Dope Black Dads Podcast

Dope Black Dads Podcast
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The Dope Black Dads Podcast is an adult-only podcast for all parents or adults preparing for parenthood. Led by Marvyn Harrison with contributions from the Dope Black Dads leadership as well as a host of special guests from the world of healing, media, parenting, TV/film, music, and beyond. We discuss everything from co-parenting, masculinity, and the Black experience all the way to our favourite Netflix show. Don't listen if you're expecting conversations about nappies! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 5D AGO

    Love Isn’t Mechanical: Stop Dating Like a Checklist

    Most people say they want love, then date like they’re configuring a device: height, income, politics, trauma level, texting cadence, therapy status, “emotional intelligence,” travel appetite—tick, tick, tick. It feels safe. It feels efficient. It feels like control.  But love isn’t mechanical. People aren’t programmable. They have grey areas: prickly parts, warm parts, avoidant parts, tender parts, contradictions, history. A checklist can’t measure inner world alignment, truth-telling, repair ability, or whether two people can actually build safety together.  I unpack how romantic idealism can make you naïve—especially when you grew up in warmth and assume everyone else did too. Then reality hits: people don’t always tell the truth, not always under pressure, and if you don’t interrogate someone’s inner world you end up in cycles that feel “mystical” but are actually predictable scripts.  The shift is simple: keep your values, drop the robot requirements. Choose moment-to-moment evidence. Build the skill of doing things well with people—clarity, repair, accountability, warmth. Then create a vehicle for connection that’s alive, consistent, and real. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    27 min

  2. FEB 13

    I’m Not “Exposing” Anyone — Here’s The Line I Won’t Cross

    This episode sets the rules of the room. This podcast is committed to protecting the dignity, safety, and wellbeing of anyone whose stories, experiences, or submissions may be referenced. We don’t publish allegations as fact without appropriate verification, context, or public record. We anonymise, change details, reframe, or decline stories to reduce harm—especially when other people didn’t choose public exposure.  I also explain why listeners sometimes feel “that’s my story”: because many experiences are cyclical and universal—especially when you’re trying to be yourself inside a difficult environment. That doesn’t make the story “about you.” It makes it common.  Then we widen out: Britain’s collapsing care reflex (a post office moment that says everything), why I refuse to “chat people’s business,” why men need to lead with repair when harm exists, and why I’m building a show that’s present and unscripted—without turning vulnerability into entertainment.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    40 min

  3. FEB 11

    GAME Went Bust… So I Rebuilt It Into Britain’s Home of Gaming Culture

    An old workplace game brand went bust—not because people stopped gaming, but because retail changed: downloads replaced discs and the UK high street kept shrinking. The fix isn’t “sell more games.” The fix is rebuilding the purpose. In this episode I lay out the full turnaround blueprint: Accept traditional retail is over.Redesign stores around play: arcades, competitive setups, racing simulators, mini-arenas. Experience, not product.Build a national grassroots league through every location: after-school and after-work tournaments, city championships, national finals streamed online.Wrap it in a membership model: monthly access to play/compete/status, points and perks, predictable recurring revenue.Keep retail only where digital can’t compete: controllers, headsets, chairs, collectibles—physical identity, higher margin, real demand.Turn flagship locations into creator studios + live event spaces where UK talent is discovered and broadcast.Outcome: footfall returns for belonging, not shopping. Membership stabilises revenue. A national competitive pathway attracts sponsors and media. GAME becomes Britain’s gaming culture infrastructure—not a struggling retailer from the past. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    3 min

  4. FEB 10

    The Wildest Week in My Camera Roll (No Filter)

    This is the no-padding weekly panel episode: 12 stories, 4 perspectives, rapid-fire pitches, and then we go in. Each contributor gets 30 seconds to make the case, then the table tests it—facts, incentives, hypocrisy, and what it means for real people. Today’s agenda (12): [Topic] — the 30-sec pitch that changes the framing[Topic] — why everyone’s missing the real incentive[Topic] — the uncomfortable trade-off nobody says out loud[Topic] — who wins, who pays, who gets blamed[Topic] — the headline vs the truth[Topic] — the policy angle in plain English[Topic] — the culture angle nobody wants to touch[Topic] — the numbers that expose the story[Topic] — the moral panic vs the actual risk[Topic] — the media game being played in real time[Topic] — the “this affects your life tomorrow” segment[Topic] — the clip everyone will argue aboutIf you want one weekly episode that gives you ammo, clarity, and context—this is it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    34 min

  5. FEB 4

    We Had to Say This Out Loud

    This episode is different, and it had to be. As this podcast grows, so does the responsibility that comes with telling stories about real lives, real harm, and real people. In this episode, I explain why we’ve added a safeguarding and responsibility notice, what it means, and what this podcast will never become. We talk about: Why not every story deserves public exposureThe difference between truth and spectacleHow cycles repeat across generations and environmentsWhy protecting dignity matters more than outrageWhat it means to challenge power without exploiting pain This is not an apology. This is not a retreat. This is a line in the sand. Life is nuanced. Harm is real. Accountability matters. But so does care. SHOW NOTES⚠️ Why we added a safeguarding notice 🧠 How stories become dangerous when mishandled 🧱 The cycles men inherit — and repeat 🕊️ Dignity, consent, and altered narratives ⚖️ Why this podcast is not a court of law TAGS / KEYWORDS (DISCOVERABILITY)fatherhood, masculinity, safeguarding, storytelling ethics, responsibility, culture, trauma, power, modern Britain, mental health, community, social systems, lived experience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min

  6. JAN 25

    Why I Hate Sainsbury’s Local

    This episode is a forensic breakdown of Sainsbury’s Local as a system, not a shop. What’s sold as convenience is friction. What’s sold as efficiency is unpaid labour. What’s sold as design is psychological manipulation that fails the moment you’re tired, parenting, or in a hurry. From hostile layouts and absent staff to self-checkout purgatory and inflated prices, this is a critique of how modern “local” supermarkets quietly disrespect time, dignity, and common sense. This isn’t nostalgia. It’s not brand hate. It’s a lived audit of consumer experience from the perspective of a father, a customer, and a human being who just wanted milk and left annoyed. Includes an explicit comparison with Aldi, and why Aldi consistently wins on clarity, flow, and respect. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    27 min
  7. Rickie Haywood-Williams On Sleep, Stress And Lifestyle Changes

    JAN 18

    Rickie Haywood-Williams On Sleep, Stress And Lifestyle Changes

    Rickie Haywood-Williams sits down with Dope Black Dads to talk honestly about health, fatherhood, lifestyle changes and the NHS Healthy Choices Quiz.   In this episode, Rickie breaks down what life really looks like behind the microphone and the Instagram posts. Late nights, early mornings, family responsibilities, Liverpool stress, and the quiet signals from his body and mind that something had to change.    The NHS Healthy Choices Quiz is a free, five-minute quiz you can take online. It asks simple questions about your eating, movement, smoking or vaping, drinking, mental health and sleep. At the end, you get a score out of 10 and a plan with links to free NHS apps, tools and advice to help you take the first step.   Rickie shares his experience of taking the quiz, his reaction to seeing his results, the changes he has already started making, and why small, realistic shifts matter more than chasing perfection.   Watch if you want a straight conversation about midlife health, energy, mood and dad life.    Healthy Choices Quiz Take the free five-minute NHS Healthy Choices Quiz here: https://www.nhs.uk/better-health/healthy-choices-quiz/   Key topics in this episode – Why Rickie wanted to support the NHS Healthy Choices Quiz campaign – How work, late nights and stress show up in his body and mood – The moment he realised he needed a more honest health check – What it felt like to answer the quiz questions and see his score out of 10 – The plan he received and the first changes he has made – How fatherhood, age and responsibility shift your motivation to stay healthy – The version of himself his family sees at the end of the week – Football, Liverpool and competition as a lens on health and identity – Why he would recommend the Healthy Choices Quiz to friends and family   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    48 min
  8. Black Adoption Stories: Building a Welcome Home Through Food & Family

    JAN 14

    Black Adoption Stories: Building a Welcome Home Through Food & Family

    What does a welcome home really feel like? with  @MarvynHarrison  https://www.youcanadopt.co.uk/blackadopters In this special episode, we sit around the dinner table to talk honestly about adoption, family, culture, and belonging. Over food that reminds us of home, we explore what it means to create stability and love for Black and mixed-heritage children who are waiting the longest to be adopted in the UK. This conversation is part of the You Can Adopt campaign and features lived experiences from adoptive parents within the Black community. We talk about food, identity, family reactions, myths around adoption, and how a home is built through care, consistency, and culture — not perfection. This is not about having the perfect house. It’s about creating a home where a child feels seen, protected, and chosen. If you’ve ever quietly considered adoption, this conversation is an invitation to learn more. Find out more at: https://www.youcanadopt.co.uk/blackadopters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min
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The Dope Black Dads Podcast is an adult-only podcast for all parents or adults preparing for parenthood. Led by Marvyn Harrison with contributions from the Dope Black Dads leadership as well as a host of special guests from the world of healing, media, parenting, TV/film, music, and beyond. We discuss everything from co-parenting, masculinity, and the Black experience all the way to our favourite Netflix show. Don't listen if you're expecting conversations about nappies! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Dope Black Dads Podcast
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    217
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dope Black Dads Podcast
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    Dope Black Dads Podcast

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