Ep 152: The Red Pill Is Not the Only Option with Rayviation A room full of men, four cameras, one boom pole, and a conversation most of them had never had out loud. This week I'm talking with Rayviation, a Chicago based producer, filmmaker, playwright and teaching artist, about Loving Men, the film he made with the Boston Ujima Project, the vintage store documentary he's making now, and why he thinks we are living in a golden age of indie filmmaking. Recorded live at Lumpen Radio, no edits, no retakes. What We Talk AboutWhy mothers turned out to be the biggest audience for a film about men, and the ones who told him they were gifting it to their sons immediatelyHow you get people to be vulnerable on camera, and the turtle metaphor that explains why most men won'tWhy Loving Men has never played in a traditional movie theater, and why that's on purposeThe distribution platform every indie filmmaker should know about, and why an RSVP email is worth more than a followerWhat a vintage store on North Avenue has to do with risk, segregation, and a ten year anniversary nobody saw comingThe honest conversation about content creation, algorithms, and where you put your validation when the app won't even show your work to your own followersThe no sew Sesame Street puppet he built for his girlfriend, and the weeks of hiding green fur in an apartment If you love hearing how a film actually gets made and gets seen, this episode is for you. Chapters:• 01:36 - Introducing Rayviation— community culture, film & social change • 06:49 - Loving Men — the Film and Its Community • 20:42 - Introducing the Melvin Project • 26:41 - Discovering Harper Studio: Vintage, Community, and Melvin • 33:18 - Teaching Artists, Creativity, and Social Media • 50:36 - A Practical Assignment: Make a 5‑Minute Documentary • 53:26 - TV & Media Favorites — Real Housewives, One Piece, and Public Access • 58:48 - Fair Pay and Building Respectful Production Teams All about RayviationYou're gonna love Rayviation. He's a Chicago based producer, filmmaker, playwright and teaching artist whose work sits at the intersection of community, culture and social change. He got his start at his local public access station in Lowell, Massachusetts at thirteen years old. His first documentary, Days of Division, covered the fight over his hometown's high school. He produced and edited Loving Men with the Boston Ujima Project, and he's currently in pre production on The Call to Harper Studio, a feature documentary about Harper Studio Vintage and its owner, Melvin Thompson. He teaches with Free Spirit Media, where he's currently running a class called Puppets for Positivity. Things We MentionedLoving Men, available through Kinema with a watch guide for hosting your own screeningDays of Division, his first documentaryMy Call with Melvin, the short film, and The Call to Harper Studio, the feature in pre productionThe Boston Ujima ProjectHarper Studio Vintage and its owner, Melvin Thompson, celebrating ten years on the blockKinema, the screening and distribution platformFree Spirit Media and its Creative Pathways earn and learn programThe Chicago Tool LibraryTrisha Hersey, Rest Is Resistance **affiliate link**What he's watching: One Piece, Mr. SOUL! about Ellis Haizlip and the show SOUL!, and Sherman's Showcase Connect with RayviationInstagram: @rayviation.rocksWebsite: rayviation.webflow.ioYouTube: search Rayviation Sponsor Shoutout 💖This episode features Artist Admin Hour. Every Wednesday, 7 to 9pm Central, artists get on Zoom and knock out the applications, grants, budgets and invoices we've all been avoiding. Two hours of body doubling with structure, no shame, and real community. $25 to $45 a month. If that's not doable, email me and we'll make it work. artistadminhour.com Stay ConnectedSign up for the noseyAF Dispatch and grab the Good Neighbor Playbook. Behind the MicnoseyAF is a project of Stephanie Graham's art practice. More ways to connectstephanie@missgraham.com | @stephaniegraham | noseyaf.com Support & FeedbackRate and review the show, and send this one to a man in your life. Episode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Stephanie Graham Lyrics: Queen Lex | Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam | Cover Art: Emma McGoldrick