PF Unfiltered

PF Omotayo
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Welcome to “PF Unfiltered,” where Pastor Femi Omotayo (PF) shares real-life wisdom and candid insights on life’s toughest questions. Join hosts Tunde “T Max” Makanjuola and Seun Allen-Taylor for unfiltered conversations on faith, money, relationships, and more. No sugar coating, just honest dialogue packed with practical gems to help you navigate life. Subscribe now for your weekly dose of PF’s authentic and insightful advice. Real Talk. Real Faith. Real Life.

  1. 12/30/2025

    What We Learned in 2025 & Why 2026 Won't Be Easy

    In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and faith. They emphasize the need for intentionality in setting goals for 2026 and the significance of seeking God personally rather than relying solely on external guidance. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern community dynamics, particularly in the context of social media, and the necessity of building genuine relationships. As they prepare for the upcoming year, they stress the importance of resilience and faith in navigating future challenges.Chapters00:00 Reflections on 2025: A Year of Growth09:43 Navigating Challenges: Faith and Community19:29 The Importance of Intentionality in 202629:03 Building Real Community: Beyond Social Media39:04 Preparing for 2026: Faith, Goals, and Resilience

    45 min

  2. 12/16/2025

    Should Christians celebrate Christmas?

    Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you. In this episode, PF breaks down 1 Corinthians 8 "idols are nothing" and explains why Christmas shouldn't be the scapegoat for pseudo-spirituality. The crew explores Christian freedom, why believers judge each other over holidays, and how we major in the minors while missing what actually matters. From debating turkey wings as Christmas food to discussing "Dirty December" culture in Nigeria, this conversation mixes theology, humor, and cultural commentary. PF even shares his complex relationship with Christmas after losing his mother on December 25th yet still advocates for celebration without guilt. The bottom line: Celebrate or don't celebrate but stop using holidays as spiritual one-upmanship. 💬 Where do you land on Christmas? Do you celebrate, skip it, or somewhere in between? Let us know in the comments 👇🏾 Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:01:05 Should Christians Celebrate Christmas? 00:02:40 Personal Experiences and Traditions 00:06:35 Religious Significance and Observance 00:19:25 Commercialization and Societal Pressures 00:33:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 📱 CONNECT WITH US: • Instagram: @pfunfiltered • Pastor PF's Instagram: @femi.omotayo • Listen on Spotify: [link] • Listen on Apple Podcasts: [link] 🎙️ ABOUT PF UNFILTERED: PF Unfiltered is a Christian podcast exploring faith, relationships, and culture through honest, unfiltered conversations. Led by Pastor Femi Omotayo of New Covenant House Dallas, each episode tackles the questions African Christians and believers worldwide are actually asking about dating, money, church life, spiritual growth, and living authentically in modern culture. Real Talk. Real Faith. Real Life. #ChristianPodcast #Christmas #ChristianFreedom #BiblicalTeaching #ChristianLiving #PFUnfiltered #FaithAndCulture #ChurchCulture #ChristianHolidays #Theology #ModernChristianity #AfricanChristian #BibleStudy #ChristianLife #HolidayDebate

    43 min

  3. 12/09/2025

    Why Young People Are Leaving Church (And How to Find Your Way Back)

    "If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear the full conversation. Young people are leaving church in record numbers—especially African immigrants and diaspora Christians who grew up in the faith. Pastor Femi, Kenneth, and Esther tackle why this is happening and whether walking away is actually the answer. **The Real Problem:** The church's message isn't relevant anymore. Prosperity gospel, performative religion, and outdated approaches don't address real-world struggles. Young people can get what church promises—success, happiness, community—without the restrictions. **The Internet Christianity Trap:** The pandemic normalized watching church online. But PF warns: isolated faith can't survive spiritual warfare. "You watch service for one hour, shut the screen—there's no interaction with anything spiritual. The devil whispers something, and there's no one there to challenge it." **Church Hurt—The Hard Truth:** PF's take: "Church is a hospital. We're all patients." Everyone is imperfect. You've hurt people. People will hurt you. The question isn't whether to leave when hurt happens—it's understanding that church is where broken people heal together. But here's the key distinction: Leave a toxic congregation if you must. Don't abandon the body of Christ. Find a church that fits—different worship styles, different emphases, but stay connected to community. **What We Cover:** • Why young African Christians are leaving church • The danger of YouTube theology and self-proclaimed teachers • Spectator church vs. real community • Accountability vs. forgiveness in church leadership • How to find the right church without church shopping • The woman caught in adultery: loving people into repentance **Key Quotes:** "Church is a hospital. We're all patients." - PF "How can you say you love God but despise his body?" - PF "YouTube made deconstruction fashionable." - PF "We don't abandon relationships; we try to make relationships better." - PF If you've been hurt by church or you're questioning whether to stay, this conversation is for you. **Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations about faith, culture, and real Christian living.** --- ### Timestamps / Chapters 0:00 - Intro: New Covenant House Goes Viral 2:45 - Why Young People Are Leaving Church 5:05 - The Problem with the Prosperity Gospel Message 9:19 - Church Hurt: Why People Are Walking Away 13:24 - Internet Christianity & The Pandemic Effect 16:20 - The Dangers of YouTube Theology 18:43 - Self-Proclaimed Teachers & Bible Studies Gone Wrong 23:35 - The Spectator Church Problem 25:27 - Church Hurt: Should You Leave or Stay? 28:31 - Church as a Hospital for Imperfect People 32:05 - When Worship Style Becomes a Dealbreaker 36:55 - Finding the Right Church Community 38:55 - Accountability vs. Forgiveness in Church Leadership 41:24 - Loving People Into Repentance (The Woman Caught in Adultery) 45:03 - Final Encouragement: Don't Turn Your Back on the Body of Christ #ChurchHurt #ChristianPodcast #PFUnfiltered #LeavingChurch #ChristianCommunity #FaithJourney #ChurchLeadership #BlackChurch #AfricanDiaspora #OnlineChurch #InternetChristianity #Deconstruction #ChristianYouTube #BibleTeaching #PastorFemi #NewCovenantHouse #FaithAndCulture #ChurchAccountability #ForgivenessInChurch #ChristianConversations

    48 min

  4. 12/02/2025

    Ask us Anything!

    We’re opening up the floor! Drop your raw, honest, unfiltered questions about faith, relationships, real-life struggles, and everything in between. No topic is off-limits. Send your questions to askpf@pfunfiltered.com or DM us on IG  @PFUnfiltered  . PF is looking forward to your questions!

    29 sec

  5. 11/25/2025

    How to Be Thankful When Life Is a Mess | PF Unfiltered

    In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew tackles the hardest kind of gratitude - being thankful when life isn't going according to plan. Discover how our hosts navigate family traditions, personal growth, and the transformative power of community. Whether you're a fan of turkey or prefer jollof rice, this conversation will inspire you to find your own reasons to be thankful. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that celebrates the essence of Thanksgiving.00:01:06 Intro00:02:29 Thanksgiving Traditions and Challenges00:03:40 Reflecting on Gratitude00:06:10 The Role of Faith and Community00:09:10 Personal Stories and Insights00:14:21 Conclusion and Thanksgiving Wishes### What You'll Learn- How to find silver linings when life feels like a dark cloud- Why being grateful doesn't mean pretending everything is fine- Biblical principles for trusting God's timing when plans fall apart- The difference between letting God lead vs. trying to control outcomes- How to recognize that your "mess" might be carrying a message- Why community is essential during seasons of transformation- Practical ways to cultivate gratitude even in disappointment### Connect With Us🎙️ **Subscribe** to PF Unfiltered for weekly unfiltered conversations about faith, culture, and real life.💬 **Join the Conversation**Tell us in the comments: What are you grateful for this Thanksgiving, even if life feels messy right now?🔔 **Turn on notifications** so you never miss an episode!### Related Episodes You'll Love- "Red Flags Christians Ignore in Dating & Friendships"- "Should Pastors Be Paid? - Money, Ministry & What the Bible Says"- "Finding God in the Waiting Season"### Relevant Hashtags#PFUnfiltered #Thanksgiving #ChristianPodcast #Gratitude #FaithAndCulture #TrustGodsTiming #FindingPurpose #ChristianCommunity #NewCovenantHouse #AfricanChristian #FaithJourney #BeThankful #MessToMessage #TransformingGrace

    40 min

  6. 11/18/2025

    The Money Fight Every Couple Has

    In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF sits down with Dami and Lolade Akibola, an incredible couple to discuss one of the most challenging aspects of marriage: MONEY!!. If you've ever wondered how to handle finances as a married couple, especially when cultural expectations clash with modern realities, this conversation is essential. Dami and Lolade share their journey from college students with completely different money mindsets to building a strong financial partnership. Lolade grew up hyper-aware of money after losing her father at age 11, determined never to be broke. Dami, on the other hand, came from a family where he saw how money was spent but never how it was earned—leading to regular overdrafts and zero savings in college. Their story proves that where you start financially doesn't determine where you finish. 00:00 Introduction and Opening Remarks 00:30 Meet the Special Guests 02:40 Personal Backgrounds and Money Stories 05:17 Defining Moments and Financial Attitudes 10:05 Marriage Dynamics and Financial Management 16:23 Challenging Traditional Gender Roles 29:27 The Financial Realities of Marriage 29:52 The Importance of Compatibility in Marriage 31:41 Challenging Traditional Gender Roles 32:43 Balancing Dreams and Practicality 34:25 Managing Finances as a Team 40:39 Dealing with Debt Together 50:07 The Role of Support and Vision in Marriage 53:38 Practical Financial Management Tips 56:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections About PF Unfiltered: PF Unfiltered is a conversational podcast led by Pastor Femi Omotayo of New Covenant House Dallas. We blend honest, humorous, and thought-provoking dialogue exploring faith, culture, relationships, and personal growth through the lens of modern African Christians living in the diaspora. Follow PF Unfiltered: Instagram: @pfunfiltered YouTube: PF Unfiltered Website: [pfunfiltered.com] Guest Bio: Dami Akibola: Associate Pastor at New Covenant House, married to Lolade for 17+ years, father of two, and proud believer that partnership beats patriarchy Lolade Akibola: CFO/Head of Finance Ministry at New Covenant House, finance professional with 20+ years experience, debt-free advocate, and the family's financial architect

    58 min

  7. 11/04/2025

    Can Christians Be Depressed?

    In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences with depression, the impact of faith and community, and practical ways to manage mental health during difficult times. The conversation also highlights the difference between happiness and joy, the importance of purpose, and practical activities that can provide mental rest. This episode aims to offer viewers insights and tools to address their mental well-being while fostering a deeper understanding of faith's role in navigating life's challenges. 00:00 Introduction and First Impressions00:24 Meet the Hosts02:19 Discussing Feelings03:24 Emotions and Rationality05:32 Seasonal Depression and Faith13:43 Understanding Joy and Happiness16:10 Personal Experiences with Depression19:33 Seasonal Depression and Coping Strategies24:55 Recognizing Overwhelm and Depression25:24 The Nigerian Approach to Mental Health25:46 Balancing Faith and Mental Health27:06 Community Support and Depression29:38 The Pursuit of Happiness vs. Contentment43:37 Finding Rest and Hobbies for Mental Health46:35 Practical Advice for Managing Depression47:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    49 min

  8. 10/28/2025

    Night Vigils & 401(k)s: How Place Shapes Our Faith

    In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and the United States. They explore the perceptions each country's Christian community has of the other, the cultural and societal influences on faith, and the varying emphases on religious activities. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining genuine faith amidst differing societal demands, materialism, and the transactional nature of religious fervor. The episode concludes with a reflection on the essence of faith in Christ, regardless of geographic location. 00:00 Introduction and Initial Discussion 00:39 Welcoming the Audience 02:42 Faith in a Foreign Land 04:14 Cultural Differences in Faith 05:33 Impact of Environment on Faith 09:30 Materialism and Faith 13:43 Prayer and Genuine Faith 25:19 The Essence of Prayer 27:03 Cultural Differences in Religious Practices 27:41 Faith and Spiritual Disciplines 28:19 Personal Experiences and Lessons in Faith 29:27 The State of the Church in Nigeria and America 31:21 The True Foundation of Faith 32:37 Challenges and Misconceptions in Faith 36:45 The Way Forward: Christ-Centered Faith 43:33 Final Thoughts and Reflections 51:36 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

    54 min
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Welcome to “PF Unfiltered,” where Pastor Femi Omotayo (PF) shares real-life wisdom and candid insights on life’s toughest questions. Join hosts Tunde “T Max” Makanjuola and Seun Allen-Taylor for unfiltered conversations on faith, money, relationships, and more. No sugar coating, just honest dialogue packed with practical gems to help you navigate life. Subscribe now for your weekly dose of PF’s authentic and insightful advice. Real Talk. Real Faith. Real Life.

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  • Creator
    PF Omotayo
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    60
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © PF Omotayo
  • Show Website
    PF Unfiltered

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