Life Talk with Craig Lounsbrough

Craig Lounsbrough

Life Talk is a podcast intentionally designed to enrich your life, deepen your marriage, enhance your parenting, maximize your work life, and dramatically embolden this journey that we call life.

  1. 1d ago

    ”Thanksgiving Reawakened and Reclaimed:” Rich Living - Climbing Trees and Mending Shoes

    Rich living has nothing to do with wealth...depending upon the kind of wealth we're referring to.  Rich living is found far more frequently in impoverished lives.  It is in these lives that the clutter of material wealth is absent so that these lives are free to see what is truly precious.  Life is not about the pursuit of 'stuff.'  Rather, it's about the pursuit of the everyday experiences that are handed to us without cost or obligation.  It's about 'being thankful that we can be thankful' and that such thankfulness is not based on possessions, but on the privilege we have to be possessed by life itself. Rich living means that we live with a sense of gratitude.  Life may be easy or it may be difficult, but we find a space for gratitude in either place.  It's recognizing that life is a privilege, even at those times when it doesn't necessarily feel that way.  It's an appreciate for the little things that we lose in the search of bigger things.  It's realizing that thankfulness is not about great accomplishments, but little gifts.  That all around us are things that we can savor and enjoy because God scatters such things every place we go.  It's about climbing trees and mending shoes.   Resources for Your Holiday Celebrations Discover an array of holiday resources designed to enhance your celebrations on our website at www.craiglpc.com.  Craig's thoughtful, timely, and inspirational books make lasting gifts.  Discover all of his books at Amazon. com, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold.  Also, take a moment to explore Craig's Public Speaking Resources for information regarding the resources available to your business, ministry, or organization.

  2. 6d ago

    Taking It to Our Knees - Day 10 - The Loss of Hope

    Welcome to Day Ten of the devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” Today’s These is “The Loss of Hope” The Quote for Today Is This: “Therefore we do not lose heart.  Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.  For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.  So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 Hope.  Life drains us of it.  It almost seems that life is constantly on the hunt for what little bit of hope we might have left.  And life knows exactly what to do in order to home in on it and destroy it.  That might be a child gone rogue.  An unfaithful spouse.  A boss who’s passed you up for a promotion three different times.  Unexpected debt.  A medical issue that only gets worse the more it gets treated.  Promises broken.  A turn of events that puts a cherished dream forever out of reach…and so on.  Life targets that stuff to target our hope. The issue is not that we lose hope.  Most often, the issue is based on what we have chosen to hope in.  We hope in many things that we have no business hoping in.  We lean on teetering promises that appeal to some selfish streak in us.  We haphazardly hitch our wagon to something that doesn’t have any horses pulling it.  We fall for brilliantly crafted sales pitches that promise something that they don’t even possess.  We get swept up in the meaningless verbiage of smooth talking people because sixty seconds of fantasy is better than an hour of reality.  We’re desperate for some shred of hope, and so we make choices without a shred of common sense. It's not that hope doesn’t exist.  It’s that it doesn’t exist in the places that we end up looking for it.  It’s really quite easy.  Our only real hope is in God.  Everything else is a flimsy facsimile that will continue to pretend it’s real long after it’s failed us. Let’s Pray Dear God: I don’t know if I can hope again.  Ever.  There’s just been too much heartbreak and too much disappointment.  The human heart can only take just so much.  There’s that final time when we take what little bit of hope that we have left, we cautiously gather it up, and we invest that hope in something that ends up failing.   I’ve had too many of those.  And so, I don’t know if I can sustain one more disappointment. I know that You are God.  And I know that Your promises are trustworthy.  I know that there’s no risk in You.  But the trauma of hope broken, and dreams smashed, and relationships destroyed, and betrayal at every turn, and dreams upended, and the bleakness that has now become the essence of my existence…all of that sitting in me makes it hard to trust You. And so, help me to hope in You.  Help me to take one final shot at hope.  Do not let me walk away from You because if I do, there truly is no hope. I pray all of this in Jesus’s Name.  Amen. Here’s a thought to carry with you today:                                                                                                    “The darkness might keep us from seeing the hope around us, but it does not have the power to remove the hope around us.” Thanks for joining us today on this thirty-day devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” You will find “Taking It to Our Knees” on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold. Also discover our daily inspirational quotes on Facebook, Pinterest, X, LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok and more. Have a great day!

  3. Oct 27

    Podcast Short: We Are More - Understanding Our Capacity

    We Are More - Understanding Our Capacity “Whatever you see within yourself, let it be the whole of yourself.  For too often we have been brutalized by our own sense of inadequacy and we’ve been held hostage to the lesser choices born of such a debilitating sense of self.  Know this, that latent within you there lies more than ample resources begging to be called forth to smash the chains forged of such an incapacitating sense of self.  And it is my prayer that you would press against everything within you that would hold you back, and that you would raise whatever voice you have and extend that call.” You are more than you realize.  A lot more.  You’ve probably heard that before, and if you haven’t, you’re long overdue.  You are more than you realize.  But the thing is, we don’t feel that we are ‘more.’  If anything, the things that happened to us would suggest the opposite…that we’re less than what we hoped we were (and probably a whole lot less).  Whether that’s failure (in any of the million different ways that we fail), or ridicule, or jobs lost, or relationships that blew up, or dreams that went up in smoke, or friends that walked away, or opportunities that drifted away, or family members who were critical to the point that we wished they went away…or whatever it might be.  The statement that “we are more than we realize” just doesn’t seem to fit this stuff.   In my recent book, “The Self That I Long to Believe In,” I wrote this: “The majesty of our humanity and the capabilities laid out within us are nothing short of marvelous; so much so that we are barely cognizant of it.  That in and of itself may be why we don’t recognize them and therefore don’t believe that they exist.  All of us run deep with untapped potential that is rustling just under the surface of our lives waiting to be unleashed.” We are ‘more.’  Our circumstances don’t have the power to refute that or change that.  For sure, our circumstances can lead us to believe that we’re not ‘more,’ and they can be very convincing in doing that.  Our circumstances can also lead us to believe that we’re a whole lot less than we thought ourselves to be, and those circumstances can be incredibly convincing as well.  But our capacity exceeds the failures that we experience and the criticisms that are thrown in our faces.  Our abilities are not defined by what people have said, or the choices that we have made.  Our abilities exceed all of those.  They are greater than the limits of our imaginations, and they are not limited by people or choices that have proven to be less than imaginative.    That “more” will always be there whether you use it or not.  It sits at the ready whether we recognize it or not.  We are ‘more.’  That’s not the issue.  The issue is will we understand that we are ‘more,’ and will we allow that ‘more’ begin to shape us into ‘more.’    Additional Resources Discover an array of additional resources on our website at www.craiglpc.com.  Find all of Craig's thoughtful, timely, and inspirational books at Amazon. com, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold.  Also, take a moment to explore Craig's Public Speaking Resources for information regarding the resources available to your business, ministry, or organization.

    Podcast Short: We Are More - Understanding Our Capacity
  4. Oct 23

    Podcast Short: Becoming Accountable

    Becoming Accountable Accountability…might it be time to be accountable to who we’ve become so that we can make ourselves accountable to what we can be?  Are we willing to divest ourselves of all the lesser things that we have elevated as greater things and engage in both a pointed and painful evaluation of who we’ve become?  And once we’ve done that, are we brave enough to look at the damage that we’re incurred in the becoming?  Can we relinquish our claim to whatever bit of turf we’ve claimed and lay our playground feuds to rest in deference to a cause far greater than the tiny space that we occupy?  Can we shake ourselves out of ourselves sufficiently to wake up to the far greater things that lay ‘round about us?  Can we begin to see others as less enemies and more people whose differing views may inform our own?  At what point we will understand that partnership and camaraderie must be preserved even when differences of beliefs or opinions would do their level best to blast us into warring camps?  When will we forfeit what we’ve become in order to become something so vastly superior to what we’ve become? It’s not that such a shift is impossible (despite the fact that the behaviors exhibited in our world might suggest otherwise).  But in the face of the reckless insanity all around us, will we dare to dare?  Will we raise ourselves up to embrace the fullness of our humanity?  Will we cast off the scourge of selfish agendas and the saber-rattling born of insatiable egos?  Will we be what we’ve chosen not to be at whatever cost we might pay to do so, recognizing that the cost of not doing so is far, far greater?  Will we shed all that we’ve become to become all that we can be?  In essence, will we reclaim the majesty of our humanity as it was created and tenderly fashioned to be? I believe that we have not done well, but I believe we can yet do very well.  I believe in something better.  I believe that we can join together in a mutual assault on the mounting challenges in our world instead of engaging in mounting assaults on each other.  I believe, and I hope that everyone of us might join me in that belief.  And in that joining might we rigorously inventory how we can be different.  And then let us go and begin the process of making things different.  Let us reclaim the majesty of our humanity in the care of humanity.   Additional Resources Discover an array of additional resources on our website at www.craiglpc.com.  Find all of Craig's thoughtful, timely, and inspirational books at Amazon. com, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold.  Also, take a moment to explore Craig's Public Speaking Resources for information regarding the resources available to your business, ministry, or organization.

  5. Oct 21

    Day 9 - The Plague of Self-Esteem

    Welcome to Day Nine of the devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” Today’s Theme is “The Plague of Low Self-Esteem.” The Quote for Today Is This: “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14 We have difficulty believing that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made.”  That’s a hard one sometimes.  We look into the mirror or our decisions, and all that we see are the numerous cracks and spidery fissures in that mirror that speak to the destruction wrought by those decisions.  We glance into the mirror of our achievements, and what stares back at us are a host of failures so numerous that the mirror is packed tight with them.  We peer into the mirror of our relationships only to have no one peering back at us.  And if we wipe the mirror clean of all of that stuff and simply glance at our own reflection, we wish that mirrors were never invented. We don’t like ourselves a whole lot.  But what we don’t like often goes much deeper than that which any mirror can reflect back to us.  What we don’t like is how people have defined us, or how we let them do that.  We don’t like how they have projected their own issues on us.  How they blamed us for their mistakes so that they didn’t have to face them.  We are left sullen and sad by expectations that we didn’t even come close to meeting because they were designed not to be met.  And in the end, this very convincing definition of ourselves is compiled from a bunch of stuff that is far more a compilation of everyone else who had something to do with us than it was about us. It's hard to believe that we are more than what we perceive ourselves to be.  It’s difficult to embrace the reality that we are truly made in God’s image.  That stuff doesn’t resonate.  We don’t see that in the mirror, even if we squint and lean into it.  But the greatest truths about us often don’t resonate because we have difficulty believing that we could actually be something so wonderful. Prayer Dear God: Please help me to like me.  Or better yet…help me to love me.  I’m not all that certain about how to do that.  There’s a lot of self-help stuff out there and catchy ideas to help build my self-esteem.  It’s all man-made stuff that never really addresses the heart stuff. You made me, “fearfully and wonderfully.”  You uniquely designed me.  You intentionally placed me here, at this exact time in history.  There was something very intentional in the way that You did all of that.  You have a purpose and a plan for me that is bigger than anything that I could imagine.  And that purpose and that plan is uniquely gifted to me and me alone.  That’s the truth about me.  I confess to You that I don’t feel that way…at all.  I just can’t wrap my head around that no matter how hard I try.  All of that’s beyond me.  But I want to believe it.  I want to know that there’s something of great value sitting within me just waiting to be released.  I want to see ‘me’ how You see me, not how others have caused me to see me.  Show me who I am through Your eyes.  Help me to see my reflection in Your mirror. I pray all of this in Jesus’s Name.  Amen. Here’s a thought to carry with you today: “Look in the mirror.  Go ahead and look yet again.  And look not at the reflection, for while this body of yours is marvelously complex in ways that continue to elude the reach of modern science, it is but a simple shell that holds the image of God within you.  And if the shell is that grand, how much more what God has placed inside of it.” Thanks for joining us today on this thirty-day devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” You will find “Taking It to Our Knees” on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold. Also discover our daily inspirational quotes on Facebook, Pinterest, X, LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, Tik-Tok and more. Have a great day!

  6. Oct 20

    Podcast Short: Dead-End Roads of Our Making

    Dead-End Roads of Our Making We chart these paths.  We set these goals.  We ponder where we are, and from there we determine where we want to go.  There’s some sort of road that we’re walking, whether that’s a road of our own making, or it’s a road that everybody is walking, or it’s the road that culturally vogue or socially trending.  Sometimes that road is well defined and clear.  Sometimes there’s very little definition to it all, and we end up wondering if we’re really on any sort of road at all.  And then some of us are just plain lost in the woods.  “There’s some sort of road that we’re all walking.” Whatever kind of road that we’re on, it’s both amazing and frustrating how many of those roads end up at dead-ends.  It’s stunning that there are millions of people who are standing at the end of some road (or what they thought was a road) and it ends.  It just ends.  They had visualized it going somewhere great, or exciting, or meaningful.  It was the path to their dreams.  It was the road to a life-long relationship.  The highway to fiscal wealth or career advancement.  The byway that led them to everything that everyone else said that they could never do or never be…but it doesn’t go to any of those kinds of places at all.  It dead-ends.  In the middle of nowhere. A dead-end is likely the product of being on the wrong road.  And if I created the road, it’s probably going to dead-end because it’s probably the wrong road.  Frequently, the dead-end will be up out of sight from where we started this journey (so that we won’t have second-thoughts taking it).  Or, we can actually see the dead-end, but we live in denial of it because we want what we want.  Or, the people around us took it and were too embarrassed to tell us that we would run into a dead-end because they were embarrassed that they ran into a dead-end.  Or, the culture has deluded us into believing that it’s not a dead-end at all (even though it looks strikingly similar to a dead-end). Dead-ends.  The only road that I know of that has no dead-ends is the one that God lays out for us.  Those are roads of no dead-ends.  Rather, those are roads of endless beginnings.  Forever beginnings.  Perpetual beginnings.  Where the world says that the road will stop, the roads God creates keep right on going.  When the mountains become too high, or the valleys become too low and the roads come to a screaming halt, God has already constructed a bridge or leveled the valley.  “There’s some sort of road that we’re walking.”  And if God didn’t create it, your dead-end is just around the ‘corner.’  If He did create it, you don’t need to worry about the ‘corners.’   Additional Resources Discover an array of additional resources on our website at www.craiglpc.com.  Find all of Craig's thoughtful, timely, and inspirational books at Amazon. com, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold.  Also, take a moment to explore Craig's Public Speaking Resources for information regarding the resources available to your business, ministry, or organization.

    Podcast Short: Dead-End Roads of Our Making
  7. Oct 16

    Podcast Short: Do We Search for the Truth?

    Do We Search for the Truth? Do we search for the truth, or do we search for ways around the truth?  Do we even take the time to consider a question like that out of the long-held assumption that we are, in fact, looking for the truth because (we assume) that that’s the obvious thing to do?  What insanity would behoove us to do anything less?  But do we search for the truth, or do we search for ways around the truth?  Maybe we should consider the fact that there are a whole lot of reasons why we actually might stoop to something less. Truth be told, the truth may not be what we want it to be.  It may not support our agendas, or our desires.  In fact, it might actually render those things as erroneous and all-together ill-fated.  The truth may not support all of the things that we passionately wish to believe, or have talked ourselves into believing.  Or truth may dare to go so far as to actually call the entirety of those beliefs into question, and call us out for believing in them in the first place.  Do we search for the truth even when it takes the foundations that we’ve laboriously built with the sweat of our brow and the best of our years, and does truth handily expose those foundations as weak, entirely misappropriated, and as nothing more than sand piled in every place except the right place?  Will we search for truth even when it looks us square in the face and tells us this kind of stuff?  Will we search for it knowing that there is a very distinct possibility that it will tell us everything that we don’t want to hear in every way that we don’t want to hear it?  Will we search for truth even then? I don’t know that we do.  In fact, what we seem to search for the most are ways to circumvent the truth.  Our search does not seem to be ‘for’ the truth, but rather it seems to be far more vested in ways to get ‘around’ the truth.  We would not even begin to label our actions as such because such actions would immediately call the whole of our character into question.  But what we label something does not make it what we’ve labeled it.  Our search seems to be one of committed avoidance.  It is one of intentional evasion, of manufactured detours, of clever deviations that are so slick that we don’t even realize that we deviated.  It’s not that we run from the truth as much as we diligently work to create pathways around it, that in the end, never get us around anything.  I wonder if that’s really more of what we do. And as such, these evasive endeavors are quite naturally filled with such familiar things as slippery denials, evasive rationalizations, ambiguous justifications, relentless blame-placing, rogue fear-mongering, the incessant spinning of events, the bogus editing of facts, and the mind-boggling contortions where we take reality and make it something other than reality. But likely the most dangerous of these is the self-endowed liberty that we have granted ourselves to make truth whatever we wish to make it.  Therefore, it’s not about avoidance, because conveniently, that’s no longer necessary.  Rather, it’s about creating, which is avoidance of the most calculated, but ill-fated sort.  It’s about making truth whatever we want it to be.  It’s about making it fit whatever agenda, or belief system, or value system, or platform, or whatever it is that we want it to fit.  If truth will not grant us that which we wish, we will simply edit it until it does.  But in the end, it is no longer truth, and truth be told, we will eventually find that out, and we’ll probably find it out the hard way. Truth.  Do we search for it, or do we do something else with it?  You might ask yourself, in a truthful kind of way, what you’re doing with it. “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Jesus Christ

    Podcast Short: Do We Search for the Truth?
  8. Oct 15

    Day 8 - Taking It to Our Knees - The Painful Struggle of Infertility

    Welcome to Day Eight of the devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” Today’s Theme is “The Painful Struggle of Infertility.” The quote for today reads this way: “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm— my great army that I sent among you..” Joel 2:25   What many people are desperate to have are the very things that others recklessly throw away.  What is cherished, intimately longed for, and desperately sought after by so many is discarded by others without so much as a fleeting thought. Such is the agonizing dilemma of those facing the pain of infertility.  Having squarely set decades of dreams on the immense privilege of having a child, couples find their dreams brought to a jarring and often unexpected halt.  Facing the brutal possibility of being childless, these couples expend massive amounts of time, emotional energy, and personal resources to salvage a dream that seems to slip further away with every attempt to save it. Wildly gyrating emotions spin off sporadic thoughts of physical or personal inadequacy.  We wonder if this is punishment for some perceived offense that is only now being executed on our passion to hold a child.  Thoughts of injustice as held against the reality that life is unjust.  An uninvited jealousy of other couples who were able to bear children that runs head-long against the very real joy that we have for them.  And then, the brutal thought of those who recklessly abort the very thing that we would give the entirety our lives to hold.  The turmoil is unspeakable.  The pain unfathomable. Life robs us in many ways.  But God enriches us in every way.  What the world takes, God will restore.  We will never lose anything that God cannot and will not give back to us many times over.  The shape and form of what He gives may not resemble what we lost, but it will provide the healing that we need.  The truth of these statements will never and can never be offset by the depth, intensity, size, or pain of any loss…ever.   Prayer Dear God: I know that life is full of loss.  It’s all around me and it’s everywhere within me.  In this world, we can’t get away from it.  I know that because I’ve done my level best to do exactly that.  And despite those efforts, it seems like some sort of loss is always lying in wait just around the corner of every dream that I’ve ever had. But Lord, sometimes the losses are so big, so deep, so life-altering, so unjust, so seemingly impossible to live with…so everything that they should not be that I have a hard time accepting them.  The inability to conceive a child is one of those.  I’m way too human and way too fragile to take the really brutal losses and somehow find a safe or reasonable place for them despite how much I want to do that. You know life can be brutal.  You’re no stranger to any of that.  You lived it.  You endured it.  You knew it was coming for You from the beginning of creation.  You stepped into this world knowing that it was staring You in the face.  But knowing that kind of brutality, You said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”   Dear God, fill the hole left by the hope of a child.  I don’t want to play the victim; I want to be the victor. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life pouting; I want to live my days prevailing.  I want to rest on the fact that nothing can be taken from me that You cannot replace many times over in whatever way You decide to do that.  I desperately want to live with that reality, with that hope, and with that peace. I pray all of this in Jesus’s Name.  Amen. A Thought to Carry With Me Today “If I have never had, or worse yet, I have lost the conviction that life (despite all of the blows it wields and the savagery that it spawns) is nonetheless an incalculable privilege, I will have in that single loss forfeited the whole of my life and effectively wiped out any hope that I can or will do anything other than exist.” Thanks for joining us today on this thirty-day devotional series taken from the book, “Taking It to Our Knees – Rigorous Prayers for Life’s Greatest Challenges.” You will find “Taking It to Our Knees” on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or wherever books are sold. Also discover our daily inspirational quotes on Facebook, Pinterest, X, LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, Tik-Tok and more. Have a great day!

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