The Sexy Escort Guide

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Discussing everything fascinating in the world of paid companionship

  1. Episode 127 - New Year, Smart Money: The Escort’s Guide to Taxes, Deductions & Compliance

    JAN 21

    Episode 127 - New Year, Smart Money: The Escort’s Guide to Taxes, Deductions & Compliance

    We’re starting the new year with intention; and getting our finances in order. In this episode of The Sexy Escort Guide Podcast, Vivian is joined once again by Diamond sponsor Eric Polacek of Companion Tax & Accounting Services, for our annual tax preparation conversation. Eric breaks down the recently passed “Big Beautiful Bill” and explains what it means for sex workers and independent escorts specifically, including what to expect moving forward. Together, we discuss common deductible expenses within the industry, what not to deduct, and clear up some of the most common tax misconceptions that often lead to confusion or unnecessary stress. This episode is designed to make taxes feel less overwhelming, more empowering, and entirely manageable — so you can stay compliant, confident, and well clear of the IRS’s radar as you head into the new year. Whether you’re newly independent or a seasoned professional, this is a must-listen episode to help you start the year informed, organized, and prepared. Book A Consultation with Companion TaxFollow Companion Tax on TwitterFollow Companion Tax on Instagram

    27 min
  2. Episode 126 - The Reference System: Outdated, Misused, or Necessary?

    12/24/2025

    Episode 126 - The Reference System: Outdated, Misused, or Necessary?

    In this episode, Vivian is joined by returning guest Ms. Ellis Hendrix for a timely and thought-provoking conversation sparked by Ellis’ recent post on X. Together, the ladies revisit one of the industry’s most debated topics: screening through the reference system. Is it outdated? Is participation an obligation — or a personal choice? They break down the realities of modern vetting and share practical guidance for both clients and companions, including the do’s and don’ts of requesting a reference with respect, boundaries, and intention. The conversation also opens into a candid reflection on goals, growth, and the vision both women have for 2026. Thank you for tuning in to the final episode of 2025. See you in the new year! Listen to the episode on screening (68) here Find all of Ms. Hendrix’s links here Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com 💖 Support the show on Patreon for just $1/month:patreon.com/tsegp

    41 min
  3. Episode 125 - Rebrand Like a Pro: Craft the Persona Men Never Forget

    11/19/2025

    Episode 125 - Rebrand Like a Pro: Craft the Persona Men Never Forget

    In this episode, Vivian is joined once again by Paul Cobo of SexyLuxStudio for Part Two of their rebranding series.This conversation dives deeper into the heart of personal reinvention: Who are you becoming—and why? Paul breaks down the emotional and strategic challenges of navigating change, emphasizing the importance of understanding your identity, needs, and values as a woman. He introduces a powerful new framework for defining an Authentic Companion Persona—one that blends your personality, background, lifestyle, and long-term goals into a brand expression that feels true, aligned, and unmistakably you. This process is achieved through his Brand Discovery Form Whether you're pivoting, refining, or completely rebuilding your brand, this episode helps you understand how your current presentation stacks up against your ideal persona—and what steps to take next. Takeaways You know you need a change… But change into what? Start with defining who you are as a woman—before you design who you want to become. Understanding what matters to you forms the foundation of any rebrand. Your personality and background directly shape your identity and presentation. Authentic expression is non-negotiable if you want a resonant, long-lasting brand. Creating an authentic companion persona is key to aligned rebranding. Honest insights into your current presentation can reveal what’s missing. Comparing your current self vs. your ideal persona is clarifying—and necessary. Your life goals should inform your brand, not conflict with it. A structured framework can guide your personal and professional transformation.Sound Bites “Define what’s important to you.” “Define who you are as a woman first.” “Create an authentic companion persona.” “Your brand should reflect the woman you’re becoming.” 🎧 Listen to Episode 37 🎧 Listen to Episode 123 🌐 Visit SexyLuxStudio 🧠 Complete the Brand Discovery Form Read Paul's Blogs:⁠ Maslow’s 5 Mindset Levels of Business — And How They Shape Who You AttractBranding, Marketing, & Advertising for Companions- ExplainedThe First Step to Building a Brand That Actually Fits You: Find Your WhyDiscovering the Companion Brand That Fits Who You Really Are 📸 Follow SexyLuxStudio: ⁠Instagram⁠⁠Twitter/X⁠📧 Email Paul For Your Audit:  ⁠paulcobo@sexyluxstudio.com⁠ Show Sponsor: ⁠CompanionTax.com⁠ 💖 Support the show on Patreon for just $1/month:⁠patreon.com/tsegp

    1h 5m

  4. 09/10/2025

    Episode 124 - Power, Secrets, and Shifting Laws (3 News Stories on Sex Work in America)

    In this episode, Vivian explores three headline-making stories: a Pennsylvania spa exposed as a front for “trafficking,” a former public defender’s dramatic fall from grace, and the shifting policies and politics of sex work in New York City.  Together, these cases reveal how law, power, and morality collide in the world’s oldest profession. Vivian also shares her frustration with how government officials continue to use sex work as a political talking point—casting only female sex workers as “victims” while completely leaving male sex workers out of the conversation.  Like the majority of sex workers, she reiterates that the only real way to regulate the industry and keep people safe—if safety is truly the concern—is through decriminalization. 📖 Read the full articles discussed in this episode: Story 1 – PennLiveStory 2 – Milwaukee Journal SentinelStory 3 – NY1 Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com 💖 Support the show on Patreon for just $1/month:patreon.com/tsegp

    17 min
  5. Episode 123 - Rebrand or Get Left Behind: The Harsh Truth About Booking High-Paying Clients

    07/09/2025

    Episode 123 - Rebrand or Get Left Behind: The Harsh Truth About Booking High-Paying Clients

    After 7 years since his first appearance on Episode 37, Vivian welcomes back the ever-insightful Paul Cobo of SexyLuxStudio. They reflect on how much the landscape has evolved in nearly a decade—and why, now more than ever, rebranding is not optional, but essential for any companion seeking long-term success. Paul dives deep into the strategic “why” behind a powerful rebrand, sharing insider tips that are both practical and transformative. You’ll also hear how ChatGPT is becoming an invaluable tool for companions, and how you can train it to write in your voice for branding, bios, captions, and more. (Bonus: Paul shares a free downloadable PDF on his blog to help you get started—linked in the show notes!) Plus, Paul reveals how one client landed a billionaire “whale” shortly after working with his team—proof that when you level up your brand, the right clients notice. 💥 Special Offer: Paul is offering free brand audits to the first 10 companions who reach out via email—normally a premium service. He’ll personally review your online presence and give professional recommendations… absolutely free. Here’s to landing our dream clients and showing up as the premium versions of ourselves. 💰✨ 🎧 Listen to Episode 37:https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/68sIK0IMOUb 🌐 Visit SexyLuxStudio:https://www.sexyluxstudio.com/ 🧠 Download Paul’s ChatGPT Companion Guide:https://www.sexyluxstudio.com/blog/chatgpt-for-companions-setup 📸 Follow SexyLuxStudio: InstagramTwitter/X📧 Email Paul For Your Audit:  paulcobo@sexyluxstudio.com Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com 💖 Support the show on Patreon for just $1/month:patreon.com/tsegp

    1h 14m
  6. Episode 122 - Unlock More Clients in 2025 (Marketing Tips from Escort Academy)

    04/02/2025

    Episode 122 - Unlock More Clients in 2025 (Marketing Tips from Escort Academy)

    Vivian sits down with the brilliant and trailblazing Ms. Isabelle Fox, a former escort from Australia and the founder of Escort Academy - a premier business coaching and mentorship platform for escorts. In this insightful conversation, Ms. Fox shares invaluable strategies for working smarter, attracting high-caliber clients, and maximizing earnings with consistency and finesse. The discussion takes an intriguing turn as they delve into Ms. Fox’s controversial tweet about accepting payments after a session. She sets the record straight, offering a fresh perspective that challenges industry norms. This episode is packed with golden nuggets of wisdom—so grab a pen, take notes, and start implementing these gems immediately.  Here’s to a thriving and profitable year ahead! 💰✨ Book a complimentary call with Ms. Isabelle Fox Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please support the show by joining our Patreon page for just $1/month: patreon.com/tsegp

    52 min
  7. Episode 121 - Navigating Tax Season with Expert Companion Tax: What You Need to Know

    03/05/2025

    Episode 121 - Navigating Tax Season with Expert Companion Tax: What You Need to Know

    Vivian welcomes back esteemed accounting expert Eric Polacek of Companion Tax and Accounting Services for an insightful discussion on everything you need to know about filing your taxes this year.  Eric cuts through the noise, addressing concerns about potential tax changes under the new administration and offering expert guidance on staying organized for a seamless filing process. And yes—escorts pay taxes like everyone else! Financial responsibilities don’t discriminate, and Eric sheds light on the essential steps for ensuring compliance while maximizing financial well-being. Tune in for valuable tips and a conversation that makes tax season feel a little less daunting. Follow Companion Tax on Twitter (X) Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please support the show by joining our Patreon page for just $1/month: patreon.com/tsegp

    18 min
  8. Episode 120 - D.C Escort Leijla Foss Shares Best Picks for Dinner and Drinks

    01/08/2025

    Episode 120 - D.C Escort Leijla Foss Shares Best Picks for Dinner and Drinks

    ✨ Happy New Year! ✨ Vivian kicks off 2025 with an engaging conversation featuring special guest Ms. Leijla Foss, a high-end Washington D.C. escort and sex work business consultant. Together, they reflect on their New Year’s Eve celebrations and share their personal and professional aspirations for the year ahead. The discussion takes a provocative turn as they delve into a recent D.C. news story, where powerful elites are scrambling to conceal their involvement in a high-profile prostitution sting. Ms. Foss offers her insight, predicting a shift in the industry as wealthy clients may turn to independent escorts over agencies. Meanwhile, Vivian raises an intriguing possibility: could this scandal be the catalyst for finally decriminalizing sex work? To round off the episode, Ms. Foss reveals her favorite spots in D.C. for fine dining, chic cocktails, and memorable moments with clients. Here’s to a fabulous and prosperous 2025! 🎉 * News Article: ⁠No Secrecy for DC, Boston Elites Accused of Fueling Foreign Prostitution Racket⁠ ⁠Follow Leijla Foss on Twitter (X)⁠ Show Sponsor: ⁠Companiontax.com/⁠ Please support the show by ⁠joining our Patreon page⁠ for just $1/month

    44 min
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    The Sexy Escort Guide
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
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