Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Bevin
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Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!

  1. May 29

    217. (Solo) Bevin as a Screaming Fan

    Life update! I went to my first Brandi Carlile concert! The death of Bobby Weir has affected me profoundly and made me double and triple down on participating in fandoms that matter to me. I have been processing some fresh grief and in the meantime pursued some much needed joy. Stay tuned to the end of the episode for a really powerful, simple and effective inner child healing that has been helping me. Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Venmo: @bevinb Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  2. May 8

    216. (Solo) Is Law School Actually Worth the Stress? A Former Attorney Weighs In

    I present to you many things to consider when deciding whether to invest six figures of money/debt into law school. (You can't get a refund!) Here's a story I didn't include in this episode that sums it up. Everyone I knew in law school who had previously quit smoking ended up starting smoking again by the end of our first semester. I also include why I decided to go to law school (it was for love & belonging) and advice I wish I had taken instead of rushing headlong into staggering debt. Instead of taking on my clients’ stress for a living, I help other people process their stress and support their wellness! Please consider supporting my work if you found this podcast valuable! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Venmo: @bevinb Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search “Bevin” on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  3. Mar 27

    215. Meg Wolciffer: From Combat Boots to Spirit Art, A Medium’s Incredible Transformation

    Meg Wolciffer is an Ordained Spiritualist Minister, Spirit Artist, Teacher, and Certified Medium with the Indiana Association of Spiritualists. She's also my mediumship development teacher! We discuss some bascis of mediumship, why do Spiritual senses close and reopen, how spirits move energy and what is Spirit Art. Also Meg's experience serving under Don't Ask Don't Tell in the military, coming out, being a single mom and developing her spiritual gifts. Meg's website: https://uniquelymegmedium.wixsite.com/uniquelymeg Meg on IG: https://www.instagram.com/uniquely_meg_medium/ Meg on TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@uniquely_meg_medium Meg on FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569645112204 Camp Chesterfield: https://campchesterfield.com/ Support the Podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Aerobics! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/ Venmo: @bevinb Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  4. Mar 12

    214. Meghan Tonjes: Reconciliation after Going No Contact with Family

    Meghan Tonjes returns to the podcast to offer a different perspective about going No Contact than Oprah and Mel Robbins purport. Just because Boomers & Gen X put up with abusive behavior and authority trauma doesn't mean we have to--we have choices. The being disowned by a parent to reconciliation path CAN happen and her story is incredibly sweet. Tonjes offers a nuanced and deep reflection about her experience moving back to Michigan and Aunt life: the joys of parenting without the intense commitment. Our previous conversation, audio episode 12: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0HrT7lhY3sWjjROxDbbCLY?si=09f47219132947b8 That time Tonjes filmed herself learning to dance at my aerobics class Fat Kid Dance Party when we were both in Los Angeles: https://youtu.be/Qvcyv0PsoAY?si=XHbc6KKr1e1VWBls Meghan Tonjes on IG: @meghantonjes @oopsiebagsie @momentominis Meghan Tonjes Links including music: https://linktr.ee/meghantonjes (Patreon supporters got this episode a week early!) Support the Podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Venmo: @bevinb Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Aerobics! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  5. Feb 25

    213. (Solo) Things that are Bringing Me Joy

    Given that the circumstances continue to be unprecedented and difficult to digest I wanted to share how I'm finding joy. Joy is a revolutionary practice in a society that profits off our anger and distraction. I discuss rage release aerobics, holding space, the time I dated two women named Jen simultaneously, Brandi Carlile, Sinead O'Connor, 90s music and so much more!  Episode 73 with Claire about Laughter Yoga: https://open.spotify.com/episode/677FD5ZAaDMqR88yXBk2H5?si=61c2628865764912 Episode 148 with Bianca Russo tips for mental health spirals: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3FvEgAOxnHJd90dWDXumLZ?si=b3ac5e9cfb084cad Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me! It's what I'm using for a newsletter now!) Venmo: @bevinb Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  6. Feb 14

    212. A Valentine's Date with Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos

    ROMANCE YOUR FRIENDS, okay!? I went into this conversation with astrologer Colin Bedell with the stated intention to mine his broken heart. We talk releasing defensiveness, capacity, resourcing ourselves mind / body / spirit, living alone, heated rivalry, long island, anticipatory resentment, compliment serenades, reading every Zodiac sign and so much more. Previous episodes with Colin: Episodes 68, 96, 142, 185 My solo episode on releasing defensiveness: Episode 197 Colin's website! https://www.colinbedell.com/ Join Colin's Daily Subscription (I value his voice notes so much): https://www.colinbedell.com/subscriptions Colin on IG: @queercosmos Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Venmo: @bevinb Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  7. Feb 3

    211. (Solo): Shifting from Capitalist Striving to Seasonal Ritual

    A solo episode life update on Imbolc! Reflecting on the Wheel of the Year practice with my mental wellness. My advice if you ever have the opportunity to shift a situationship to a relationship. What making sourdough bread is teaching me about failing forward. Developing my psychic mediumship and the next steps in my life coming into focus.  Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Venmo: @bevinb Cash App: $BevinBoss Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

  8. Jan 19

    210. Julia King Boone: After a Christian Cult Upbringing Reconstructing Faith

    After being raised in a Christian cult and shifting into atheism, Julia King Boone has developed her own understanding of spirituality and spiritual practice. Recovering her connection to her body and intution, she now helps others nurture their spiritual practice and self trust. Join us as we talk about her story of what it was like to be born into community and culture (we all long to be in a cul de sac full of friends and there were some benefits) and the process of learning ourselves and bodies. Julia King Boone's Website: http://www.growingintuitive.com To connect on all platforms: http://www.growingintuitive.com/links  Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!) Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/ Venmo: @bevinb Cash App: $BevinBoss Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠ Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts) You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Blog: queerfatfemme.com Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty Facebook.com/bevinsparty Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!

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Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!

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