Damn We Grown

Mike + Tiff

A grown podcast for grown people. A real relationship, real bills, and real life convo. Damn...we grown!

  1. 15h ago

    90s Nostalgia, $5 Footlongs & Grown Folk Realities

    What is up, y’all! What is UP! We are back in the house to slap some more soul to you on this brand-new episode of Damn We Grown! This week, we’re taking a hilarious and heartfelt trip down memory lane to the golden era: the 1990s and early 2000s. Was the music really better back then, or were we just stress-free kids with no real bills and zero adult responsibilities? We’re diving into the days of recording songs off the radio onto cassette tapes, custom voicemail skits, MTV music videos, and the magic of TGIF lineups. Plus, we’re balancing the nostalgia with some real-time grown folk business—from teaching our teen to drive in empty parking lots without losing our cool, to the wild cost of raising kids today (seriously, why is special lotion $17?!), and surviving the soaring prices of fast food. In this episode, we’re getting into: The Magic of '90s Nostalgia: Rewinding to the days of In Living Color, Def Comedy Jam, Saved by the Bell, Martin, and why appointment TV hit different before streaming took over. Music & Culture Wars: Comparing classic R&B supergroups and Hip-Hop legends to today’s streaming era—and why you had to put in real work to buy an album on tape or CD. Adulting & Raising Teens: Navigating second driving lessons, letting our kids face their fears, and the high financial cost of teenage style upgrades. Fast Food Inflation: Remembering 25-cent hamburgers, 99-cent Whoppers, and singing the blues over the death of the real $5 Footlong. Then vs. Now: The contrast between hanging out in the moment without cell phones versus navigating today's curated social media world. Take a break from adulting, grab your favorite snack, and vibe out with us as we celebrate the times that made us who we are! Connect With Us: Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube [@DamnWeGrown] Email: Got a funny '90s memory, a question, or a topic idea? Hit us up at damnwegrown@gmail.com Stream: Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your favorite pods! If you enjoyed the episode, don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y’all! Deuces! ✌️

  2. Aug 12

    R&B Supergroups, Unc Energy & Birthday Vibes

    What is up, y’all! What is UP! We are back in the house for another episode of Damn We Grown! This week, we are slapping some fresh soul into your speakers as we celebrate Mike’s big 46th birthday! From emotional photo books that almost got the ice-cold birthday boy teary-eyed, to grilling on his own big day and officially stepping into full "Unc" status, we are leaning all the way into the joy of growing older. We’re also getting into a fiery debate over the ultimate R&B supergroups and Hip-Hop duos. You know we had to break it all down—soulful style! In this episode, we’re talking: Birthday Real Talk & Unc Energy: The difference between an "Uncle" and an "Unc," surviving birthday allergies, and why Mike ended up behind the grill for his own celebration. Building the Ultimate R&B Supergroup: We break down four stacked lineups featuring icons like Beyoncé, Prince, Jill Scott, Usher, Erica Badu, and D'Angelo. Who takes the crown when it comes to raw vocals versus pure stage presence? First-Week Album Sales—Hip-Hop Duos: Jay-Z & Kanye, Drake & Lil Wayne, 50 Cent & Eminem, or TI & Jeezy? We argue who is really shutting down the charts in today’s game. Adulting & Real Life Humor: From setting up record shelves eight months late, to the pain of auto insurance, and why girl trips hit way different than guy trips. Grab your favorite drink, sit back, and vibe out with us! Connect With Us: Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, and X [@DamnWeGrown] Email: Got a question or a topic you want us to touch on? Hit us up at damnwegrown@gmail.com Stream: Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your favorite pods! If you’re loving the show, make sure to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y’all! Deuces! ✌️

  3. Aug 5

    Fine Wine, Poppin’ Knees & Aging Gracefully

    What is up, y’all! We are BACK in the house for another episode of Damn We Grown! This week, we’re celebrating a big milestone—17 years of marriage and a whole quarter-century of being together! Between romantic sunset date nights on Signal Hill, Cutwater cocktails, and Uncle Nunu getting snitched on for spoiling the little ones with massive ice cream cones, we are diving deep into a topic none of us can outrun: Aging Gracefully. Look, the mind might tell you you’re still 25, but the knees? Yeah, they’re playing by a whole different set of rules now! We’re keeping it 100 on the real, the comedic, and the soulful side of getting older: Silver Strands & Poppin’ Knees: Embracing the gray hair, laughing at physical changes, and why morning stretches are no longer optional. Wisdom, Peace & Zero Cares Left: The beauty of having a little more disposable income, cutting out negative energy, and stepping fully into your confidence. The Taboo Reality of Getting Older: Keeping the bedroom alive, throwing out society’s "rules" on how grown folks should dress, and choosing comfort over 8-hour stiletto heels. Memories & Real Talk: Reflecting on lost loved ones, navigating back-to-school shoe prices, and learning to love on your people while they’re here. Grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and tap in with us as we talk about celebrating every year, every laugh line, and every gray hair. Connect With Us: Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube [@DamnWeGrown] Email: Send us your questions or episode topic ideas at damnwegrown@gmail.com Listen Anywhere: Stream us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows! If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y'all! Peace! ✌️

  4. Jul 24

    Raising Free Thinkers Without Losing Your Mind

    Remember back in the day when the golden rule of the house was "Children should be seen and not heard"? Yeah… well, those days are officially gone! In this episode of Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff dive deep into the hilarious, heart-wrenching, and daily reality of raising strong-willed, outspoken kids. From Tiff’s daughter clapping back with "Why don't you just get another job?" to navigating those boundary-pushing moments as modern parents, we’re keeping it 100% real about the shift from old-school discipline to modern parenting. We’re kicking things off with a soulful weekend recap—talking about summer date nights with junk food feasts, Y2K flea market trips (and why our kids are paying $30 for stuff we threw away), and our latest binge-watches, including Is God Is and The Polygamist. Then, we get into the heavy stuff: how childhood silence impacts adult self-expression, unlearning the need for our kids to "fear" us, and finding the sweet spot between enforcing boundaries and encouraging our kids to speak their minds. Whether you're trying to break generational cycles, navigating teen attitude with a smile, or just figuring out how you ended up eating sherbet in 90-degree SoCal heat, grab your favorite snack and kick back with us. In this episode, we cover: Weekend Realness: Date night food splurges, giant ice cream tubs, and nostalgic Y2K fashion. Movie & TV Reviews: Quick takes on Is God Is, Boots Riley’s I Love Boosters, and Netflix’s The Polygamist. Modern vs. Old-School Parenting: Why raising a "quick-witted" child is both a blessing and a test of patience. Breaking Generational Cycles: Moving from "kids are seen, not heard" to raising confident, outspoken adults. Setting Healthy Boundaries: How to balance freedom, respect, and parenting discipline without instilling fear. Instagram & TikTok: @DamnWeGrown Email: DamnWeGrown@gmail.com Watch & Listen: Available on YouTube, Spotify, and everywhere you get your podcasts! Connect & Follow Us:

  5. Jul 16

    Respect the Bonnet: Personal Growth, Cultural Pride, and Why Your Partner Can't Control Your Style

    What is up, y’all! Grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and get ready to slide some serious soul into your Wednesday. Mike and Tiff are back in the home studio on this brand-new episode of Damn We Grown, and yes—the “Beyoncé fan” is officially blowing to keep the vibes immaculate. This week, the couple kicks things off by breaking down their weekend adulting hustle. From pulling an “audible” on a local date night at Lazy Dog (where Tiff was highly suspicious of the patio dog-rules) to negotiating child labor in the backyard garden so their daughter can learn the value of a dollar, they’re keeping it 100% real. The backyard garden is officially underway with tomatoes and bell peppers, because in 2026, paying $1.50 for a single bunch of cilantro is just downright disrespectful to the bank account! Later, they dive into a hilarious debate about learning new languages, with Tiff bragging about her 172-day Spanish Duolingo streak—even if she only knows three words and has to mimic a cartoon voice to pass the app's speaking test. But the real heat comes when Mike and Tiff unpack a viral video of a woman confronting a younger sister in public for wearing a satin bonnet at the grocery store. Is wearing a bonnet in public an issue of "putting your best foot forward" and maintaining self-respect, or is the backlash rooted in respectability politics and a deep-seated desire to appease the white gaze? With their signature humor, empathy, and candor, Mike and Tiff get into: Cultural Pride vs. Presentation: How we treat our hair, our clothes, and our personal style out in the wild. The Double Standard: Why cultural staples like bonnets, durags, braids, and gold chains are labeled "ghetto" until they're co-opted by mainstream media and suddenly branded as "chic." Relationship Compromise: Why Mike flat-out refuses to let his partner control his style—even if he chooses to wear a durag on a date. Putting Yourself First: Why loving yourself has to come before pleasing anybody else, including your spouse. This episode is packed with hilarious tangents, deep cultural insights, and the kind of marital banter only these two can deliver. Hit that play button, lock in, and remember—keep choosing joy! Connect with the Grown Family!Got some strong thoughts on the bonnet debate? Or maybe a secret Duolingo hack? We want to hear from you! Email us: DamnWeGrown@gmail.com Instagram/TikTok: @DamnWeGrown Listen & Subscribe: Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please leave us a review to help the family grow! The Meat & Potatoes: The Great Bonnet Debate

  6. Jul 8

    Three Wishes, Travel Hacks, and Bad Tattoos

    What would you do if you were handed three life-changing wishes on a silver platter? In this episode, Mike and Tiff play a high-stakes game of "Pick Three," breaking down a viral list of options—from $20k a month for life to perfect health until age 90. But watch out, because as the hosts uncover, every dream wish has a hilarious, unintended catch.Later, the couple takes you deep into the heart of their recent family vacation, sharing must-know Southeast Asian travel hacks, like why you definitely need to set up your eSIM before you leave the US. They also recount a magical, muddy encounter bathing with rescue elephants in Phuket, an unexpected beachfront meeting with a friendly horse, and why a certain 12-year-old will absolutely not be getting a Hellcat for her first car.Grab your neck fan, pour a drink, and hit play on a hilarious recap of life, travel lessons, and why you should always double-check the sunscreen.Key Moments in This Episode:The Living Room Pivot: The hosts talk returning to the home studio and getting the "Beyoncé fan" blowing.The Ultimate "Pick Three": $20k a month for life, zero bills, or retiring at 50? Mike and Tiff weigh their options and uncover the hidden fine print.Phuket & Singapore Highlights: Getting down and dirty in a mud bath with elephants, exploring night markets, and navigating Singapore's ultra-efficient MRT transit system.The Southeast Asia Travel Guide: Essential advice on eSIM data, using the Grab app, and trying to smuggle local KFC onto an international flight.Movie Review: A spoiler-free discussion of Obsession, the suspense thriller that had the hosts talking.Connect with the Grown Family!Got your own "Pick Three" combination or a wild travel story to share? We want to hear it!Email us: DamnWeGrown@gmail.comInstagram: @DamnWeGrownTikTok: @DamnWeGrownWatch in 4K: Find full video episodes on YouTube and Spotify!If you love the show, support the movement and help us get to first class by sharing this episode with a friend!

  7. Jul 2

    Mid-Life & Newborns: Mastering the Pivot with Steve Cross

    "I’m a grown man!" 🤣 Mike and Tiff are back, and this time they finally managed to drag their ultra-talented (but camera-shy) brother, Steve, in front of the lens for Episode 261!In this episode of Damn We Grown, the crew gets into the hilarious and heavy realities of adulting. Steve breaks down how he went from shooting raw film in high school to building Cross Vision Media, a one-stop shop for web dev, content strategy, and video marketing. But it’s not all business—we’re diving deep into what it’s really like having a newborn in your 40s while running a business, the eternal struggle of communication in marriage, and why AI might just kick us all in the chest one day (literally, ask Mike about the video).Hit that play button, lock in, and keep choosing joy! Connect with Us:Instagram & Socials: @damnwegrown Email: damnwegrown@gmail.com Find Steve: @creativecannon & @crossvisionmedia on Instagram | www.crossvisionmedia.com

  8. Jun 24

    Anime Deep Dives, Indie Comics & Surviving the "AI Slop" with Sean Cross

    What is up, y’all! Mike and Tiff are back in the studio for a brand new episode of Damn we Grown. This week, we finally dragged the ultimate creative mastermind out of his studio cave: Sean Cross (aka Konami Homi). As the driving force behind 99 Hearts Entertainment, Sean is out here building entire universes from scratch, and we are getting into all the beautiful, messy details of the creative hustle.Whether you're an old-school anime head, an aspiring comic book artist, or just trying to figure out how to navigate the wild west of AI, this episode is a whole vibe. Grab your coffee (or your matcha), get comfortable, and let's get into it!Inside This Episode:The Ultimate Anime Starter Pack: We nerd out over the classics. From Dragon Ball Z and Lupin the Third to the endless ocean of One Piece and the gritty perfection of Hunter x Hunter, Sean breaks down the shows that shaped his artistic eye. (Plus, Tiff tries to keep us from talking about cartoons for three hours straight).Birth of Afro Boy: We get an exclusive, behind-the-scenes look at the first official issue of Sean’s original comic, Afro Boy. We talk character design, world-building, and what it really takes to self-publish a comic in today's market.Fighting Spirits in The Adventures of the Neon Wolf: Sean gives us the scoop on his upcoming third-person horror-action video game. Think Kingdom Hearts meets Silent Hill—reaping souls, fighting demons, and trading ghosts to merchants. It's as wild as it sounds.The "AI Slop" Debate: Let's keep it real. As creatives who actively use AI to streamline music production and content workflows, Mike and Sean have an honest conversation about the fine line between using AI as a brilliant tool and just being lazy."You gotta know when to use the tool, and when to get out of the bed and do the work yourself. Don't just be out here making AI slop!" ---Stay Connected with the Crew:Follow Damn we Grown: Catch us on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, TikTok, and Instagram at @DamnWeGrown.Follow our Guest: Support Sean's art, games, and music by following him everywhere at @99HeartsEnt @KonamiHomi and check out 99 Hearts Entertainment

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A grown podcast for grown people. A real relationship, real bills, and real life convo. Damn...we grown!

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  • Creator
    Mike + Tiff
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    116
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mike + Tiff
  • Show Website
    Damn We Grown