Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

Legacy Dads
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Real men with authentic faith. Legacy Dads is a community of Christian men focusing on issues such as marriage, parenting, and leadership. We equip men who are trying to balance faith, our modern lives, and leading our families to a lasting legacy.

  1. Ambassadors for Christ

    Jun 16

    Ambassadors for Christ

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante dive into 2 Corinthians 5:20 to redefine a father's role from a burdened owner to a faithful ambassador of Christ. They tackle the heavy performance pressures, shifting identities, and daily frictions that modern men face, offering a liberating perspective: a dad's authority is delegated, his identity is immutably fixed by the King, and his home is his embassy. By shifting from ownership to stewardship, Dave and Dante challenge fathers to relieve the pressure of perfection, anchor their souls in their divine title, and embrace a ministry of reconciliation over retaliation. Ultimately, they call men to be the chief de-escalators and grace-givers in their homes, strategically winning the hearts of their families rather than trying to win arguments. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    49 min
  2. Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch

    May 26

    Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante sit down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to discuss the often-overlooked challenges of parenting adult children. Centered around her book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, the conversation addresses the "identity crisis" many fathers face when their role shifts from protector and fixer to a more hands-off, supportive influence. Dr. Koch offers practical, biblical strategies for releasing control, overcoming "dad guilt" from past mistakes, and navigating the tension between loving a child and endorsing their lifestyle choices. Ultimately, the episode serves as a powerful guide for fathers to surrender their children to God's timing while maintaining a faithful, grace-filled presence that prioritizes reconciliation over being right. Connect With Dr. Kathy Visit Celebrate Kids, Inc. for more information and to get any of Dr. Kathy's books today! Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    55 min
  3. Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake

    May 19

    Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads podcast, host Dante Girolimon and guest co-host Joe Svoboda are joined by leadership expert Mac Lake to discuss the intersection of ministry, multiplication, and intentional fatherhood. Drawing from his decades of experience and the framework of the "Leadership Pipeline," Lake shares how his philosophy evolved from a passion for church reproduction to a deep conviction that every father is called to be a "multiplier" in his own home. The conversation moves through the distinct seasons of parenting—from the high-energy early years of building family culture to the nuanced shift of maintaining influence with adult children. Lake emphasizes that leadership development is, at its heart, a form of high-level discipleship that balances character and competency, a lesson he applied while raising his own children, including worship leader Brandon Lake. The episode concludes with a forward-looking vision of legacy, where Lake encourages fathers to view their homes not just as places of management, but as the primary training ground for the next generation of Kingdom leaders. Connect with Mac: Mac Lake Online Instagram: @maclake24 Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    57 min
  4. An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

    Apr 22

    An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

    In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world. Connect with Tom Ascol https://founders.org/podcasts/tstt-gods-gift-of-elders-to-his-church/ on X: https://x.com/tomascol?s=20 Instagram: @thomasascol

    1h 5m
  5. Discipling through the years: the young adult era

    Apr 14

    Discipling through the years: the young adult era

    In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you're learning to trust the foundation you've built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode challenges you to stop trying to control the outcome and start trusting the God who brings the growth. It's time to move from holding the bow to watching the arrow fly, confident that your legacy is anchored in faithfulness rather than perfection. Key Takeaways: The Role Shift: Transitioning from daily control to foundational investment and coaching. Staying Connected: Practical ways to maintain a spiritual bond without being intrusive. Handling Doubt: How to remain a "safe harbor" if your child deconstructs or walks away from their faith. Trusting the Growth: Remembering that you planted the seeds, but God brings the increase. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    30 min
  6. Discipling through the years: the teenage years

    Mar 30

    Discipling through the years: the teenage years

    The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child's life to a "mentor" of their soul. It's about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    36 min
  7. Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage

    Mar 16

    Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante dive into the "Training Wheels" phase of fatherhood—discipling adolescents aged 8 to 12. This is a critical developmental window where children shift from simply absorbing their parents' beliefs to investigating the "why" behind them. The conversation centers on Proverbs 4:23, highlighting the father's role in helping children "guard their hearts" as they begin to encounter more complex social and cultural pressures. Dave and Dante discuss the transition from providing "spiritual milk" to "solid food," offering practical strategies for teaching kids how to read the Bible independently and apply a biblical worldview to school, sports, and friendships. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram.

    36 min
  8. Discipling through the years: The Toddler Stage

    Mar 9

    Discipling through the years: The Toddler Stage

    Episode Summary Parenting a toddler feels like planting a garden in the middle of a windstorm—chaotic, messy, and loud. But it is also the most critical season for planting seeds that will last a lifetime. In this episode, Dave and Dante break down the "why" and "how" of discipling children ages 2–7. We're moving away from the pressure of perfection and leaning into the beauty of simple, faithful rhythms that point little hearts toward their Creator. Key Scriptures Deuteronomy 6:6-7 – The mandate to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life. Matthew 18:3 – Why the simplicity of a child's faith is the blueprint for our own. Numbers 6:24-26 – The power of the priestly blessing. 1 Corinthians 11:1 – Modeling faith for those who are always watching. What We Cover The Toddler's Spiritual World: Why their "concrete" thinking isn't a limitation, but a gift. We discuss why heart formation beats theological precision every time. Practical Rhythms: From morning gratitude to the transformative power of bedtime blessings. Discipling Through the Senses: Faith shouldn't just be heard; it should be seen, touched, and experienced. Learn how to translate big theology into language a 4-year-old understands. Modeling Over Teaching: You are your child's first "Bible." We get real about what happens when you blow it and how saying "I'm sorry" is a crucial discipleship tool. The Long View: Trusting the "compound effect" of small, consistent habits even when you don't see immediate fruit. Action Step for the Week The Bedtime Blessing: This week, we're keeping it simple. Whether you've never done it or just got out of the habit, commit to implementing a consistent bedtime prayer or blessing routine for your toddler. Speak the truth of God's love over them before they drift off to sleep. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a toddler story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org and dante@legacydads.org. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community and Instagram. Next Episode: We're turning the page to Adolescents. Get ready for a shift in strategy as we talk about navigating the pre-teen years.

    34 min
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