Hi there hun I’m Going through this with my x. My kid is only 4 months going onto 5 months. Court is coming up and it’s all because of the bruises he left on the kid and he keeps lying. Our relationship was toxic right before the kido and then we fell in deeper love during pregnancy but then I was driving his drunk butt. And catching him out in tuff situations where he says he didn’t but could’ve. And ya it’s a lot. DHS has been helping him a lot but he’s been lying blaming stuff on my mom for the longest time and it’s frustrating.