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Decisions, Decisions

The Black Effect Network
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

  1. 1H AGO

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 64 | Dirty Rats, Dr. God & Drake Bars

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee and journalist Jayson Rodriguez unpack a wide range of conversations spanning mental health, celebrity culture, media elitism, luxury branding, public health concerns, comedy, and hip-hop commentary, delivering a layered discussion that balances humor with social critique. The episode opens with a sharp media-focused monologue addressing current controversies and online discourse [ 00:53 ], before transitioning into honest conversations surrounding mental health, emotional wellness, and the importance of self-awareness in today’s climate [ 07:45 ]. The crew then dives into the ongoing controversy surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s credentials and professional representation [ 17:00 ], using the discussion as a broader lens to examine authenticity, expertise, and accountability among public figures. This naturally expands into deeper cultural commentary on elitism in media spaces and how perceived authority shapes public opinion [ 34:05 ]. The conversation evolves into entertainment and consumer culture, beginning with an analysis of celebrity collaborations and their impact on luxury brands and marketing culture [ 34:34 ], followed by reflections on the evolution of youth culture, materialism, and the growing obsession with status and visibility [ 42:07 ]. The hosts also touch on current public health concerns, including discussions around hantavirus and Ebola outbreaks [ 51:41 ], highlighting how fear, misinformation, and media narratives shape public reaction to health crises. From there, the episode pivots into comedy and entertainment with a breakdown of Kevin Hart’s recent roast, exploring the changing boundaries of humor, controversy, and sensitivity in modern culture [ 01:02:41 ]. The latter half of the episode centers heavily on Drake’s recent musical output and evolving legacy in hip-hop [01:03:10 ], as the hosts examine audience expectations, artistic growth, and the pressure of maintaining relevance at the top of the industry. They discuss Drake’s musical journey and the shifting relationship between artist and audience [01:09:01 ], while also unpacking the complex dynamics of friendship, loyalty, and competition within the music industry [ 01:12:46 ]. The conversation continues with critiques of Drake’s lyrics, themes, and recent projects [01:15:56 ][ 01:21:58 ], ultimately reflecting on his broader impact on hip-hop culture, commercial success, and the future direction of mainstream rap [ 01:29:03 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 43m
  2. EP 473: Score (feat. Kennedy Ryan & Sam)

    1D AGO

    EP 473: Score (feat. Kennedy Ryan & Sam)

    This episode of Decisions, Decisions features Kennedy Ryan, the New York Times and USA Today bestselling romance author, as she joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about the rise of her career, the real-life love story behind her books, and the passion that drives her writing. Kennedy opens up about meeting her husband Sam, balancing marriage with her success, and how his support helped her navigate life on the road and the growing demand for her work. The episode dives into the world of romance novels, the misconceptions around “smut,” memorable scenes from her books that even left Sam reacting in real time, and the moments that made her realize just how massive her audience had become. They also discuss the business side of publishing, bidding wars, commitment to the craft, adding sexuality and vulnerability into storytelling, second-chance romances, and the inspiration behind some of her most talked-about storylines, before closing out with a wild “Reactionary” segment that pushes the conversation even further. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 19m
  3. One Night Only Live Show NYC 6/9

    2D AGO ·  BONUS

    One Night Only Live Show NYC 6/9

    WHOREIBLE DECISIONS IS BACK OUTSIDE For ONE NIGHT ONLY — join us June 9th at Sony Hall with your favorite podcast duo, Mandii B & WeezyWTF We’re celebrating the 1 year birthday of our baby, No Holes Barred and bringing the brand behind it all BACK to the stage for a night you absolutely do NOT want to miss.Expect: Special guests Live performances Laughs Kinks And the kind of chaos only WHOREible Decisions can deliver TICKETS AVAILABLE NOW!! See y’all at Sony Hall NYC Get Your Tickets See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2 min
  4. You've Got Decisions: I Think I've Slept with My Boyfriend's Parents...HELP!

    6D AGO ·  BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: I Think I've Slept with My Boyfriend's Parents...HELP!

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    19 min

  5. MAY 12

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 63 | Receipts, Revisionist History & Really Peter

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered conversation blending celebrity gossip, politics, podcast history, consent culture, and hip-hop commentary into one of the show’s most reflective discussions yet. The episode opens with an unfiltered monologue tackling controversial opinions, celebrity headlines, and social discourse [ 01:23 ], before shifting into conversations surrounding recent political developments and concerns over voting rights [ 03:20 ]. The hosts then reflect on the role of media and the evolution of podcasting culture [ 04:39 ], leading into a passionate response to Ebro, Peter Rosenberg, and broader media narratives shaping public perception [ 15:03 ]. The conversation deepens with a heartfelt discussion about respecting the legacy of podcast pioneers [ 42:53 ], particularly highlighting the cultural impact and contributions of Combat Jack [ 49:24 ]. The crew unpacks the realities of navigating today’s podcast ecosystem [ 45:10 ], emphasizing the difference between authentic contribution and performative self-promotion within media spaces [ 52:31 ]. From there, the episode pivots into a nuanced dialogue around consent, power dynamics, and societal perceptions of victimhood [ 54:39 ][ 01:01:28 ], exploring how gender, influence, and cultural expectations complicate conversations about accountability. The hosts also discuss the complexities of gender dynamics in relationships [ 01:10:51 ], stressing the importance of honest conversations around consent, manipulation, and responsibility regardless of gender. Closing out the episode, the discussion turns toward Drake’s recent musical output and the evolving conversation around his legacy in hip-hop [ 01:24:09 ]. The hosts debate the reception of his recent projects while building anticipation for his upcoming album “Iceman” [ 01:31:43 ], exploring how his artistry has evolved over time and what his music represents culturally [ 01:39:22 ]. The episode concludes with broader reflections on masculinity, vulnerability, and the shifting identity of hip-hop culture [ 01:46:55 ], ending on thoughtful commentary about legacy, influence, and the future direction of both media and music [ 01:52:32 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2h 5m

  6. MAY 11

    EP 472: My man can’t BOND with other women

    This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and WeezyWTF kick things off with gym gains, creatine talk, beauty standards, and why bald women get more love than people admit before getting into a wild night at K Camp’s listening session where the world felt way too small.Later, the duo dives into the headlines surrounding Brandy’s memoir and her relationship with Wanya Morris, reacts to comments from Nikki Glaser, and debates emotional cheating, casual sex, and whether men actually develop feelings after sleeping with someone multiple times. They also unpack financial flexing in relationships, sending money, buying homes for partners, and wrap with another hilarious dose of pure heauxtry. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 5m
  7. You've Got Decisions: ENM Update + WLW Does This Count as Cheating?

    MAY 7 ·  BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: ENM Update + WLW Does This Count as Cheating?

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    23 min

  8. MAY 5

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 62 | Breakups, Bending & Broke America feat. Jamila Bell

    n this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and special guest Jamila Bell as they blend NBA playoff predictions, celebrity relationships, and cultural commentary into a layered and entertaining conversation that moves from sports to global culture to real-life relationship patterns. The episode kicks off with Mandi's excursion to Ghana and expands to a deeper conversation around carnival culture in Ghana, colorism, and the gap between expectation and reality when traveling abroad [ 02:13] [ 14:26 ]. The crew continues with honest reflections on travel preferences and cultural experiences [ 20:55 ], then pivots into a sharp take on Cinco de Mayo and cultural appropriation [ 31:01 ], followed by more NBA playoff breakdowns and second-round analysis [ 32:22 ]. From there, the discussion expands into legacy conversations around Ja Morant and Karl Malone [ 40:56 ], before diving into the headline relationship between Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson, unpacking cheating, accountability, and dating dynamics in the public eye [ 44:10 ][ 46:58 ]. As the episode progresses, the hosts explore patterns in modern relationships, the illusion of change, and the impact of social media on personal decision-making [ 51:00 ][ 55:05 ], while also addressing how people repeatedly choose the same type of partners and navigate non-monogamy, loyalty, and public scrutiny [ 01:00:59 ][ 01:05:11 ]. The conversation then broadens into accountability for public figures during personal scandals [ 01:09:59 ] and the recurring patterns seen in celebrity dating culture [ 01:22:10 ], before taking a more serious turn into discussions about abuse, exploitation, and the darker side of fame [ 01:29:09 ]. Closing out, the crew zooms out to examine capitalism, class disparities, and the illusion of the American Dream [ 01:41:09 ][ 01:52:03 ], delivering a conversation that’s equal parts humorous, reflective, and socially aware—tying together sports, culture, and real-life relationship lessons in a way that feels both current and necessary. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama @_iamjamila Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2h 3m
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  • Channel
    The Black Effect Network
  • Creator
    The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    605
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    Decisions, Decisions
  • Provider
    iHeartMedia + Entertainment, Inc

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