Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  1. 2d ago

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 82 | Rollin', Robots & Raggedy Robert feat. Akeem Ali

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [ 12:26 ]. They defend personal boundaries while discussing Cardi B swiping away a fan who touched her [ 22:11 ], meet-and-greet horror stories [ 26:28 ], fan entitlement and parasocial behavior [ 27:20 ], and even photo etiquette at clothing-optional resorts [ 30:39 ]. In “This Is America,” they react to Converse apologizing for a Chuck 70 X campaign image featuring K-pop star Karina that critics said evoked racist imagery [ 31:43 ], as Akeem questions whether outrage can become a marketing strategy [ 33:04 ]. The conversation expands to the effectiveness of boycotts [ 39:00 ] and why culturally aware creatives and diverse decision-makers need to be “in the room” before campaigns go public [ 42:02 ]. Technology takes over as the crew reacts to warnings about increasingly autonomous AI agents [ 45:03 ], imagining their impact on dating and everyday life [ 47:23 ], deepfakes and robotics [ 52:44 ], futuristic nanotechnology [ 55:59 ], and fears surrounding Neuralink and brain-computer interfaces [ 56:30 ]. A run of classic Selective Ignorance tangents covers drugs and productivity [ 57:43 ], psychedelics and the brain [ 59:36 ], pineal-gland and wisdom-teeth theories [01:02:50 ], Chick-fil-A conspiracies [ 01:04:52 ], human-meat rumors [ 01:08:46 ], and America compared with other countries [ 01:13:44 ]. The final stretch examines Chris Brown criticizing Texas Rep. Venton Jones after Jones apologized for participating in an official recognition of Brown [ 01:18:24 ], moving through responsibility [ 01:21:35], repeated second chances [ 01:22:20 ], accountability versus advocacy [ 01:23:56 ], public grace for Black men [01:25:26 ], and Brown’s past controversies [ 01:26:40 ]. They close by unpacking Macklemore’s removal from Ed Sheeran’s U.S. tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks [ 01:30:54 ], debating politics on concert stages [ 01:33:55], intent versus impact [ 01:35:38 ], Robert Kraft’s involvement and humanitarian donations [ 01:37:28 ], and fears surrounding political speech and accusations [ 01:42:11 ], before wrapping with Akeem Ali’s tour plug [ 01:48:27 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. 3d ago

    EP 491: Stud Standards feat. Carter the Body

    Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why masculinity doesn’t erase her womanhood, and challenges the idea that bad men make women gay. Plus, the trio debates a lesbian Mount Rushmore, bisexual dating stereotypes, representation in Hollywood, and whether being romantic makes you a “soft stud.” “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    EP 491: Stud Standards feat. Carter the Body

  3. Sep 16 ·  Bonus

    You've Got Decisions: Am I Settling or Just Chasing Lust?

    On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability.  Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    You've Got Decisions: Am I Settling or Just Chasing Lust?

  4. Sep 14

    EP 490: Flowers Don’t Fix Cheaters ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson

    Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking accountability, friends getting too involved, and why flowers after cheating don’t equal changed behavior. Plus, they discuss non-monogamy, forgiveness, femininity, and finding love without losing yourself. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    EP 490: Flowers Don’t Fix Cheaters ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson

  5. Sep 9 ·  Bonus

    You've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    You've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin

  6. Sep 8

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 80 | Power Of The Tongue

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ], the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ], questioning whether deregulation and Project 2025 could contribute to broader disruption [ 08:00 ]. After jokes about honorary degrees [ 11:32 ], they discuss Fivio Foreign’s baptism and church hypocrisy [ 13:56 ], before Mandii recounts a tense debate about Christianity, astrology, witchcraft, science, and credible sources [ 17:13 ]. The conversation turns to manifestation and the “power of the tongue” [ 27:09 ], goals outside podcasting [ 28:47 ], and whether speaking things into existence influences outcomes [ 29:39 ]. They reflect on career and relationship momentum [ 31:49 ], life-changing decisions [ 33:18 ], Mandii’s move to Atlanta and new network [ 35:59 ], seeing past goals become reality [ 38:45 ], and respect within podcasting [ 42:18 ]. The main debate examines surveillance versus safety, beginning with abortion tracking and reproductive-health surveillance [ 45:29 ] before expanding to Ring cameras and community monitoring [ 52:20 ], Meta smart glasses [55:36 ], and wearable cameras becoming increasingly normalized [ 56:46 ]. The crew weighs intent versus what gets recorded [ 58:01 ], the potential for misuse [ 59:51 ], and whether public surveillance protects people or creates new privacy risks [ 01:02:25 ]. They debate cameras as crime deterrents [ 01:03:18 ] versus fears of Big Brother and government overreach [ 01:04:41 ], including the politics surrounding Flock license-plate cameras [ 01:06:37 ]. Finally, they confront the contradiction of fearing surveillance while carrying smartphones and installing connected cameras [ 01:17:21 ], question the “nothing to hide” argument [ 01:20:15 ], and close on how much privacy Americans should sacrifice for security [ 01:22:51 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. Sep 7

    EP 489: Men Want Me, Baby and All feat. Jamilah Lemieux

    Mandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood, dating, co-parenting and blended families. Jamilah recalls discovering that her ex was engaged shortly after she gave birth, developing a healthy relationship with her daughter’s stepmother and why every woman who wants children should be prepared for the possibility of becoming a single mother. They also debate inconsistent fathers, discipline, introducing new partners to children and whether someone can be a bad partner but a good parent. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    EP 489: Men Want Me, Baby and All feat. Jamilah Lemieux

  8. Sep 2 ·  Bonus

    You've Got Decisions: Update: A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    You've Got Decisions: Update: A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  • Channel
    The Black Effect Network
  • Creator
    The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    653
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    Decisions, Decisions
  • Provider
    iHeartMedia + Entertainment, Inc

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