Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis

I was googling books to read that would help me improve my relationship. I wanted an author of color and preferably with substance. That’s when I came across We Over Me. Of course I immediately ordered it but I also noticed the information of this pod. I now listen daily while simultaneously reading the book. Giving me the right amount of humor and knowledge based on both facts and experience. This really is one of the best pods out there!

I absolutely LOVE the LOVE they have for each other & them boys! The lesson taught is profoundly beautiful and remarkable! FAMILY it’s FIRST! I pray you all keep this podcast & deadass going because it gives me LIFE & more to look forward to within my life. DEADASS!

I just adore you both listening to the podcast definitely put a smile on my face it’s like chopping it up with a big brother and sister that I never had thanks for welcoming me in you guys world. Much love from OKLAHOMA yo baby sis Cherry

They address some important topics and offer helpful perspectives but so much of it gets lost in their interrupting of each other. They’ll even interrupt each other just to finish the other person’s recollection of an experience or their feelings on a situation. I’d suggest taking mental notes of your responses and saving them for when the other person’s genuinely done with their point. Also, understanding that every point being made doesn’t call for your wisdom, sometimes it’s okay to just let the other person share their feelings or experiences without interjecting. Doesn’t mean you’re not heard and valued. Great podcast otherwise. The story of Devale running out of the restaurant in the resort with the chair cushion on his head moved me to tears. It’s lovely to see another husband being a safe space for their partner.