A Better Question with Sandra Weise

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What if the quality of your life comes down to the quality of the questions you ask? A Better Question is for seekers of authenticity - couples, leaders, and humans who refuse to settle for "fine." Hosted by Sandra Weise, relationship catalyst and speaker, each episode explores the questions that move us from good to great in love, in life, and in the conversations that matter most. This isn't therapy. This is aspiration. Pull up a chair.

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  1. Apr 28 ·  Bonus

    A Better Question With Sandra Weise - Pilot

    Is love unconditional or conditional? It's conditional. I'm aware this is controversial, and I just don't care.  Love is a feeling. Relating is the action.  And that's where people get stuck — they mush these two completely different things together and then wonder why their relationships fall apart. You can love someone and still need to tell them to kick rocks. The conditions aren't the problem. The conditions are what keep us safe. In this episode, I'm breaking down why "ride or die" is total crap, why your ex's indifference hit different than you expected, and the real difference between feeling love and actually showing up for someone. Spoiler: it's not the same thing. We're also diving into what Jay Shetty got right, why men are suffering in silence, and how we got here in the first place — hello, Disney conditioning. If you're ready to stop confusing love with relating and start asking better questions about what you actually want, this one's for you.  In this episode: Why love alone is not enough — it never has beenThe difference between love (a feeling) and relating (the action) Why conditions keep relationships healthy and safe The story of the day I drove past my ex's house and he was mowing the lawn Why "ride or die" is glamorized garbage How we got conditioned to accept crumbs from men What "I love you but I'm not in love with you" really means The role of honesty, trust, and showing up — the actual work of relationships Why men need conditions too (I'm pro-man, always) The ooey gooey connection you're actually looking for — and how to get there  Like, subscribe, and share if this lands for you. We're building toward 10,000 subscribers in the year of the fire horse, and I'd love your help getting us there.  Timestamps: 00:00 — Sandra introduces herself and the central question 01:45 — Love is conditional — and she doesn't care who disagrees 04:30 — Ride or die is total crap — here's why 08:10 — The lawn mowing story — her real come to Jesus moment 14:20 — Clip reaction: deathbed trust is relating, not just love 19:05 — Men, compartmentalizing, and the bear vs. man debate 25:40 — Nobody taught us conditions — and that's the crisis 30:15 — Jay Shetty clip and the real answer: conditions are where the ooey gooey lives  More at sandraweise.com

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What if the quality of your life comes down to the quality of the questions you ask? A Better Question is for seekers of authenticity - couples, leaders, and humans who refuse to settle for "fine." Hosted by Sandra Weise, relationship catalyst and speaker, each episode explores the questions that move us from good to great in love, in life, and in the conversations that matter most. This isn't therapy. This is aspiration. Pull up a chair.

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