Erasing AB-PA

Vincent Sorvino

Erasing AB-PA is a forum to speak to professionals from the legal and psychological community along with targeted parents of Attachment Based Parental Alienation (AB-PA) to better understand and cope with AB-PA. Parental Alienation is when one parent, typically the parent with majority custody, attempts to separate the children from the other parent as punishment for a divorce or separation. These parental alienation techniques include attacking the other parent's character or lifestyle, ignoring the positive influence the other parent has on the children or endearing themselves to the child in order for the child to choose them over the other parent. Numerous techniques and tools are utilized by the alienating parent. We plan to use this podcast as a means to bring together those affected by Attachment Based Parental Alienation to bring awareness to the problem. The goal is to change the family court system to recognize that AB-PA exists and is a huge problem that affects millions of children, parents and extended families.

Episodes

  1. 03/14/2019

    Conversation with Heather Jan: Part 1

    This episode of Erasing AB-PA I speak with Heather Jan, a targeted parent who was alienated from her oldest daughter. Heather's story is a little different than most in that the alienator and narcissist in her situation was not the father of her children, but the step-mother was the driving force behind the alienation. Also, Heather's son rejected the alienation despite splitting custody time with both mom and dad. Heather does not mind me using her name but asked me to remove the names of her children, their father and the step-mom when she referred to them. Although Heather made her best efforts to refer to these people as "our daughter" or "my ex" she would sometimes slip and use their real names. In order to protect their identity, we have chosen to edit out their names and replaced it with just a split second of silence. If you hear silence, please know that the name was mentioned and it was removed. As with so many alienated parents that want to share their story, these conversations can run over an hour. We have chosen to break up our conversation with Heather into two parts. In this episode, part 1, Heather shares how her daughter was alienated from her yet her son rejected it, how it was actually the step-mother who was the narcissist and main alienator and how under the disguise of wanting to improve the daughter's life, she unknowingly allowed he daughter to become even more under the influence of the alienator and to eventually reject her. But Heather's story does have a reunification ending which will be revealed in part 2 schedule for release shortly. If you would like to offer suggestions for future episodes or to tell you own story, please email me: VincentSorvino@Gmail.com.

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Erasing AB-PA is a forum to speak to professionals from the legal and psychological community along with targeted parents of Attachment Based Parental Alienation (AB-PA) to better understand and cope with AB-PA. Parental Alienation is when one parent, typically the parent with majority custody, attempts to separate the children from the other parent as punishment for a divorce or separation. These parental alienation techniques include attacking the other parent's character or lifestyle, ignoring the positive influence the other parent has on the children or endearing themselves to the child in order for the child to choose them over the other parent. Numerous techniques and tools are utilized by the alienating parent. We plan to use this podcast as a means to bring together those affected by Attachment Based Parental Alienation to bring awareness to the problem. The goal is to change the family court system to recognize that AB-PA exists and is a huge problem that affects millions of children, parents and extended families.