Arapaho UMC

Arapaho UMC
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Progressive theology and engaging Sermons & podcasts from an affirming church in Richardson, Texas (just North of Dallas). We are intentional about our faith development: we ask questions, develop deep and lasting friendships, and work together to make a positive difference in our community. Nobody is perfect here, but being a part of this place brings out the best of us.

  1. 2d ago

    Religious Trauma & Finding a Home Anyways

    Many of us carry some sort of religious trauma, that even when we think we’ve handled it enough to come back to church, catches us off guard. A word or even a smell can send us back to a time when we weren’t sure about our faith or belonging due to deep church hurt. So, what do you do? Do you leave again, unable to exist alongside the triggers, or do we find a way to live with them, but not letting them control our lives?  Talking about my experience in graduate school when I left the church after being done with its BS, and finding my way back only to still be talking with my therapist nearly 11 years later and realizing that I still have a lot of unpacking of imbedded theologies that routinely try to ruin my life, even as a Pastor who studied these things and know they’re toxic theology.  Our trauma is ours, but we are not our traumas. We may leave the church because of the harms it has done to us, but God does not leave us when we walk out those doors and say we are never coming back. God stays with us, all throughout our lives, whether we end up back in a pew or not.  Coming back to church is a recognition that we are beloved children of God and that we deserve a place that is what we need for our souls and hearts. Returning to church is defiance to those that say we don’t belong and ran us out the door. And in our stories, we can find truths and understandings that shaped us. These truths are vital to the work of the church in becoming more like the kindom of God, a place of healing and hope for our own souls and our communities.

    25 min

  2. Jun 21

    Religious Trauma and Finding a Home Anyways

    Many of us carry some sort of religious trauma, that even when we think we’ve handled it enough to come back to church, catches us off guard. A word or even a smell can send us back to a time when we weren’t sure about our faith or belonging due to deep church hurt. So, what do you do? Do you leave again, unable to exist alongside the triggers, or do we find a way to live with them, but not letting them control our lives?  Talking about my experience in graduate school when I left the church after being done with its BS, and finding my way back only to still be talking with my therapist nearly 11 years later and realizing that I still have a lot of unpacking of imbedded theologies that routinely try to ruin my life, even as a Pastor who studied these things and know they’re toxic theology.  Our trauma is ours, but we are not our traumas. We may leave the church because of the harms it has done to us, but God does not leave us when we walk out those doors and say we are never coming back. God stays with us, all throughout our lives, whether we end up back in a pew or not.  Coming back to church is a recognition that we are beloved children of God and that we deserve a place that is what we need for our souls and hearts. Returning to church is defiance to those that say we don’t belong and ran us out the door. And in our stories, we can find truths and understandings that shaped us. These truths are vital to the work of the church in becoming more like the kindom of God, a place of healing and hope for our own souls and our communities.

    30 min

  3. Jun 14

    Today I learned... About Racism

    Most of us learned a version of American history with a lot of gaps in it. This sermon is a personal reckoning with one of the most important: Juneteenth — what it actually was, what it means, and why its story is still unfolding. On June 19, 1865, Union soldiers arrived in Galveston with news that had been true for two and a half years: you are free. You've been free. Those in power had simply refused to say so. The sermon moves through what Juneteenth teaches us about truth and its relationship to liberation — not just as a historical fact, but as a theological claim. The gospel, as theologian James Cone spent his life arguing, is not only about the saving of souls but about the liberation of the oppressed in all its forms. The cross stands not in comfortable sanctuaries of the powerful, but in solidarity with those who suffer. Jesus of Nazareth, standing in his own hometown synagogue, quoted Isaiah — good news to the poor, freedom for the captive — and said: this is what I'm here to do. The sermon wrestles honestly with where the church has failed — including our own Methodist tradition's complicated history — and what it looks like to do the ongoing work. Drawing on the framework of White Fragility and the broader racial justice literature, this isn't a lecture from the outside. It's a testimony from the inside: here is what I didn't know, here is what I've had to unlearn, here is what I'm still learning. The invitation isn't guilt — it's honesty. And honesty, the gospel teaches us, is where freedom begins.

    24 min

  4. Jun 7

    Skiing Downhill

    VBS Sunday

    19 min

  5. May 31

    You Are The Image of God

    What does it mean to be fully, courageously yourself — and what does the first poem in scripture have to say about it? On the first Sunday of Pride Month, we explore the audacious claim at the heart of Genesis 1: that all of humanity — across the infinite spectrum of who we are — is created in the image of God, and called very good. But first, Deuteronomy warns us: don't shrink God into an idol in the shape of a man or a woman, because God is bigger than all of that. The same God who transcends our categories is the God who blesses every variation within them. Drawing on the Hebrew poetic tradition of dualisms — day and night, water and land, male and female — we discover that the most life-giving places are always at the shoreline, at the sunset, where things meet and mix and become something new. That's not a departure from the image of God. That is the image of God. Woven through the exegesis is a personal story: what Jonathan learned about being his truest self — a boy who didn't fit in every locker room but fit perfectly in his own skin — from siblings who modeled the courage to be exactly who they were. What happens when the people closest to us have the courage to be themselves? They give us permission to do the same. And when the whole community of creation shows up as its truest self, we finally get to see the full image of the God who made us all very good.

    27 min

  6. May 24

    Christianity Without Cultural Conformity

    The early church almost didn't make it — not because of persecution from outside, but because of a question from inside: do you have to become one of us first? The Gentile breakthrough in Acts 10 is the story of the Spirit repeatedly, insistently answering: no. Peter's rooftop vision, the household of Cornelius, the Jerusalem Council, Paul's confrontation of Peter in Galatia — this is not a tidy triumph. It is a community stumbling, arguing, reverting, and slowly learning that the gospel does not belong to any one culture's expression of it. God shows no partiality. That was the revolutionary claim. And the early church kept having to relearn it. Fear-based Christianity has always confused the message with the messenger's culture — demanding not just faithfulness to Jesus, but conformity to one particular way of being Christian. The right music, the right vocabulary, the right politics, the right affect in worship, the right way of reading scripture. The price of belonging has often been becoming someone else. And that is not the gospel. That is colonialism wearing a cross. But Paul's vision in 1 Corinthians 12 is the body the Gentile breakthrough was always moving toward: not uniformity, but genuine, irreducible difference held together by love. The eye cannot say to the hand "I have no need of you." Every part is itself. Every part is needed. The body doesn't work despite its diversity — it works because of it. What the Spirit was doing in Acts 10 was building something that looked like that: a community where Jew and Greek, slave and free, male and female could belong fully without having to flatten what made them who they were. We measure faithfulness not by conformity to our cultural preferences, but by the fruit of love, justice, and transformation. That means we can hold our convictions passionately and humbly — confident in the Jesus we follow, curious about what God might be doing in expressions of faith that look different from ours. It means asking honestly: what are our versions of "you have to become Jewish first?" What cultural requirements have we quietly attached to belonging that have nothing to do with Jesus? And it means building, right here, the kind of community where people don't have to check their story, their culture, or their questions at the door — because this body only works if every part shows up as itself.

    24 min

  7. May 17

    Forgiveness Without Enabling

    Many of us learned that forgiveness means being a doormat—that good Christians always turn the other cheek, never set boundaries, and keep giving chances no matter how much harm is done. We were taught that forgiveness requires immediate reconciliation, that holding people accountable is unforgiving, and that protecting ourselves is selfish. But what if Jesus' radical call to forgiveness is actually about liberation, not enabling? Fear-based forgiveness creates victims rather than healers. It demands that we pretend harm didn't happen, trust people who haven't changed, and put ourselves back in danger to prove our spirituality. It confuses forgiveness with foolishness, grace with gullibility, and turns Jesus' liberating message into a tool for continued oppression. But forgiveness without enabling recognizes that releasing resentment for our own healing doesn't require returning to harmful relationships. We can forgive someone and still have boundaries. We can release anger and still demand justice. We can choose not to carry the poison of bitterness while still protecting ourselves and others from ongoing harm. True forgiveness isn't about the offender at all—it's about freeing ourselves from the prison of perpetual hurt. It's about refusing to let someone else's actions define our future. It's about breaking cycles of harm rather than

    26 min

  8. May 12

    Salvation Without Shame

    Perhaps nowhere has fear distorted faith more than in our understanding of salvation. Many of us learned that we were fundamentally broken, deserving only punishment, saved only by believing the right things about Jesus' death. Shame became the foundation of our relationship with God rather than love. But Paul declares: there is no condemnation. What changes when salvation is about liberation rather than transaction, transformation rather than punishment-avoidance? Fear-based salvation starts with the assumption that humans are so depraved that we deserve eternal torture, making salvation primarily about escaping what we deserve rather than becoming who we're meant to be. It creates Christians who are grateful for rescue but still fundamentally see themselves as worms, sinners, or failures rather than beloved children of God. But what if salvation is less about God's anger being satisfied and more about God's love being revealed? What if it's about liberation from everything that keeps us from flourishing—fear, shame, isolation, injustice, despair? What if Jesus didn't come to appease divine wrath but to reveal divine love and show us what human life looks like when it's lived in full connection with God? Salvation without shame begins with the radical affirmation that we are beloved, created in God's image, worthy of love not because of what we believe but because of whose we are. It sees Jesus' death not as payment to an angry God but as the ultimate demonstration of divine love—God entering human suffering to transform it from the inside out. This doesn't minimize sin or pretend our choices don't matter. It reframes sin as anything that separates us from love—our own flourishing and our neighbors' well-being—rather than as crimes against cosmic law. Salvation becomes about healing rather than legal transaction, restoration rather than rescue, transformation rather than transportation. When we understand salvation as God's yes to human flourishing rather than God's no to human depravity, everything changes. We can receive grace without shame, grow without fear, and share good news that's actually good. And that makes faith finally free to become what it was always meant to be: a source of life, love, and liberation for all.

    29 min
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Progressive theology and engaging Sermons & podcasts from an affirming church in Richardson, Texas (just North of Dallas). We are intentional about our faith development: we ask questions, develop deep and lasting friendships, and work together to make a positive difference in our community. Nobody is perfect here, but being a part of this place brings out the best of us.

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  • Creator
    Arapaho UMC
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    120
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Arapaho UMC
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