Damn We Grown

Mike + Tiff
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Looking for an authentic Black marriage podcast that's 100 percent authentic? Damn... We Grown! features married duo Mike and Tiff—two creatives who crashed into their 40s and lived to tell the tale. This podcast explores the intersection of creative life, millennial parenting, and relationship growth. Whether they’re discussing the "grown man game," family dynamics, or the hilarity of mid-life, Mike and Tiff deliver candid conversations and infectious laughter. If you’re a fan of relatable stories and authentic adulting, hit play and join the family.

  1. MAR 25

    The Great Prenup Debate, Pre-Alimony, & The Youth Sports Racket

    Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday! This week, Tiff and Mike are bringing the heat, the laughs, and all the unfiltered reality you need to get through the week. Grab your water (because Tiff forgot hers) and settle in for a vibe. We’re kicking things off by exposing the absolute financial robbery that is youth club sports. From club fees to paying for parking and entry tickets just to watch your own kid play volleyball—when did school sports start charging like the Super Bowl? We also take a quick detour to give a massive shoutout to Babyface’s legendary Tiny Desk concert, because real R&B is forever. Then, we dive right into the meat and potatoes of the episode: The Great Prenup Debate. We react to a viral social media post claiming that asking for a prenup is an immediate dealbreaker and means the marriage should be called off. But let’s keep it a buck—do regular, everyday people need a prenup, or is that just billionaire behavior? Plus, we’re unpacking the wild concept of "pre-alimony," what happens when you inherit money, and why everyone might need to keep a little "bag lady" escape fund just in case things go left. Whether you're single, hitched, or just here for the comedy, this episode is packed with the relationship realities they definitely don't teach you in school. What We Get Into This Episode: The ridiculous, hidden costs of youth sports and weekend tournaments. Tiny Desk vibes and the unmatched penmanship of Babyface. Is asking for a prenup a red flag or just smart financial planning? The hilarious truth about dividing assets when you aren't rich. Unpacking "pre-alimony" and protecting your peace (and your pockets) before saying "I do." Join the Conversation & Follow Us:Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode! Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DamnWeGrown Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: Search "Damn We Grown" Follow us on IG & TikTok: @damnwegrown

    48 min

  2. MAR 18

    AI Pranks, The Lost Art of Conversation, & Chasing Dreams Later in Life

    Welcome back for another Damn We Grown Wednesday! This week, Mike and Tiff are keeping it all the way real about the pure exhaustion of adulting, from Maddi dragging a tired Tiff to the beach to trying to solve a Dinner Detective murder mystery with Ari and the crew. We are also sending some major birthday shoutouts to Rod, Jody, Sean, and a heavenly birthday to Ma Pearl. Here is what we are getting into this episode: Episode Highlights: Surviving the Weekend & Murder Mysteries: Tiff is running on fumes after being dragged to the beach by Maddi, proving that a mother's rest always takes a backseat to kids' activities. Plus, we recap a hilariously awkward Dinner Detective outing with Ari and Rod where we confidently—and incorrectly—accused an innocent pregnant woman of the crime. The Lost Art of Face-to-Face Conversation: Are we raising a generation that is terrified to talk?. We hilariously break down how the Web2 era and social media have killed real-life communication skills. Remember the days of The Clapper and actually calling someone on a telephone?. The Ultimate AI Music Prank: Tapping into his producer ear, Mike plays a soulful, 80s-style funk track that has Tiff grooving—until he reveals the whole thing was generated by AI. Her reaction is pure comedy, sparking a deep dive into AI technology, copyright laws, and the future of creative artistry. The Meat & Potatoes – Chasing Dreams Later in Life: Is it too late to go back to school or pivot your career when you are in your 30s or 40s?. We tackle the heavy hurdles like existing student loans, the fear of failure, and the financial responsibilities of adulting. It is time to transition from being a "thinker" to a "doer" because the time is going to pass anyway! Keep choosing joy!

    45 min

  3. MAR 11

    Time Travel Revenge, Gray Hairs & The Ultimate Soulmate Test | Damn We Grown

    Welcome back to the house, y’all! This week on Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff are bringing that real talk from the couch as we navigate the absolute scam that is "adulting." We kick things off with a little reflection on getting older (shoutout to Mike's incoming gray beard hairs) and play a dangerous game of "What If?" If you could go back to your 12-year-old self with all the knowledge you have now, would you do it? Tiff is avoiding the awkward puberty phase at all costs, while Mike is ready to time-travel back to 7th grade just to invest in Apple, buy Bitcoin, and punch a few bullies in the neck. Then, we dive deep into the meat of the episode: the sci-fi anthology series Soulmates. Imagine there’s a scientific test that can match you with your 100% perfect, guaranteed soulmate. The catch? You might already be married to someone else. We get into a soulful, hilarious, and brutally honest debate about whether we would take the test. When you hit a rough patch in your marriage, is the grass actually greener, or is it just a trap? We talk about the realities of choosing your partner every day, dating outside your "type," and why true love is deeper than a scientific algorithm. In this episode we get into: The Adulthood Trap: Why we all couldn't wait to turn 18, and why we want our refunds now. Time Travel Priorities: Avoiding awkward phases vs. getting rich and petty revenge. Pop Culture Catch-Up: A quick dive into the Scream franchise drama and wild government conspiracies. The Soulmate Dilemma: Would you risk your current relationship to find out if there's someone statistically "better" out there for you? Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk about it. As always, keep choosing joy! 💬 We want to hear from you!If you were married and hitting a rough patch, would you take the soulmate test? Let us know in the comments below! Follow the journey:Instagram/TikTok/Twitter: @DamnWeGrown Watch the full video on YouTube and listen everywhere you get your podcasts!

    59 min

  4. MAR 5

    Digital Side Chicks, Glitchy Therapists, & The AI Takeover 🤖💔

    Welcome back to another episode of Damn We Grown! This week, Mike and Tiff are pouring up the truth and breaking down the wild, double-edged sword of modern technology. Because let's be real: the internet was supposed to make our lives easier, but right now, it’s mostly just testing our patience and our marriages. The Telehealth Meltdown: Tiff spills the tea on her blood-pressure-raising battle with a therapy app. Nothing says "mental wellness" quite like spazzing out over a glitchy login screen when you're racing against a 15-minute grace period. Rise of the Machines: The robots are officially coming for everybody's gig. Mike and Tiff talk about AI stepping into the workplace, the government drama surrounding it, and why nobody is safe from the algorithm. Digital Infidelity: Can you actually cheat with a robot? We're diving deep into the wild world of AI companions, secret burner accounts, and the messy etiquette of double-tapping swimsuit pics on the timeline. The "Work Spouse" Trap: We are laying down the law on the whole "work husband" and "work wife" foolishness. Where exactly do you draw the line before sharing a spreadsheet turns into crossing a serious boundary? "If you're not being open with your spouse, that's considered cheating. There can be physical cheating, there can be emotional cheating... and of course with AI, it's going to be more of the emotional." — Tiff

    54 min

  5. FEB 26

    It’s The Questions

    Let’s be real—after years of marriage, most of our "deep" conversations revolve around whose turn it is to take out the trash or why the Wi-Fi is trippin'. But this week on Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff are putting down the logistics and picking up a deck of cards that’s designed to get personal. Very. Personal. We’re diving into a romantic card game that forces you to ask the questions you usually only think about at 2:00 AM. We’re talking about the stuff that makes you go, "Wait, you actually think that?" or "Oh, so we're doing this today?" In this episode, we’re breaking down: Card-Induced Trauma: Why asking "What’s one thing I do that drives you crazy?" is a trap, and how Mike managed to survive the answer. The "I Thought I Knew You" Moment: Realizing that after all these years, there are still some secrets Tiff hasn't spilled. Romance vs. Reality: Trying to be "Deep and Soulful" while remembering we still have to figure out dinner and deal with the kids. It’s hilarious, it’s slightly high-stakes, Damn...We Grown.

    55 min
  6. Romance to Roommates (and How to Snap Out of It)

    FEB 19

    Romance to Roommates (and How to Snap Out of It)

    The "Damn We Grown" Wednesday is back, and so is the chaos! Mike and Tiff are back in the studio, proving that even after nearly two decades together, they’re still figuring out how to not accidentally become "just roommates." In this episode, our favorite "two creatives" dive into the post-honeymoon reality check. They reminisce about being "broke-broke" newlyweds—you know, the kind of broke where Top Ramen feels like a five-star date night because you're still in that "blissful" fog. Mom Duty vs. "Hell-Raiser": Tiff vents about the "bananas" reality of parenting a pre-teen who is starting to look and act a little too much like her mother. The "Finger" Talk: Mike gets real about his first colonoscopy. It’s all fun and games until the doctor says, "Take a deep breath," and you wake up wondering if you’re still a whole man. The Great Bed Upgrade: The couple reflects on moving from a "Queen world" to a "King-size" bed—where the space is so vast they actually have to use pillows to find each other. Contaminated Counters?: Tiff explains why anything wet on the kitchen counter is automatically treated as "poison" or "booty juice" until proven otherwise. The "Intimate" Schedule: Why scheduled date nights and "appointments" for sex aren't just for old people—they're for grown folks who actually want to keep the spark alive. Key Vibe: "I remember in college, I would buy them cheap sheets... and they would feel like sandpaper. What were we thinking back then?" Choose joy, choose sleep, and for the love of everything, don't leave water on Tiff's counter.

    32 min

  7. FEB 11

    We Backkkkkkkk

    It’s been a minute—nearly two years, to be exact—but Mike and Tiff are back in the building for a raw, unfiltered reunion on Damn We Grown. Life hasn't just been "happening"; it’s been lifing at a whole new level. From the heavy hits of losing parents to the unexpected "grown folks" realities of medical checkups and career shifts, this episode is a deep dive into the scars that shape us and the joy we have to choose every single day. We’re catching you up on the hiatus, the move into the new house, and why 40-something life requires a whole different kind of movement—literally and mentally. Whether you’re navigating grief, a career pivot, or just trying to get your 10,000 steps in, this is the real talk you need to hear. Keep choosing joy, keep moving, and stay grown. We’ll see you in the next one!

    46 min
  8. Eat, Poop, Sleep

    03/20/2024

    Eat, Poop, Sleep

    Episode 244. Podcast with your eyes closed.  Letitia James is back and in rare form.   Mike got some slides, basketball shorts, and a white tank top  y'all better watch out.  Are black women tired of saving us?  Does Pop Tarts still have a Kellogg label?  What if your neighbor sued you because your autistic child is too loud?  Vibes from NxWorries.  And the main topic, how to invest in the next generation.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at DamnWeGrown@gmail.com Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

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Looking for an authentic Black marriage podcast that's 100 percent authentic? Damn... We Grown! features married duo Mike and Tiff—two creatives who crashed into their 40s and lived to tell the tale. This podcast explores the intersection of creative life, millennial parenting, and relationship growth. Whether they’re discussing the "grown man game," family dynamics, or the hilarity of mid-life, Mike and Tiff deliver candid conversations and infectious laughter. If you’re a fan of relatable stories and authentic adulting, hit play and join the family.

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  • Creator
    Mike + Tiff
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Mike + Tiff
  • Show Website
    Damn We Grown