Your Other Family

Your Other Brothers, Your Other Sisters

We’re a 501(c)(3) nonprofit ministry encompassing the storytelling communities of Your Other Brothers and Your Other Sisters. Join us as we integrate faith, sexuality, and gender. Together.

  1. YOBcc104: Tom & Drew Boa Outgrow Porn, Examine Fetishes, and Do Inner Child Work

    4D AGO

    YOBcc104: Tom & Drew Boa Outgrow Porn, Examine Fetishes, and Do Inner Child Work

    Tom welcomes new friend Drew Boa of Husband Material to dive into his book, Outgrow Porn. Tom shares his favorite tools from Drew’s toolbox for overcoming porn and unwanted sexual behaviors, including the breathe-observe-attune (BOA) method, “connecting the dots” from shame to glory and loss to connection, and non-dominant handwriting to connect with your inner child. Adult Tom vulnerably shares some recent journal entries with Little Tom as he reflects on his own journey with loneliness and restlessness, particularly amongst other boys, and how this has fed an often irresistible attraction or fetish for certain aspects of straight men. LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE Tom’s appearance on Drew Boa’s Husband Material podcast: “Why Men Need Men” Drew Boa’s Husband Material community Drew Boa’s book, Outgrow Porn COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE What tools have helped you outgrow porn and unwanted sexual behaviors? How have you connected with your inner child? PODCAST EPISODE PAGE YOB Convocast 104 RATE/REVIEW US Apple Podcasts Spotify FOLLOW THE CAST Tom's blogs GET IN TOUCH Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009 Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802 SUPPORT YOF General giving (for non-members) Giving toward membership in YOB Giving toward membership in YOS FOLLOW YOF YOF: YouTube | Facebook | Instagram YOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok YOS: Facebook | Instagram MUSIC CREDIT "Feel it All" by sød ven; 100% clearance through Musicbed you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

    56 min
  2. 12/01/2025

    YOF001: Oh the Topics We'd Discuss If Only...

    It’s the premiere episode of Your Other Family Podcast! Or, the YOFcast, as we’ll also be known. Join hosts Tom and Erin for a brief origin story of how Your Other Brothers and Your Other Sisters came to be, along with some amazing topics we would discuss at length on this show – if only we had the full funding to do so! We’re still finding our footing as a nonprofit ministry, and we’re excited about the possibility of this new YOF coed podcast with contributing members of both YOB and YOS, also maintaining our YOB and YOS podcast productions. But we still need help getting to that point! If you’re not already giving in support of our 501(c)(3) organization, would you consider a monthly gift today? Check out the link below for general giving, or shoot us a community inquiry if you’re interested in YOB/YOS membership! There’s always room for one more sparrow in this nest. LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE YOF General Giving YOB Membership YOS Membership YOBcast 047: Intimacy YOBcast 092: Second Adolescence YOScast 001: YOS is a Thing! Subscribe to our YOF newsletter! RATE/REVIEW US Apple Podcasts Spotify GET IN TOUCH Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009 Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802 SUPPORT YOF General giving (for non-members) Giving toward membership in YOB Giving toward membership in YOS FOLLOW YOF YOF: YouTube | Facebook | Instagram YOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok YOS: Facebook | Instagram MUSIC CREDIT Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams 100% clearance through Musicbed you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

    1h 23m
  3. YOB110: Church Hurt

    10/31/2025

    YOB110: Church Hurt

    Where have we experienced hurt in the church, whether from our sexuality or otherwise? How do we continue in spiritual communities after experiencing church hurt? Join Tom, Ryan, and Matt for a raw discussion on our community’s church hurt stories. We’ll dive into the other side of hurt in a follow-up episode, but for now, we want to honor the pain, the loneliness, the frustration, the rejection, the abuse, the trauma, and the injustice of experiencing hurt in a place and with a people where we should have experienced life. If one of us hurts, may we all hurt together. COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE Where have you experienced hurt in the church? PODCAST EPISODE PAGE YOBcast 110: Church Hurt LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE Kalan's rap remix of "Wood" by Taylor Swift The Carpenter's Son trailer with Nicolas Cage Owen Cooper Finally Meets Jake Gyllenhaal! "Church Hurt" by Hannah Kerr RATE/REVIEW US Apple Podcasts Spotify FOLLOW THE CAST Tom's posts Ryan's posts Matt's posts GET IN TOUCH Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009 Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802 SUPPORT YOF General giving (for non-members) Giving toward membership in YOB Giving toward membership in YOS FOLLOW YOF YOF: YouTube | Facebook | Instagram YOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok YOS: Facebook | Instagram MUSIC CREDIT Intro/outro theme: “Borderland” by John Mark McMillan Benediction theme: "Feel it All" by sød ven 100% clearance through Musicbed you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

    1h 39m
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We’re a 501(c)(3) nonprofit ministry encompassing the storytelling communities of Your Other Brothers and Your Other Sisters. Join us as we integrate faith, sexuality, and gender. Together.