Every Widow Thing

Every Widow Thing

Life after death can seem impossible, overwhelming, and just sad. We get it. Only people who have experienced this kind of loss can truly understand. We share our experiences, show you what grief looks like a year from now, or 2 or 6...even 10 for not only you but your family. Every Widow Thing will remind you that you are stronger than you think and that this grief does get less deep, less dark, and less often. Come join our widows' circle where trauma meets humor and we can encourage you to not only survive but thrive!

  1. 20 May

    Episode 66: Mother's Day- A Widow Reality Check

    Mother’s Day might be a single Sunday on the calendar, but for us widowed moms, the balancing act never stops. In this episode of Every Widow Thing, we are pulling back the curtain on our recent Mother's Day experiences and diving deep into the beautiful, chaotic reality of solo parenting. From the laugh-out-loud madness of last-minute school projects to the sheer panic of discovering a missed final exam, we share the raw, unfiltered moments that define our day-to-day. The Chaos of Co-less Parenting: Our hilarious and stressful tales from the frontlines of raising kids without a co-captain. The Mental Load: An honest look at the heavy cognitive and emotional weight we carry as mothers, and how that burden intensifies after losing a partner. Navigating Widow Guilt: Breaking down the unique guilt that comes with parenting through our grief. The Power of Our Circle: Why community isn't just nice to have—it's a survival mechanism. We share how leaning on each other keeps us grounded. Grief changes you, but as we wrap up, we reflect on the unexpected growth and positivity we've found along the way. Tune in for a heavy dose of solidarity, a lot of laughs, and a gentle reminder that you don't have to walk this path alone. Join the Conversation!We want to hear from you. What does the mental load look like in your house? Share your stories, your survival tips, or your ideas for future episodes with us. Listen now, and if you love the show, please subscribe, rate, and leave us a review! Time stamp: 00:00:00 - Welcome to Every Widow Thing 00:00:29 - Mother's Day Reflections & Parenting Challenges 00:01:39 - Last-Minute School Projects & Stressors 00:03:20 - The Mental Load of Widowed Motherhood 00:04:14 - Navigating Solo Parenting Without a Partner 00:06:36 - The Vital Importance of Support Systems 00:08:29 - Hard Parenting Decisions & Finding Balance 00:10:58 - Transitioning Older Kids into Adulthood 00:12:06 - Mother's Day: Expectations vs. Reality 00:13:12 - Celebrating the Small Motherhood Wins 00:14:34 - Reflecting on the Early Years of Grief 00:16:15 - Finding True Community and Connection 00:18:34 - Thriving and Building a Life After Loss 00:19:11 - Gaining a Broader Perspective on Grief 00:22:09 - Surrounding Yourself with Positivity 00:24:16 - Encouragement to Live Life Fully 00:26:02 - Practicing Gratitude for Small Joys 00:27:08 - Growth & Learning to Manage Alone 00:28:39 - Facing Major Social Situations Solo 00:30:22 - Integrating Grief into Daily Life 00:32:40 - The Healing Power of Open Conversations 00:35:21 - Leaning on Community in Tough Times 00:37:37 - Navigating Big Life Events Through Loss 00:40:20 - Anticipating Future Family Milestones 00:41:11 - Reframing Grief as a Companion 00:42:27 - Book Recommendations & Self-Help 00:48:46 - Looking Ahead & Closing Thoughts

    50 min
  2. 8 Mar

    Episode 61: Marybeth's Story: Finding Courage in the In-Between

    After 29 years with Todd, Marybeth’s life changed in an instant. Now two years out, she is navigating the 'after' with incredible courage—including traveling solo to find connection in our community and leaning into the yes of life. While she spends her career as a therapist, Marybeth speaks from the heart about the gap between logic and loss. We discuss the tragic fall that changed everything, the signs Todd sends her today, and the brave steps she’s taking to figure out what comes next. A must-listen for anyone finding their way through the quiet moments of grief. Takeaways Marybeth's story highlights the importance of community support during grief.The unexpected nature of loss can lead to profound emotional challenges.Making decisions during a crisis can be overwhelming and complex.Living wills can provide clarity and guidance in difficult times.Grief is a journey that varies for each individual.Maintaining routines can help provide stability in times of upheaval.It's important to balance saying yes to support and knowing when to say no.Sharing experiences with others who have faced similar loss can be healing.Signs from loved ones can provide comfort and connection after loss.Therapy can be both a challenge and a source of strength during grief.Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:01 Marybeth's Journey with Todd 06:10 The Family Life and Todd's Personality 08:55 The Tragic Accident 12:03 Emergency Response and Hospital Experience 15:02 The Uncertainty and Waiting 17:57 The Final Days and Decisions 20:57 Coping with Loss and Moving Forward 23:28 The Medical Journey Begins 26:32 Confronting Harsh Realities 30:34 Navigating End-of-Life Decisions 32:01 The Role of Living Wills 33:47 Saying Goodbye 36:17 The Honor Walk and Organ Donation 39:32 The Aftermath of Grief 40:08 Therapy and Personal Healing 44:23 Navigating Grief on Significant Days 47:20 Signs from Beyond: A Personal Connection 51:09 Finding Routine in Grief 54:17 The Complexity of Moving Forward 57:15 The Healing Power of Shared Stories Follow us on Instagram, YouTube and Facebook @everywidowthing Join our Facebook Every Widow Thing Insiders Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Cc3vkLneJ/ Like and subscribe!

    51 min
  3. 26 Feb

    Episode 60: A Valentine's Night of laughter and connection

    Holly, Keira and Whitney sit down with a live audience on Valentine's Day! In this live podcast, the ladies discuss the complexities of grief, connection, and the journey of widowhood. Audience members share personal stories and explore the challenges and joys of dating after loss. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, the healing power of laughter, and recognizing signs from loved ones. A reminder for everyone to embrace life and connection, even amidst grief. takeaways Grief is a universal experience that needs to be openly discussed.Connection with others who understand grief is vital for healing.Valentine's Day can evoke both joy and sadness for those who have lost loved ones.Dating after loss is a complex journey that requires patience and self-discovery.It's important to recognize and honor the love languages of our partners.Finding joy and laughter is possible even in the depths of grief.Community support can provide strength and understanding during tough times.Signs from loved ones can manifest in unexpected ways, offering comfort.Becoming a 'yes' person can help in navigating life after loss.Hope and love can elevate our spirits and open us to new possibilities.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Grief and Connection 06:05Valentine's Day Memories and Stories 19:26Navigating Dating After Loss 25:09Navigating Grief and Finding Joy 27:35Becoming a 'Yes' Person 28:57The Power of Community and Connection 31:08Finding the Podcast: A Lifeline 34:24The Importance of Support Systems36:10Discovering Resources and Relatability 38:35Hope and Healing Through Shared Experiences 41:29Signs and Connections in Grief 44:50Stories of Signs and Meaning #griefsupport #youngwidow #signs #community #lifeafterloss

    1hr 18min

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Life after death can seem impossible, overwhelming, and just sad. We get it. Only people who have experienced this kind of loss can truly understand. We share our experiences, show you what grief looks like a year from now, or 2 or 6...even 10 for not only you but your family. Every Widow Thing will remind you that you are stronger than you think and that this grief does get less deep, less dark, and less often. Come join our widows' circle where trauma meets humor and we can encourage you to not only survive but thrive!

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