The Alli Worthington Show

Alli Worthington

Alli Worthington talks to women leading, raising families, and wondering why they're exhausted by 3pm. The show covers the things that actually matter: faith that holds up under pressure, work that doesn't require burnout, and what's really going on with your energy, hormones, and health in midlife. With over 2 million downloads, you'll get expert interviews and coaching conversations designed to help you stop pushing through and start building something that actually works. Alli is a five-time bestselling author, CEO, and mom to five sons. She's been a business coach for over fifteen years, helping women who are tired of advice that sounds good but doesn't work. The kind of advice you'd pay a coach thousands of dollars for, twice a week, for free.

  1. 15h ago

    How to Build Your Personal Brand & Get Seen as a Woman Entrepreneur with KJ Blattenbauer

    Join the  Uplift Community App  TODAY!  If you have been trying to show up everywhere and still feel like no one really sees you, this episode will shift the way you think about visibility. KJ Blattenbauer is a powerhouse publicist who has spent her career helping women get noticed, get referred, and get paid. And she is not here to give you the fluffy version. KJ breaks down why so many women struggle to put themselves out there. It is not vanity. It is a vulnerability. She explains why chasing exposure can actually hurt your authority and why the most important thing you can have in business is not a huge following. It is one clear sentence that tells people exactly who you are and what you do. This conversation is part of the Smart Girl Summer series, and it delivers exactly what the name promises. Sharp. Practical. No fluff. Real strategy that actually works for real women building real businesses.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why women entrepreneurs struggle with self-promotion and the mindset shift that makes it easier How to craft the one-sentence message that gets you seen, referred, and hired The 4 foundational steps every woman needs to start building her PR presence (even if she has zero audience) The difference between chasing exposure and building authority, and why only one of them leads to sustainable business growth How to leverage a single podcast appearance or media hit 11+ different ways so it keeps working for you Why "be everywhere" is garbage advice, and exactly where you should show up instead What KJ says all press is NOT (and how to protect your reputation) Lessons from Blake Lively, the Kardashians, and Emma Grede's masterclass book tour   Timestamps: (01:45) KJ's one-sentence description of what she does (and why that sentence is the whole lesson) (01:57) Why women struggle with self-promotion, and what they need to hear instead (02:36) Serving from your gifts: reframing visibility as service, not ego (04:04) This isn't just for founders. It's for every woman who wants to stop playing small. (04:36) Most accomplished women aren't lacking expertise. They're lacking a clear narrative. (05:06) What do you really want? Getting quiet enough to figure it out (05:35) The power of the one-sentence message: how it works for clients, promotions, and pitches (06:35) How to figure out your message when you have multiple book ideas (or multiple passions) (07:54) PR myths KJ wants to set the record straight on (08:52) You don't need a big following. You need one repeatable message. (09:24) The "be everywhere" myth: why it's the worst advice in PR right now (09:59) What a one-breath message actually looks like (with real examples) (11:00) How your message compounds into authority over time (11:46) Live coaching moment: KJ helps Alli find her own one sentence (14:59) Why getting clear on your message is vulnerable, and what makes it so hard (15:33) The real reason people don't write their book, don't post, don't pitch (16:23) DIY PR: the biggest mistake solopreneurs make, and the first steps to take instead (17:09) Find where your audience actually is (and stop wasting time everywhere else) (17:37) Clean your house. Consistency builds trust. (18:28) The 4-step framework for getting started with PR (20:42) KJ's morning dog walk moment and the voices that told her she shouldn't be "caught" resting (21:33) What success actually looks like (hint: it's not the corner office) (22:24) Chasing exposure vs. building authority: what's the difference and why it matters (23:39) How to leverage a media appearance or podcast in 11+ ways (25:38) "Won't I annoy my audience if I post about the same thing too many times?" Hear KJ's answer (26:39) Authority is built AFTER the big attention getter, not from it (27:32) What KJ used to believe about PR that she no longer believes (28:28) PR crisis management: when to speak, when to walk away (28:41) Celebrity PR disasters: Blake Lively, the Kardashians, and the lesson (30:15) Why short-form social media has ruined our ability to think before we post (34:04) Rapid fire favorites: movies, books, and products KJ is loving right now   Links to great things we discussed:  KJ’s Website KJ on Instagram KJ's Podcast KJ’s Show Recommendations - Sopranos & Billions KJ’s Movie Recommendations  - The Devil Wears Prada & The Devil Wears Prada 2 KJ’s Book Recommendation - Start With Yourself KJ’s Product Recommendation - Saint Jo Function Health Uplift App Wise Woman Era Alli on YouTube I hope you loved this episode! 🎉If you haven’t already, make sure you tap that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you never miss an episode. And yes, we’re on YouTube now too! If the show has been a bright spot for you, leaving a review or a few stars is such a gift. It truly means the world to me. Take good care of yourself, and keep showing up with joy. Share this episode with a friend who might enjoy it too!   xo, Alli

    40 min

  2. 4d ago

    Resentment Is Trying to Tell You Something

    Join the  Uplift Community App  TODAY!  There is a version of resentment that looks like aggressively scrubbing a plate that did nothing wrong. Or snapping at a question that was not actually loaded. Or lying awake, mildly offended, with nothing specific to blame. That is resentment. And it never asks for permission before it shows up. In this episode, I get honest about what I learned in a season when I said yes to everything, smiled through it all, and slowly disappeared in the process. Resentment is not proof that you are difficult. It is doing its job. And its job is to get your attention.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why resentment leaks out sideways before you even realize it's there The difference between being selfless and being conflict-averse (and how to tell which one you're doing) What "resentment is the receipt for self-abandonment" actually means for your daily life How your nervous system stores every unspoken need and why that creates a shorter fuse The one question to ask yourself the next time irritation hits bigger than the moment deserves Why honesty isn't a threat to your relationships, but what will actually sustain them The mantra Alli gives you to practice this week   Timestamps: (00:26) - Resentment doesn't announce itself; it leaks out (01:33) - The pantry hiding spot and what Alli was actually doing there (02:58) - "Resentment is the receipt for self-abandonment." (03:40) - Why resentment is like a check engine light you keep ignoring (05:16) - How Becky (the amygdala) keeps track of every overextension (05:59) - What a nervous system on alert actually feels like in your body (07:04) - The internal courtroom where you're prosecuting people who have no idea (07:42) - What we were raised to believe about being a "good woman." (08:26) - Self-abandonment dressed up as love (08:49) - What Jesus actually modeled about boundaries and stewardship (09:34) - The first step: telling yourself the truth about what you're actually feeling (10:35) - The one question to ask when irritation spikes (11:03) - Making one honest adjustment instead of overhauling everything (13:26) - Do this for you, for the people you love, for the legacy you're leaving (16:09) - Alli's challenge: make a photo book   Links to great things we discussed:  Alli’s Product Recommendation - Snapfish Photo Books Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram Don’t forget to watch Alli Worthington on YouTube!  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars. Your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    20 min

  3. Jun 1

    How to Age Strong: Bones, Biohacking & Hormones with Gerontologist Zora Benhamou

    Join the  Uplift Community App  TODAY!    If you are in your 40s or 50s and notice your body changing faster than you expected, you are not imagining it. Most women never receive the information they need until something feels off. That is why I wanted this conversation so much. Zora Benhamou is a gerontologist with a master’s degree from USC who studies aging from every angle. She hosts the Hack My Age podcast and helps women understand what is really happening in their bodies during perimenopause and menopause so they can take action with confidence. Zora is warm, direct, and honest about how research evolves. In this episode, we discuss practical biohacking tips for women over 40, strengthening bone health, balancing hormones, and boosting brain health. You’ll walk away with simple daily habits and science-backed knowledge to help you age strong and feel empowered. You are going to love her.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why women who are "trying everything" often aren't eating enough, and how over-training and under-eating is quietly backfiring What biohacking actually means (and why it's not just for gym bros) The real story on bone health, osteopenia, and why fear is the worst response to a DEXA scan The diet approach that shows up again and again in longevity research Why GLP-1s is concern Zora has for women who don't need them The surprising blood flow restriction tool she used to maintain muscle through two hip replacements What the research actually says about cognitive decline in your 80s (it's better than you've heard) The billboard message Zora wants every woman to see about estrogen and cancer   Timestamps: (02:34) - What is biohacking, and why women need to be in this conversation (04:53) - The Harvard study on longevity and why the foundation matters more than the fancy stuff (05:14) - Alli's experience with Function Health labs and her DEXA scan at 47 (05:59) - What women are missing about bone health (and why fear is making it worse) (07:26) - The six prunes a day hack and other diet approaches for bones (07:56) - How much protein do you actually need, and the right formula for getting it in (15:25) - Under-eating, GLP-1s, and the conversation about women's bodies nobody is having loudly enough (16:17) - The Mediterranean diet and the research behind whole-food eating for longevity (18:23) - Why 1,200 calories a day was always the wrong number (19:06) - What Zora thought about aging at 35 versus now, and the research on ageism (19:26) - Cognitive decline in your 80s: the data is more hopeful than the headlines (20:41) - Crystallized vs. fluid intelligence, and why lifelong learning actually protects your brain (23:01) - The thing that surprised Zora the most in the last year (25:12) - Blood flow restriction bands: what they are, why they work, and who they're for (27:53) - OsteoStrong and biodensity machines: Zora puts the brakes on a recommendation (28:37) - The billboard every woman over 40 needs to see: estrogen does not cause cancer   Links to great things we discussed:  Hack My Age Podcast Blood Flow Restriction Bands - Katsu & Suji Zora’s Movie Recommendation: F1 Zora’s Book Recommendation: Nourishing Menopause Zora’s Product Recommendations: Vitali Copper Peptide Skincare Collection Function Health Uplift App Wise Woman Era Alli on YouTube   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars. It means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

    37 min

  4. May 28

    How to Trust Yourself Again After You've Been Wrong

    Join the  Uplift Community App  TODAY!    There is a specific kind of loss that does more than hurt. It rearranges you. I know because I lived it. A business I believed in fell apart. A few friendships did not survive the fallout. A decision I made in good faith went sideways in a way I never saw coming. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, I stopped trusting the voice inside me that said yes in the first place. This episode isn't about the mistake. It's about what follows: confidence fading, second-guessing taking over, hovering over the brake, even with a clear path. I'll take you back to when it happened to me. After a meeting with an investor in New York City in 2012, I sat in a cafe with four close friends and business partners. Without anyone saying a word, we all knew it was over. The startup was finished. Two friendships didn't survive. For almost a year after, I was moving, but not freely. Every decision felt like a test I was set to fail. If you've been there, this episode may finally voice what you've felt in silence.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why being wrong about a decision and being wrong about yourself as a decision maker are two completely different things (and how your brain collapses them together in about four seconds) What your amygdala (Alli calls her "Becky") is actually doing after a painful loss, and why what feels like discernment is often just fear doing excellent costume work The two questions to ask about any decision you're still carrying at 2 a.m. How to turn the replay loop into actual data instead of an open wound Why self-trust rebuilds through small, consistent low-stakes reps, not a breakthrough moment   Timestamps: (00:21) - Introduction: How to trust yourself again when you've been wrong (01:36) - The friendship losses that made it personal (02:19) - What happens when being wrong stops being an event and starts feeling like a verdict (02:41) - The four-second leap: "that didn't work" to "I can't trust my own judgment" (03:03) - How Alli pulled back, got quiet, started hovering over the brake (03:42) - Fear as an excellent designer: it shows up looking exactly like wisdom (03:42) - What self-distrust actually looks like (running decisions by five people, scrolling for someone else's experience, "waiting on God" when you heard from him two weeks ago) (04:46) - Starting to ask a different question about what she'd lost (05:16) - Grieving the losses as real, then separating them from a verdict about her instincts (07:28) - The GPS analogy: deleting the app because it routed you through a construction zone once (08:00) - Romans 8:28: not a promise that decisions will be perfect, but a promise that He works with all of them (08:49) - What the rebuild is really about (hint: not becoming better, giving yourself permission to use the judgment you already have) (09:28) - Step 1: Separate the data from the story. Two questions to ask about the decision you're still carrying. (10:37) - The identity shift that changes everything: "I'm becoming a woman who evaluates decisions instead of using them as evidence against herself" (11:22) - Step 2: Turn regret into data. One question that stops the replay loop. (11:57) - What to do with the answer (and what to do if the answer is nothing new) (12:38) - Step 3: Stack small trust reps. Physical therapy for your confidence. (13:28) - Stacking evidence until your brain starts treating decision-making as something you can handle (14:14) - Being wrong does not disqualify you. It sometimes informs you.   Links to great things we discussed:    Alli’s Product Recommendation - Eucerin Face Immersive Hydration Daily Lotion  Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram Don’t forget to watch Alli Worthington on YouTube!  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars. It means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

    19 min

  5. May 25

    Boundaries, Balance, and Breakthroughs: The Best of Emotional Health

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  Some truths need to be heard more than once. Not because you missed them the first time, but because real change takes repetition. It sinks in slowly. It settles into your bones a little more each time until one day you realize you are living it instead of just nodding along. That is exactly why this episode exists. We are closing out the Emotional Health Series with a best of collection featuring the most meanin   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars -- your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!  xo, Alli

    31 min

  6. May 21

    The Invisible Habit That's Making Every Hard Thing Harder

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  There is a woman who has been circling the same cul-de-sac for years. The book that lives fully formed in her head. The coaching program she keeps talking herself out of launching. The health goals she has been almost serious about. She is not doing anything. She is researching. She is saving posts. She is gathering information because gathering information feels responsible. It feels wise. It feels like progress. She is just never quite ready to start. If you have been that woman or you love that woman, this episode is for you. Alli breaks down the neuroscience behind why responsible, capable women get stuck in a loop of almost, names the voice in your head that keeps you waiting, and gives you two practical exercises to finally move forward.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why your brain generates endless "responsible reasons" to keep you waiting (and why they always sound like wisdom) The amygdala's role in keeping you safe from calling, risk, and being seen trying The thought underneath the thought that's actually running your decisions How Caleb and Joshua reached a different conclusion than the 10 spies from the exact same data Why the length of time you've been "almost ready" matters more than the reason itself   Timestamps: (01:00) - Meet Sarah: a composite of 20 years of conversations with women in business and life (01:57) - The Library of Congress has fewer saved articles than Sarah's phone right now (03:05) - Meet Becky: what neuroscientists call the amygdala, and why she runs the meeting (04:15) - Becky speaks in the language of wisdom because wisdom doesn't trigger resistance (05:41) - The thought underneath the thought: what Sarah is actually afraid to find out (06:30) - The 10 spies, the promised land, and what Caleb and Joshua decided instead (07:33) - Faithfulness requires forward motion. Circling indefinitely is not waiting on God. (07:54) - Two exercises: pick the one that makes your chest tighten (10:06) - Recommendations: kombucha, probiotics, and your daily health habit   Links to great things we discussed:  Alli’s Product Recommendations - KeVita Kombucha and Health-Ade Pomegranate Blueberry Kombucha Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram Don’t forget to watch Alli Worthington on YouTube!    I hope you loved this episode! 🎉If you haven’t already, make sure you tap that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you never miss an episode. And yes—we’re on YouTube now too! If the show has been a bright spot for you, leaving a review or a few stars is such a gift. It truly means the world to me. Take good care of yourself, and keep showing up with joy. Share this episode with a friend who might enjoy it too!   xo, Alli

    13 min

  7. May 18

    Letting Go, Leveling Up: The Best of Faith-Driven Disciplines

    If you've been striving, spinning, and quietly wondering if you're doing this whole life thing right, this episode is for you. This best-of collection brings together six of the most faith-fueled, soul-shifting conversations in the history of The Alli Worthington Show. Not because you need more information. Because you need to be reminded of what's already true. These are the conversations I go back to. The ones that get into you.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to stop looking for a giant answer and start following the arrows God is already putting in your path (Emily P. Freeman) What it actually means to find and show up for a mentor (Bianca Juarez Olthoff) Why suffering doesn't disqualify you from God's nearness and how grace meets you in your worst moments (Kate Bowler) A simple one-minute practice that literally resets your brain and drops your cortisol (John Eldredge) How to give more grace than feels fair and why that's what saves your friendships (Laura Tremaine) What God's holiness actually means for your daily life and why everything else will fail you until you understand it (Jackie Hill Perry) Timestamps: 0:00 - God never intended your soul to carry the heartache of the world 1:02 - Emily P. Freeman on finding your next right thing 5:39 - Bianca Juarez Olthoff on how to find and keep a mentor 11:26 - Practical mentorship tips and making it work in real life 12:48 - Kate Bowler on God's strength in the middle of suffering 18:15 - John Eldredge on the one-minute pause practice 20:44 - John Eldredge on benevolent detachment 24:27 - Laura Tremaine on investing in friendships and extending grace 29:44 - Jackie Hill Perry on God's holiness and why it matters 32:14 - Jackie Hill Perry on how understanding God's holiness helps you trust Him   Links to great things we discussed:  Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram Don’t forget to watch Alli Worthington on YouTube!  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars. It means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo,   Alli

    36 min

  8. May 14

    Why Your Best Ideas Come in the Shower (And What to Do About It)

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  If the shower is the only place you ever have a good idea, you do not have a creativity problem. You have a doing trap problem. And you are not the only one. In this episode, I break down the brain science behind why your creative network goes quiet when you live in constant execution mode and what it actually takes to wake it back up. We talk about the default mode network, why your best ideas show up when you finally stop pushing, and a Stanford study that explains why walking can unlock creative thinking in a way your desk never will. If you have been feeling stuck, scattered, or strangely blank when you try to think deeply, this episode gives you the neuroscience and the practical steps to start accessing your best ideas again.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: What the "doing trap" is and why high-achieving women fall into it without realizing it How your brain's default mode network works and why it only fires when you stop directing your attention outward Why scrolling and podcasts don't count as rest (and what actually does) The Stanford research on walking that explains every good idea you've ever had between the car and the front door Two simple moves to unlock creative thinking, starting today Why getting a DEXA scan should be on your to-do list, and what it can tell you about your bone density and visceral fat Timestamps: (00:00) - The shower as executive boardroom: where Alli's best ideas were born (02:08) - Living in constant motion and the locked-office-building brain (03:41) - Accidentally creating conditions for good thinking in the margins of your day (04:41) - What the "doing trap" is and how it shuts down your creative network (05:43) - The attic analogy: where creativity lives in your brain (06:53) - The default mode network explained (the most important thing your brain does) (08:08) - Cognitive inhibition: why your brain closes the creative door (09:00) - The Stanford walking study that changed everything (11:06) - Why scrolling and podcasts aren't actually rest (12:35) - How Alli engineered every quiet moment out of her day (and didn't even notice) (13:31) - The darkroom analogy: and the word "Selah" that's been there all along (14:38) - The two moves: walks without your phone and a pre-work pause (18:14) - This week's recommendation: go get a DEXA scan   Links to great things we discussed:  Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram Don’t forget to watch Alli Worthington on YouTube!    I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars. Your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    17 min
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Alli Worthington talks to women leading, raising families, and wondering why they're exhausted by 3pm. The show covers the things that actually matter: faith that holds up under pressure, work that doesn't require burnout, and what's really going on with your energy, hormones, and health in midlife. With over 2 million downloads, you'll get expert interviews and coaching conversations designed to help you stop pushing through and start building something that actually works. Alli is a five-time bestselling author, CEO, and mom to five sons. She's been a business coach for over fifteen years, helping women who are tired of advice that sounds good but doesn't work. The kind of advice you'd pay a coach thousands of dollars for, twice a week, for free.

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  • Creator
    Alli Worthington
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    537
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    Clean
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