Bold Love & Soulful Sex: on dating, relationships, lineage & legacy with Violet Lange

Violet Lange
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A podcast by Violet Lange on dating, relationships, lineage & legacy, for rebels of love. Here we explore radical romance, real love stories, and multi-dimensional intimacy. Because love isn’t just about finding “the one.” It’s about being the match for bold love in every area of life…from friendship to community, creativity to calling, ancestry to ecology. It’s about creating the life of your dreams and living passionately ever after. In this podcast, Cosmic Matchmaker & Relationship Alchemist Violet Lange draws from 15+ years of experience as a teacher, mentor, and guide. Come discover how Love is a Field. One we plant with the courage to evolve. Tend that field, dear rebels, and love blooms everywhere. Learn more about creating the life and love of your dreams at violetlange.com, @violetlovelange on Instagram, and Violet Lange on Facebook. Let’s create some love magic.

  1. Real Love Stories 10: Angela

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 10: Angela

    Angela had built a beautiful life. A thriving veterinary practice. Strong friendships. A deep commitment to the people and animals she loved. But somewhere along the way, she had become so busy caring for everyone else that there was very little room left for love. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped overgiving, reconnected to her own needs, and discovered that receiving love requires a different kind of courage than earning it. Together, they didn't focus on finding the right partner. They focused on embodiment, boundaries, pleasure, and creating a life that could actually hold the love she was asking for. Then, in the most unlikely place, she met a man who could truly meet her—and a whole new chapter began. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    5 min
  2. Real Love Stories 9: Rachel

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 9: Rachel

    Rachel had spent years healing, growing, and learning about relationships. And yet, there was still a part of her that felt slightly disconnected—from herself, from her body, and from the kind of love she truly wanted. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman uncovered an old survival pattern, learned to listen to her own needs, and discovered that the deepest relationship transformation wasn't about finding love—it was about fully inhabiting her own life. Together, they didn't focus on finding a partner. They focused on embodiment, self-trust, desire, and learning to honor what was true for her instead of settling for what was merely available. What followed was not only a deeply aligned partnership, but a richer relationship with her work, her purpose, and herself. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    5 min
  3. Real Love Stories 8: Carmen

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 8: Carmen

    Carmen knew how to date. She knew how to keep a conversation going, how to stay desirable, and how to make a good impression. But despite plenty of dates, nothing ever seemed to become the kind of love she actually wanted. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped treating love like a game, put down the performance, and discovered the power of being fully herself. Together, they didn't focus on better dating strategies. They focused on vulnerability, authenticity, and the courage to let herself be seen. Then one honest conversation revealed the difference between chemistry and real connection—and changed the course of her love life. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    8 min
  4. Real Love Stories 7: Alice

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 7: Alice

    Alice had a huge heart. The challenge wasn't learning how to love. It was learning how to stop giving her love away to women who couldn't truly receive it. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman transformed heartbreak into discernment, stopped falling in love with potential, and learned to trust what people were actually showing her. Together, they didn't focus on finding the perfect woman. They focused on self-worth, boundaries, nervous system healing, and the courage to walk away sooner when something wasn't aligned. What emerged wasn't just a healthy relationship—it was a completely different way of loving. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    9 min
  5. Real Love Stories 6: Rita

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 6: Rita

    Rita loved her husband. But after years of motherhood, caregiving, and putting everyone else's needs first, she had lost touch with something essential: her own desire. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman rekindled intimacy in a marriage that had gone five years without sex—not by forcing herself to want more, but by reconnecting to her body, her pleasure, and her aliveness. Together, they didn't start with sex. They started with sensation, self-awareness, emotional truth, and the courage to reclaim ALL of herself. What happened next transformed not only her marriage, but her relationship with herself. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    6 min
  6. Real Love Stories 5: Luna

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 5: Luna

    Luna spent years wondering if she was simply too much for love. Too passionate. Too outspoken. Too intense. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped shrinking herself to fit other people's comfort and discovered that real love doesn't require us to become less—it asks us to become more fully ourselves. Together, they didn't focus on becoming more palatable or more agreeable. They focused on boundaries, discernment, self-worth, and learning to recognize the difference between intensity and commitment. What followed wasn't a whirlwind romance. It was something much rarer: a love that could grow alongside the fullness of who she was. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    6 min
  7. Real Love Stories 4: Heidi

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 4: Heidi

    For years, Heidi was drawn to men who couldn't fully choose her. Unavailable men. Complicated men. Men who made love feel uncertain, intense, and just out of reach. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped chasing chemistry that led to heartbreak and began creating the conditions for something lasting. Together, they didn't focus on finding the right man. They focused on changing what her nervous system recognized as connection, attraction, and love. Then one date—and an unexpected second chance—changed everything. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    5 min
  8. Real Love Stories 3: Deborah

    21h ago

    Real Love Stories 3: Deborah

    For most of her life, Deborah lived in her head. At 40 years old, she had never experienced the kind of intimacy, desire, and connection she longed for. In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman slowly rebuilt trust in her body, healed the effects of trauma, and discovered that love didn't require her to override her fear—it required her to stay with herself through it. Together, they didn't focus on finding a partner. They focused on safety, embodiment, self-trust, and reconnecting Deborah to parts of herself she had long left behind. Within a year, she met a man who was both hot and safe—and her life changed forever. Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

    7 min
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A podcast by Violet Lange on dating, relationships, lineage & legacy, for rebels of love. Here we explore radical romance, real love stories, and multi-dimensional intimacy. Because love isn’t just about finding “the one.” It’s about being the match for bold love in every area of life…from friendship to community, creativity to calling, ancestry to ecology. It’s about creating the life of your dreams and living passionately ever after. In this podcast, Cosmic Matchmaker & Relationship Alchemist Violet Lange draws from 15+ years of experience as a teacher, mentor, and guide. Come discover how Love is a Field. One we plant with the courage to evolve. Tend that field, dear rebels, and love blooms everywhere. Learn more about creating the life and love of your dreams at violetlange.com, @violetlovelange on Instagram, and Violet Lange on Facebook. Let’s create some love magic.

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