My Sexy Business

Kim White

My Sexy Business Podcast is here to help you create a sexy business for a sexy life through real life examples, interviews and wisdom learned over time. A sexy business is one that you own and it doesn't own you. It attracts customers and clients, it never chases them.

  1. 6d ago

    S3 E70 Are You Practicing Your Show Side Manner

    In this episode, Kim White introduces a powerful concept for entrepreneurs who create content: Show Side Manner. Just like a doctor’s bedside manner shapes how patients feel in the room, your show side manner is the way you show up, speak, and connect with your audience whenever you’re “on” for your business. It’s the tone, presence, and care you bring to your podcasts, videos, lives, and presentations that makes people feel seen, safe, respected, and engaged. Kim unpacks why show side manner matters just as much as your strategy, and how to intentionally create an experience your audience wants to come back to. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “show side manner” is and how it parallels a doctor’s bedside manner Why how you deliver your message impacts people more than what you say The difference between performing at your audience and being present with them Simple habits that make your audience feel safe, respected, and cared for A practical question to ask yourself before every podcast, video, or live Key takeaways for small business owners & entrepreneurs: Your voice, pace, and tone are part of your brand, not just your words People remember how they felt in your space more than the exact content You can bring challenge and truth without shaming, rushing, or bruising your audience When your show side manner is strong, trust, retention, and referrals all go up Action step: Before your next podcast, video, live, or presentation, take 10 seconds and ask: “What do I want people to feel while they’re with me?” Then line up your show side manner with that intention: slow your pace a little soften your tone leave space for people to think choose words that build, not bruise If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E70 Are You Practicing Your Show Side Manner
  2. Oct 17

    S3 E69 Stage Busters With Elbows To The Front

    In this episode, Kim White talks about a certain kind of behavior most entrepreneurs have experienced but rarely name: stage busters with elbows to the front. Stage busters are the people who aggressively push themselves into the spotlight, crowding others out so they can be seen, heard, and praised first. Instead of sharing space, collaborating, or elevating the group, they lead with ego and urgency. They use their “elbows” to claim attention and control, often at the expense of trust, safety, and genuine connection. Kim unpacks how this shows up in small business settings and how to stay visible and strong as a leader without becoming a stage buster yourself. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “stage busters with elbows to the front” look like in real business situations How elbowing your way into the spotlight erodes trust, safety, and collaboration Subtle ways entrepreneurs accidentally crowd others out of the room or the conversation Practical shifts to share the stage, invite voices in, and still lead powerfully A gentle challenge to change how you show up in your next meeting or live session Key takeaways for small business owners & entrepreneurs: There’s a difference between showing up and shoving in Leadership that uses “elbows” to take space costs you ideas, honesty, and long-term trust The strongest leaders share the stage on purpose and anchor to the outcome, not their image When people feel safe and seen around you, they bring better ideas, feedback, and commitment Action step: Think of one upcoming situation where you’d normally rush to the front (a team meeting, a live, a collaboration, a networking call). Instead of leading with your elbows, ask: “How can I make this space safer and more collaborative for everyone here?” Then adjust how you show up and notice how the room changes. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E69 Stage Busters With Elbows To The Front
  3. Oct 10

    S3 E68 Do You Know A Showboater?

    In this episode, Kim White talks about a subtle habit that can quietly harm your business relationships, collaborations, and team culture: showboating. Showboating isn’t about being visible as a leader or owning your expertise. It’s when you draw attention to yourself with exaggerated displays of confidence, stories, or success mainly to impress, not to serve. For small business owners and entrepreneurs, this can quietly erode trust with clients, partners, and your own team. Kim breaks down what showboating looks like in everyday business situations and how to stay visible and credible without making it all about you. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “showboating” really is and how it shows up in small business How ego shifts the focus from the work, the client, and the mission to “look at me” Common ways entrepreneurs accidentally showboat in meetings, content, and sales Simple shifts to stay confident and visible while still serving your people A practical challenge to move from proving yourself to genuinely helping Key takeaways for entrepreneurs: Visibility is an asset, but the motive behind it matters You build stronger brands and teams when you share the spotlight Letting your results and client wins speak is more powerful than over-selling yourself When you stay anchored to the mission, your clients and team feel included, seen, and inspired Action step: Think of one scenario in your business where you feel pressure to prove yourself (sales call, social media, networking, team meeting). Instead of turning up the highlight reel, ask: “How can I really help here?” and respond from that place. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E68 Do You Know A Showboater?
  4. Oct 3

    S3 E67 Is Your Focus Face Sending The Wrong Message?

    In this episode, Kim White talks about “focus face” – the expression you unconsciously make when you’re deeply concentrating. Even though you’re simply absorbed in the task or conversation, your face can look serious, intense, or even unfriendly, which can lead people to think you’re upset, checked out, or disapproving. Kim shows how to stay fully focused while also being intentional about the signals you send. Key points: What “focus face” is and why it shows up when you’re concentrating How your serious or intense expression can be misread by team members, clients, or your audience Situations where focus face matters most: meetings, coaching calls, sales conversations, and video Simple ways to balance deep focus with visible warmth and engagement How a bit of awareness and communication can prevent unnecessary misunderstandings Action step for listeners: During your next call or meeting, notice when you slip into focus face. Briefly name it (“If I look serious, it’s just me thinking hard”) and add one visible signal of engagement, like a nod, a small smile, or a quick “I’m with you, keep going.” If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E67 Is Your Focus Face Sending The Wrong Message?
  5. Sep 26

    S3 E66 Have You Ever Gotten Red Carpet Feedback?

    In this episode, Kim White unpacks “Red Carpet Feedback” – feedback that looks helpful on the surface, but actually shows up at the wrong time, for the wrong reasons, and does more harm than good. She explains how this kind of opinion is really about the giver, not the receiver, and how it can quietly drain confidence and escalate vulnerability if you don’t learn to filter it. Key points: What Red Carpet Feedback is and how it differs from true, helpful feedback How bad timing and ego-driven opinions make feedback about the giver, not you The ways Red Carpet Feedback creates insecurity, fear, and confidence leaks Questions to ask when feedback lands so you can filter what’s useful and release the rest How to protect your “runway” before big moments by choosing when and from whom you invite feedback Action step for listeners: Think of one piece of feedback that rattled you more than it helped. Ask: “Was this really for me, or was it about them?” Keep any tiny piece that’s truly useful, and release the rest from having authority over your confidence. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E66 Have You Ever Gotten Red Carpet Feedback?
  6. Sep 19

    S3 E65 Are You Majoring On The Minors?

    In this episode, Kim White shines a light on a common trap for entrepreneurs: majoring on the minors. She unpacks what it means to pour most of your time and energy into small details or low‑impact tasks while neglecting the big, important things that actually drive results, and shows you how to shift your focus back to what truly matters. Key points: What “majoring on the minors” really means in day‑to‑day business life How low‑impact tasks and easy work quietly replace high‑impact priorities Signs you’re choosing what’s comfortable or controllable over what matters One simple daily question to identify your real “majors” How to reorder your time so your best energy goes to your most important work Action step for listeners: Ask yourself, “If I could only get one thing done today, what would actually move the needle?” Do that first, and consciously let at least one minor task wait. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E65 Are You Majoring On The Minors?
  7. Sep 12

    S3 E64 Are You An Armchair Quarterback In Business?

    In this episode, Kim White tackles “armchair quarterbacking” in business: criticizing or second‑guessing decisions from a safe distance, after the fact, without carrying the responsibility or pressure of the person who had to make the call. She unpacks how this shows up in teams, partnerships, and even in how we talk to ourselves, and offers a healthier, more helpful way to respond. Key points: What armchair quarterbacking really is and why it’s so easy to slip into How hindsight-based judgment overlooks context, pressure, and complexity The hidden ways we armchair‑quarterback our own past decisions Better questions to ask after a decision instead of “I would’ve done it better” How to build a culture of brave decision‑making and learning instead of cheap criticism Action step for listeners: Think of one decision (yours or someone else’s) you’ve been judging from the sidelines. Ask, “What information, pressure, and constraints were present in that moment?” Then replace criticism with one learning you can carry into the next decision. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E64 Are You An Armchair Quarterback In Business?
  8. Sep 5

    S3 E63 Are You Scrappy With Your Time & Money

    In this episode, Kim White talks about the power of bootstrapping your business. Instead of waiting for investors, loans, or “someday,” she shows you what it looks like to start lean, fund growth from your own revenue, and make scrappy, strategic decisions so every dollar and every hour works hard for you. Key points: What bootstrapping really is (and what it’s not) Why starting lean can actually make you a stronger, wiser business owner How to be scrappy with both your time and your money Questions to ask before you spend, subscribe, or add one more tool How to let customer revenue, not outside validation, fund your next step Action step for listeners: Pick one expense or time-drain in your business and ask, “Would I still choose this if I were bootstrapping from zero?” Then either cut it, simplify it, or make it earn its keep. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

    S3 E63 Are You Scrappy With Your Time & Money
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My Sexy Business Podcast is here to help you create a sexy business for a sexy life through real life examples, interviews and wisdom learned over time. A sexy business is one that you own and it doesn't own you. It attracts customers and clients, it never chases them.