Ask Mom and Dad

Ask Mom & Dad
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Greg and Tonya spend time each week talking together about things that have been a part of their life journey and answering the various questions that have been posed to them along the way.

  1. 5D AGO

    Why Do Many Christians Feel Guilty About Pleasure?

    Many Christians feel an uneasy tension when it comes to pleasure. If following Jesus means sacrifice, surrender, and denying ourselves… why did God create a world filled with beauty, laughter, food, relationships, and meaningful work?In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya continue their discussion of Joe Rigney’s book Strangely Brightand wrestle with a question many believers quietly carry:Why do Christians sometimes distrust pleasure?Drawing from Scripture and personal experience, they explore the difference between enjoying God’s gifts and turning those gifts into idols. The conversation touches on missionary sacrifice, cultural attitudes toward enjoyment, and the biblical idea that Jesus is better than everything—without requiring us to reject the good things God created.Together they unpack how pleasure can either compete with God or become a signpost pointing back to Him.If you’ve ever wondered:Is enjoying life less spiritual?Why do some Christians feel guilty about pleasure?Did God design the world to be enjoyed?This conversation will challenge how you think about joy, sacrifice, and gratitude in the Christian life.

    47 min

  2. FEB 20

    Does Sacrifice Deepen Joy?

    What if the real test of your faith isn’t what you believe—but what you’re willing to give up?In this episode, Greg and Tonya tackle the uncomfortable tension between pleasure and sacrifice. Why does Lent matter? Why would God give us good things—and then ask us to fast from them? And if Jesus is truly better than everything else… do our lives actually reflect that?From carrot cake to covenant marriage, from fasting to parenting exhaustion, this conversation digs into the difference between enjoying God’s gifts and worshiping them. Discover why voluntary sacrifice sharpens joy, why self-denial restores gratitude, and how enduring difficulty in marriage and family reveals something deeper about God Himself.If you’ve ever wondered:Why Christians fastWhether pleasure is spiritual or dangerousOr what sacrifice really proves about your faithThis episode will challenge the way you think about joy, discipline, and what it really means to say, “Jesus is better.” Choosing sacrifice tests and reveals whether we truly believe Jesus is better. Voluntary self-denial sharpens appreciation, restores focus, and deepens our experience of God.

    27 min

  3. FEB 6

    Who Gets The Glory?

    Why do some of the most gifted musicians, artists, and thinkers in history display almost supernatural creativity yet never openly give credit to God? In this episode of Ask Mom & Dad, we explore the tension between human talent and divine glory—asking whether beauty, music, and innovation still point back to their Creator even when the creator doesn’t acknowledge Him. Through reflections on famous artists, biblical themes, and everyday faith, we wrestle with questions about idolatry, discernment, and God’s sovereignty, ultimately considering how creativity, corruption, and redemption intersect in a world filled with brilliance that doesn’t always recognize its source.

    42 min

  4. JAN 31

    How Does Pleasure Fit Into a God-Centered Life?

    In this episode of Asked & Dad, Greg and Tonya reflect on joy, pleasure, and the beauty of God’s creation. Drawing from Scripture and insights from The book "Strangely Bright" by Joe Rigney, they explore how enjoying the world God made doesn’t compete with loving God—but can actually deepen it. From icy landscapes and music to relationships and everyday moments, the conversation asks how believers can receive God’s gifts with gratitude, avoid idolatry, and live joyfully in step with the Holy Spirit.

    43 min

  5. 12/31/2025

    Do Long-Married Couples Ever Feel Unappreciated? (Spoiler: Yes — But They Don’t Say It)

    On this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya share heartfelt reflections on long-term marriage, the joy of bustling family holiday gatherings, and the excitement of welcoming two more grandsons to their growing quiver of 14 grandchildren. Drawing from recent Thanksgiving celebrations and counseling insights, they explore mutual appreciation in relationships, why modern couples voice feelings of being unappreciated more openly, and the profound humility of Mary and Joseph. With humor and biblical wisdom, they discuss generational shifts in communication, the beauty of a personal relationship with Jesus through prayer, and trusting God's sovereignty over cultural systems like medicine and mandates—reminding us that true blessings come from His presence, not just the season's festivities.

    54 min

  6. 10/22/2025

    What Does It Mean to Bless the Lord When Your Heart Is Breaking? (Psalm 103)

    In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya talk about the raw emotions of grief. They explore the differences between secular and Christian approaches to mourning, drawing from Psalm 103 to discuss God's mercy, compassion, and the fleeting nature of human life. The conversation weaves in biblical insights on death, resurrection, eternity, and the hope found in faith, touching on stories from Job, Romans, and the Transfiguration. Ending with a poignant prayer, this episode offers comfort and encouragement for those navigating sorrow through a lens of spiritual renewal and divine love.

    42 min

  7. 10/08/2025

    When Faith Is Under Fire: What Do We Do When the World Turns Violent?

    In this episode, Greg and Tonya open up about the weight of recent events — from the shocking assassination of Christian influencer Kirk to the deeper questions it raises about faith, culture, and resilience. They discuss how tragedy shapes our perspective, why spiritual rest is essential in turbulent times, and how believers can respond when the world feels increasingly unstable. Blending honesty, compassion, and hope, this conversation reminds listeners that faith isn’t about avoiding pain — it’s about finding purpose through it.

    33 min

  8. 09/03/2025

    How Can Parents Help Kids Overcome Doubt in Faith?

    In this episode of "Ask Mom and Dad," Greg and his mom dive into helping children navigate doubt in their faith journey. Through personal stories of childhood fears and reflections on biblical figures like Jeremiah, Job, and Jonah, they explore how doubt is a natural part of spiritual growth for kids. The discussion offers practical parenting advice, emphasizing the importance of teaching children to pray, encouraging their questions, and modeling reliance on Scripture. They highlight the role of long-suffering patience, forgiveness, and God’s truth in guiding kids through doubts, whether about God’s existence, His love, or their own faith. This episode equips parents to support their children in turning doubts into opportunities for deeper trust in God.

    58 min
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Greg and Tonya spend time each week talking together about things that have been a part of their life journey and answering the various questions that have been posed to them along the way.

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  • Creator
    Ask Mom & Dad
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    118
  • Rating
    Clean
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