The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi
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The Openlove101 Show

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

  1. 22 HR. AGO

    Swingers Lifestyle - Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break. They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

    10 min

  2. FEB 4

    The Ugly Truth About Open Relationships: Not Cheating

    The ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating!   Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogamy head-on. Ever wonder why people automatically assume open relationships are about cheating? We're breaking down the real difference between consensual non-monogamy and infidelity. Discover how trust, honest communication, and mutual respect are actually the foundation of successful open relationships. Ready to challenge your assumptions about love and commitment?   We share our 12+ years of experience navigating the open lifestyle, proving that love isn't about exclusivity - it's about honesty and trust. Learn why the physical and emotional aspects of relationships don't have to be wrapped together, and how different relationship models can work for different people. Whether you're curious about open relationships or simply want to understand them better, this candid discussion reveals why judgment and assumptions about other people's relationships never tell the whole story.    We're sharing real talk about commitment, love, and what makes relationships truly work - no matter what model you choose. Want to dive deeper into conversations about ethical non-monogamy? Visit us at openlove101.com and join our community of open-minded individuals exploring authentic relationships together.    #cheatingmisconceptions #openrelationship #love #relationshipadvice #ismonogamynatural CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:34 - Open Relationships & Cheating Assumptions 04:17 - Open Relationships & Failure Myths 08:11 - Love in Open Relationships 09:36 - Misconceptions: Open Relationships & Sex 12:44 - Understanding Cheating 16:16 - Open vs. Monogamous Relationships 18:45 - Open Level 101 Plus 19:11 - Sign Up for Our Email List

    19 min

  3. JAN 28

    Swinging Relationship Issues Defusing Arguments

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how to defuse arguments within the lifestyle. They discuss how most arguments are rooted in fear of the unknown and how to find a way to work through that fear in order to communicate with your partner. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

    8 min

  4. JAN 21

    Celebrating 10 Years of OpenLove101: Reflections, Growth, and Gratitude

    John and Jackie commemorate a decade of OpenLove101, reflecting on their journey in the world of consensual non-monogamy advocacy. They share memorable moments, challenges, and triumphs while emphasizing the growth of their community and its impact on relationships worldwide.  From their early days blogging to becoming prominent voices in their field, this episode celebrates their passion for education, connection, and empowerment.

    20 min

  5. JAN 14

    Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows! They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

    7 min

  6. JAN 7

    Hotel Takeover Tips: Everything You Need to Know

    In this episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the fascinating world of hotel takeovers and conventions in the lifestyle community.  They share essential tips for preparation, settingboundaries, meeting new people, and maximizing your experience at these unique events. Whether you're a seasoned attendee or considering your first event, this episode is packed with insights to make your next hotel takeover unforgettable!

    22 min

  7. 12/31/2024

    Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss dealing with the pressure of visiting a Swingers Club.   They most common answer for why people do not go to a swingers club is because they feel an overwhelming pressure to either find a play partner or fit in with the crowd.   Today, John and Jackie discuss these fears and more!   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

    7 min

  8. 12/17/2024

    Visiting Swingers Club and Embracing Your Bi-Sexuality

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss feel confident in embracing your bi-sexuality while attending a swingers club! They discuss the change over time with people embracing their sexuality at swinger clubs. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

    10 min
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

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  • Creator
    John & Jackie Melfi
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2025
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    The Openlove101 Show

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