WTF - Stories and Advice

Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove

Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove, are two expat hypnotherapists living in New Zealand. They love having chats with interesting people, telling crazy stories and giving hopefully good life advice. Listen if you are interested in psychology, tips for improving your mental health, sex life and relationships, WTF news, funny stories, the paranormal, book reviews, shocking listener stories, health tips and advice on how to improve your life... Warning: Adult language. If you are easily offended, this show is not for you.

  1. FEB 28

    Am I the a-hole?

    WTF Stories & Advice: Covering for Cheaters, Keeping Confidences, and AI Consciousness Hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw read a Reddit AITAH post about a husband upset that his wife won't admit her best friend is cheating. They share a personal story about covering for a friend's drunken kiss and discuss when loyalty crosses a line. The episode ends with recommendations including The Bronze Horseman, the Conscious Observers podcast (AI and bots communicating), comparisons of Claude vs ChatGPT reliability and ethics, speculation about AI consciousness and control, and a plug for watching MAFS Australia. To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout 00:00 Gates Epstein Rant 00:50 Questioning Authority 02:00 AITA Cheating Story 05:26 Advice Boundaries Trust 06:29 Therapist Confidentiality 08:51 Ride Or Die Friend Tale 12:22 When Not To Tell 13:02 Friendship Versus Truth 13:48 When Secrets Must Break 14:58 Staying Out Of Affairs 15:48 Trusting Your Gut 16:38 Book Pick Bronze Horseman 17:54 Podcast Pick Conscious Observers 18:51 AI Consciousness Debate 20:24 ChatGPT Versus Claude 23:21 MAFS Australia Recap Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208

    26 min
  2. FEB 17

    I Unintentionally Joined a Cult

    Unintentionally Joining a Cult Caroline and Daryl and read a listener letter about unintentionally joining a cult after responding to a vague Craigslist job ad offering housing and "purpose." The hosts speculate about what the group's money-making operation might be and discuss other cult-related media and scandals, including Netflix's "Dancing for the Devil," a podcast about Jerry Falwell Jr., and conversation about propaganda, social engineering, and media influence. They share recommendations (the film "Cry-Baby," Netflix's "Him & Her," and the book "Propaganda" by Edward L. Bernays) and close by inviting comments, letters, and ratings. To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com 
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 00:00 Welcome to WTF Stories & Advice  00:33 Trigger warnings, dark humor & laughing through trauma 01:23 Letter begins: Unintentionally joining a cult after college 02:47 The 'job' interview at the mansion: Tim & Jenna's pitch 06:17 Moving in: phone control, routines, isolation & 'the fold' rules 08:34 The shocking discovery in the park (leader + Tim) 09:37 Gaslighting & sedation: 'it was a dream' and the pill 11:20 Planning the escape: playing along and getting out via grocery run 12:45 Aftermath + hosts speculate: cult, trafficking, blackmail? 14:36 Cult media & parallels: TikTok cult doc and Jerry Falwell Jr. scandal 17:15 Turning Point/Liberty University rabbit hole & alleged cult connections 24:02 Handlers, honey traps & political gossip: Patel, Epstein jokes, Greenland 26:57 Why Greenland Matters: Data Centers, Minerals, and Strategy 27:54 Can You Just Buy a Country?  28:35 Greenland UFO Rumors & the "Forgotten" Underground US Base 29:44 Government Waste, Audits, and the Price of Incompetence 30:30 Post-Truth & "Disclosure": Are We Being Primed for Aliens? 32:04 Desensitization Playbook: From War Talk to Mask Culture 37:05 Critical Thinking, Changing Your Mind, and How Schools Shape Beliefs 41:35 Movie & TV Recs (Cry-Baby, Him & Her) + Propaganda Reading List 47:06 CIA-Hollywood, Blackmail Theories, and Final Sign-off Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208

    51 min
  3. FEB 1

    My fiance wants a threesome

    In this episode, hosts Caroline and Daryl discuss a variety of topics, starting with a humorous monologue about their pets. They share their backgrounds, sparking a deeper conversation about current geopolitical issues and personal histories linked to military bases.  The main focus delves into a Reddit story about a woman whose fiancé pressures her for a threesome, exploring the boundaries of consent, relationship dynamics, and the effects on trust.  Other subjects include dealing with coercion, navigating difficult relationships, and the nuances of bisexuality. They close out the episode with TV show recommendations, featuring 'Beauty' on Disney and 'Afterlife' with Ricky Gervais. To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com 
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 00:00 Introduction and Cat Story 02:05 Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice 12:45 Reddit Story: Threesome Dilemma 21:47 Setting Boundaries in Relationships 22:14 The Pressure of Sexual Expectations 23:03 Community Feedback and Personal Reflections 25:23 Confronting the Partner 27:24 Understanding the Core Issue 29:51 Deciding the Future of the Relationship 31:36 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward 38:05 Recommendations and Closing Remarks   Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208

    44 min
  4. JAN 13

    Stalker Stories and Spooky Mirrors

    In this lively episode of WTF Stories and Advice, therapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove share personal and listener-submitted stories filled with eerie and unsettling experiences. Caroline recounts her unnerving stalker encounters, while Daryl reads a spooky mirror story from a listener named Sarah.  The hosts discuss the possibility of ghosts interacting with electronics and delve into the Mandela Effect, while also touching on TV recommendations. The episode blends humor and horror, providing both laughter and thought-provoking conversation about paranormal activities and personal safety. To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com 
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208 00:00 Introduction and Awkward Beginnings 00:27 Meet the Hosts: Caroline and Daryl 00:55 Therapists with a Twist 01:19 Daryl's Story Jar: Listener Submissions 01:33 Spooky Stories and Sexy Confessions 02:15 Sarah's Spooky Encounter 03:31 Caroline's Stalker Stories 08:31 Safety Tips and More Creepy Tales 10:12 Analyzing Sarah's Story 13:00 Haunted Houses and Personal Experiences 16:41 Unexplained Phone Phenomena 17:19 Spooky Text Message Incident 18:50 Granny's Ghostly Phone Interference 19:36 Mandela Effect Mysteries 21:15 CERN and Parallel Realities 23:51 Coke and Pepsi Wars 26:09 Married at First Sight Discussion 29:08 Podcast Wrap-Up

    31 min
  5. Help, I met the perfect man but he has a weird fetish...

    JAN 6

    Help, I met the perfect man but he has a weird fetish...

    In this episode of 'WTF Stories and Advice,' hosts Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove discuss a listener's dilemma regarding her boyfriend's unexpected fetish. Caroline and Daryl provide insights into the complexities of fetishes, the importance of boundaries, and the potential impact on future plans, emphasizing the value of open communication and personal boundaries.  The episode also touches on personal anecdotes and offers advice on relationships, fertility, and making informed decisions. To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com 
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208   00:00 Introduction and Warnings  01:41 Listener's Letter: Desperate for Love  02:58 The Perfect Match? 04:17 A Shocking Discovery 05:09 Pony Play Revelation 07:03 Seeking Advice 10:02 Hosts' Personal Experiences 13:22 Understanding Fetishes 17:12 Final Thoughts and Advice 20:57 Navigating Relationship Dilemmas 21:15 Cultural Perspectives on Eating Horses 22:12 Biological Clocks and Relationship Decisions 23:20 Fertility Insights and Advice 25:17 Understanding Pony Play 27:58 Exploring Personal Boundaries 34:59 Book and Media Recommendations

    40 min
  6. Help, I'm addicted to porn and it's ruining my life...

    12/23/2025

    Help, I'm addicted to porn and it's ruining my life...

    In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw address a letter from a 36-year-old man struggling with porn addiction and its detrimental effects on his marriage and mental health.  To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208 00:00 Introduction 00:42 Reading the Listener's Letter 04:36 Discussion on Porn and Sex Addiction 08:34 Advice for Overcoming Addiction 13:58 Impact of Porn on Relationships 16:47 Rewiring Habits and Final Thoughts 17:12 Discovering New Favourites 17:21 The Cold Turkey Approach 18:11 The Dangers of Pornography 20:18 Rewiring the Brain 21:08 Addressing Insecurities 21:57 Finding Meaning and Purpose 23:02 Seeking Professional Help 23:55 Book Recommendations 29:46 The Importance of Communication

    34 min
  7. The Tale of The Tulsa Hex House

    12/16/2025

    The Tale of The Tulsa Hex House

    Unmasking Manipulation: The Tale of Tulsa Hex House   In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hypnotherapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove delve into the chilling story of the Tulsa Hex House, where psychological manipulation and control led two women to be exploited by a woman named Carol Ann Smith in 1944.   They analyze the red flags of manipulation, including financial control, isolation, and the creation of a special belief system. The duo also provide actionable advice for listeners on identifying and combating manipulation in their own lives. They also recommend resources, books, and films that are relevant to the topics discussed.   To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com 
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208         00:00 Introduction and Teaser 00:50 Introducing the Tulsa Hex House   01:37 Meet the Hosts 02:29 The Creepy Case Unfolds           03:10 The Manipulation Tactics   09:57 The Aftermath and Legal Loopholes 11:09 Modern-Day Manipulation and Hypnosis 21:52 Red Flags and Financial Control 27:59 Isolation Tactics 30:59 Special Belief Systems and Coercion 35:43 Scams and Manipulation Stories 38:50 Timeshare Scams and How to Avoid Them 39:35 TV Show and Book Recommendations

    43 min
4.7
out of 5
189 Ratings

About

Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove, are two expat hypnotherapists living in New Zealand. They love having chats with interesting people, telling crazy stories and giving hopefully good life advice. Listen if you are interested in psychology, tips for improving your mental health, sex life and relationships, WTF news, funny stories, the paranormal, book reviews, shocking listener stories, health tips and advice on how to improve your life... Warning: Adult language. If you are easily offended, this show is not for you.

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