Retired Green Beret and Wild Ops Box founder Aaron Blaine joins Raising Men to talk about the battles he faced long before combat — growing up fatherless, angry, and adrift — and how pain, discipline, and purpose forged him into the man and father he is today. In this conversation, Aaron and Shaun unpack lessons from military life, the transition back home, and the inner healing that led to his mission of helping fathers and sons reconnect through Wild Ops Box. From men’s circles and emotional breakthroughs to teaching his kids the power of boundaries, Aaron shows that leadership at home begins with self-awareness and service Key Takeaways Pain can be a catalyst for growth — our response determines whether it breaks us or builds us.Kids mirror our emotions — a calm home starts with calm parents.Boundaries are love — saying no teaches children self-respect and limits.Connection needs structure — rituals, shared experiences, and written family values keep a home aligned.Service above self — true masculinity means protecting, guiding, and serving before leading. Pull Quotes “You get to choose what it does to you. You get to choose how you react — that’s an active choice that can propel you forward.” “We make vows to our wives, but maybe we should make vows to our kids — that’s the most permanent relationship we’ll ever have.” “Discipline without direction is just control — but discipline with purpose changes lives. “Kids don’t care what we say; it’s what they see and feel us do that really matters.”Timestamps / Chapter Markers 00:00 — Leading From the Front at Home Why allowing kids to shape the vision of the household builds accountability and leadership. 00:31 — From Fatherless to Green Beret Aaron Blaine’s early life, losing his father, and the path that shaped his resilience. 02:03 — Trauma as a Catalyst for Growth How pain, loss, and chaos became fuel instead of a life sentence. 05:57 — Choosing Growth Over Destruction Why adversity can either break you—or make you great. 07:18 — Legacy Lives Beyond Presence How parents continue shaping us long after they’re gone. 09:16 — Birth, Death, and the Urgency of Time A powerful reflection on life’s brevity and what truly matters. 11:11 — Service Above Self Why volunteering, slowing down, and gratitude change everything. 13:00 — Redefining Wellness: Body, Mind, and Spirit Why true health goes far beyond fitness. 14:22 — What Becoming a Green Beret Teaches About Discipline Autonomy, self-mastery, and learning to embrace discomfort. 18:52 — Anger, Fatherhood, and Emotional Regulation How Aaron learned to manage anger while raising young children. 20:54 — The Men’s Group That Changed Everything Vulnerability, emotional awareness, and breaking lifelong patterns. 23:32 — Kids Mirror Our Energy Why parents must regulate themselves before correcting behavior. 25:12 — Guilt, Overcompensating, and Boundaries Why saying “no” is part of being a good father. 26:52 — Teaching Boundaries Is Teaching Respect How limits help children navigate the real world. 28:44 — Learning to Love the Ketchup Choosing meaning over irritation in everyday parenting moments. 30:39 — Discomfort as a Superpower Why learning to embrace discomfort creates growth and resilience. 33:13 — The Birth of Wild Ops Box How lost institutions inspired a modern solution for fathers and kids. 35:18 — Leaving the Army and Losing Identity The hidden struggle many veterans face after service. 37:43 — Survival Skills as a Path to Connection Why outdoor education builds confidence and family bonds. 40:04 — Betting on Purpose, Not Ego Building something meaningful without burning everything down. 43:32 — A Father’s Proud Moment When Aaron’s son confidently joined an interview—and what it represented. 45:19 — Becoming a Girl Dad How having a daughter softened and strengthened him at the same time. 49:33 — Raising Boys vs. Raising Girls Masculinity, protection, and emotional presence. 52:51 — Vows to Your Children Why fathers should commit publicly to their kids, not just spouses. 55:46 — Wild Ops Box as a Ritual, Not a Product Using skill-building to create meaningful family conversations. 57:42 — Letting Kids Define Family Values Why ownership creates accountability. 58:49 — Connection vs. Independence Helping kids balance closeness with autonomy. 01:01:59 — Modeling Matters More Than Teaching Why kids follow what we do—not what we say. 01:04:33 — A Message to Disconnected Fathers Start with intention, presence, and small daily actions. 01:06:45 — The Critical Window: Ages 7–14 Why these years shape who children become. 01:08:56 — When Kids Handle Conflict Why parents sometimes need to step back. 01:12:30 — Guidance Without Shame How to correct behavior without damaging trust. 01:16:07 — “Eat Last” as a Life Principle Service, discipline, and modeling leadership at home. 01:19:24 — Community, Responsibility, and Legacy Why men must guide not just their families—but their communities. 01:20:05 — Closing Reflections Turning pain into purpose and raising men who lead with strength. Supporting Content Masters of Chaos by Linda Robinson – The book that inspired Aaron to pursue the path of a Green Beret.Wild Ops Box – Aaron’s company helping fathers and sons reconnect through outdoor skills and shared purpose.Black Rifle Coffee Company – Collaborator supporting Aaron’s Wild Ops Box founder story.Befrienders Program – Volunteer organization connecting people to serve the elderly and reduce loneliness.The Joe Rogan Experience Podcast – Where Aaron first heard about men’s groups and emotional awareness work.
