
423 episodes

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts
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4.6 • 722 Ratings
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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”
Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.
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S17E5: Should you stay or should you go?
When is it time to work on a relationship vs. call it quits? Should you go on that 2nd date or swipe on someone new? We're back with a solo episode about why we often overstay the wrong relationships or give up too early on the right ones. We’re discussing the evaluation criteria to determine if your relationship is worth continuing, how to know if your partner is really in it with you, and ways to see if it's worth going on another date (or not) early in the process.
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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#brunch talk: Any advice for moving in together?
When you've been single and have lived alone for a while, what happens when the time comes to move in together? If you're anything like us, you may have developed some SSB (secret single behavior). We’re discussing how to adapt to someone else being in your space, why it's necessary to curb any control freak tendencies for inconsequential things, and ways to start this new chapter in a way where you stay true to yourself and each other.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly and use my code No promotion code/URL for a great deal: https://drizly.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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S17E4: Following Your Intuition (in Dating) w/ Nikki Novo
You always hear: listen to your gut, follow your heart, trust your intuition. But what does that even mean? We’re chatting with one of our favorite past guests, Nikki Novo, about how to connect with your intuition so you can cultivate trust and bravery in your love life. We’re discussing how to trust your instincts better when dating, the balance of listening vs. overthinking, and how to relinquish control in a way that still keeps you in the driver’s seat of your love life.
Follow Nikki Novo @nikkinovo and check out her new book 'Soul-Led Living: Discover your soul's true path and become brave enough to follow it.
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly and use my code No promotion code/URL for a great deal: https://drizly.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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#brunchtalk: How do you keep a connection going?
What happens when you meet someone you like – then you go away for a week, and they go away for a week, only to realize that your budding romance has faded away? We’re discussing how to navigate early dating when one of you is away on vacation, how to avoid the momentum dropping when you meet someone new, and ways to tell if someone is a keeper, especially when you are apart.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly and use my code No promotion code/URL for a great deal: https://drizly.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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S17E3: Where Are All The Dateable People? w/ Evan Marc Katz
Maybe you've ever wondered why you can't seem to find good people on the apps, in your city, or wherever you go. But today we're sharing how you can meet Dateable people wherever you go as we chat with dating coach Evan Marc Katz We’re discussing the biggest mistakes people make when looking for love, why you don't actually attract the wrong people , and how to get out of the "there's nobody good out there" mindset.
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Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly and use my code No promotion code/URL for a great deal: https://drizly.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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#brunchtalk: When's the right time to reveal your past relationship history?
The past is the past...but is it? We're discussing the circumstances when you should bring up your past relationship status when dating. We’re discussing what information feels misleading to withhold vs. unnecessary to share, the right time to reveal something about your relationship history, and how to move forward without feeling anchored to your past.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
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Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Drizly and use my code No promotion code/URL for a great deal: https://drizly.com
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Customer Reviews
Sunday’s Brunch Talk- tell them you are their first date
Hey long-time listener, but never have written in. I have to say I was so disturbed from Sunday’s brunch talk and not telling them this is your first date. I think it would be such an interesting topic to discuss in greater depth. I have been many guys first dates which once I find that out on the date sometimes it puts me in the mindset that oh this guy is not going to be ready for anything. I did date a guy for a while that I was but he had taken a yr off from dating from his marriage ending. It is an interesting concept. Chicken or the egg? Before it bothered me and make me sad when I found out. But now, I live in reality 😂 and I would go to have a good time but that is from lots of work on myself and being single for 4 yrs. Anyway, love the pod and wanted to share.
Pretty good overall, some eps are really great
Not a current dater but always interested in anything about relationships and this can often hit the spot with good guests and good interviewing. Julie might need some Flonase tho; she always sounds congested.
A crucial piece of my self development
I thank these ladies for giving a gender neutral and sociological based answer to dating, as well as introducing me to other podcasts through their hosts such as Connor Beaton
Keep it up
My brunch talk question is, is a lack of experience in a guy a turn off? For context, 26m on the autistic spectrum