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Sometimes, saying one thing is all we need to take up a little more space.
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Welcome to TFAW Letters, the holiday edition, from The Filipino American Woman Project. I’m your host, Jen Amos. Each episode, I will read a fictionalized letter—my creative interpretation of real conversations with you! These letters have been woven with heart, reflection, and truth—to honor your stories while protecting your privacy. It all begins with one line: “If I could say one thing…” Because sometimes, one thing is all we need to take up a little more space. www.tfawletters.com

  1. 12/24/2025

    184: "I carry his memory because, with him, I am whole." — A Healed, Yet Still Broken Filipina

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: How do you process loss and grief? This letter is for anyone who’s lost their greatest ally and has been grieving ever since. The writer speaks to Monica Macansantos, author of Returning to My Father’s Kitchen: Essays. She expresses how her former teacher’s book gave her permission to feel what her family wouldn’t talk about: the pain of losing a loved one who was more than a parent. Her father was her greatest ally, her champion, and the inspiration behind her curiosity and creativity. The writer paints a portrait of healing that doesn’t erase the pain but, instead, carries it with her. If you’ve ever felt pressure to suppress your grief, yet longed to honor a loved one in a way that feels true to you, then this one’s for you. This concludes TFAW Project’s Letters — Holiday Edition! 🎁 Thank you for listening, and we’ll see you again for Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month in May 2026! 👋🏽🎉 What can I do in the meantime? Subscribe for off-season content! 🗓 Find out when our next Family Potluck event will be! (Tentative date: March 27, 2026) ✍🏽 When you subscribe, you can also submit a letter or respond to a published one, anonymously! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    14 min

  2. 12/19/2025

    183: "Being bullied sucked." — A Filipina Who Just Wanted to Survive Her Childhood

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: Which memories define you, or don’t define you anymore? This letter is for anyone who simply wants to feel safe, secure, and stable in her friendships. Through a flashback sparked by a new friend around a bonfire, the writer recalls a time when she was bullied, labeled “lesser than,” and ambushed by a group of girls who she thought were her people. If you ever struggled to defend yourself for something you didn’t do, this one’s for you. Join us for our FINAL Family Potluck: Vision Board Workshop this Monday, December 22nd! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    27 min

  3. 12/08/2025

    182: "There's a time and place for gossip." — A Filipina Learning to Communicate Differently at Work

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: How do you communicate with your family versus in the workplace? This letter is for anyone who grew up in a home where tsismis (a.k.a. gossip) was connection, love, and entertainment, only to discover how it lands differently in the workplace. The writer examines the differences between indirect communication at home and direct communication at work, and how a well-meaning effort to bond with colleagues nearly cost her her job. If you ever felt torn between how you communicate at home versus at work, this one’s for you. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    15 min

  4. 11/24/2025

    181: "Are you going home for the holidays?" — A Filipina Redefining Family

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: Are you going home for the holidays—or are you already home? This letter is for anyone tired of being asked if they’re going home to their blood family and relatives for the holidays. Through faith, conviction, and clarity, the writer shares why she’s choosing not to return to her family this year. She reflects on how familial and cultural expectations justified years of abuse, how she made an idol out of family, and what ‘going home’ means to her today. If you’ve ever said, “But they’re family…” just to survive the holidays—this letter is for you. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    13 min

  5. 11/03/2025

    180: Holiday Edition of TFAW Letters - Trailer

    Welcome to TFAW Letters — The Holiday Edition by the Filipino American Woman Project 🎁 I’m your host, Jen Amos. Just like the FAHM edition, I will read fictionalized letters — my creative interpretation of real conversations with you! These letters have been woven with heart, reflection, and truth to honor your stories while protecting your privacy. It all begins with one line, “If I could say one thing.” RSVP for the Upcoming Family Potluck — NOV 21st! Click HERE. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    1 min

  6. 10/29/2025

    179: "Keep going, keep thriving, and keep winning." — A Filipina Celebrates Breast Cancer Awareness Month

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: What is one small, beautiful thing you can notice and be grateful for in this very moment? In recognition of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, this message is for anyone facing loss, uncertainty, or chronic illness—and for those who have supported a loved one through it. Through tender recognition and reflective gratitude, the writer explores what it means to redefine joy, choose life, and live one day at a time. Whether confronting the limitations of the body, the dissatisfaction of fame, or the weight of living in the diaspora and homesickness, this letter honors the quiet resilience it takes to keep going. If you’ve ever delayed a goodbye, wished you had more time, or found strength in small moments, this one’s for you. This concludes Filipino American History Month 💙❤️💛 Thanks for listening! We hope to read your letter in the upcoming season. Stay tuned for TFAW Letters: Holiday Edition! 🎊 Got any plans for Friday, November 21st? Whether you’re a new or long-time listener of TFAW Project, you are invited to our Family Potluck — a FREE networking event thanks to our TFAW PenPals & First Readers. What to Expect Think of a professional networking event, but with casual, easy-going Filipino family potluck vibes. Our tentative agenda: * Icebreaker: What memory comes to mind when you hear “family potluck?” * Introductions: * How long have you been listening to the show? * Would you like to share anything? (i.e., Promote your business, share the latest book you’ve read, updates on your vision board, a mental health check-in, or just hang out!) * Socializing: Candid conversations for the remainder of the time. Open to the Community! Please select ALL times on Friday, November 21st that work best for you, and we’ll go with the majority vote! Please ONLY vote if you plan to attend, so that I can include you in the calendar invite. 💛 💛 Jen P.S. First-time attendees of TFAW Project events will receive a special gift. 🎁 Questions? Contact Jen: jen@tfawproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    17 min

  7. 10/17/2025

    178: "I'm in the driver's seat now." — A Long-Time Listener Sharing Her Story for the First Time

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: Who’s driving your story today? This letter is for the quiet, faithful listeners who never thought to share their story—until one letter changes everything. On her usual commute to work, a flashback surfaced—one that reminds the writer why she rarely speaks freely. The memory takes place in the backseat of a family van, when a cousin told her to shut up… and no one said anything. Now, decades later, with her hands on the wheel and her favorite podcast playing, she realizes something has changed: She’s the one driving. And she has something to say. If you’ve ever kept your thoughts to yourself because you were afraid of being reprimanded, this one’s for you. If you’re searching for resources on Filipino American history, then you are invited to join our FAHM Challenge! 💌 For October, upgrade your subscription to TFAW PenPals — for FREE — to participate in our 31-Day Challenge to collect, share, and discuss Filipino American History resources with our online community. Already a Free Subscriber? Scroll down to the bottom of our latest email and select “Get Free Upgrade Now.” Note to first-time subscribers If you don’t receive a welcome email, please check your SPAM folder and save tfawletters@substack.com as a trusted contact. Already a TFAW PenPal? Join the Challenge now by clicking HERE. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    16 min

  8. 10/10/2025

    177: "Who's leaving leftovers for you?" — An Invitation for Filipino American History Month

    If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this: How are you contributing to Filipino American History today? This letter is for anyone who has ever felt lost in the search for cultural belonging—especially during Filipino American History Month. Jen begins with a candid reading of her letter, as if she’s speaking directly to our First Readers. She contemplates the difference between longing for lost history and honoring the living history already around us. Whether acknowledging passive observation, caretakers we take for granted, or having empathy for the movers and shakers of our Filipino community today, this letter offers an invitation to get involved. If you’ve ever romanticized your search for identity, overlooked those already preserving our stories, or waited too long to show appreciation, this one’s for you. If you’re searching for resources on Filipino American history, then you are invited to join our FAHM Challenge! 💌 For October, upgrade your subscription to TFAW PenPals — for FREE — to participate in our 31-Day Challenge to collect, share, and discuss Filipino American History resources with our online community. Already a Free Subscriber? Scroll down to the bottom of our latest email and select “Get Free Upgrade Now.” Note to first-time subscribers If you don’t receive a welcome email, please check your SPAM folder and save tfawletters@substack.com as a trusted contact. Already a TFAW PenPal? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.tfawletters.com/subscribe

    19 min
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Welcome to TFAW Letters, the holiday edition, from The Filipino American Woman Project. I’m your host, Jen Amos. Each episode, I will read a fictionalized letter—my creative interpretation of real conversations with you! These letters have been woven with heart, reflection, and truth—to honor your stories while protecting your privacy. It all begins with one line: “If I could say one thing…” Because sometimes, one thing is all we need to take up a little more space. www.tfawletters.com

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  • Creator
    Sometimes, saying one thing is all we need to take up a little more space.
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2025
  • Episodes
    184
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Jen Amos
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    The Filipino American Woman Project