14 episodes

Better for the Boy is an honest and raw look at personal growth. Before becoming a parent, I didn't care much about being "good" - I didn't have a higher power to answer to, and no clear sense of purpose. But having a child changed everything for me. In this series, I share my personal journey towards self-improvement, with all the ups and downs that come along with it. From big wins to embarrassing mistakes, and everything in between, I'm bringing you real stories, real wisdom, and yes, even some WTF moments. Tune in to join me on this rollercoaster ride towards becoming a better person.

Better for the Boy Kayla Ogden

    • Education
    • 5.0 • 5 Ratings

Better for the Boy is an honest and raw look at personal growth. Before becoming a parent, I didn't care much about being "good" - I didn't have a higher power to answer to, and no clear sense of purpose. But having a child changed everything for me. In this series, I share my personal journey towards self-improvement, with all the ups and downs that come along with it. From big wins to embarrassing mistakes, and everything in between, I'm bringing you real stories, real wisdom, and yes, even some WTF moments. Tune in to join me on this rollercoaster ride towards becoming a better person.

    Dopamine Detox

    Dopamine Detox

    Welcome to the episode where I dive deep into the fascinating world of dopamine, exploring its profound influence on our behavior and motivation. Join me as I embark on an enlightening adventure, offering insights and guidance for those seeking to regain control over their lives and break free from addictive habits.
    In this episode, I unravel the hidden pathways of dopamine within your brain, taking you on a virtual tour through Mesolimbic Avenue, the brain's reward system, and Mesocortical Street, leading to the prefrontal cortex. Discover how dopamine reinforces behaviors, and learn the difference between seeking pleasure and experiencing true motivation.
    But hold on! I'm here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding dopamine detoxing too. Instead of eliminating dopamine altogether, we explore the importance of redirecting its power towards healthier and more fulfilling activities. Whether you're a stay-at-home parent longing for a sense of self amidst the beautiful chaos or someone overwhelmed by the demands of modern life, this episode has something for you.
    Buckle up as ever for my personal anecdotes and insights gained from a secret getaway, blending humor and introspection into a captivating narrative. From the breathtaking landscapes of North Vancouver to encounters with quirky characters, this tale will transport you to a world of self-discovery and balanced living.
    So, if you're intrigued by the enigmatic workings of your brain, contemplating a dopamine detox, or simply seeking a refreshing perspective on life's challenges, this podcast episode is a must-listen. Empower yourself with knowledge and practical advice to make conscious choices about your dopamine-driven behaviors, and embark on a transformative journey towards a more fulfilling and harmonious existence.


    For more:
    Videos by Dr. K / HealthyGamer GG on Dopmamine Detox:
    https://youtu.be/wK-s2qBU40A
    https://youtu.be/RPzV8fWmKPY

    Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke
    greenapplebooks.com/book/9781524746742

    • 28 min
    Attachment Theory

    Attachment Theory

    Kayla dives into Attachment Theory in this episode of Better for the Boy. Don't worry, you won't need a PhD in psychology to understand it all! Kayla breaks down the four different attachment styles - Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Avoidant Dismissive, and Disorganized - and explains how they can influence our romantic relationships. You might just discover that your childhood has more to do with your dating life than you thought! 

    • 29 min
    Gossip and Slander

    Gossip and Slander

    In this season, we'll be getting into some fun topics, starting with this episode on Gossip and Slander which features some juicy storytime from my social life, and explores the drama through the lens of evolutionary psychology. You can find the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major podcast platforms. 

    • 26 min
    Limiting Beliefs

    Limiting Beliefs

    Happy New Year! This episode is all about limiting beliefs: the stories we tell ourselves and the lies we believe that keep us from self-actualizing.
     

    • 32 min
    Gender Creative Parenting

    Gender Creative Parenting

    Gender Creative/Neutral/Open Parenting is a new technique that more and more folks are using to rear their kids. You may have heard of Theybies: babies whose parents choose not to assign them a gender and request that their communities use the non-binary pronouns They/Them. 

    In this episode I discuss the Gender Creative Parenting method and my own positive and negative feelings about it. My good friend, Mara, is using this approach to raise her awesome kid, Aster. She joins me for the second half of the episode to discuss her experiences. Fast forward to the 37 minute mark to skip straight to my chat with her.

    • 1 hr 25 min
    The Cure for Aging

    The Cure for Aging

    People that are born today are going to live until they are 130+ years old! How is this possible? How can YOU signal the cells that make up your body to restore themselves and become young again?

    Aging won't look the same as it did in the 20th century. When we reach 100 years old, we can be full of vitality.

    This episode is a cup of elixir from the fountain of youth. I found it in David A. Sinclair's groundbreaking work entitled Lifespan: Why We Age―and Why We Don't Have To.

    • 30 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
5 Ratings

5 Ratings

BeeWid 🐝 ,

So much heart, humor and thought

This is such a good podcast. Kayla is funny, thought provoking, smart and sweet. More episodes please!

JordanM007 ,

Informative, authentic and witty!

I love this podcast! The host discusses interesting and relevant topics and weaves in how human psychology places a part in our every day life. She also shares anecdotes from her personal life that make it more interesting. This pod is for parents and non parents alike. She’s funny, direct, and doesn’t hold back. Worth a listen!

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