Kate Hastings Show

Kate Hastings
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The Kate Hastings Podcast is a place for real conversations about healing, growth, faith, discipline, relationships, emotional health, and rebuilding your life from the inside out.

  1. 3d ago

    How To Become A Woman You Can Depend On

    In this episode, I'm talking about the difference between self-trust and hyper-independence, and how strength can sometimes become protection when depending on other people hasn't always felt safe. I share how self-trust is built through values, decisions, boundaries, follow-through, and knowing you won't abandon yourself when life gets hard. I also talk about receiving, vulnerability, and why allowing trustworthy people to support you doesn't make you less capable or independent. There is a difference between healthy dependence and needing someone else for your stability, and real self-trust should make connection safer, not make other people unnecessary. You can be soft and strong, capable and supported, independent and still allow people to matter. The goal isn't to become a woman who needs nobody, but a woman who knows she can depend on herself and is secure enough to build a life with people she can depend on too.   Kate Hastings herformation.com+ Kate@herformation.com Instagram: @coachkate1 @herformation   Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes www.missionmedplus.com 786-692-9775 + @MissionMed.Plus Discount: "Coach Kate" for 10%

  2. Sep 3

    Understanding the Voice That's Hard on You

    That voice in your head that tells you you're not good enough, you should be further along, or you need to try harder didn't come from nowhere. In this episode, I break down how the inner critic develops, why being hard on yourself can actually feel productive, and what that voice may be trying to protect you from. I talk about the difference between accountability and self-criticism, and how repeated thoughts can eventually become beliefs about who you are. I also share how I've learned to slow that voice down, question what it's telling me, and lead myself from self-respect instead of shame. And I share how my faith completely changed the authority I give my own thoughts and gave me a different foundation for understanding who I am. Kate Hastings  Website: herformation.com  Email: Kate@herformation.com Instagram: @coachkate1   Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Discount: "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  3. Aug 27

    Understanding Your Cycles & Patterns

    In this podcast, I'm breaking down the patterns and cycles we live in, how they get formed, why they can be so hard to see, and how something you learned years ago can quietly keep running your life today. Sometimes you don't even know you have a pattern because it just feels like who you are. You keep ending up in the same friendships, relationships, emotional reactions, burnout, overthinking, people-pleasing, self-abandonment, or beliefs about yourself and eventually you have to ask, why do I keep ending up here? We're getting into how your environment, nervous system, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors all work together to reinforce what feels familiar, even when familiar isn't healthy. But awareness is only the beginning. Changing a pattern requires doing something different long enough to create new evidence. It means building the capacity to receive what used to feel uncomfortable, sit with emotions without immediately reacting to them, and separate what you feel from what is actually true about you. Kate Hastings  Website: herformation.com Email: Kate@herformation.com Instagram: @coachkate1   Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Discount: Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  4. Aug 20

    How To Lead Yourself Physically, Mentally And Spiritually.

    In this episode, I talk about what my life looked like when I had none of them, and what happened when I started building 1 without the others. I found physical strength before I had mental health, which meant fitness became another place for old patterns to live. I could train hard, compete, look disciplined, and still use my body as a place for punishment, control, identity, and emotional regulation. Then I learned that mental health doesn't exist separately from physical health either. Sleep, nutrition, movement, hormones, relationships, your environment, and simply taking care of yourself can deeply affect how you think and feel. But even as my physical and mental health improved, there was still a part of my life they couldn't answer. For me, that was spiritual. My faith in Christ gave me an identity, hope, peace, and assurance that my body, accomplishments, emotions, and even my own understanding could never give me. This episode is about what changes when you stop treating these as separate parts of your life and learn to lead yourself as 1 whole person. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: herformation.com 📩 Email: Kate@herformation.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1    Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  5. Aug 13

    Why You Can Handle So Stress but Struggle to Slow Down

    I used to think I was really good at handling stress. I had no other point of reference. Stress was basically my baseline, so that's all I ever knew how to operate from. Pressure, urgency, working harder, training, controlling, avoiding, scrolling, staying busy, then eventually crashing and doing it all over again. In this episode, I break down what stress actually is, how our nervous system develops its relationship with stress through childhood, co-regulation, conditioning, and repetition, and why some of the coping mechanisms that once helped us can eventually keep us stuck. I talk about the difference between stress and dysregulation, why even good things can be stressful, how uncertainty can feel like urgency, and why being great under pressure doesn't mean you know how to come out of it. It's learning how to recognize it, understand what it's communicating, build the capacity to move through it, and return to baseline without needing fear, pressure, avoidance, or urgency to keep you moving.   Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: herformation.com 📩 Email: Kate@herformation.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1    Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  6. Aug 6

    Understanding Emotional Capacity & How to Build It

    Emotional capacity is your ability to experience emotions without letting them lead your decisions or behaviors. It isn't about avoiding difficult feelings or pretending they don't exist. It's about increasing your ability to stay present, process what's happening, and respond with intention instead of reacting from overwhelm, fear, or old patterns. As your emotional capacity grows, you'll find yourself handling conflict, stress, disappointment, and uncertainty with greater clarity and self-control. Building emotional capacity is one of the foundations of personal leadership because the way you respond to life will always shape the direction of your life.   Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: herformation.com 📩 Email: Kate@herformation.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1    Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  7. Jul 30

    How to Learn & Speak the Language of Your Emotions

    Most women can speak fluently about their calendar, their goals, their opinions, and everyone else's problems, and go completely blank the moment someone asks what they are actually feeling underneath all of it. That is not a character flaw, it is a literacy gap, and it is running more of your life than you realize. In this episode I walk through what emotional literacy actually is, why so many of us were never given it in the first place, and the quiet ways it shows up as sharp tone, overworking, resentment that builds for years without a conversation, and relationships we stay in or leave for reasons we cannot fully name. I break down emotion as a full internal communication system with five layers your body is already running whether you know it or not, from the raw physiological state all the way through to how you actually speak it to another person. Then I give you five practices for building the vocabulary and the pause your nervous system needs to translate what it has been holding for years. This one sits underneath everything else in the framework, because you cannot lead a life from a place you cannot name, and you cannot be known by anyone if you cannot speak the language of what is happening inside you. If you have ever felt everything and been able to say almost none of it, this episode is the one you have been waiting for.   Kate Hastings  🌐 Website: herformation.com 📩 Email: Kate@herformation.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1    Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

  8. Jul 23

    How the Regulated Woman Leads Her Life

    Every woman is searching for safety, and the only real difference between women is where they are looking for it. A dysregulated nervous system spends its whole life trying to manufacture safety through control, certainty, achievement, relationships, money, or people-pleasing, because somewhere along the way it learned the world was not safe and it adapted in order to survive. In this episode I walk through the Her Formation Framework and what it actually means to become a regulated woman, one who no longer organizes her entire life around avoiding pain or controlling every outcome, but who has developed an internal steadiness that lets her think clearly, feel deeply, communicate honestly, and lead herself through whatever comes.   Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach 🌐 Website: herformation.com 📩 Email: Kate@herformation.com 📱 Instagram: @coachkate1    Mission Med+ | Dr. Kristin Oakes Website: www.missionmedplus.com Text 24/7 or Call: 786-692-9775 Email: koakes@missionmedus.com Instagram: @MissionMed.Plus Mention "Coach Kate" for 10% off all services

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The Kate Hastings Podcast is a place for real conversations about healing, growth, faith, discipline, relationships, emotional health, and rebuilding your life from the inside out.

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  • Creator
    Kate Hastings
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    322
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © The Kate Hastings Podcast
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