Break Your Bullsh*t Box

Amber Fuhriman
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Welcome to the Break Your Bullsh*t Box podcast, where excuses aren't tolerated and results are earned. This podcast is for people who realize it's time to break your bullsh*t box and start living life on your terms. Hosted by Amber Fuhriman Esq. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 400: Manager vs. Leader: The Identity Shift That Changes How Your Team Performs

    Episode Summary Your title didn't make you a leader. Amber Fuhriman breaks down the real gap between managing tasks and actually leading people, and why it has nothing to do with strategy, charisma, or authority. If you've ever felt like you were running on fear instead of conviction in a leadership role, this episode names exactly what's happening and how to fix it. Key Topics Covered Why getting promoted does not automatically make you a leader and the internal identity shift you actually need to makeHow unexamined beliefs about yourself show up as projection onto your team and silently destroy trustThe difference between managing tasks and leading the internal environment that determines whether those tasks matter to anyoneWhy self-awareness as a leader means knowing what you're afraid of, not just knowing your personality typeHow fear-based leadership looks like going too soft or overcorrecting too hard, and why neither works Notable Quotes "I was so busy managing my own insecurities that I never fully showed up as a leader in either of those scenarios.""That's an identity problem, not a leadership skills problem, and it shows up at every single level of professional growth.""If you're leading from a projection, you're not leading your team, you're leading the version of them that you invented based on your belief about yourself, and they can feel it.""It's not a title, it's not a technique, it's the ongoing work of knowing that what you're carrying and choosing every single time to lead from is something better than fear." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    13 min

  2. 6d ago

    Episode 399: From Corporate to Closing: How Identity, Accountability, and a Service-First Mindset Lead to Real Estate Success with Brenda Landry

    Episode Summary What does it take to walk away from a career you know and build one that requires you to be fully seen? Amber Fuhriman sits down with Las Vegas realtor and former educator Brenda Landry to dig into the identity shifts, accountability lessons, and hard-won self-worth that come with stepping out of a safe corporate bubble and into a business that lives and dies on human connection. Key Topics Covered: How growing up in a single-parent household shaped Brenda's drive, her relationship with accountability, and how she learned to break generational patterns with her own daughtersWhy the corporate and teaching worlds allow you to hide behind knowledge, and what it actually takes to show up as a full human being when you're building a businessThe real estate experience that went so wrong it motivated Brenda to become the agent she never had, and how a bad transaction became a non-negotiable standard for how she treats every clientHow Brenda uses color-coded buyer consultation books and sensory exercises to help clients discover what they actually want, not just what they say they wantWhy accountability and responsibility are not optional: the homework and marathon mentalities that Brenda ties directly to business success Notable Quotes Brenda Landry: "Don't ever mistake my funniness, my genuine happiness for stupidity, because that is my identity that I'm actually getting back.""I will never, to the best of my ability, ever allow anybody to feel the anger, the sadness that we felt during this transaction to anybody, ever." Amber Fuhriman: "At some point you gotta participate in your own success.""You're not selling houses. You're selling life." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Guest Info Brenda Landry is a licensed real estate agent serving the Las Vegas Valley, with a background in corporate training, the Department of Defense, and elementary education. She brings a teacher's instinct and a service-first standard to every transaction. Contact Brenda Landry: Phone: (702) 813-9454Website: homesforsalelasvegas.net Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 1m

  3. May 29

    Episode 398: Stop Losing Sales and Loyalty: What Your Communication Is Really Costing You

    Episode Summary Your words are only 7% of the conversation, so why are you only fixing your words? Amber Fuhriman breaks down why most communication training completely misses the mark and what you actually need to examine before your next sales call, team meeting, or high-stakes conversation to stop leaving money, trust, and results on the table. Key Topics Covered Why words account for only 7% of communication and what the other 93% is telling people about you before you say a thingHow your internal beliefs about yourself, your prospect, and the outcome are running your conversations without your permissionThe difference between compliance and commitment from your team and how your communication as a leader determines which one you getWhy sales conversations are communication events first and why no technique will close a deal if the person across from you doesn't feel genuinely heardThe 60-second pre-conversation exercise with three questions that is worth more than any script Notable Quotes "People don't just hear your words. They feel your intention. They pick up on the gap between what you're saying and what you actually mean, what you're saying and what you believe.""Every sales conversation you're in is a communication event first and a sales event second. If the person across the room from you doesn't feel heard, doesn't feel safe, doesn't feel like you actually get their problem, no sales technique in the world is gonna close that deal.""Your internal state is your loudest communication tool, and most people are so focused on the external conversation that they never examine the internal one.""The best communicators I know aren't the ones with the most polished delivery. They're the ones who have done the internal work to show up clean, present, and genuinely connected to the person in front of them." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    11 min

  4. May 25

    Episode 397: Radical Self-Compassion: Breaking the Blueprint You Were Handed to Build the Life You Actually Want with Chris Dyer

    Episode Summary Still living by a blueprint that someone else wrote for you? Amber Fuhriman sits down with consultant and coach Chris Dyer to pull apart the programming, patterns, and people-pleasing that keep high-achieving men and women stuck, and to show you exactly how radical self-compassion, conscious reparenting, and energetic mastery become the tools that finally set you free. Key Topics Covered How living by someone else's blueprint keeps you stuck and what conscious reparenting looks like in practiceWhy masculine and feminine energy dynamics directly impact business performance and personal relationshipsHow to coach husband-and-wife business partnerships by recognizing cultural, generational, and gender programming at playThe connection between unresolved emotional patterns and physical weight, health, and self-protection behaviorsWhy radical self-compassion is not an excuse for mediocrity but a necessary tool for sustainable growth and identity shifting Notable Quotes Amber Fuhriman: "We try to change the behavior, and we never focus on the purpose and intention.""I've finally realized people don't need someone to be perfect. They actually need them to be imperfectly them." Chris Dyer: "I was a human doing and not a human being.""Radical self-compassion is a tremendously healing tool. It is an energy. It's a philosophy that can help you put the magnifying glass where it needs to be." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Guest Info Chris Dyer is the founder of Chris Dyer Consulting. She works with business owners and high-achieving professionals on identity shifting, energetic mastery, masculine and feminine energy dynamics, and the specific challenges faced by husband-and-wife business partnerships. Contact Chris: Website: chrisdyerconsulting.com LinkedIn: @christinadyer TikTok: Own Your Power Facebook: Chris Dyer (easily found on all social media platforms) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min

  5. May 22

    Episode 396: Rewire Your Results: What NLP Actually Is and Why It's the Missing Piece in Your Business

    Episode Summary Still grinding hard but getting the same results? Amber Fuhriman breaks down exactly what neuro-linguistic programming is, why your unconscious mind is running the show, and how reprogramming your beliefs at the root level is the only thing that will actually change your patterns for good. Key Topics Covered What NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) actually is, in plain language, and why it is not magic or manipulationWhy your brain's operating system was written before age seven and is still running your business decisions todayHow your unconscious mind overrides conscious goals, affirmations, and strategy every timeWhy smart, high-achieving people self-sabotage, undercharge, and repeat patterns no matter how hard they try to changeHow to get curious about your patterns by asking what belief would have to be true for this pattern to make sense Notable Quotes "Your brain is not designed for success. Your brain is designed for safety.""This is not a willpower problem. It's not a discipline problem. This is what happens when your conscious mind makes a decision that the unconscious mind isn't ready for.""You cannot think yourself out of an emotional problem. You cannot think yourself out of a programming problem. You cannot think yourself out of an alignment problem.""It isn't a better system. It's reprogramming the one that you already have." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    16 min

  6. May 18

    Episode 395: Courage, Hormones, and Healing: How to Rebuild Your Identity After Burnout with Jessica Waugh

    Episode Summary What happens when the career you spent a decade building becomes a prison? Amber Fuhriman sits down with certified menopause lifestyle practitioner Jessica Waugh to unpack how childhood trauma, a devastating professional betrayal, and undiagnosed perimenopause forced a complete identity rebuild and led Jessica straight into her true purpose: helping women understand their bodies and reclaim their lives. Key Topics Covered How compartmentalized childhood trauma can stay "locked in pretty little boxes" until a career crisis blows them wide openWhy women going through perimenopause symptoms are routinely gaslit by doctors and told their labs are "normal"The identity collapse that happens when you've tied your worth to a title, a certification, or an achievementWhy forcing a path forward is often a signal to stop and ask what is really driving the need to controlHow listening to your intuition and taking the next scary step, even without a five-year plan, is what actually builds momentum Notable Quotes Jessica Waugh: "It basically unpacked 30 years of compartmentalized childhood trauma that I had in pretty little boxes, lots of Russian doll style, boxed up and locked up and hidden. And things that you're like, 'They're secured away, they will never come back out.' Nope, they all blew up.""Take the whisper, take the trigger, take the doubt, take the concern, take the fear as an invitation to explore." Amber Fuhriman: "Women particularly, we have this programming that you just aren't meant to fall apart. That you've gotta have it all buttoned up. That you're never supposed to have a human moment. That you're supposed to put yourself on hold for everybody around you.""I've been chasing the people running away from me. Let me save you, and then there's these people that are flailing, that are saying, 'But wait, I'm here.' And I don't even see them." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Guest Info Jessica Waugh Certified Menopause Lifestyle Practitioner and National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach. Jessica is the founder of The Pause Effect, co-creator of Hot Flash Heroes (an annual October community education event for women), and Managing Director at eWomen Network Las Vegas. Her work focuses on supporting women through perimenopause and menopause, closing the gap between dismissed symptoms and real, personalized care. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    45 min

  7. May 15

    Episode 394: Stop Hiding Behind Preparation: Why You Already Know What to Do and How to Finally Do It

    Episode Summary You already know what to do, so why aren't you doing it? Amber Fuhriman cuts through the cycle of over-preparation and reveals the NLP-backed truth about why smart, capable people stall out, and exactly how to take the one action that starts shifting everything. Key Topics Covered Why "I'm not ready yet" is fear in disguise and how to recognize it in your own businessHow over-preparation becomes an identity that protects you from failure and keeps you permanently stuckThe neuroscience behind why action builds belief, not the other way aroundWhy "fake it till you make it" does not work and what to do instead: believe it until you become itThe one concrete step to take in the next 48 hours to give your brain proof that doing it is survivable Notable Quotes "Stop saying that you don't know what to do. You already know what to do.""Fear is the most creative force on the planet when it comes to justifying why right now is not the right time." "Readiness is not the destination that you arrive at. It's something that you build by the way you do the thing that you don't feel ready to do." "The confidence that you are waiting to feel before you act is actually on the other side of the action that you're avoiding. You have it backwards." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    10 min

  8. May 11

    Episode 393: Gen X After 40: How to Stop Overtraining, Start Having Fun, and Reinvent Yourself on Your Own Terms with Heather McHardy

    Episode Summary What does it actually take to reinvent yourself after 40 and build something you love from scratch? Amber Fuhriman sits down with Heather McHardy, former professional dancer turned Pilates instructor turned creator of Las Vegas's best Gen X happy hours, to dig into identity shifts, the myth of going harder, and why doing less is the real path to more. Key Topics Covered Why dancers and high-performers struggle to recognize their own transferable skills after a major identity shiftThe "fake it till you make it" trap and why showing up and saying "I don't know what I'm doing" is more powerfulHow overtraining destroys results and why walking and strength training outperformed years of hardcore cardioThe mindset shift from unconsciously doing things right to consciously knowing why they work so you can repeat themHow Heather built a sold-out Gen X nightlife concept by solving a problem she personally had, despite being told it wasn't "real nightlife" Notable Quotes Heather McHardy: "The only thing you'll regret is not doing it sooner. If it's something you truly wanna do, just jump in. Just do it.""I did less and I gained more. That always stuck in my head." Amber Fuhriman: "It's not the days that you're busy and living your passion. It's the days that you're binging on the couch, beating yourself up internally because you're not doing what you wanna do.""You might do this unintentionally and then you're gonna get these unintentional results. If it goes bad, we analyze it all. But if it goes well, we're just so thankful it didn't blow up in our face. And then we can't recreate it, because we don't know what went well." Call to Action Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Guest Info Heather McHardy is a former professional dancer and certified Pilates instructor, now founder of The Happy Hours LV, a Gen X-focused nightlife event series in Las Vegas built around great music, real cocktails, and being home by a reasonable hour. Contact Heather: Website: thehappyhourslv.comEmail: heather@thehappyhourslv.comInstagram & Facebook: @TheHappyHoursLVTikTok: The Happy Hours LV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min
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Welcome to the Break Your Bullsh*t Box podcast, where excuses aren't tolerated and results are earned. This podcast is for people who realize it's time to break your bullsh*t box and start living life on your terms. Hosted by Amber Fuhriman Esq. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Amber Fuhriman
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    398
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Amber Fuhriman
  • Show Website
    Break Your Bullsh*t Box