Cocktales with Kiki

Kiki Said So
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Cocktales with Kiki is the place where cocktails meet candid conversation, hosted by Kiki Said So. What started with wild stories about sex, dating, and relationships has grown into something bigger: the kind of conversations you have over dinner with your girls, in the group chat at 2 a.m., or after somebody says, “Okay, but can I tell y’all what REALLY happened?” From love, friendship, and questionable decisions to pop culture, travel, internet rabbit holes, and whatever has Kiki curious this week, nothing is too random to make it to the table. Some weeks Kiki is riding solo, other weeks friends and guests pull up to add their own Cocktales to the mix. Expect laughs, unfiltered opinions, unsolicited advice, a little mess, a lot of curiosity, and of course, a cocktail or two.  Because life gives us plenty to talk about, and around here, every sip has a story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.

  1. 4d ago

    The American Dream Ain’t a Picket Fence with Ms. Pat

    Comedian, actress, author, and professional truth-teller Ms. Pat joins Kiki for a conversation that goes exactly where you’d expect it to… and then completely off the rails.Ms. Pat is celebrating her new book, Miss American Dream, and opens up about how her idea of “making it” has changed over the years. From once believing success looked like a house with a white picket fence to realizing that family, happiness, and breaking generational cycles are the real dream, she reflects on everything it took to build the life she has now.The two get into believing in yourself when nobody else does, separating friendship from business, learning to set boundaries as your success grows, knowing when it’s time to let people go, and why everyone around you can’t automatically come along for the ride.Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without things getting a little chaotic. Kiki finds out very quickly that she would’ve made a TERRIBLE drug dealer, Ms. Pat explains why Kiki has absolutely no street in her, and a Sip & Spill about a one-sided friendship turns into some brutally honest advice about jealousy, fake friends, and trusting what you already know.Plus, Ms. Pat talks about her marriage, raising a house full of kids, turning painful life experiences into comedy, her upcoming projects, and why after everything she’s survived and accomplished, happiness is still the ultimate American dream.Grab a drink because Ms. Pat came to tell the truth, hurt a few imaginary feelings, and leave absolutely no room for excuses. Drive Boost- Try it Today by visiting vb.health and using code cocktales! Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki!  The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

  2. Sep 25

    I Need Your Advice

    Grab a drink and let's hear a few dilemmas.  Have you ever just needed to come to a friend a say girl, I need your advice?  Well,  sometimes we all need a little advice.  This week I'm going through all the advice you guys have been needing and giving you the best advice you'll get.  No sugar coating, just the truth you've been avoiding. Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what topic should we tackle next? Subscribe for more weekly conversations. Iroha Visit iroha store USA for luxurious Japanese self-pleasure products! Enjoy 10% off with code cocktales10. http://usstore.iroha.com/cocktales10 Brooklyn Bedding Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewideduring the FALL SAle Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki!  The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso 00:00 A Birthday Reflection 00:47 The Reality of Getting Older 02:46 Behind the Scenes at the Awards 05:59 Curious Questions That Need Answers 10:26 Lessons Learned and Future Goals 17:12 Advice for Your Relationship Woes 42:18 Throwback Stories and Final Thoughts Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

  3. Sep 19

    Interview With A Vampire with Nya The Vampire

    This week, Kiki sits down with Nya the Vampire, the woman behind Atlanta’s all-Black burlesque revue, YAMMS, for a conversation all about confidence, sensuality, and taking up space unapologetically. Nya breaks down what burlesque really is, what people can expect at a show, and how the art form can help women reconnect with their bodies, femininity, and confidence. They also get into seduction, self-expression, feeling sexy without performing for anybody else, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to be bold. Whether you’re already comfortable being the center of attention or still figuring out how to own the room, this one is your reminder that confidence is a practice — and sometimes you just need a little glitter, a little nerve, and a whole lot of audacity. Every sip has a story. 🍸 Follow Nya! @nyathevampire @nyathegod @yammsburlesque Get Your tix to Yamms Fest at www.yammsfest.com Sponsors: INDACLOUD If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES ! #indacloudpod  SOAKING WET Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!!  404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso We are sitting down for a wild CockTales with Kiki interview with Nya the Vampire to get the truth about the vampire lifestyle. In this episode, we step away from our usual relationship dilemmas for one of our favorite unique interviews. Nya joins us to break down what it really means to live as a vampire, separating the Hollywood myths from the reality of her day-to-day existence. Whether you are curious about alternative dating or just want to hear a perspective you definitely haven't encountered on the podcast before, this conversation covers it all. It is a fresh, weird, and honest look at identity that will keep you listening until the very last drop. Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what is the weirdest subculture you have ever dated? Subscribe for more weekly conversations. 0:00 Setting the Vibe with a Signature Drink 1:49 Meet the Guest: Nia the Vampire 2:34 From Village Kid to Burlesque Pioneer 5:04 The Reality of Teaching Burlesque Intensives 8:14 Public Performance vs. Private Seduction 9:17 Curious Questions and Relationship Dilemmas 17:42 The Dark Persona Behind the Name 36:43 Spicing Up Your Relationship Dynamics Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

  4. Sep 13

    Love, Friendship & Other Bad Decisions ft. Mandii B

    It’s Kiki’s birthday episode, and Mandii B is back on the couch — which means there was never a chance this conversation was going to stay on one topic. Kiki and Mandii catch up on friendship, getting older, cutting people off, dating across age groups, and what it means when the relationships you’ve had for years no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Mandii also gets candid about being solo poly, why marriage and kids aren’t part of her end goal, navigating jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, and why knowing exactly what you want makes dating a whole lot easier. Of course, things get messy along the way. They get into who can and cannot say the N-word, why some people are obsessed with leaving a “legacy” through children, the pressure women put on romantic relationships, AI helping the girlies text men, rich auntie expectations, and whether people actually like the people they’re dating. Then Ask Kiki brings the perfect dilemma for Mandii: a listener is considering opening her relationship… except her boyfriend already has a coworker picked out. Is that ethical non-monogamy or just cheating with extra paperwork? And because Mandii is Mandii, she closes things out with a CockTale from Jamaica involving a nude pool, a very forward woman, a sea urchin, and a trip to the nurse’s station that somehow only gets wilder from there. Pour something bubbly and get into it — because this one is equal parts friendship, sex, relationships, hot takes, and pure chaos. Every sip has a story. Follow me!  @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcast Contact Me! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Advertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com  Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039 Sponsors/Special Offers: DRIVE BOOST Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off or click the link in the episode description. BROOKLYN BEDDING Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide during the LABOR DAY SALE. Exclusive with my code! Interested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Form https://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

  5. Sep 4

    Don't Make Me Match Your Energy

    What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back? This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary and just being petty, why changed energy can tell you everything you need to know, and whether “matching energy” is actually empowering… or just letting somebody else dictate how you move. Then Sip & Spill takes a turn when a caller shares a situation involving an ex resurfacing and a baby, raising some very real questions about old relationships, unexpected circumstances, and what happens when the past comes knocking with a whole new set of complications. Plus: flaky friends, knowing who really shows up for you, and why sometimes the best response to weird energy is not matching it at all.Every sip has a story — and this one comes with boundaries. SPONSORS: VB HEALTH- SOAKING WET Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  INDACLOUD If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COKTALES #indacloudpod  Contact Me! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Sip & Spill: You can also leave a voicemail and spill whatever you want! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Chapters 00:00 The Energy Match Cocktail Recipe 01:22 Adventures at the Brown Butter Supper Club 05:25 The Dishwasher Disaster Update 09:59 Building Your Creative Collective 12:26 Is Your Relationship Actually Boring? 16:58 Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Review 35:27 Vaginal Health and Soaking Wet 38:08 Sip and Spill: Listener Advice Session Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

  6. Aug 28

    The RSVP | Who Shows Up,Who Flakes, And What It Really Means

    In this solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into what it really means to show up — for your friends, your relationships, and yourself. After a Sip & Spill caller admits she’s nervous about planning a party only to have people cancel, the conversation opens up into flakiness, dating etiquette, last-minute cancellations, and the difference between protecting your peace and simply being inconsiderate. Kiki also answers an Ask Kiki letter from a listener who feels like she’s wasting her twenties waiting for the next chapter of her life to finally begin, plus another very different dilemma involving a boyfriend, old sex videos, and one extremely questionable camera roll. From RSVP anxiety to mixed signals and learning how to enjoy your life before everything is perfectly figured out, this episode is about who shows up, who flakes, and what it really means. Follow me!  @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcast Contact Me! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Advertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com  Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039 Sponsors/Special Offers: IROHA August is Orgasm Month! Celebrate by upgrading your wellness routine with Iroha and check out my faves at https://tidd.ly/4wPnFa8 SOAKING WET Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  soakingwet.com Interested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Form https://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

    The RSVP | Who Shows Up,Who Flakes, And What It Really Means

  7. Aug 22

    PROSECCO, PLOT TWISTS & POOR DECISIONS ft. Dree Taylor

    Every sip has a story… and apparently one glass of Prosecco has about 20. Dree Taylor is back, and this week we're catching up on everything from the RHOA reunion and our latest reality TV opinions to moving drama, family updates, expensive weddings, questionable decisions and the very real possibility that Whitley almost sent somebody to the First 48. Then the stories start STORYING. We get into some absolutely unhinged listener submissions—including a workplace hookup with more parts than a Netflix limited series—and Dree and I add a few confessions of our own. Somewhere along the way we're talking broken beds, sex on vacation, old flames, bad decisions, and why some stories only get funnier once enough time has passed. Grab a drink and come sit with us. Because around here, every sip has a story—and this week, we have plenty. Follow My Girl! @_dreetaylor Follow Me! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com SIP & SPILL You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales or to just get something off your chest!!  404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide during the LABOR DAY SALE. Exclusive with my code! VB Health Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

    PROSECCO, PLOT TWISTS & POOR DECISIONS ft. Dree Taylor

  8. Aug 17

    Cheers To The Girls' Weekend! Reality Recaps & Revenge ft. Dree Taylor

    Dree Taylor is back, and apparently all we needed was a cocktail and a microphone to cover every possible topic known to womanhood. We start with a truly unhinged edition of Weird Sex featuring jewelry made out of semen (yes, you read that correctly), then head to Westeros to discuss dragons, questionable family trees and why Kiki still needs somebody willing to cut a head off on her behalf. From there, we get into the Housewives friendship fallout, men with multiple wives, childhood crimes involving acorn pies, and whether there should be a statute of limitations on airing your ex out online. Somehow, we also end up planning Kiki’s funeral—complete with a hologram, a snatched casket body, possible haunting privileges and a plan to turn her ashes into a diamond. Because obviously.  Then we get a little serious about friendship when a listener asks what to do when she realizes she may be the only thing keeping her friend group alive. Is it time for an honest conversation…or time to let that group chat die in peace?  Plus: moving woes, air-mattress celibacy, and a little Bali temptation for anybody who wants to join the girls’ trip.  Pour something strong. **Cheers to the girls’ weekend!** 🥂 Sponsors: VB Health Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Iroha Use [cocktales10] for 10% off your order! Don’t miss the chance to treat yourself! http://usstore.iroha.com/cocktales10 Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a message on the Nightcap Hotline to ask for advice, share a cocktale, or just get something off your chest! Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

    Cheers To The Girls' Weekend! Reality Recaps & Revenge ft. Dree Taylor
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Cocktales with Kiki is the place where cocktails meet candid conversation, hosted by Kiki Said So. What started with wild stories about sex, dating, and relationships has grown into something bigger: the kind of conversations you have over dinner with your girls, in the group chat at 2 a.m., or after somebody says, “Okay, but can I tell y’all what REALLY happened?” From love, friendship, and questionable decisions to pop culture, travel, internet rabbit holes, and whatever has Kiki curious this week, nothing is too random to make it to the table. Some weeks Kiki is riding solo, other weeks friends and guests pull up to add their own Cocktales to the mix. Expect laughs, unfiltered opinions, unsolicited advice, a little mess, a lot of curiosity, and of course, a cocktail or two.  Because life gives us plenty to talk about, and around here, every sip has a story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.

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  • Creator
    Kiki Said So
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    502
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Cocktales With Kiki
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    Cocktales with Kiki

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