Parent Coaches Unleashed

Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld

Parent Coaches Unleashed is a podcast that dives deep into the unspoken realities of parenting. Hosted by life coaches Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger, this show is an unfiltered, no-holds-barred exploration of the joys, challenges, and everything in between that comes with raising children. Whether you're a new parent feeling overwhelmed, a teacher seeking insights, or a grandparent navigating your role, this podcast offers a community where your experiences are acknowledged and discussed. We tackle the topics that others shy away from, from the daily struggles to the profound moments that shape our parenting journeys.Where no topics are taboo or off limits. Join us as we let loose and discuss the real, raw feelings about parenting.

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    From Heartbreak to Hope: Navigating the Complex Emotions of Family Estrangement

    Send us an email @ info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Most parents are blindsided when their adult child suddenly goes no contact — but what if that silence hides years of unspoken wounds and misguided boundaries? Jen Kelman, a renowned therapist with decades of experience, dives deep into the complex world of estrangement, revealing why boundaries are key and how missteps turn into irreparable rifts. If you've ever wondered why some family bonds break despite love, this episode exposes the silent struggles behind the scenes and offers practical, compassionate strategies to rebuild or redefine those relationships. Jennifer Kelman shares: Why the trend of "no contact" is escalating among young adults and how social media's cheerleading for estrangement often masks a deeper emotional disconnectionThe difference between setting healthy boundaries and pushing loved ones away, with real-world examples of flexible versus rigid limitsHow unresolved hurts, like a hurtful comment from childhood or political disagreements, can fester into years of silence if not addressed with communication, not avoidanceWhy parental remorse isn't enough — the importance of self-awareness and internal reflection for genuine reconnectionPractical steps for parents and adult children to create boundaries that respect their needs while fostering respect and loveIn a landscape where separation feels easier than the discomfort of dialogue, Jen illustrates the stakes — and the opportunity — to choose connection over silence. She emphasizes that understanding, compassion, and self-reflection are the secret ingredients to healing even the deepest familial wounds. Whether you’re navigating your own estrangement or seeking ways to understand someone you love, this conversation is essential listening. Jen Kelman, a licensed therapist, has spent over 35 years helping families mend broken bonds. Her insights illuminate the nuanced dance of boundaries, guilt, and growth, making this episode a vital guide for anyone facing family estrangement. Ready to challenge your assumptions about family conflict? To learn how boundaries can serve as bridges instead of barriers? Tune in now and discover the compassionate path forward—because every family, no matter how fractured, deserves the chance for renewal. Jennifer Kelman is a mental health expert on JustAnswer, where she has provided online support to those in need since 2012. In addition to her work on JustAnswer, Jennifer Kelman has been a licensed Clinical Social Worker for more than 30 years and maintains a private practice specializing in relationships, parenting, and children’s mental health issues. She is also a children’s book author having written three books that delicately weave in themes of trust, vulnerability, and hope in her stories.  She has lectured extensively around the country and appeared on news and television programs covering a range of issues including relationships, parenting, body-image, eating disorders, and children’s mental health. From discussing the impact of age on children's sense of safety and confidence to navigating conversations about sensitive topics like moving and death, this episode is packed with practical advice for parents. Don't miss Jennifer's tips on building resilience in children and m 🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld: Instagram | info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Soaring Hawk Life Coaching |  Ocean Waves Parenting

    54 min
  2. 6 MAR

    Manager to Consultant: Role Shifts as Our Children Grow

    Send us an email @ info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Summary In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, hosts Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld engage with therapist Erica Epstein, who specializes in young adult therapy. They explore the unique challenges faced by young adults today, including societal pressures, the impact of parenting styles, and the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to adapt their roles from managers to consultants, fostering open communication while respecting their children's autonomy.  Translation Guide 1. “You don’t understand.” They might mean: “My world feels more unstable and high-stakes than yours did, and I’m scared you’ll minimize it.” Parent/Consultant response: “You’re right—I don’t know exactly what this feels like for you. Help me understand what feels most stressful.” 2. “I’ve got it.” They might mean: “I need to prove that I can handle this—even if I’m unsure.” Parent/Consultant response: “I trust you. I’m here if you want to talk it through later. 3. “I don’t want advice.” They might mean: “I already feel behind, and advice feels like confirmation that I’m failing.” Parent/Consultant response: “Do you want me to just listen, or would it help to vent? 4. “It’s fine.” They might mean: “I don’t know how to explain what I’m feeling yet, or I don’t want to open the door.” Parent/Consultant response: “If it stops feeling fine, I’m here.” 5. “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.” They might mean: “I feel pressure to have clarity before I’ve had time to explore.” Parent/Consultant response: “That makes sense. Most people don’t have it figured out at this stage. What feels confusing right now?” 6. “I don’t want to talk about it.” They might mean: “I’m overwhelmed and don’t have words yet.” Parent/Consultant response: “Okay. We don’t have to talk now. Let me know when it feels easier.” 7. “Everyone else is ahead of me.” They might mean: “I’m comparing my inside to everyone else’s highlight reel.” Parent/Consultant response: “That comparison can feel brutal. What does ‘ahead’ mean to you right now?” 8. “You’re just worried all the time.” They might mean: “Your anxiety feels like pressure and makes me doubt myself.” Parent/Consultant response: “I’ll work on keeping my worry to myself. I trust you to handle this.” 9. “I messed up.” They might mean: “I’m afraid this mistake defines me.” Parent/Consultant response: “Everyone learns through missteps. What did you take away from it?” 10. “I don’t need help.” They might mean: “I need to feel capable on my own before I ask.” Parent/Consultant response: “Understood. I’m here when or if you want support.” 11. “Why are you making such a big deal out of this?” They might mean: “I already feel overwhelmed—your reaction is adding to it.” Parent/Consultant response: “That’s fair. Let me slow down. What feels like the actual issue for you?” 12. “I don’t want to disappoint you.” They might mean: “I’m still carrying your expectations even though I’m trying to be my own person.” Parent/Consultant response: “You don’t have to manage my feelings. I care about you, not perfection.” 13. “I just need space.” They might mean: “I’m trying to figure out who I am withou 🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld: Instagram | info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Soaring Hawk Life Coaching |  Ocean Waves Parenting

    32 min
  3. 20 FEB

    One Mom's Journey of Raising a Transgender Daughter

    Send us an email @ info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Summary In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger engage in a heartfelt conversation with Paige, a mother of a transgender daughter named Chloe. They explore the journey of recognizing Chloe's gender identity from a young age, the importance of support systems, medical guidance, and the challenges faced in social transition, sports participation, and dating. Paige shares her experiences, insights, and resources for parents navigating similar paths, emphasizing the need for open communication, understanding, and community support. Takeaways It's essential to recognize and support a child's gender identity early on.Language around gender identity is evolving, and parents should be open to learning.Building a network of allies is crucial for a transgender child's acceptance.Medical guidance should come from competent professionals familiar with transgender issues.Social transition should be approached methodically and with preparation.Coming out can be a significant event for transgender children and their families.Medical interventions like puberty blockers should be discussed with a knowledgeable team.Participation in sports can present unique challenges for transgender youth.Safety concerns for transgender individuals, especially in dating, are paramount.Community support, such as camps for transgender youth, can be life-changing.Resources 1. www.genderspectrum.org   Many downloadable resources  General, Family, Educational, Faith, Medical and Mental Health, Allyship, Book list. You can also get speakers and speak to professionals  2. www.thetrevorproject.org Non profit LGBTQ plus youth    They have a suicide hotline and so many resources 3. Local PFLAG  and LGBTQ Centers  in your city   Just google it   Many have support groups, activities, advocacy opportunities, groups for parents and grandparents as well 4. Psychologytoday.com to find a therapist using the therapist finder. You can enter your location, issues, insurance, preferences and other criteria and it will give you names, specialties, and contact information 5. For specialists in medical care, go to WPATH Provider Directory, and https://lgbtqhealthcaredirectory.org 6. https://harborcamps.org Books  1. My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis 2. Raising my Rainbow by Lori Duron 3. The Transgender Child (and Teen ) by Stephanie Brill and Rachel Pepper 4. Raising The Transgender Child by Michele Angello   🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld: Instagram | info@parentcoachesunleashed.com Soaring Hawk Life Coaching |  Ocean Waves Parenting

    52 min

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Parent Coaches Unleashed is a podcast that dives deep into the unspoken realities of parenting. Hosted by life coaches Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger, this show is an unfiltered, no-holds-barred exploration of the joys, challenges, and everything in between that comes with raising children. Whether you're a new parent feeling overwhelmed, a teacher seeking insights, or a grandparent navigating your role, this podcast offers a community where your experiences are acknowledged and discussed. We tackle the topics that others shy away from, from the daily struggles to the profound moments that shape our parenting journeys.Where no topics are taboo or off limits. Join us as we let loose and discuss the real, raw feelings about parenting.

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