In this episode, Barbara discusses: Building patient trust before problems arise Making small, consistent interactions trust “deposits” Following through on promises and communicating delays Listening for the fear behind repeated questions Validating concerns rather than dismissing them Explaining the reasons behind care recommendations Being honest when you don’t have a definite answer Training staff to handle patient concerns respectfully Building trust through honesty, consistency, competence, and respect not simply being liked or agreeing with every request Key Takeaways: Patient trust is built before problems arise through small, consistent actions like listening, communicating clearly, and keeping promises which makes challenges easier to navigate. Connect with Barbara Hales: Twitter: @DrBarbaraHales Facebook: facebook.com/theMedicalStrategist Business Website: TheMedicalStrategist.com Email: info@TheMedicalStrategist.com YouTube:@barbarahales LinkedIn: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/barbarahalesBooks: Content Copy Made Easy 14 Tactics to Triple Sales Transcription: (250) Chapter 1: Building Trust before Trouble 0:00: Welcome to the Marketing Tips for Doctors podcast, where you’ll discover the secrets to attracting more patients ready to schedule their first appointments, so you can grow your practice without spending hours away from your practice or home. Hear how to boost your online presence, build strong rapport with each patient to increase compliance, add value, and grow revenue. Now here’s your host, Dr. Barbara Hales, America’s leading medical strategist. What if I told you that the best time to repair patient trust is before you ever lose it? Sounds a little strange, doesn’t it? After all, how can you repair something that hasn’t been broken? But here’s what I’ve learned: the strongest patient relationships aren’t built when something goes wrong. They’re built long before there’s ever a problem, and that’s what we’re talking about today. Welcome back to Marketing Tips for Doctors. I’m your host, Dr. Barbara Hales, the medical strategist, and today we’re wrapping up our five-part series on one of the most valuable assets in your medical practice: patient trust. 1:13 We’ve talked about transparency, taking responsibility, dealing with angry patients, and what happens when your own staff makes a difficult situation worse. But today, I want to talk about something that can make all those difficult conversations a whole lot easier: building trust before you need it. When patients already trust you, they’re much more likely to give you the benefit of the doubt when something doesn’t go according to plan, and believe me, in medicine, something eventually won’t go according to plan. That’s just reality. So grab your coffee and let’s think this through together. Imagine every patient has an invisible bank account, not filled with dollars, but with trust. Every positive interaction makes a deposit. Every disappointing interaction makes a withdrawal. When you listen carefully to a patient, that’s a deposit. When your staff returns a promised call, that’s a deposit. When you explain why you’re recommending a particular treatment instead of simply handing over a prescription, that’s another deposit. 2:25 And when you remember something personal about your patient, maybe their daughter’s wedding or the fact that they’ve been caring for an elderly parent, that’s a deposit too. Now let’s look at the withdrawals. A patient waits 45 minutes without anyone explaining why the withdrawal. A patient calls with a concern and gets no response. Withdrawal. A staff member sounds irritated because the patient asked the same question twice. Another withdrawal. Individually, these may seem small, but they add up. And here’s where it gets interesting. If you’ve been making consistent deposits into that trust, one unfortunate experience probably won’t destroy the relationship. But if the account is already running low, one unpleasant interaction may be all it takes for that patient to decide they’re never coming back. Worse, they may tell everyone they know that trust starts before the patient sees you. Chapter 2: The Trust Account and the Patient Experience 2:20 Now, if you are anything like me, you probably think about the patient relationship beginning when you walk into the examination room, but it actually starts much earlier. It may begin when someone visits your website. Does your website make your practice feel welcoming? Does it explain what patients can expect, or does it leave them confused? What happens when they call your office? Do they get a warm greeting, or do they feel like they’re interrupting someone’s day? And what about that first appointment? Are patients told what to bring? Do they understand the process? Do they know approximately how long the visit will take? These may sound like administrative details, but to a patient, they’re signals-signals Chapter 3: Reliability, communication, and listening 4:14: about whether your practice is organized, whether you respect their time, and whether they’re going to be treated like a person, not a chart number. Remember, patients form opinions about you long before you have the chance to demonstrate your medical expertise, and those opinions shape how they interpret everything that follows. Let me ask you something: Have you ever told a patient, “I’ll have someone call you tomorrow. Only to discover three days later that nobody did. Of course, you didn’t intentionally mislead the patient. You got busy. Your staff got busy. Something slipped through the cracks. 4:55 But from the patient’s perspective, you made a promise, and you didn’t. Keep it. That’s why I believe one of the simplest ways to strengthen patient trust is to become absolutely reliable about the small things. If you say you’ll call, call. If you promise results by Friday, make sure someone follows up, even if the results are not available yet. And if your office is running behind schedule. Tell the patient. Don’t make them sit there wondering whether they’ve been forgotten. You might say, “I’m sorry, we’re running behind today. An unexpected situation came up, and we appreciate your patience. That’s it. No elaborate explanation. 5:38 No defensiveness. Just communicate, because uncertainty creates anxiety, and communication reduces it. Listen for the question behind the question. Here’s another opportunity to build trust that physicians sometimes miss. A patient asks you a question, you answer, and then they ask again, maybe in slightly different words. Now you are thinking, didn’t I just explain that? But consider this: sometimes the patient isn’t asking because they didn’t understand your explanation. They’re asking because they’re frightened. Imagine a patient who asks, “Are you sure this medication is safe? You explain the research, the benefits, and the potential side effects. Then, a few minutes later, they ask, “But are you really sure I should take it? You could repeat the same medical explanation, or you could say, “It sounds like there’s something about this medication that’s worrying you. Can you tell me what concerns you most? Suddenly, the conversation changes. 6:43 Maybe their mother had a terrible reaction to a similar drug. Maybe they read something alarming online, or maybe they’re simply afraid of making the wrong decision. Until you understand the fear, you may not be answering the question that really matters. And when patients feel understood, that’s an enormous deposit into the trust account. Chapter 4: Reassurance, Explanations, and Honest Uncertainty 7:15 Reassurance is not the same as dismissal. Physicians use a phrase with the best intentions. We say it because we want to reassure our patients. But sometimes those two words have the opposite effect. Imagine a patient describing symptoms that have been frightening them for weeks. You examine them and determine that nothing immediately dangerous is happening. So you say, “Don’t worry, everything looks fine. But the patient doesn’t feel fine, and now they feel dismissed. Instead, consider saying, “I can understand why these symptoms have been worrying you. 7:45 Based on what we found today, I don’t see signs of an immediate emergency. Let me explain what I think is happening and what we should watch for. See the difference. You’re still reassuring the patient, but you’re also validating their experience, and you’re explaining your reasoning. Patients don’t need us to pretend that every answer is simple. They need to know we take their concerns seriously. Explain the why, not just the what. Think about how often we make recommendations during an ordinary office visit. Start this medication. Schedule that test. Come back in three months. Reduce your sodium. Increase your activity. 8:28 And while those recommendations may be medically appropriate, patients don’t always understand why we’re making them. When patients understand the reasoning behind the recommendation, they’re more likely to feel involved in their care, instead of simply saying, “I want you to have this test, try. I’m recommending this test because it will help us distinguish between two possible explanations for your symptoms. That information will guide our next steps. Now the patient understands the purpose. 8:59 They aren’t simply following orders; they’re participating in a decision, and participation creates a sense of partnership. That partnership is one of the foundations of trust. The power of saying “I don’t know. Here’s something else I want physicians to remember: you don’t have to know everything to earn a patient’s trust. In fact, pret