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomHunt Gather ParentMickalene Douclef, Ph.D.Study IslandMoby MaxBrain PopScholastic

    1hr 5min
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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

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