Married Into Crazy with Snooks and Lovey

Ronna and Ernie Cason
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"Marriage Coaching for Love, Laughter, and Overcoming Adversity" - We met on a blind date and when we got engaged 4 months later, my heart was pierced...not by Cupid's arrow, but by a serrated steak knife and that's when our journey began. That's when we realized we both Married Into Crazy! We are just Real Folk sharing real talk about Love and Life while occasionally tackling a few taboos, stereotypes, and misconceptions confronting the institution of marriage (and relationships at large). Though we can't speak for everyone, we can offer our unique perspective. If you've ever wanted to be a fly on the wall and listen to another married couple's random conversations, stick around and get your "ear hustle" on with a couple that truly Married Into Crazy!!!

  1. Eff Them Kids! Why Choosing Your Spouse FIRST Actually Makes You a BETTER Parent | Ep. 345

    MAY 6

    Eff Them Kids! Why Choosing Your Spouse FIRST Actually Makes You a BETTER Parent | Ep. 345

    Inspired by DeDe Thomas's jaw-dropping declaration at the 1% Conference ("Eff them kids!"), this power couple unpacks why the most radical thing you can do for your children is to prioritize your marriage FIRST. They reveal their deeply personal "Dino Moment" ritual, confess how a forgotten homework folder nearly hijacked their reconnection, and break down the alarming rise of "Grey Divorce" among couples over 50 who sacrificed their relationship on the altar of parenthood. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting a date night that doesn't involve Costco or a kid's volleyball schedule, this episode is your permission slip. Snooks and Lovey share hard-won wisdom on how to keep the spark alive while navigating the chaos of raising children — from regular check-ins and emotional intimacy to the simple power of couch time. They lay out a clear family hierarchy (God → Spouse → Children) and explain why your kids actually need to see you choose each other. Because one day, those kids will change their address without a second thought — and you'll be left staring at a stranger across the dinner table if you haven't done the work. Whether you're newlyweds expecting your first baby or empty nesters trying to find each other again, this episode delivers the wake-up call your marriage needs. Packed with real talk, raw vulnerability, and actionable advice you can implement tonight, Snooks and Lovey prove once again why they're the couple you didn't know you needed in your corner. Hit play, share this with your partner, and get ready to fight FOR your marriage — not just survive it.  🗝️ Key Takeaways  1. Your marriage is the foundation — When you prioritize your spouse, the whole family benefits  2. Kids will leave — They'll change their address without a second thought; make sure you still know who's sitting across from you  3. Grey Divorce is preventable — It starts with neglecting your marriage during the child-rearing years  4. Costco is NOT a date night — Intentional quality time means dedicated couple time, not errands together  5. Model what you want your kids to replicate — Children learn about healthy relationships by watching yours  6. The "Dino Moment" principle — Protect your rituals of connection; don't let parenting duties hijack your intimacy

    34 min
  2. The 1% Marriage Formula: What Eric Thomas Taught Us

    APR 22

    The 1% Marriage Formula: What Eric Thomas Taught Us

    Snooks and Lovey take you inside Eric Thomas' transformative 1% Conference in Chicago, where world-class speakers including Sarah Jakes Roberts, Jameis Winston, Pastor Jamal Bryant, and Dr. Sonia Stribling dropped marriage-saving wisdom that applies to every relationship. Discover the power of gratitude in marriage from NFL quarterback Jameis Winston's daily 3:30 PM alarm, learn why friendship is the foundation that sustains love when romance fades, and hear Sarah Jakes Roberts' profound teaching on praying for those who hurt you. This episode breaks down actionable insights from the three-day immersive experience, including ET and DeDe's rare appearances, powerful mantras for course correction, and the revolutionary concept that sometimes your old marriage has to die for a new, healthier one to be born. Whether you're struggling or thriving, these 1% principles will transform how you show up in your relationship. Faith-based, practical, and real talk from a couple married nearly 30 years.    Featured Conference Speakers Discussed:  Eric Thomas (ET) - The Hip Hop Preacher & 1% Conference Founder  DeDe Thomas - ET's wife and behind-the-scenes powerhouse  Sarah Jakes Roberts - Author, Speaker & Pastor  Jameis Winston - NFL Quarterback (Cleveland Browns)  Pastor Jamal Bryant - Senior Pastor, New Birth Missionary Baptist Church (Atlanta)  Dr. Sonia Stribling - Clinical Psychologist & Speaker  Rory & AJ Vaden - Brand Builders Group Founders  Jeremy Anderson - Speaker Pastor  Don Johnson & First Lady Phaedra - Ministry Leaders  CJ & Candace Quinney- Business Strategist Couple    https://www.marriedintocrazy.com

    46 min
  3. 6 Tips To Resurrect Your Marriage

    APR 8

    6 Tips To Resurrect Your Marriage

    Is your marriage stuck in the past? In this powerful Easter-inspired episode of the Married Into Crazy Podcast, hosts Snooks and Lovey draw stunning parallels between Resurrection Sunday and the renewal every marriage needs. With nearly 30 years of marriage and years of experience as marriage coaches, they break down three transformative principles: shedding the "grave clothes" of old labels and resentment, enduring the difficult "Saturday season" when you're doing the work but haven't seen results yet, and embracing a gardener's mindset of nurturing, pruning, and protecting your relationship from the weeds of bitterness. Snooks and Lovey get personal about their own journey — from a near-fatal stabbing, to a divorce request, to a fully resurrected marriage — and challenge couples to stop defining their spouse by who they were and start being curious about who they're becoming. They explore the meaning of true forgiveness, why small daily acts of love matter more than grand gestures, and how a Christ-centered foundation transforms everything. Whether your marriage needs a full resurrection or just a fresh spark, this episode delivers raw honesty, biblical insight, and practical wisdom you can apply today.  Key Takeaways  1. Leave the grave clothes behind. Stop labeling your spouse with who they were. Forgiveness means not weaponizing the past.  2. Endure the Saturday. The hardest season is between crucifying the old marriage and seeing the new one bloom. Don't quit during the transition.  3. Adopt gardener energy. Water, nurture, and prune — and pull bitterness out at the root before it chokes your growth.  4. Build on Christ, not tradition. A genuine relationship with God — not just church attendance — is the foundation that sustains a marriage.  5. Stay curious about your spouse. Radical hospitality means celebrating who they're becoming, not just who they've been.  6. Win with the small stuff. Daily 10-minute breakfasts, pouring coffee, asking "what's new?" — these deposits build lasting relational equity far more than grand gestures.  Check out https://marriedintocrazy.com

    30 min
  4. Prenups Are An Act OF Love, Not Doubt

    MAR 25

    Prenups Are An Act OF Love, Not Doubt

    Family law attorney and author Nadia Gilks joins Snooks and Lovey on this powerful episode of Married Into Crazy to break down one of the most misunderstood tools in marriage: the prenuptial agreement. Licensed in Texas and Nevada since 2009, Nadia specializes in divorces, custody battles, and guardianships — and she's on a mission to change how couples think about prenups. In this episode, Nadia dismantles the myth that prenups are only for the wealthy, arguing passionately that average couples have the most to lose without one. She compares a prenup to car insurance — you don't plan to crash, but you'd never drive without coverage. She walks listeners through the legal essentials of creating a valid, enforceable prenuptial agreement, including why both partners need separate attorneys, why timing matters (never sign within 30–60 days of the wedding), and why full financial disclosure is the make-or-break factor. Visit Nadia Gilkes on all her platforms Check out https://www.marredintocrazy.com

    45 min
  5. The Silent Walk That Saved Marriages - Inside the 2026 MIC Marriage Conference, Part 2 | Ep. 341

    MAR 11

    The Silent Walk That Saved Marriages - Inside the 2026 MIC Marriage Conference, Part 2 | Ep. 341

    In Part 2 of their 2026 MIC Marriage Conference recap, Snooks and Lovey dive deep into the game- changing marriage wisdom that left attendees speechless. This episode breaks down the most impact‐ ful sessions, starting with speaker Mavis's transformative approach to communicating about sex and intimacy. Through a blindfolded index card exercise, couples learned to share desires, dislikes, and needs in a completely non-judgmental space—with only one permitted response: "Thank you for shar‐ ing." The hosts explore how the Gottman Method's "gentle startup" technique can revolutionize diffi‐ cult conversations and why understanding your marriage's "seasons" is critical for maintaining intimacy through life changes like aging, childbirth, and health challenges. The episode also features Snooks and Lovey's own conference segment on "Creating Peace," which in‐ troduced the powerful "Peace Walk" exercise—a silent, hand-holding walk designed to synchronize couples before asking two profound questions: "What in our relationship brings you peace?" and "What do I need to understand better?" But the emotional highlight comes from keynote speaker Joey Kibble, 10-time Grammy winner from Take 6 and divorce recovery coach, whose statement "If it's not healed, it's inherited" became the conference's defining moment. This episode is essential listening for couples ready to do the real work of building a lasting, thriving marriage. Plus, get the exclusive save-the-date for the 2027 Winter Ball & Marriage Conference!

    28 min
  6. Game-Changing Marriage Wisdom From the 2026 MIC Marriage Conference, Part 1

    FEB 25

    Game-Changing Marriage Wisdom From the 2026 MIC Marriage Conference, Part 1

    In this power-packed episode of the Married Into Crazy Podcast, hosts Snooks and Lovey take you behind the scenes of their incredible 2nd Annual Winter Ball of Marriage conference! With over 120 attendees flying in from Maryland, Florida, Arizona, Texas, and all across California, this two-day event was nothing short of transformational. Friday Night Highlights: Experience the magic of "Dinner, Diamonds, and Dance" featuring DJ Nointed, Chicago stepping legend Cree, and delicious catering from Koncrete Kitchen and Louisiana Heaven. Saturday's Expert Sessions Include:  Devon Truvel shares the raw truth about couple entrepreneurship—the roses AND the thorns. Discover the four pillars of finding your niche: What you're good at, what you love, what the world needs, and what you can get paid for. Learn how the Black Wall Street board game is revolutionizing financial literacy education!  The Akintades reveal their secrets to building an UNCOMMON LIFE. As a board-certified gastroenterologist and engineer, they took a 6-month sabbatical to travel 29 countries with their children! Latifa, host of the Money Fit MD podcast, shares practical biblical principles for creating generational wealth.  BONUS: Learn about SMARTE Goals—a revolutionary twist on traditional goal-setting: Specific Measurable Aligned with who you're called to be (Audacious!) Reasonable based on your current season Time-bound Emotionally grounded Plus powerful mantras: "Write it, Read it, Pray about it" | "See it, Speak it, Seek it" | "Be, Do, Have"  Whether you're building a business with your spouse, seeking financial freedom, or wanting to create extraordinary family experiences, this episode delivers actionable wisdom for couples at every stage of marriage.

    26 min
  7. The Sabbath and The Sunday: A Jewish - Catholic Latino Journey Of Two Traditions

    FEB 11

    The Sabbath and The Sunday: A Jewish - Catholic Latino Journey Of Two Traditions

    In this episode, we sit down for a gentle and honest conversation with Joel and Teresa Backman about the quiet beauty found in the merging of two storied heritages: Judaism and Hispanic Catholicism. Beyond the surface-level differences, we explore the shared heartbeat of these two cultures—the deep devotion to family, the sacredness of a shared meal, and the resilience passed down through generations. We talk about what it looks like to build a life that honors both the Shabbat candles and the Sunday traditions, navigating the delicate balance of keeping two flames alive in one home. It is a story of compromise, deep respect, and the discovery that love doesn't require choosing one path, but rather creating a new one together. Visit marriedintocrazy dot com to learn more about what we do to lift up marriages.

    1h 4m
  8. Why Couples Divorce & How To Reset The "WE" In Your Marriage | Ep. 338

    JAN 28

    Why Couples Divorce & How To Reset The "WE" In Your Marriage | Ep. 338

    In this foundational episode, Snooks and Lovey open up about their remarkable 29-year marriage that began with a near-fatal stabbing and survived a near-divorce just four years later. They introduce listeners to the powerful concept of "Resetting the We" and the Six Seasons of Marriage—a framework that helps couples understand where they are and communicate more effectively. Drawing from their recent marriage group session with Intentionally Yours (led by Cloyce and Sheila Dickerson), the hosts walk through each marriage season and share vulnerable insights about where they currently are in their own journey, including navigating grief after losing their son and adjusting to raising their grandson together. The episode delivers actionable wisdom about the importance of regular "check-ins," maintaining individual identity while strengthening the "we," and never forgetting the plot of your own love story. Whether you're in the honeymoon phase or the valley season, this episode equips you with tools to stay connected and build a resilient partnership. Key Topics Discussed ✅ The Origin Story of Snooks & Lovey -How they were "tricked" into meeting each other -The dramatic stabbing incident 5 days after engagement -Lovey's two open-heart surgeries and miraculous recovery ✅ The Fourth Anniversary Divorce Request -How Snooks asked for a divorce at Morton's Steakhouse -The wake-up call that changed everything -Their journey through counseling, coaching, and healing ✅ The CRAZY Method Explained -Compassionate -Real -Accountable -Zealous -Yielding ✅ The Six Seasons of Marriage -Honeymoon/New Beginning: Excitement, discovery, and hope -Building Season: Careers, finances, parenting, and goals take center stage -Valley Season: Illness, grief, conflict, betrayal, or burnout -Adjustment Season: Major life transitions requiring patience -Refining Season: Old wounds surface, growth is uncomfortable -Harvest/Renewal Season: Peace, friendship, and gratitude deepen. ✅ "Resetting the We" Concept -Understanding that resets aren't about failure—they're about realignment -How each spouse can be in different seasons simultaneously T-he importance of respecting where your partner is. ✅ The Power of "The Check-In" -Why weekly or bi-weekly check-ins prevent disconnection -How to implement check-ins without feeling awkward -Using check-ins to stay present and maintain connectedness ✅ "Don't Forget the Plot" - Divorce Attorney Wisdom -Insight from The Diary of a CEO podcast with Steven Bartlett -How couples lose their original story when life gets busy -Why supporting characters (kids, jobs) become the main characters -The danger of writing separate stories under the same roof ✅ You, Me, and We -Maintaining individual identity within marriage -Honoring what attracted you to each other initially -Committing to the collective "we" ✅ Community & Support Systems -The importance of having strong couples in your community -"As iron sharpens iron" - how couples sharpen each other -Avoiding isolation and toxic couple friendships 🎯 Who Should Listen to This Episode? ✔️ Married couples seeking to strengthen their relationship ✔️ Couples experiencing communication challenges ✔️ Partners navigating major life transitions (new baby, job change, relocation) ✔️ Couples dealing with grief or loss ✔️ Engaged couples preparing for marriage ✔️ Marriage counselors and coaches looking for frameworks ✔️ Faith-based couples wanting Christian marriage guidance ✔️ Anyone who feels disconnected from their partner ✔️ Couples raising grandchildren or blended families ✔️ Listeners who enjoy authentic, vulnerable storytelling

    36 min
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"Marriage Coaching for Love, Laughter, and Overcoming Adversity" - We met on a blind date and when we got engaged 4 months later, my heart was pierced...not by Cupid's arrow, but by a serrated steak knife and that's when our journey began. That's when we realized we both Married Into Crazy! We are just Real Folk sharing real talk about Love and Life while occasionally tackling a few taboos, stereotypes, and misconceptions confronting the institution of marriage (and relationships at large). Though we can't speak for everyone, we can offer our unique perspective. If you've ever wanted to be a fly on the wall and listen to another married couple's random conversations, stick around and get your "ear hustle" on with a couple that truly Married Into Crazy!!!

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