The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Carol and David

Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure. For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know" This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship. Experience Meets Expertise Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in: Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame. Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality. Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership. The Foundation: Honest Communication In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond. What's on the Menu? The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh. Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations. Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community. The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone. Why Listen? Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it! Listen. Learn. Live Sexy. "A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David

  1. FEB 13

    THE SURE THING TO REVIVE YOUR SEX LIFE WITH ELANA AUERBACH

    Are you struggling to break free from shame, conditioning, and the pressure to "perform" intimacy. Join us with Elana Auerbach, Author of The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark, as she explains her pleasure practice as a clear, fun, and accessible weekly ritual to help couples reconnect with desire and each other. GUEST: Elana Auerbach BIO: Elana Auerbach is a lover, mother, mentor, activist, and priestess. She spent her childhood and young adulthood on what she calls "the conveyor belt of life," being the good girl and doing what others expected of her. This looked like graduating Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, working on Wall Street for a Japanese investment bank, and marrying someone with whom she felt no chemistry. It all fell apart in 2001 when Elana realized she'd been living a lie and found the courage to leave her marriage. She entered a world of sensuality and sex in a San Francisco pleasure-centered community. This is where she met Bill, who would become her loverman for life. In 2005, Elana founded "Sensuelle: A Woman's Journey into Sensuality," a program supporting women to fall in love with themselves, connect with their authentic voice, and ignite their passion. Then, in 2011, a few years after becoming an ordained priestess with the Sanctuary of the 13 Moon Mystery School, Elana was certified to teach their year-long immersion into the feminine mysteries, where she taught for over a decade. While Elana has a wealth of professional experience guiding people deeper into their bodies and their pleasure, The Sure Thing comes directly from her personal life. After years of frustration and failed gimmicks to try to respark her and Bill's sex life, Elana created The Sure Thing. She wrote this book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elana.auerbach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61582800200475 Website: https://surethingexperiment.com/ BOOK: The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark by Elana Auerbach The Sure Thing reignites the sizzle that once was. Are you frustrated with your sex life? Hungry for reliable sensual satisfaction? Ready to fall more in love—especially with yourself? The Sure Thing is your invitation to bring joy, intimacy, and passion back into your relationship. Drawing from a weekly practice that transformed her own relationship, Elana Auerbach offers a clear, accessible, and fun approach to reconnecting with your desire—and with each other. You'll learn how to release shame, understand what you really want, create a ritual of pleasure, and meet resistance with play instead of pressure. This book makes it easy to revive the spark and keep it alive. If you're ready for more connection, more pleasure, and more fulfillment, this book will show you the way. Elana Auerbach has spent years guiding people into their sensual aliveness. But this book is personal. For twelve years, she and her spouse struggled over sex. They tried pretty much everything—sexpert advice, toys, techniques—but nothing changed until Elana created The Sure Thing. Inside, you'll discover: How to break free from shame, conditioning, and the pressure to "perform" intimacy Why most couples drift apart—and how to reverse that through intention and play How to navigate resistance and rekindle curiosity A step-by-step guide to crafting your own fulfilling Sure Thing practice Why a weekly ritual can transform not just your sex life, but your entire relationship with pleasure

    54 min
  2. FEB 6

    HEDONISM II CARES WITH FIONA AND DIANA

    Today, our show is going to be a little different. We'll be focusing on the devastating effects of Hurricane Melissa, the Category 5 storm that hit Jamaica in October 2025.   Join us from location at Hedonism 2 Resort, Negil Breach, Jamaica as we chat with Fiona and Diana, 2 Hedo employees, to understand how the severe and immediate impact of the hurricane was felt heavily by the staff community, many of whom reside in the hardest hit areas, and how Hedo helped, and continues to help, in the recovery effort. Hedocares.org Hurricain Melissa Hurricane Melissa made landfall as a devastating Category 5 storm, packing sustained winds of over 160 mph and unleashing over 20 inches of torrential rain across the region. While the resort itself sustained damage, the most severe and immediate impact was felt by the staff community, many of whom reside in the surrounding areas of Westmorland. The storm's scale was immediately apparent, leaving countless homes severely damaged or destroyed, which rapidly escalated into a humanitarian crisis requiring an urgent, coordinated staff relief effort. About the Hedonism II Foundation Through our dedicated efforts in education, community development and youth empowerment, we're making a tangible impact in Hanover and Westmoreland, Jamaica.      Our History                                         DONATE The Hedonism II Foundation began its journey in September 2017, driven by the heartfelt commitment of Hedonism II Resort to give back to the Negril community. Guided by a clear purpose, we've since touched the lives of hundreds of underprivileged children and families, transforming challenges into triumphs. Our earliest initiatives focused on bridging educational gaps by providing essential resources such as textbooks, backpacks, laptops, and tablets – empowering children to excel academically. We soon expanded our scope, renovating schools, upgrading community centers and breathing new life into neglected spaces, creating vibrant environments where children and youths can thrive. We also understand that building community spirit goes beyond education alone. With heartfelt activities such as our annual Holly Jolly Christmas events, Breakfast Clubs, Back-to-School Treat, and Disaster Relief programs, we've consistently offered care and support where it matters most. Each project we've undertaken is not just a task completed but a story of renewed hope, resilience and lasting change. From humble beginnings to now serving as a beacon of community inspiration, the Hedonism II Foundation remains dedicated to nurturing brighter futures and stronger communities – one child, one family, and one dream at a time. Our Mission Our mission is clear and unwavering: to uplift and empower underprivileged children and youths across the parishes of Hanover and Westmoreland, Jamaica. We believe passionately in the transformative power of education, community engagement, and compassionate support to change lives, and we are dedicated to making these opportunities accessible for all. Through our Pillars of Hope – Education Initiatives, Scholarship Assistance, Community Development, Youth Development, Family Support, Health Care Assistance, Sports Development, and Environmental Sustainability – we strategically deliver targeted programs that break the cycle of poverty. Whether it's providing critical medical aid, scholarships to ambitious students, or safe spaces to learn and grow, every initiative is thoughtfully designed to inspire confidence, ignite ambition, and open doors to brighter futures. We do more than just provide resources; we foster dreams, strengthen community bonds, and equip young leaders with the tools and confidence they need to succeed. Our goal is to ensure that every child who benefits from our work feels supported, encouraged, and deeply valued. Together with our dedicated volunteers, generous supporters, and community partners, we are not only changing lives today – we are building the foundation for stronger, more hopeful generations tomorrow. Our Donors & Partners                       DONATE We extend heartfelt gratitude to our generous donors, corporate partners, and community supporters who continuously help bring the mission of the Hedonism II Foundation to life. Your invaluable contributions fuel our initiatives, transforming lives, uplifting communities, and empowering our youth to build a brighter future. Each partnership strengthens our ability to create lasting impact, and together, we're making hope and opportunity accessible to those who need it most.

    42 min
  3. JAN 30

    TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY BUCKET-LIST TRIPS AND THE INFAMOUS ANAL SEX STORY

    Have you been contemplating taking an exotic, erotic vacation? Perhaps you have some "bucket-list" destinations and adventures that you want to explore with compatible, open-minded people. Join us on board The Bliss Cruise, as we chat with seasoned travelers and one of the Topless Travel Host Couples, Alice and Jeff, as we get personal sharing their experiences, about pushing their sexual boundaries with sexy, open-minded, people where they get to re-connect and create lots of friendships and memories together. Their sexy stories are hot and sensual… just what you need to get tempted to book your very own sexy vacation. When you choose Topless Travel, you're choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw, vibrant energy. You're choosing to explore hidden gems in wonderful locations, to lose yourself in the excitement of life, and to indulge in delights that are as diverse as they are erotic.  Indulge in Exclusive Perks From the moment you embark on your journey with us, you'll be treated to express check-in, welcoming you to the start of a fantastic adventure. Dive into our welcoming cocktail receptions, where you'll get a taste of the thrill that's in store. In your welcome bag, you'll discover a treasure trove of goodies, from personalized name necklaces to unique keepsakes. Join Us for Fun and Games With Topless Travel, there's never a dull moment. Expect special pool games that will get your heart racing, and happy hours that will have you raising your glasses and toasting to the good life. Want more? How about daily prizes, giveaways, and raffles that add an extra sprinkle of excitement to your vacation? Travel with Your Tribe Traveling with Topless Travel offers you more than a getaway; it's a golden ticket to a vibrant community of like-minded pleasure-seekers. Revel in the joy of meeting new friends and dive into captivating conversations by the poolside, dance the night away with newfound companions, or share a sunset with fellow travelers who share your lust for adventure. With Topless Travel, every journey is a celebration of life, love, and the connections we make along the way. Explore Beyond the Ordinary Craving for more adventure? We've got you covered. With access to a wide range of excursions, you have the opportunity to experience the local culture, sights, and sounds of our incredible destinations. Experience Exceptional Service Throughout your journey, our on-site Topless Travel agents will be at your service, ensuring your experience is as seamless as it is exciting. We're here to make your adventure as enjoyable and carefree as possible. So, are you ready to take the plunge into a world of adventure, fun, and sensual excitement? Start your Topless Travel journey today! toplesstravel.com

    1 hr
  4. JAN 23

    TOPLESS TRAVEL - BLISS CRUISE 10TH ANNIVERSARY STORIES WITH GEEGEE

    Do you ever wonder why The Bliss Cruise is so popular amongst hard-core swings and curious newbies alike? Why people book Bliss Cruise year after year and why they sell out a full year in advance? With more ships on their schedule, it's a growing segment of lifestyle travel. Join us live from The Bliss Cruise chatting with rgw one and only GeeGee, who has been with Topless Travel as a hostess on The Bliss Cruise for the past 10 years, and find out what makes it so special. When you choose Topless Travel, you're choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw, vibrant energy. You're choosing to explore hidden gems in wonderful locations, to lose yourself in the excitement of life, and to indulge in delights that are as diverse as they are erotic.  Indulge in Exclusive Perks From the moment you embark on your journey with us, you'll be treated to express check-in, welcoming you to the start of a fantastic adventure. Dive into our welcoming cocktail receptions, where you'll get a taste of the thrill that's in store. In your welcome bag, you'll discover a treasure trove of goodies, from personalized name necklaces to unique keepsakes. Join Us for Fun and Games With Topless Travel, there's never a dull moment. Expect special pool games that will get your heart racing, and happy hours that will have you raising your glasses and toasting to the good life. Want more? How about daily prizes, giveaways, and raffles that add an extra sprinkle of excitement to your vacation? Travel with Your Tribe Traveling with Topless Travel offers you more than a getaway; it's a golden ticket to a vibrant community of like-minded pleasure-seekers. Revel in the joy of meeting new friends and dive into captivating conversations by the poolside, dance the night away with newfound companions, or share a sunset with fellow travelers who share your lust for adventure. With Topless Travel, every journey is a celebration of life, love, and the connections we make along the way. Explore Beyond the Ordinary Craving for more adventure? We've got you covered. With access to a wide range of excursions, you have the opportunity to experience the local culture, sights, and sounds of our incredible destinations. Experience Exceptional Service Throughout your journey, our on-site Topless Travel agents will be at your service, ensuring your experience is as seamless as it is exciting. We're here to make your adventure as enjoyable and carefree as possible. So, are you ready to take the plunge into a world of adventure, fun, and sensual excitement? Start your Topless Travel journey today! toplesstravel.com

    46 min
  5. JAN 16

    MEN, SEX AND DESIRE WITH DR SARAH HUNTER MURRAY

    Are you looking to find out more about men's sexual desire? Perhaps you are wondering if all men are supposed to have a high sex drive, crave sex and enjoy sex more than women? Why is no one is talking about men's emotional vulnerability with respect to sexual desire? Join us with Sex Researcher and Relationship Therapist, Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, Author of the book, Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships, as we bust a number of myths surrounding men and their desire and dive deep into how great sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions. GUEST: Dr Sarah Hunter Murray BIO: I'm a believer that better sex is possible. Longer-term relationships and marriages get a bad rap for being monotonous and routine. But when relationships are healthy, loving, safe, and supportive, they also offer opportunities to explore and embrace our sexuality fully and authentically. How do I know? I've spent nearly two decades learning everything I can about intimacy and how people connect. I'm a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist (RMFT), and obtained my PhD in Human Sexuality. I've researched what turns us on, when we want sex (and when and why we don't), the biggest misconceptions we have about men and women's sexuality, and what the rest of us can learn from the most sexually satisfied couples. Along the way I've written a book, become a regularly sought-after sex expert for numerous media outlets, and authored dozens of articles for Psychology Today on topics like: Low Sexual Desire/Libido Mismatched Sexual Desires Sexual Incompatibility Sexual Arousal and Orgasmic Difficulties Erectile Dysfunction Premature Ejaculation Affairs Pornography Sexual Abuse Sexual Trauma BOOK: Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships Men's sexual desire has long been depicted as high, simple, and unwavering. But the new research around men's desire tells us this is far from true; and that good sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions. In Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships sex researcher and relationship therapist Sarah Hunter Murray presents a lively, timely, and critical exploration of the newest, most surprising science on men and sex, shattering myths about men's sexuality and helping today's couples connect more deeply and authentically than ever before. One-by-one, Murray examines the most detrimental, deep-held beliefs we as a society promote around men and their desire, and dive into how they affect our intimate relationships daily – and what to do about it. Do men actually crave and enjoy sex more than women? Do men "do the wanting" and prefer the chase? Where do they stand on sexual rejection? What's the deal with porn? Answering these questions and more, this is a book for modern women and men alike. Moving beyond typical "here's what he likes" sexual tips, the book empowers readers and offers a completely new perspective on sexuality that will validate men's experiences and help their partners to a greater understanding of the psychology and emotions surrounding them.

    55 min
3.8
out of 5
110 Ratings

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Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure. For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know" This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship. Experience Meets Expertise Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in: Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame. Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality. Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership. The Foundation: Honest Communication In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond. What's on the Menu? The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh. Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations. Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community. The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone. Why Listen? Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it! Listen. Learn. Live Sexy. "A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David

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