Not Overthinking

Ali & Taimur Abdaal
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Not Overthinking

The weekly podcast about happiness, creativity, and the human condition. It's us, Ali and Taimur Abdaal, occasionally joined by guests, talking about things to help us think, do, and be better. Things like social interaction, lifestyle design, mental models... Things that are hard to examine, but important to explore. And hopefully, things that make for a fun and interesting chat every week. We'd love for you to join us.

  1. OCT 22

    Exclusive: Taimur Becomes a Father

    In this episode of Not Overthinking, Taimur shares his recent experience of becoming a father, discussing the challenges and joys of the early days of parenting. He reflects on his role as a husband during this time, the adjustments he has made to his daily routine, and the emotional bond he is forming with his newborn daughter. The conversation also touches on societal perceptions of parenthood, the impact of having a child on work-life balance, and advice for future parents. In this conversation, Taimur and Ali explore various aspects of parenting, including the evolution of their philosophies, the complexity of generalisations in parenting advice, the challenges of choosing baby gear, and the balance between privacy and sharing their children's lives online. They discuss the ethical implications of parenting content and the influence of societal norms on parenting practices. The conversation concludes with reflections on the role of self-help narratives in fostering personal growth and accountability. (00:00) Welcome to Fatherhood(03:03) The Journey of Pregnancy(06:03) The Role of a Husband(08:48) Adjusting to Newborn Life(12:03) Bonding with the Baby(14:54) Reflections on Parenthood(18:13) Entering Society as Parents(20:47) Work-Life Balance as a New Dad(23:58) Advice for Future Parents(29:17) Revisiting Parenting Philosophies(32:10) The Complexity of Generalizations(35:51) Exploring Parenting Resources(36:51) Navigating Baby Gear Choices(41:44) The Balance of Privacy in Parenting(46:01) The Ethics of Sharing Kids Online(51:52) The Ethics of Public Exposure for Children(57:08) Exploring the Manosphere and Its Impact(01:14:25) Personal Responsibility and Self-Improvement Narratives

    1h 16m

  2. OCT 4

    Lost in Ideology with Prof. Jason Blakely - Not Overthinking 🎙️

    In this episode of "Not Overthinking," Taimur and Professor Jason Blakely dive into what ideology means and why it’s a big part of modern life. They talk about the limits of data in politics and how the stories we believe shape our views. They also discuss the challenges of staying objective and how ideologies like liberalism and conservatism shape our thinking. (00:00) Introduction to Ideology and Guest Introduction(02:45) Defining Ideology: Beyond Common Misconceptions(06:42) The Non-Optional Nature of Ideology(09:54) The View from Nowhere: Objectivity in Politics(12:46) The Limits of Data in Political Analysis(16:48) Rationality and Its Misconceptions(22:53) The Role of Stories in Ideology(29:11) Tech Bro Ideology: A Modern Perspective(37:21) Liberalism vs. Conservatism: Core Impulses(51:30) Cultural Socialization and Ideological Frameworks(52:29) Exploring Ideologies: Limits and Intersections(55:18) The Political Spectrum: A Misleading Model(59:22) Understanding Fascism: A Revolutionary Right(01:01:44) Steel Manning: Engaging with Opposing Ideologies(01:06:47) The Ethical Call of Communism(01:10:59) Navigating Ideological Discourse(01:15:40) The Role of Science in Ideological Change(01:18:03) Finding Common Ground in Ideological Debates(01:21:51) The Human Experience: A Call for Humanism(01:25:13) The Challenge of Understanding Rival Ideologies(01:29:04) The Future of Ideological Engagement

    1h 43m

  3. SEP 26

    Productivity Guilt and Hustle Culture - Not Overthinking

    In this episode of "Not Overthinking," together with Mags, we explore the complexities of work-life balance, the pressures of productivity, and the cultural narratives surrounding success. We discuss the concept of being 'locked in' to work, the impact of societal expectations on personal goals, and the importance of finding fulfilment beyond traditional measures of success. The dialogue highlights the tension between pursuing passions and the realities of market demands, ultimately questioning what it means to lead a fulfilling life in a competitive environment. (00:00) Introduction and Background(03:01) Navigating Work-Life Balance(05:56) The Concept of Being 'Locked In'(08:47) The Pressure of Productivity(12:03) Defining Productivity and Work Ethic(15:10) The Hamster Wheel of Work(18:12) The Role of Luck in Success(20:58) Cultural Narratives Around Work(24:09) Finding Enough: The Pursuit of Goals(26:48) Artisanal Pursuits vs. Market Realities(29:48) The Balance of Work and Passion(32:58) Societal Pressures and Individual Goals(36:14) Conclusion and Future Discussions

    52 min

  4. SEP 10

    Marriage, Burning Man and Life Updates

    In this episode of "Not Overthinking," we cover a range of recent experiences and future plans. Ali talks about his recent marriage, honeymoon in Costa Rica, and his time at Burning Man, where he learned the value of living in the present and taking hobbies seriously.  We also discuss Ali's move to Hong Kong, his plans to join local clubs, and our thoughts on aging. Our conversation touches on our shared interests in photography, filmmaking, and gear reviews. Additionally, we dive into my business venture, VoicePal, and Taimur’s reading recommendation, 'The Two Cultures' by C.P. Snow. (00:00) Introduction and Catching Up(02:59) Marriage, Honeymoon, and Costa Rica(08:14) Understanding Burning Man(16:40) Experiencing Burning Man and Reflections(25:59) Future Plans and Settling in Asia(27:05) Settling in Hong Kong and Exploring Hobbies(36:06) The Appeal of Gear Reviews and Enjoying Time(39:32) Finding Joy in Different Hobbies(47:07) Updates on VoicePal and SaaS Entrepreneurship(53:28) Book Recommendation: 'The Two Cultures' by C.P. Snow

    1 hr

  5. AUG 7

    Slop for the Algorithm - a Walking Podcast

    In this episode, Taim and I discuss health updates, workout plans, protein tracking, the impact of my book, creating original content, and the challenges of tailoring content to algorithms. We also talk about the changing creator economy, over-saturation of podcast formats, increasing competition, finding a niche, and the launch of VoicePal, my ghostwriting software. Finally, we touch on the future of my content creation and separating my brand from the business. Chapters (00:00) Introduction and Outdoor Recording(01:28) Health Updates and Workout Plans(04:22) Tracking Protein Intake and Simplifying Nutrition(10:01) The Impact of Becoming a New York Times Bestselling Author(15:16) Work-Life Updates and Revenue Growth(16:48) The Experience of Going Viral on Twitter(21:37) The Satisfaction and Challenges of Creating Viral Content(25:18) The Evolution of Content Creation and Algorithmic Influence(28:04) The Importance of Providing Hard-Earned Insights in Content Creation(31:40) Navigating the Saturated Podcasting Landscape(38:00) The Rise of Industrialised Content Creation(41:08) The Importance of Finding a Niche(49:26) Books as a Tool for Cementing Ideas(52:26) Separating Personal Brand from Business(53:49) Introducing VoicePal: The Ghostwriter in Your Pocket(57:16) Optimising Marketing Strategies with Engaging Ads(59:33) The Future of Content Creation and Personal Branding(01:00:36) The Benefits of Walking Podcasts

    1h 1m

  6. JUL 26

    The Correct Way to be Human

    In this episode, we explore the insights from a DEXA scan, the benefits of walking, and the development of VoicePal software. Ali talks about tweaking his exercise routine and diet, while Taimur shares his evolving views on politics and the importance of staying informed. We also touch on the joy of keeping a fish tank and the significance of engaging with the world beyond our immediate circles. Enjoy xx (00:00) - Introduction and Body Composition (03:18) - The Benefits of Walking and VoicePal (08:23) - The Joy of Maintaining a Fish Tank (15:21) - Changing Views on Politics and the Ideological Arena (44:11) - The Interpretation of News (51:30) - Guiding Children's Worldview (55:29) - The Correct Way to Be Human (01:02:31) - Caring About the World

    1h 27m

  7. FEB 3

    Decoding Political Science and Ideology with Jason Blakely

    In this episode, we chat with Jason Blakely, an associate professor of political science, discussing a range of topics related to political science, ideology, and the role of science in society. Jason critiques the approach of treating social sciences like natural sciences, highlighting the limitations and misinterpretations this can lead to. The discussion also delves into the concept of "Psi-ops" in social sciences, the influence of cultural and narrative elements in understanding social phenomena, and the distinction between natural and social sciences. The conversation critically examines the current ideological and cultural frameworks in society, emphasizing the importance of storytelling and interpretation in understanding human behaviour and social dynamics. Enjoy! x

    1h 35m

  8. JAN 22

    Navigating Work During Illness

    Summary In this episode, Ali and Taimur delve into a range of personal and professional topics. Taimur shares his recent experience with contracting COVID-19 for the first time, discussing the physical and mental effects of the illness. He talks about experiencing severe cold symptoms, fever, and an altered mental state that included persistent song lyrics in his head, particularly from the musical "Hamilton." Ali reflects on his own past experience with COVID-19, particularly focusing on the lack of motivation to work or be productive during the illness. They explore the idea of how illness affects one's desire to "grind" and the role of dopamine and testosterone in motivation. Further into the episode, Ali discusses his recent book launch, including making it onto the New York Times bestseller list, appearances on various TV shows, and his feelings of relief and validation following these achievements. The conversation also covers the concept of Productivity Club, an online community and platform Ali is developing, aimed at enhancing productivity through structured support and communal activities. Takeaways Experiencing illness like COVID-19 can significantly alter one's mental state and productivity levels.The importance of motivation in personal and professional life, and how it's affected by various factors including health.The satisfaction and validation that come from achieving major career milestones, like a bestseller book.The potential of online platforms and communities, like Productivity Club, to foster productivity and create a supportive environment.Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Taimur's COVID-19 Experience05:03 - The Mental Effects of Illness and Song Earworms10:33 - Ali's Reflection on Past COVID-19 Experience and Motivation15:06 - Ali's Book Launch and Achievements20:10 - Discussion on Future Projects and Direction25:01 - The Concept and Development of Productivity Club30:00 - Taimur's Thoughts on Online Platforms and User Experience35:13 - Ali Expands on Productivity Club's Structure and Goals40:00 - Further Discussion on Effective Productivity Strategies and Tools44:57 - Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

    52 min
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The weekly podcast about happiness, creativity, and the human condition. It's us, Ali and Taimur Abdaal, occasionally joined by guests, talking about things to help us think, do, and be better. Things like social interaction, lifestyle design, mental models... Things that are hard to examine, but important to explore. And hopefully, things that make for a fun and interesting chat every week. We'd love for you to join us.

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  • Creator
    Ali & Taimur Abdaal
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2024
  • Episodes
    153
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2019-2024 Ali & Taimur Abdaal
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