Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

Mickey & Mallory
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Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous. From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.

  1. JAN 19

    The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle?

    Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship. Topics Covered: Understanding why couples grow apart (lifestyle and vanilla) The difference between DTF and connection-based play styles Navigating polyamory vs. swinging dynamics within one relationship Solo travel and independent play in committed relationships Finding four-way connections when you have different needs Communication strategies for bridging lifestyle divides Why keeping score destroys relationships The importance of "pebbling" and giving each other flowers Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever! Upcoming Events Mentioned: Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) Groove Cruise 2027 Cap d'Agde, France adventure This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy. Show Notes: [00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot New music, new episode art, fresh start Why Season 6 didn't go as planned Getting back to their roots [03:30] - Recent Adventures X Club Toronto: New Year's Eve & Jake's birthday celebration Mickey's DJing journey ("the new midlife crisis") Mallory's solo trip to Be Better at Being Bad (Naughty Gym's event) The transformative power of solo travel in the lifestyle [15:00] - Upcoming Events Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) - casualswingerweek.com Cate's Miami event (Memorial Day weekend) Cate's Scottsdale event (October, Mickey's birthday) Groove Cruise 2026 & 2027 Cap d'Agde, France Toronto X Club return [20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic What is The Great Divide? How people grow apart in relationships (55% of divorces over 50 are due to "irreconcilable differences") The lifestyle version: when play styles, desires, and needs diverge Why this isn't about divorce - it's about navigation Common Lifestyle Divides: DTF vs. connection-based players Polyamory-aligned vs. swinging-focused partners Different levels of sexual adventurousness Kink/fetish compatibility issues The "real unicorn": finding genuine four-way connections Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling: ✅ Good: Replacing flaky vanilla friends with lifestyle friends who value your time ✅ Good: Choosing workouts and self-care over passive activities ❌ Bad: Seeking physical touch from lifestyle friends because you don't get it at home ❌ Bad: Complaining about your partner to others for validation ❌ Bad: Using drugs, alcohol, or attention-seeking to fill emotional voids How to Navigate The Divide: Find mutual ground Focus on what you agree on, not just differences Don't keep score Quid pro quo thinking destroys relationships Practice "pebbling" Give each other flowers and little wins to stay connected Communicate honestly Even when it's uncomfortable Allow for parallel roads You don't always need to be on the same path, just alongside each other Take time and space Sometimes you need to pause and process before continuing the conversation Seek outside resources Therapy, podcasts, books, community support Key Insights: "Do I need to follow you there, or can I be on a parallel road alongside you?" The hardest person to say "no" to is someone you care about If you're keeping score, you're already at a deficit Solo experiences can strengthen your primary relationship Different doesn't mean doomed - it means you need to communicate more [55:00] - Clarification on "DTF" Addressing feedback from previous episode DTF isn't disparaging - it's just a different play style Some people have more "gates" to go through before feeling sexy/safe Neither approach is better or worse [60:00] - Whiskey of the Month: Wild Turkey Rare Breed The History: Rippy Distillery origins (1869) Survived Prohibition through medicinal whiskey license The hunting trip that named Wild Turkey (1940) Jimmy Russell's legacy (Master Distiller since 1967) Why Rare Breed Changed Everything: First mass-produced barrel-proof bourbon (1991) Released during bourbon's "dark ages" when everyone was watering down whiskey No water added, no chill filtration, no compromises Paved the way for today's barrel-proof category Tasting Notes: High rye content = spicy Deep char (Level 4) Long, warm finish with "Kentucky hug" Intentionally unpolished Not for bourbon beginners Jimmy Russell's Philosophy: "We don't make it for people who don't like bourbon." [70:00] - Wrap-Up & How to Connect Find The Casual Swinger Podcast: Website: casualswinger.com Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Instagram, YouTube, X, TikTok: @casualswinger Community: connectcasual.com (FREE for Casual Swinger Week attendees!) Casual Swinger Week Details: March 14-21, 2026 at Hedonism II Limited rooms remaining Book at: casualswingerweek.com Includes 1-year free access to Connect Casual community ($50/person value) #SwingersLifestyle #LifestylePodcast #EthicalNonMonogamy #PolyamoryVsSwinging #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesTherapy #OpenRelationship #HedonismII #WhiskeyReview #WildTurkey #BarrelProofBourbon #LifestyleTravel #SwingersOver40 #CommunicationInRelationships #SoloTravel #XClubToronto #GrooveCruise

    1h 10m
  2. A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition

    10/20/2025

    A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition

    Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico. Episode Highlights: Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica. Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure. Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally. Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important. Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation. Key Takeaways: Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo. The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options. Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles! Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip. Links & Resources: Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube Desire Riviera Maya review, lifestyle resort, swingers vacation, Hedonism II vs Desire, travel tips, swinging podcast, Connect Casual, Casual Swinger Week, Mexico lifestyle travel, resort comparison, raccoon story, adult travel, lifestyle community But wait...there's more! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

    1h 20m
  3. One Size Fits All?

    09/03/2025

    One Size Fits All?

    One Size Fits All? Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate! Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events. We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round. Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel Episode Highlights: [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate. [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned. [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect. [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out! [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags. [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication. [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit. [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you. [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks. [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success. Special Guest: Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com. Resources & Links: Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com Libertine Events: libertineevents.com Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie Contact: Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Support the Show: Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

    1h 32m
  4. Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About!

    08/01/2025

    Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About!

    Podcast Title: Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About SEO-Optimized Description: Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content. With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month! Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered. Keywords: AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news Show Notes: 00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode. 03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle. 12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique. 20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content. What is AVS? Which states are affected? The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work International implications (UK, EU, etc.) 40:00 – The Real-World Impact Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire. Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites 55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation. Tips for parents The importance of sex-positive education 1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite. 1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved Links and organizations mentioned: Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/ Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/ Contact your representatives 1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger Website: casualswinger.com Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy Event info: casualswingerweek.com Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media. Links & Resources Mentioned: Free Speech Coalition Age Verification Policy Hedonism II The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.

    1h 2m

  5. 06/14/2025

    Hotwife Homerun - Casual vs Curated

    In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion. Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences. www.casualswingerweek.com www.wanderlustswingers.com www.thexclub.net www.hedonism.com www.libertineevents.com

    55 min

  6. 06/02/2025

    Striking Out - It's Not Just For Boys

    In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town. The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating. Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene. Links Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events The X Club

    1h 3m

  7. 05/13/2025

    Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Casual Swinger 2.0

    Well, it's been a while! Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why.  We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up. Not with each other!  With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it. Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon! Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear

    1h 1m
  8. SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl

    07/19/2024

    SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl

    Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2 Donate to Hedonism Hurricane Relief Today! In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts. Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2. 00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger 01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures 02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week 04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights 07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience 17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica 31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager 39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises 40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info 41:40 Introduction to David Graham 42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2 43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts 52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2 56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges 01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events 01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff 01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Hedonism II IOS Connections Fluffernutters Rachal's Rebels   *

    1h 21m
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Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous. From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.

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