In this deeply insightful episode of the Parentline podcast, host Kerry McLean is joined by Tanya Strowger, a mother of three and counsellor at Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre, and Rebecca McCullough from Eden Consultancy NI. Together, they explore what it’s like to support neurodiverse children—particularly autistic children—through life’s big transitions, including school changes, holidays, family events, and everyday routines. Tanya shares the powerful story of her son Silas, his early signs of autism, the diagnostic journey, and how their family has adapted to meet his needs at home, in school, and out in the world. From sensory challenges and visual schedules to social scripting and emotional regulation, her lived experience offers empathy and practical guidance. Rebecca adds her expertise in neuro-affirming practice, offering thoughtful, real-world strategies to make transitions smoother, support emotional wellbeing, and embrace the child’s unique way of experiencing the world. Whether it’s navigating the school day, Christmas traditions, or going on holiday, this episode is packed with compassion, insight, and useful takeaways for any parent or professional. In this episode, we explore: Recognising early signs of neurodivergence and making sense of a diagnosisWhy small changes (like Sports Day or a different teacher) can be just as hard as big life eventsUsing visual aids, timers, and exit strategies to reduce anxietyPreparing for transitions: from holidays and school changes to daily routinesHelping neurodiverse children manage emotions, especially during moments of overwhelmLetting go of expectations and embracing what brings your child real happinessMemorable Moments: “Ditch all expectation and tune in to the happiness of the child.” – Tanya “You don’t know until you know. And when you know, you can do things differently.” – Rebecca Resources Mentioned: Eden Consultancy NI – Training and consultancy for professionals and families supporting neurodivergent childrenJigsaw Community Counselling Centre – Mental health support for children, young people, and families in North BelfastParentline NI – Free, confidential support for parents and carers across Northern IrelandNeed Parenting Support? 📞 Call Parentline NI on 0808 8020 400 A free, confidential service offering a listening ear and practical guidance. Subscribe & Share If you found this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to the podcast and sharing it with a friend, family member, or colleague. 🔗 https://www.buzzsprout.com/861409
