Kate Hastings Show

Kate Hastings
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The Kate Hastings Show is a platform of transformation and community. A place of specialized knowledge, communication, unity, open conversations about health, wellness,lifestyle and people of their expertise.

  1. 11H AGO

    What Your Nervous System Remembers Is Creating Your Reality

    What your nervous system remembers is quietly organizing your relationships, your ambition, your boundaries, and your reactions. Until you give your body new experiences of safety, it will continue to design your reality around old threat maps. The question is not why am I like this. The question is what did I survive that my body still thinks is happening. If achievement once brought protection, you will attach your worth to output and call it standards. If staying small once kept you safe, you will shrink in rooms and call it humility. The body will always choose familiarity over potential until it is retrained. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    56 min

  2. FEB 12

    From Who You Are to Who You're Becoming

    In this episode, I break down the difference between achieving something and becoming someone. Most people treat Day 1 like a starting line toward a future result. They focus on the outcome they want and assume that once they achieve it, they will finally become disciplined, grounded, confident, or secure. That sequence is backward. Day 1 is not about chasing the end result. It is about deciding who you are going to stand as now. I explain what it actually means to stand internally. Standing is not hype, performative confidence, or temporary motivation. It is the regulated internal posture you hold when outcomes are uncertain and validation is absent. It is the identity you commit to embodying before the external evidence confirms it. You will learn why high expectations without internal posture create instability, how survival can disguise itself as ambition, the critical difference between strength and capacity, and how to build from identity rather than insecurity. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    43 min

  3. FEB 5

    Peace vs Relief

    In this episode, I break down the difference between peace and relief and why so many disciplined, high-performing people confuse the two. Relief feels like rest, but it is actually the nervous system exhaling after prolonged threat. Peace is not the absence of effort. It is the presence of safety. If your discipline is driven by fear, urgency, or the need to prove your worth, you are not building peace, you are chasing relief. This episode is for anyone who looks disciplined on the outside but feels internally restless, driven, and unable to truly settle. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    59 min

  4. JAN 29

    Identity Before Discipline

    In this episode, I dismantle the modern, pressure driven model of discipline and replace it with a grounded framework rooted in identity, internal order, and nervous system regulation. Discipline does not collapse because people are lazy or unmotivated. It collapses when behavior is asked to carry too much weight. When actions are responsible for producing safety, worth, confidence, or identity, the system becomes fragile under pressure. Every lapse feels personal. Every failure feels loaded. Discipline turns frantic instead of steady. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    1h 2m

  5. JAN 22

    Emotional Needs vs Emotional Strategies

    Emotional needs are the internal conditions required for a human nervous system to feel safe, settled, and capable of connection. They exist so the body can regulate emotion, restore capacity, and stay present in relationship without living in a constant state of threat. Emotional strategies, on the other hand, are the learned behaviors and patterns the nervous system develops when those needs are not consistently met. Strategies are not needs. They are adaptations. They help us cope, function, and survive in environments where safety, rest, support, or connection did not feel reliably available. Most people confuse emotional needs with emotional strategies because strategies often reduce discomfort quickly. When something lowers anxiety in the short term, the nervous system treats it as essential, even if it does not heal anything. This is how pain gets shuffled around instead of resolved. Discomfort gets moved into productivity, control, discipline, independence, or emotional distance, and because those things are praised, the underlying emotion goes unnoticed. It looks like strength, drive, being nice, or having high standards, but nothing about the actual emotion is being tended to. What is happening is management, not regulation. Management keeps you functional. Regulation is what allows emotion to move, settle, and integrate. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    31 min

  6. JAN 15

    How to Understand, Meet, and Communicate Your Emotional Needs

    Understanding, meeting, and communicating your emotional needs is not about expressing everything you feel in the moment. It is about self-leadership. Emotions are biological and psychological signals that give you information about what is happening inside you. When you slow down, identify the emotion, recognize the need beneath it, and regulate your body before responding, you build capacity. Capacity creates choice instead of reaction. Every emotion points to an underlying need required for nervous system stability. Needs like safety, connection, validation, autonomy, rest, and consistency are not about comfort. They are about regulation. Emotions are not instructions to act. They are signals to notice. Thoughts assign meaning, emotions activate the body, impulses attempt to restore safety, and behavior completes the loop. The pause between impulse and behavior is regulation. That pause is where leadership begins. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    50 min

  7. JAN 8

    The Rise of the Boss Babe Era

    This episode speaks to women who are confident but exhausted. Women who are capable, accomplished, and respected, yet quietly burned out from carrying everything alone. I talk about how confidence built on performance eventually drains you, and how strength rooted in reaction will always demand more than it gives back. I unpack the difference between identity and output. When your worth is tied to what you do, burnout is inevitable. When your identity is anchored in who you are, strength becomes sustainable. True confidence is not loud or proving. It is steady, grounded, and secure. It allows softness without collapse and strength without hardness. This is an invitation to redefine strength. Not as hustle, control, or endurance at all costs, but as wholeness. A strength that makes room for rest. A confidence that holds gentleness and courage at the same time. An identity that allows a woman to lead with quiet authority, deep softness, and unshakeable presence. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    1h 2m

  8. JAN 1

    What You Must Let Go of Before 2026

    If you keep entering a new year hoping things will change without confronting the patterns you keep repeating, nothing will be different. Familiar habits. Familiar reactions. Familiar relationships. Familiar excuses. Over time, that repetition does not just stall progress. It reshapes your identity and erodes self-trust. In this episode, I break down why motivation always fades under pressure and why discipline without structure collapses into burnout. I expose the internal enemies most people avoid. Undisciplined thinking. Survival tactics that are no longer necessary. Coping skills that numb instead of build capacity. Predictable failure loops. People-pleasing disguised as kindness. Environments that quietly keep you stuck. You will hear a direct breakdown of the internal battles that must be faced before anything external can change. Thought governance. Emotional regulation. Boundaries. Values. Standards. And the real cost of avoiding your blind spots. Not with shame. With clarity and ownership. This episode is for anyone tired of almost becoming who they were called to be. For those who know they are capable of more but keep sabotaging themselves in familiar ways. If you are ready to stop surviving, stop outsourcing responsibility, and start living with intention, courage, and alignment, this is the work. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: phenyx.fit 📩 Email: info@katehastingspodcast.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1 Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

    1h 15m
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The Kate Hastings Show is a platform of transformation and community. A place of specialized knowledge, communication, unity, open conversations about health, wellness,lifestyle and people of their expertise.

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  • Creator
    Kate Hastings
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    293
  • Rating
    Clean
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