The Family Matters Show

Heather McKinnon & Benjamin Bryant
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The Family Matters Show

Specialist family lawyers Benjamin Bryant and Heather McKinnon and their special guests answer your questions about divorce, separation, children's matters, property settlement and family court. They empower you to make wise decisions for yourself and your family.

  1. JAN 30

    Changes to Family Law Legislation. What does it mean for you?

    The Family Law Amendment Act 2023 was passed through parliament in October 2023 and took effect on 6 May 2024. The Act involves changes to how the Courts will make parenting orders in the "best interest of the child" and challenges the assumption of week-on week-off parenting post-separation. In this episode, Ben and Heather discuss (and sometimes debate) the need for and impact of the changes.

    33 min

  2. 10/10/2024

    Community Questions - Take 8

    Ben and Heather have their eighth session answering questions from the Coffs Coast community - and there were some good ones this time.  Here are the topics covered: Can I get divorced in Australia if I married in another country? When does a de facto relationship (same-sex or heterosexual) begin from a legal perspective? Does the Family Court ever award costs to one partner if the other is being unreasonable? How will an expected inheritance be treated in the property settlement? Can my ex-partner prevent me from finding a good family lawyer by lawyer-shopping? Can I get financing for a family law court case? What happens when you can't agree on schooling for the kids? How can you prevent your ex from showing up at the family home unannounced?

    29 min

  3. 09/06/2024

    Silver Divorce / Grey Separation

    While the overall divorce rate in Australia is declining, there is an upward trend in divorce in couples over 50.  Ben and Heather talk about this phenomenon on this podcast and some of the unique complications that arise when calling quits on a long term relationship. Topics covered include: Why the divorce rate is rising for older Australians. Dividing assets at the end of a long term relationship, including How the Court deals with health discrepancies. Advice for women to ensure their retirement needs are met. Child support for adult children. The value (or otherwise) of a pre-nuptial agreement when re-partnering.

    25 min

  4. 08/01/2024

    Parent/child Contact Problems (including Parental Alienation)

    Ben and Heather welcome special guest forensic psychologist Dr Robert Simon from San Diego California to talk about resist/refuse behaviour in children, including the heated subject of parental alienation.  Dr Simon is a specialist in child custody matters in the United States and is renowned for his expertise in parent/child contact problems.  He provides an excellent overview of the most common reasons for resist/refuse behaviour, and makes it clear that parental alienation is not the most common cause. Topics discussed include: The difference between a clinical and forensic psychologist. The three main reasons for parent/child contact problems: The impact of wrongfully identifying the nature of parent/child contact problems. The Australian Family Law Court's approach to parent/child contact problems.

    27 min

  5. 04/25/2024

    Things people do wrong in child custody disputes

    Ben and Heather have put together a "top 10" list of mistakes people make when it comes to child custody disputes.  In this episode they explain why each of these is a mistake and what you could consider doing instead. Bad-mouthing the other parent – especially in front of your child. Trying to make your child feel sorry for you. Refusing to communicate with the other parent. Denying the other parent access to their child. Putting your own interests ahead of your child’s. Making big decisions about your child without consulting the other parent – ie/ school, medical treatment, place of residence. Telling your child that they get to choose their living arrangements. Lying to the court about your drug or alcohol use. Coaching your child before family report interviews. Breaching court orders.

    25 min

  6. 02/29/2024

    How the Court deals with domestic violence

    In this episode Ben and Heather are joined by barrister Rhys O'Brien, a specialist in complex family law matters, to talk about how the Court deals with Domestic Violence (Family Violence).  They cover a wide range of topics, including the following: The difference between how a Family Law Court and a Criminal Court view domestic violence. Apprended Violence Orders (AVOs) Does there need to be an AVO in place before the Family Court considers domestic violence claims? What evidence does the Family Court need to satisfy itself that domestic violence is an issue? Will the court require Family Dispute Resolution (mediation) in domestic violence cases? How do accusations of domestic violence affect Parenting Order decisions? Can domestic violence claims impact a Court's decision about a financial settlement? Also discussed was the Family Law Amendment Bill that has been passed through Parliament and will take effect in May 2024 and includes a "streamlined" parenting framework simplifying the "best interests factors".  This legislation may impact how the Court deals with domestic violence issues when deciding children's matters.

    26 min

  7. 02/01/2024

    Community Questions - Take 7

    This month Ben and Heather addressed a wide array of family law questions from the community, touching on a number of common issues faced by people going through divorce and separation. The questions included: Medical Court Orders: I have court orders giving me sole parental responsibility for my child's medical matters, but the medical centre is still allowing my ex to make decisions.  What should I do? Passport Applications: I want to go overseas with my child, but my ex won't sign the passport application.  What can I do? Visitation in Prison:  My ex has gone to prison recently.  Can I prevent future visitation by my children? Mediation Costs: It's been recommended that I have a solicitor & a barrister at mediation.  Do I need to go to this expense? Domestic Violence: I failed to show up at to court when police charged my ex for domestic violence.  Will this count against me in Family Court? Relocation: My partner is relocating.  Do we need to get a lawyer involved to change parenting arrangements? Property Settlement: If I buy a new car before the property settlement is completed can my ex make a claim on the car? Advising Your Ex: Do I have to advise my ex that I've enrolled our child in daycare, when the child lives with me 100% of the time and I'm paying the costs? Supervised Visits: At what age can a child choose not to attend supervised visits?

    32 min

  8. 12/28/2023

    How mediators and arbitrators handle power imbalances

    On this episode, Ben and Heather were joined by The Honourable Colin Forrest.  Now retired from the Family Court, Colin now handles mediation and arbitration in family law.  We spoke to him about the delicate subject of managing power imbalances, and potentially domestic violence situations, in mediation and arbitration sessions.  Our discussions covered the following subjects: The difference between mediation and arbitration in family law. Whether you can be ordered to engage in mediation or arbitration. How a mediator/arbitrator will identify signs of abuse or power imbalance. Should domestic violence victims avoid mediation or arbitration? How are power imbalances dealt with in a mediation or arbitration setting? What about other vulnerabilities, such as mental health or disability? What does a mediator do if they sense fear or intimidation in a session? What happens if a court-ordered Family Dispute Resolution does not proceed? What are the advantages and disadvantages of online mediation/arbitration? Is a support person helpful in a mediation/arbitration?

    32 min
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Specialist family lawyers Benjamin Bryant and Heather McKinnon and their special guests answer your questions about divorce, separation, children's matters, property settlement and family court. They empower you to make wise decisions for yourself and your family.

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  • Creator
    Heather McKinnon & Benjamin Bryant
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2025
  • Episodes
    57
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Heather McKinnon & Benjamin Bryant
  • Show Website
    The Family Matters Show

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