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Join Rem and Alvia as they navigate the joys and perils of adulthood as a married millennial DINK couple in the Philippines, while also trying to break the stigma against the DINK lifestyle or being childless by choice. We tackle challenges like facing adult responsibilities, managing finances, growing careers, breaking generational traumas, generating social impact, cultivating relationships, and determining who should be washing the dishes. DINKWAP stands for Dual-Income No Kids with a Podcast! Are you a DINK, SINK, or DINK-curious? Join us at DINK Lifestyle Philippines.

  1. 09/11/2025

    From Crushes to Camaraderie: Moments That Shape Us | 019

    Join hosts Rem and Alvia on The DINKWAP Show as they welcome longtime friends David and Liz for a candid conversation about the quirks and memories of youthful crushes and the passage of time. From nostalgic stories of school days and secret admirers to reflections on personal growth, ambition, and the ties that bind friendships, this episode offers a genuine glimpse into shared experiences with warmth and humor. Listen in for thoughtful insights and lighthearted moments that celebrate connection beyond the surface. (00:00) - - Introduction (03:40) - - Childhood Crushes & Anime Memories: From Ghost Fighter to Sailor Moon (13:30) - - High School Bonds: Secret crushes, peer pressure, and lessons in maturity (24:30) - - College Life: Meeting new people, surprising connections, and nostalgia (34:20) - - Life Reflections: Growth, regrets, and gratitude for supportive families (39:00) - - Sharing Values: The importance of ambition and shared goals in relationships (40:19) - - Closing Remarks: Gratitude and looking forward to the next episode Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    41 min

  2. 08/21/2025

    The Art of Small Talk & Maintaining Friendships Through Life's Phases | 018

    Join hosts Rem and Alvia on this candid episode of the DINKWAP Show as they explore the delicate dance of social interactions. The duo shares personal stories about awkward encounters, forgotten names, and the framework of making conversation when you'd rather be anywhere else.  With special guest appearance by Bea and Cesca, this episode dives into the nuances of maintaining friendships through different life stages, the anxiety of small talk, and those cringe-worthy moments we all experience. From impromptu celebrity sightings to mistakenly calling someone by the wrong name, the hosts offer both humor and genuine advice on how to navigate social situations when you're not naturally extroverted. Whether you're an introvert seeking strategies or simply enjoy authentic conversations about human connection, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on friendship, social anxiety, and finding your people in an increasingly disconnected world. (01:16) - - Introduction (02:18) - - The small talk dilemma: What to say when meeting someone (05:33) - - Frameworks for handling social interactions (09:16) - - Embarrassing social encounters and mistaken identities (12:00) - - The Alex/Nicole name mix-up story (20:00) - - Meeting online friends in real life (22:55) - - How to gracefully exit conversations (32:04) - - Friendships through different life stages (35:42) - - Closing thoughts and reflections Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    38 min

  3. 08/14/2025

    Building Your Tribe: Finding Friendship and Community in Adulthood | 017

    In this candid and humorous episode of the DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia sit down with guests Cesca and Bea to explore the challenges and joys of building meaningful friendships as adults. The conversation delves into how we change throughout different life stages and why finding people who accept our current selves—not just who we were in college—becomes increasingly important.  The quartet shares personal anecdotes about navigating awkward social situations, from wedding receptions where you know no one to unexpected encounters in public spaces. Through laughter and thoughtful reflection, they discuss how shared hobbies can create communities that provide both connection and a sense of belonging, especially for introverts who find traditional networking challenging. Whether you're an extrovert who naturally draws people in or an introvert who struggles with small talk, this episode offers relatable insights on creating your own tribe in an age where authentic connections feel more valuable than ever. (01:53) - - The importance of building your tribe as an adult (03:32) - - How people change throughout life and need new friends who know the current you (05:03) - - The "time capsule" effect of old friend groups (06:11) - - The challenge of making friends without an office environment (07:20) - - Why their community is for friendship, not dating (10:45) - - Navigating awkward social situations (14:21) - - Different levels of introversion and social survival skills (24:05) - - Finding your tribe through shared activities (31:12) - - The role of personal agreements in maintaining friendships Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    37 min

  4. 08/07/2025

    Finding Your Flow: Aerial Hoop, Unexpected Friendships, and Sports in Adulthood | 016

    In this heartwarming episode of the DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia welcome special guests Cesca and Bea to discuss the transformative experience of pursuing sports in adulthood. The four friends share their journey of meeting through aerial hoop classes and how this unconventional sport created lasting bonds between them. From overcoming initial awkwardness and physical challenges to finding community in unexpected places, they explore how stepping outside their comfort zones led to meaningful friendships. The conversation weaves through humorous anecdotes about their struggles, inside jokes, and the supportive environment that helped them persist despite not being traditionally "athletic." This episode offers an insightful look at how trying new activities later in life can lead to personal growth, community building, and finding your tribe - regardless of your athletic background or experience level. (00:00) - - Preview (03:38) - - Topic introduction: Pursuing sports in adulthood (05:32) - - How they met at aerial hoop class (09:26) - - Building friendships in unexpected places (13:41) - - Why aerial sports are perfect for introverts (26:24) - - Overcoming childhood sports trauma (29:41) - - The importance of beginner-friendly communities

    32 min

  5. 07/17/2025

    The Sweet Truth: Taiwan vs. Philippines - Tastes, Tourists, and Transportation Tales | 015

    Join hosts Rem and Alvia of The DINKWAP Show as they delve into their Taiwan travel experiences beyond tourist highlights. In this thoughtful episode, the duo shares insights about Taiwan's refreshingly balanced culinary scene, where even desserts and milk tea offer just the right sweetness compared to their sugar-heavy Filipino counterparts. They explore the contrasts in public transportation etiquette, urban planning, and public facilities between Taiwan and the Philippines, appreciating Taiwan's efficient systems and mindful design. From their day trip to Taichung to unexpected discoveries at Huashan Creative Park, the hosts reflect on cultural differences that sparked joy and contemplation, offering listeners a nuanced perspective on travel that goes beyond typical tourist narratives. (01:54) - - Introduction (03:48) - - Discussing Taichung day tour highlights (09:55) - - Visiting Ningxia Night Market vs Shilin Night Market (13:37) - - Exploring Huashan Creative Park (19:17) - - Taiwan's efficient public transportation system (27:55) - - Airport experiences and returning to Manila (41:46) - - Final thoughts on urban development standards Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    44 min

  6. 07/10/2025

    Taiwan Adventures: Exploring Markets, Food Delights, and Finding Local Gems | 014

    Join Rem and Alvia in this heartfelt episode of The DINKWAP Show as they recount their memorable trip to Taipei. Follow along as Rem experiences his first international journey, from the initial nervousness at immigration to discovering the perfect balance of urban convenience and natural beauty that Taiwan offers. The hosts share their authentic food adventures through Taipei's vibrant culinary landscape—from hole-in-the-wall restaurants to bustling night markets, from melt-in-your-mouth sashimi at the Taipei Fish Market to the surprising delight of local delicacies. Experience their joy in exploring residential neighborhoods, peaceful parks, and the convenience of Taiwan's impressive public transportation. With charming anecdotes about unpredictable weather, shopping excursions, and the simple pleasure of people-watching, this episode captures the essence of travel through the lens of food, friendship, and discovery—proving that sometimes the most unforgettable travel experiences happen when you simply follow your appetite. (00:50) - - Show intro & previous episode connection (02:14) - - First international trip experience (05:56) - - Planning a chill itinerary in Taipei (11:35) - - Food tourism at its finest (15:03) - - Walkable cities and public spaces (22:26) - - The incredible fish market experience (27:41) - - Weather changes and packing challenges Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    31 min

  7. 06/26/2025

    The Philippines Price Paradox: Why Travel and Healthcare Cost More Than They Should | 013

    Join hosts Rem and Alvia as they dive into a Reddit thread about things in the Philippines that are unreasonably expensive. From local travel costing more than international trips, to the healthcare system that puts lives at risk, to the struggle of eating healthy on a budget - the duo shares personal experiences and candid insights about everyday financial challenges. This episode offers a thoughtful, relatable look at how cost barriers affect quality of life in the Philippines, all delivered with the hosts' signature blend of humor and authenticity. (00:00) - - Intro (02:33) - - Topic introduction: What's too expensive in the Philippines? (03:37) - - Local travel costs compared to international destinations (10:48) - - Healthcare and hospitalization expenses (23:00) - - Internet speeds and reliability issues (28:16) - - The high cost of eating healthy Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    35 min

  8. 06/19/2025

    The Breadwinner Burden: Exploring Family Financial Dynamics | 012

    Join hosts Rem and Alvia as they delve into the complex dynamics of Filipino family relationships and financial independence. In this candid discussion, they explore the cultural phenomenon of adult children supporting their parents, the challenges of establishing boundaries, and the delicate balance between filial duty and personal growth. Through personal stories and thoughtful insights, this episode examines how different generations navigate family obligations while building their own lives. A heartfelt conversation about family ties, cultural expectations, and the journey toward independence in the modern Filipino context. (00:00) - - Introduction (02:01) - - The "Failure to Launch" phenomenon in Filipino culture (08:42) - - Managing family finances and expectations (15:30) - - Setting boundaries with parents (23:45) - - Finding balance between independence and family obligations (27:15) - - Final thoughts and reflection Click here to watch a video of this episode. Click here to view the episode transcript.

    30 min
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Join Rem and Alvia as they navigate the joys and perils of adulthood as a married millennial DINK couple in the Philippines, while also trying to break the stigma against the DINK lifestyle or being childless by choice. We tackle challenges like facing adult responsibilities, managing finances, growing careers, breaking generational traumas, generating social impact, cultivating relationships, and determining who should be washing the dishes. DINKWAP stands for Dual-Income No Kids with a Podcast! Are you a DINK, SINK, or DINK-curious? Join us at DINK Lifestyle Philippines.

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