Better Than Best Podcast with Coach Red Wallace

Coach Red Wallace
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  • Self-Improvement
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It’s hard to live your best life when you don’t have someone motivating you past being average. My podcast will challenge you to live the legacy you were created to leave. Every Monday you’ll find five minute motivational‘s that are guaranteed to help you conquer your Monday. Most importantly you will find yourself here, I believe art is a reflection of who we are and I hope you find what you looking for. Be sure to stay connected by hitting that subscribe button. If you like what you hear share it. Thanks for listening!

  1. 5d ago

    You Can’t Serve God and Money—Here’s What Jesus Meant

    What if your bank statement could reveal something about your relationship with God? In Luke 16:9–13, Jesus makes an uncomfortable connection between money, faithfulness, and worship. He doesn’t say you can’t have money and serve God. He says you cannot serve both God and money. So how do you know when money has stopped being a tool and started becoming your master? In this video, we walk through 3 tests that expose what money may be revealing about your heart: What are you asking money to give you?What happens when your money feels threatened?What are you doing with what God has already placed in your hands?We’ll also use the Redprint framework to help you recognize what money is exposing, reorganize the lies underneath it, rediscover what is true, rebuild your financial habits, and refine the way you steward what God has given you. Before this video ends, I’m going to challenge you to do something practical: open your real bank or credit card statement and look at the last seven days. Then finish this sentence: “My money shows me that I’ve been trusting ______.” This is not prosperity gospel. It’s not about believing that if you handle $100 correctly, God owes you $100,000. It’s about stewardship. Money can be a useful servant—but it was never designed to be your savior. If this challenged you, comment below: Which of the three tests exposed the most for you? Subscribe for more biblical teaching on spiritual formation, stewardship, faith, and becoming who God created you to be. ➡️ Steward To Last: https://www.youtube.com/@StewardtoLast➡️ Better Than Best Brotherhood: https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/about Scripture: Luke 16:9–13 #ChristianMoney #BiblicalStewardship #Luke16 #FaithAndFinances #ChristianLiving

  2. Aug 21

    “There are really no failures in life. There are just people that give up.” - Bill Quateman

    What does it take to build a meaningful life when the path doesn’t go according to plan?In this episode of the Better Than Best Academy, Red Wallace sits down with Bill Quateman for a wide-ranging conversation about fatherhood, discipline, reinvention, entrepreneurship, health, service, and becoming the man life is calling you to become.Bill shares lessons from his journey through the music industry, publishing, business, parenting, and regenerative health—including being signed during the Clive Davis era at Columbia Records, publishing his own book after facing rejection, and eventually building a career focused on helping others live healthier lives.We talk about why fathers sometimes need to be both a willow and an oak, why “no” can be an expression of love, the importance of teaching children to sit still in a world filled with distraction, and why the obstacles in your life may actually be developing the person you need to become.Bill also shares one of the principles that has shaped his life:“There are really no failures in life. There are just people that give up.”In this conversation, we cover:- Why discipline gives young men direction- Being a strong “rudder” for your children- Why the hardest thing to do may be nothing- Meditation and learning to sit in silence- Failure, resilience, and refusing to quit- Reinventing yourself when life changes direction- Why creativity and business require different mindsets- Serving something bigger than yourself- Finding the courage to do hard things- Thinking about longevity, health, and “peak span”- Why your goals must begin with knowing what you actually want- The importance of living from loveCHAPTERS:00:00 No Failures Mindset01:03 Welcome and Guest Intro01:43 Music Backgrounds Connect02:51 Young Bill and Beatles Spark06:19 Discipline and Focus Lessons07:46 Parenting Boundaries Today13:09 Love and Quiet Practice16:41 Clive Davis Breakthrough19:04 Service Over Showbiz22:48 From Music to Publishing24:56 Oprah Call to Health Pivot26:22 Writing With Purpose27:21 Books As Business28:41 Creative Meets CEO31:53 Embrace The Hard33:58 Ego And Flow34:59 Health Origin Story37:07 Peakspan And Metabolism40:16 First Steps At 3343:41 Connect And Testing45:00 Lightning Round Wisdom47:57 Final Quote And FarewellLearn more about Bill and Advanced BioCell: https://advancedbiocell.comIf you’re a Christian husband, father, leader, or builder who wants to become better in the areas of life that matter most, subscribe to the Better Than Best Academy.Comment below: What is one difficult season of your life that ultimately made you stronger?

  3. Aug 14

    Your Bad Habit Isn’t the Real Problem

    You keep getting defensive. You overwork. You procrastinate. You escape into your phone. You lose your temper—and even when you promise yourself you’ll change, the same negative patterns keep coming back. For Christian men trying to grow in their marriage, faith, leadership, and emotional health, simply trying harder isn’t always enough. In this video, we’ll look at why you keep repeating the same patterns, what may be underneath defensiveness, anger, overworking, procrastination, and phone addiction, and how God can transform more than just your behavior. Sometimes the habit isn’t the deepest problem. Your defensiveness may be protecting a fear of failure.Your overworking may be tied to believing your worth comes from what you accomplish.Your phone may be helping you avoid discomfort, loneliness, or emotions you don’t know how to sit with. You can change the behavior while leaving the root untouched. That’s why real Christian personal growth requires more than behavior modification. It requires allowing God to reveal what the behavior may be protecting, proving, avoiding, or trying to control. In this video, I’ll walk you through a simple three-step process: SEARCH — RESPOND — REMAIN SEARCH: Go beneath the behavior and ask what is really happening inside you. RESPOND: Choose one faithful action instead of automatically repeating the old pattern. REMAIN: Stay present when discomfort makes you want to defend yourself, withdraw, escape, or return to what feels familiar. If you’ve been wondering how to stop being defensive, how to break bad habits, how to become a better husband, or why you keep repeating the same mistakes, this process can help you move from temporary behavior change toward deeper spiritual formation. God isn’t merely interested in making you look better on the outside. He wants to form the man underneath it all—a man who can receive correction without collapsing, lead without controlling, rest without feeling worthless, be present without constantly escaping, and love without always defending himself. CHAPTERS: 00:00 When She Says You’re Gone00:41 Trying Harder Isn’t Working01:04 The Root Behind the Habit01:58 Picture Real Change02:31 Symptoms Versus Source03:48 Ask What It’s Doing04:15 Three Steps to Freedom04:27 Search Beneath the Surface06:23 Respond With One Action08:17 Remain Through Discomfort10:14 From Behavior to Formation11:42 Choose One Pattern Today12:12 Get Help With Blind Spots12:21 Invitation and Closing Ready to identify the pattern that keeps holding you back? Apply for a complimentary Red Print Hot Seat session:👉 https://forms.gle/DR7Qq7XEDyNzjMhV9 We’ll slow the pattern down, look beneath the behavior, identify potential blind spots, and determine your next faithful response. Join the community:https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/about Scripture referenced: Psalm 139:23–24 Subscribe for more videos about Christian men, Christian marriage, spiritual growth, biblical masculinity, identity in Christ, leadership, emotional health, and becoming the husband, father, and man God has called you to be. #ChristianMen #ChristianMarriage #BiblicalManhood

  4. Aug 7

    You Don’t Need More Information—You Need This

    What if the personal development content you’re consuming isn’t helping you grow—but helping you hide?For years, I read the books, bought the courses, filled journals with ideas, and listened to countless podcasts. It felt productive, but my life barely changed.The problem wasn’t a lack of information. It was a lack of application.Most of us believe we need more knowledge, confidence, clarity, or motivation before we take action. But confidence usually doesn’t come before the step. It is built through taking the step, surviving failure, learning, and moving again.In this video, we explore why personal development can become a form of procrastination, what biblical obedience actually looks like, and how to escape the endless cycle of learning without doing.You’ll discover how to:• Make your first step embarrassingly small• Create accountability that outlasts motivation• Measure faithful actions instead of immediate outcomes• Treat failure as useful data• Consume less and create more• “Ship ugly” instead of waiting for perfection• Recognize what God may already be asking you to do• Become disciplined by repeatedly keeping your promisesJoshua marched before the walls fell. Peter stepped out of the boat before he experienced the miracle. Abraham walked. Moses stretched out his staff.The confidence came after the obedience.You may not be able to see God’s entire plan for your life. But like headlights on a dark road, He may be showing you enough to take the next faithful step.So ask yourself:What conversation have I been avoiding?What responsibility have I been neglecting?Who can I encourage or serve today?What can I finish in the next 30 minutes?What step do I already know I need to take?CHAPTERS:00:00 Self Help Confession00:55 Confidence Comes After01:44 Faith Before Clarity03:39 The Learning Loop Trap04:13 Six Action Principles06:52 Coach For Next Steps07:49 Identity Through Repetition08:28 Finding Gods Next Step11:45 Community Invitation12:52 Prayer And SendoffDon’t consume another big idea until you’ve tested the last one.👇 Comment below: What is your next faithful step?Join the free Better Than Best Brotherhood:https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutBook a one-on-one conversation with me:https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itSubscribe for more Christian encouragement, practical personal development, and conversations about becoming who God has called and created you to be.#ChristianMotivation #FaithInAction #PersonalDevelopment

  5. Jul 31

    The Hidden Idol Most Men Never Notice

    What would your calendar, bank statements, screen time, and daily habits reveal about what you truly worship?It is easy to say that God, faith, and family matter most. But sometimes our routines tell a different story.In this video, we examine how good things—work, money, success, family, productivity, and even responsibility—can quietly become idols when we depend on them for the identity, security, control, or peace that only God can provide.I also share a painful moment from the birth of my first child that exposed where I instinctively turned when life felt uncertain. The problem was not simply that I was working too much. Work had become the place where I went to feel safe and in control.In this conversation, you will discover:• How your habits train your heart to love• Why the most dangerous idols often look responsible• How work can become an altar for control• What your calendar reveals about your real priorities• Why good desires can become cruel masters• How the gospel frees you from performance-based identity• One practical change you can make this weekJesus said, “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”You do not need to rearrange your life to earn God’s love. In Christ, you are already loved, chosen, and accepted. The goal is not to work for an identity, but to begin living from the identity you have already received.CHAPTERS:00:00 What You Really Worship00:45 Habits Shape Your Love01:31 Labor Room Wake Up Call02:37 Where You Run For Peace03:25 Ill Finally Have Peace When04:09 Treasure Reveals The Heart06:05 Good Things Become Idols07:49 Gospel Freedom From Performance09:05 One Faithful Change10:13 Coaching Invitation11:17 Final Question For Your WeekBefore you watch another video, open your calendar and look at the next seven days.Ask yourself:“What does my schedule reveal about the man I am becoming?”Then make one faithful change—not to prove your devotion, but to practice it.If this video exposed a deeper belief or pattern that has been keeping you stuck, apply for the Red Print Hot Seat. This focused coaching conversation is designed to help you uncover what is driving the pattern and identify your next faithful step.Join the free community here:https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutSubscribe for more conversations about biblical manhood, faith, family, leadership, identity, and becoming the man God has called you to be.#ChristianMen #BiblicalManhood #ChristianMotivation

  6. Jul 24

    I Spent $6,000 I Didn’t Have and Hid It From My Wife

    Making more money may help your financial situation—but it won’t automatically change the person managing it.Money magnifies the man.If you’re disciplined, generous, and honest, more money gives those qualities greater reach. But if you avoid your finances, chase every new opportunity, make decisions from fear, or keep financial secrets from your spouse, more money can magnify those patterns too.In this video, I share the painful lesson I learned after spending $6,000 I didn’t have on a coaching program without telling my wife—and the three-step framework that helped me understand what was really happening beneath that decision:Recognize the beliefRemove the weedReplace it with a rhythmYou may genuinely need more income. But before you chase another opportunity, ask yourself:“What has God already entrusted to me, and what would faithfulness look like today?”Take the complimentary Present Provider Assessment to evaluate the five areas shaping your life—faith, family, fitness, finances, and fun:👉 https://forms.gle/oomipbmEXbdzy2cr8This isn’t another scorecard for beating yourself up. It’s a tool for identifying your next faithful step.Subscribe for biblical, practical conversations that help Christian husbands and fathers become disciplined, present, purpose-driven leaders at home.#ChristianMen #BiblicalStewardship #MoneyMindset00:00 More Money Myth00:40 Seed vs Soil01:08 My $6K Mistake03:24 Parable of the Sower04:30 Recognize the Belief06:09 Remove the Weed08:37 Replace With Rhythm10:19 Stop Counting Slices12:10 Your 24 Hour Assignment13:48 Assessment and Sendoff

  7. Jul 17

    The Price of Excellence Nobody Wants to Pay

    Most people want the opportunity—but few are willing to become the person who is ready for it.▶️ Join the Better Than Best Brotherhood: https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutYears ago, I sat behind a drum kit trying to prove I was ready to become our church’s next drummer. I reached the end of the song, hit the crash cymbal…and the cymbal came crashing down into my lap.My worship leader gave me an honest answer: “Not yet. Keep practicing.”That moment could have convinced me to put the dream away forever. Instead, I learned that feedback is not always rejection. Sometimes feedback is a map showing you the distance between where you are and where you need to be.In this video, we explore:00:00 Imperfect Yet Present01:04 Cymbal Crash Lesson02:12 Talent Versus Price03:30 Dream Shelved Early05:12 Private Practice Season06:54 Prices Law Explained09:59 Feedback Not Rejection11:22 Work Works On You14:21 Repeatability And Trust17:39 Time Is Limited19:15 Five Steps To Excellence21:49 Take The Dream Back22:37 Final Charge And SendoffYou may not control when your next opportunity arrives, but you can control who you become while you wait.Choose your arena. Define the repetition. Invite honest feedback. Stay consistent while you are hidden. Then try again.What dream have you placed on the shelf? Share it in the comments—and decide what action you will take over the next 30, 60, or 90 days.Subscribe for more videos about faith, purpose, discipline, leadership, personal growth, and becoming who God has called you to be.#PersonalGrowth #ChristianMotivation #ExcellenceWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

  8. Jul 10

    You Don’t Need More. You Need To Surrender

    What has God already placed in your hands?In this message, we look at a powerful biblical pattern: God often begins His greatest work with ordinary people holding ordinary things. Moses had a staff. David had a sling and stones. A young boy had five loaves and two fish. None of it looked impressive at first, but when it was surrendered to God, it became more than enough.Maybe you’ve been waiting to feel qualified, ready, confident, or resourced before you take the next step. But God is not asking you to start with what someone else has. He is asking you to use what He has already placed in your hands.This message will encourage you to stop waiting, stop comparing, and start surrendering your gifts, skills, story, opportunities, and obedience to God.You are in God’s hands, so use what is in yours.If this message encouraged you, share it with someone who needs to be reminded that God can use what they already have.Join the Better Than Best Brotherhood School community and apply for a complimentary Red Print Hot Seat.https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutCHAPTERS:00:00 Look at Your Hands01:29 My Hidden Seasons03:51 God Uses Ordinary04:00 Moses and the Staff04:49 David and the Stone05:31 Loaves and Fishes06:38 Stop Waiting Start Surrendering07:27 Small Beginnings Matter08:03 Child in the Fathers Hand09:11 Jesus Pierced Hands11:16 Closing Challenge and InvitationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

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It’s hard to live your best life when you don’t have someone motivating you past being average. My podcast will challenge you to live the legacy you were created to leave. Every Monday you’ll find five minute motivational‘s that are guaranteed to help you conquer your Monday. Most importantly you will find yourself here, I believe art is a reflection of who we are and I hope you find what you looking for. Be sure to stay connected by hitting that subscribe button. If you like what you hear share it. Thanks for listening!

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