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You can travel at your age, level, status, and interest. Wherever you are in your journey through life, take a minute to consider where you want to travel and our tips will help you get there and our mistakes will make you smile, knowing you got this! Dr Mary Travelbest wrote "5 Steps to Solo Travel", and knows what you need to get going, one woman at a time.

  1. 19H AGO

    Idaho and Packing Half travel guidance for women

    Idaho Travel and Packing Advice. My mission is world peace through cultural exchange.  In this episode, the FAQ is: You asked about packing tips. Listen to how you can cut out half. Today's Destination is: Idaho Travel Today's Mistake- Losing my skis on the way home from the resort Travel Advice: Follow the Five Steps to Solo Travel FAQ: Do you have any good packing tips for me? Answer: Yes, take half of what you think you need. You don't need it all. You can purchase what you forgot at the nearby store when you arrive. Keep your pack light and your path easy. Do you need a hair dryer? Maybe not. Ask whether the hotel has one. Do you need a lot of makeup? Maybe not as you are traveling. Do you need an outfit for every day? No, you can mix and match, so keep the colors simple, and don't overdo the clothing. You may not even need half of it. Now you have room in your suitcase for souvenirs and gifts for those friends back home. The 60-second confidence challenge is to remove half of your items from your suitcase before you travel. Lighten your load. You can get it later, most of the time, if you really need it. And you likely don't need all of those clothes you packed. You are not packing for Instagram photos, you are packing for you. That's the challenge. If you pack lighter, you are more sustainable, can relax more about your "stuff", and pay less in baggage fees. You are lighter in every way. Find out more about this in my 5 Steps to Solo Travel series, available on my website and on Amazon.com. Let me know if you have any questions we can use for future podcasts. This is number 368, so keep listening for more.   Today's destination: Idaho Travel   Here is a Summer and Fall Travel Guide When I think of Idaho, I used to think first of potatoes, but the real story is much bigger. Idaho is a wonderful destination for a summer or fall vacation, with mountain scenery, lakes, charming towns, outdoor recreation, and easy access to some of the most beautiful parts of the American West. I've been fortunate to visit Idaho on several different trips, and each one showed me a different side of the state. Idaho is a Step 2 travel destination. It's far for most people, but it's still quite familiar for a solo traveler. One of my most memorable visits was a week-long ski trip to Sun Valley. Although Sun Valley is famous as a winter destination, it also makes a terrific summer and fall getaway. The mountain scenery is stunning, the town has an upscale but relaxed atmosphere, and there are plenty of opportunities for hiking, biking, and simply enjoying the fresh air. Sun Valley has long attracted celebrities, and during my visit, I had a truly special experience: I met Clint Eastwood there. He was also skiing, and I, with my friends, met him in a restaurant. He joined our group, and we danced with him. He was very kind and gracious to us, and that made the trip even more unforgettable. It's not every day that a vacation gives you both beautiful mountain memories and a Hollywood story to tell. https://www.sunvalley.com/ If you visit Sun Valley in summer, you can enjoy long sunny days, wildflowers, scenic chairlift rides, golf, horseback riding, and peaceful walks through town. In the fall, the changing leaves bring beautiful color to the valley, and the cooler temperatures make it especially pleasant for outdoor activities. Ketchum and nearby Hailey also offer restaurants, galleries, and a welcoming small-town feel that make the area attractive even beyond the natural scenery. On another trip, I passed through Idaho Falls on the way to and from Yellowstone National Park. That's one of the great advantages of Idaho: it works beautifully as either a destination of its own or as part of a larger western road trip. Eastern Idaho offers dramatic landscapes, rivers, and open spaces that help set the mood for a national park adventure. If you are planning a Yellowstone trip, consider spending extra time in Idaho rather than rushing through. You'll find scenic byways, small towns, and a quieter pace that can be a nice contrast to the crowds often found in the national parks. I also spent time in Boise, which gave me yet another perspective on Idaho. Boise is the state capital, but it feels approachable, green, and easy to enjoy. For travelers looking for a mix of city attractions and outdoor access, Boise is an excellent choice. You can stroll through downtown, enjoy local restaurants and coffee shops, visit parks along the Boise River, and explore the city's cultural side with museums, public art, and neighborhood markets. In summer, Boise is lively and active, while in fall, the cooler weather makes sightseeing very comfortable. It's a city that feels friendly and manageable, which can be a real plus for vacationers who want a relaxed urban stop. https://coeurdalene.org/ Another Idaho trip took me north to Coeur d'Alene, where I spent a weekend on the lake. And I can tell you, it was absolutely beautiful. Coeur d'Alene is one of those places that instantly makes you slow down and appreciate the scenery. The lake is the star of the show, with sparkling water, forested hills, and plenty of opportunities for boating, walking, or simply sitting and taking in the view. For a summer vacation, Coeur d'Alene is ideal for lake activities, waterfront dining, and enjoying the long daylight hours. In the fall, the scenery becomes even more colorful, with crisp air and changing leaves reflected in the water. It's peaceful and perfect for a weekend escape, especially for solo travelers. You will meet great people here. So what makes Idaho such a strong choice for summer and fall travel? It's the combination of variety and space. You can enjoy mountain resorts like Sun Valley, urban discoveries in Boise, scenic stopovers on the route to Yellowstone, and lakeside relaxation in Coeur d'Alene. Idaho gives you room to breathe, room to explore, and room to create your own kind of vacation. My advice is simple: don't overlook Idaho. Whether you want outdoor adventure, scenic drives, a relaxing lake weekend, or a charming mountain town, Idaho delivers more than many people expect. And sometimes, if you're lucky, it even delivers a surprise celebrity encounter.   Today's Mistake- Losing my skis in Idaho   They were loaded onto the truck, taking me back to the airport after a week of skiing. We had such a great time. But when I arrived at the airport, my skis were missing. Be more careful about loading your skis in a large vehicle. Keep a closer eye on them on a truck. Always have insurance in case you lose your skis or other luggage.    Today's Travel Advice- Follow the 5 steps to Solo Travel, and be prepared for anything.     Connect with Dr. Travelbest Drmarytravelbest.com Dr. Mary Travelbest Twitter Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram email: info@drmarytravelbest.com Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube

    9 min

  2. MAY 15

    Cape Town, South Africa, Part 2 of 2

    This is about Cape Town, South Africa, Part 2 of 2 Welcome to the  Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast. A few weeks ago, I returned from a 90-day journey around the world, and I'm excited to connect with fellow travelers and share experiences.  The FAQ is: Should I rent a car in Cape Town? Answer: That depends on your desire to see the town and explore outside of the city. I rented for a week and drove 1,062 kilometers to the Garden Route (listen to the previous episode). On the first day of a long drive, I drove 6 hours to George on the left. A week later, as I returned the car, I still did not know how to turn on the headlights, and I was making my final trip to the airport in the rain.  I used Chat GPT at 6 am to ask, "How do the lights on the car turn on? Suzuki economy car. " When I turned in the car, the Budget Rent-A-Car attendant was impressed. His Comment was "you drove far," and he did not know it was my first time driving on the left side of the road. Listen to the Garde Route episode if you plan to drive. I could not have made arrangements to visit there without a car, as the bus schedule was up in the air.  Got a traffic ticket, not sure why The agent at Avis car rental commented, " You drove 1500 KM. That's a lot in a week. After a day of driving in town and solo driving, it got easier for me. So yes is my answer, but be willing to train your mind. 60-second confidence challenge Your challenge is the Confidence Challenge in Africa and deciding where to go. If you like today's Confidence Challenge, my book series, Book B, delves deeper into destinations such as the Seychelles, off the coast of Africa, and moves through the 5 steps to solo travel, from easy to more challenging, with foreign-language communication tips. See Book B for addressing this concern of which destination is right for you based on your experience of solo travel. Find it on the website​​ at https://www.5stepstosolotravel.com/ or on Amazon. It's a several-part series. Today's destination is Cape Town, South Africa, Part 2       You'll hear two extremes: "Cape Town is dangerous." "Cape Town is totally fine." Neither is fully true. Here's what actually works: ●      Use Uber consistently ●      Do not walk alone at night ●      Avoid isolated hikes ●      Keep your phone out of sight ●      Stay in Sea Point, Green Point, or near the Waterfront And yes—security gates and alarms are normal here. That doesn't mean panic. It means awareness is built into daily life. You also need a special adapter for your electronics, as a "universal adapter" does not work in South Africa. Be warned about getting plugged in with your phone. What Most Travelers Get Wrong, because they try to treat Cape Town like ●      Paris ●      San Diego ●      Sydney It's not. If you expect ease, you'll feel tension. If you expect structure, you'll feel confident. Cape Town is layered. You'll see: ●      Natural beauty ●      Cultural depth ●      Economic contrast And if you approach it thoughtfully, you'll leave not just with photos, but with perspective. I was there in June, and it was winter. So dress for the cold. The homes are not heated, so wear lots of clothes to sleep.   Confidence doesn't come from avoiding complexity; it comes from learning to move through it and practicing.   Shout-out to my producers, Rowan and Rose, from South Africa.  My missteps: Travel Mistakes to Avoid in Cape Town   It was so cold, I should have had the right clothes. It was June, but felt like December to me, and it was the southern hemisphere, so normal. Expect fog and rain and a deep chill in that season.     Thanks for listening, and I'll see you on the next journey. AI was used to select some of the suggestions for this episode.   Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube In the news

    8 min

  3. MAY 8

    Cape Town, South Africa Part 1 of 2

    Today we'll talk about Cape Town, South Africa, Part 1 of 2 Welcome to the  Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast. A few weeks ago, I returned from a 90-day journey around the world, and I'm excited to connect with fellow travelers and share experiences. The FAQ is: Carolyn asked me about traveling and how to improve her posture while traveling. I thought about all of the times I look down at my screens and slouch as a habit I want to break, too. So thanks for the question, Carolyn. To improve posture, here is my response. Answer: Here is a short routine for neck mobility and posture, because "tech neck" and looking down at phones can worsen the appearance of neck lines and make the area muscles tighter. Cleveland Clinic recommends regular neck movement and posture work for tech neck, and Harvard notes posture-focused stretching can help mobility. A simple travel routine you do a few minutes a day while on the go. Chin tuck: Sit tall, pull your head straight back like you are making a double chin. Hold 5 seconds, repeat 8–10 times. Neck rotations: Slowly turn right, center, left. Repeat 5 times on each side. Cleveland Clinic also describes slow neck circles/rotations for the neck area. Side neck stretch: Ear toward shoulder, hold 15–20 seconds each side, 2 rounds. Shoulder blade squeeze: Pull shoulder blades gently back and down for 5 seconds, 10 reps. Seated chest stretch: Clasp hands behind you and lift slightly to open the chest; Harvard describes this as a posture stretch. Hold 10 seconds, repeat 2–4 times. Those exercises help mobility, tension, and posture, which can make your neck look better, One small caution: stop the stretches if you get pain, tingling, numbness, dizziness, or headaches, and get checked if neck stiffness is severe or persistent. Neck mobility work should feel gentle, not aggressive.   60-second confidence challenge Your challenge today, Confidence Challenge in Cape Town, Part 1 of 2  If you like today's Confidence Challenge, my book series delves into how to get exercise while traveling. See the 5 steps to solo travel, from easy to more challenging, with tips and all of my mistakes, too See Book A for healthy travel, and Book B for great destinations. Soon, C will be joining them with adventures for you to experience around the world. Find it on the website​​ at https://www.5stepstosolotravel.com/ or on Amazon. Look for the pre-order info for Book C. It will be available for pre-order soon.   Today's destination is Cape Town, South Africa, Part 1 of 2 Start with Table Mountain. You should not skip Table Mountain. The day I went was foggy, cold, and rainy, but the views were still great. On the way up the cable car, I met two guys who were planning to BASE jump off the mountain, which is a bit like skydiving but from a mountain. See the link. It's very dangerous. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3C4csBc90V8 A safer alternative is to take the cable car if conditions are clear or almost clear. It was a joy to be taken up to the top and explore the views from above, learn the history, and even have lunch there if you like. And here's the catch: weather changes fast. If you wait for the "perfect day," you may miss it. So go early. Stay flexible. I recommend you take the Hop-on Hop-off bus around Cape Town and explore with a guided tour from the double-decker. I did that, plus the wharf, art museums, Aquarium with jellyfish and shark exhibits, and the beach, of course. The Red line takes you to Table Mountain. Robben Island was closed for repairs, so it should be open now. Worth seeing is Robben Island, located in Table Bay near Cape Town, South Africa, a UNESCO World Heritage Site famous as the former maximum-security prison where Nelson Mandela was incarcerated for 18 years of his 27 years in prison. Now a museum symbolizing the triumph of democracy over apartheid, it offers tours guided by former political prisoners.  The wharf was excellent. Sea-faring boats such as those you would see in San Francisco or Boston. Let's talk about the beach. Along Camp Bay, I walked on the beach. I saw lots of artists selling paintings here. They were mostly people who were starving and unemployed, so they became entrepreneurs. People standing in the street with cups for coins.  Drive—or hire a driver—to experience: ●      Chapman's Peak Drive ●      Cape of Good Hope https://www.sanparks.org/parks/table-mountain/what-to-do/attractions/cape-of-good-hope-cape-point   Now, let's be practical. Cape Town is not a "wander anywhere" city. Stick to: ●      V&A Waterfront ●      Sea Point Promenade https://www.waterfront.co.za/? Clifton and Camps Bay are stunning. But don't confuse beauty with safety. Go during the day. Stay aware. Leave before dark. I swam in Fish Hoek, and it was chilly, but so refreshing and safe, too. https://www.capetown.gov.za/Family%20and%20home/see-all-city-facilities/our-recreational-facilities/Beaches/Fish-Hoek-Beach  My missteps: Travel Mistakes to Avoid: TSA delays   This around-the-world trip had a few TSA security stops, but in the last few years I have been stopped for bringing all kinds of items across the border. The most recent stop was for spices, traveling in a sealed container, at the border.  Next time I carry spices, I'll check that bag. The TSA spent 5 minutes checking my spice for tampering on the way to Taiwan last month.   AI was used to select some of the suggestions for this episode.   Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube In the news

    8 min

  4. MAY 1

    Best of Sun Moon Lake, Taiwan

    Episode: Best of Sun Moon Lake, Taiwan Welcome to Dr. Mary Travelbest's 5 Steps to Solo Travel Guide for people like you who need extra support traveling (slowly) one at a time. We've been helping women find travel memories since 1993 and traveling solo since 1972. Please share the memories we create and tell a friend about them. I appreciate your feedback and travel questions. FAQ Should I use public transportation abroad?   Episode: Sun Moon Lake, Taiwan    Lesson Learned: Don't schedule everything Day 1   Travel Tip: Trust your gut instincts, if unsure, pivot fast.   FAQ Response:  Should I use public transportation abroad?   Yes, you should try it at least, but not in rush hour with all of your luggage. One way to test it out is to try it early morning, before rushing workers get on, but while it's still light outside.  Most times, you only need a card to swipe, and you can add money to the card when you need to. Your first care purchase is often at a self-service kiosk, and usually there is English translations here. Go for it and try.   Episode: Sun Moon Lake, Taiwan   Special episode: Sun Moon Lake, Taiwan   March 2025 was my first visit to this scenic region, which reminded me of Lake Tahoe, California.  I had to refer to my notes, which could be helpful to you.   Arrive in Taoyuan airport and take the train to the Taipei Main Station and take the HSR train to Taichung City which comes about every 30 minutes and takes about an hour.   Bus to Sun Moon Lake, which comes at least hourly.   The total cost to get there is about $25, and it takes about 3 hours. To drive, you would take about 2.5 hours and save a few dollars.      Where to Stay? There are several hotels and resorts. My room at the Harbor Resort was not ready when I arrived, so I walked around the lake in the meantime. Here are a few other places, the most expensive one listed first. Luxury/Comfort: Fleur de Chine Hotel – thermal spa access, lakeside views, wellness focus Midrange/Solo-Friendly: The Crystal Resort or Hotel Del Lago – walking distance to bike paths and pier Budget/Unique: Sun Moon Lake Youth Activity Center – traditional wooden lodge vibes     Sun Moon Lake Itinerary (4 Days) Day 1 –  Afternoon: Arrive via bus to the (Shoe-is-he) Shuishe Pier area Check in + light walk along the Shuishe Lakeside Trail (flat, peaceful) Evening: Early dinner of local fish and mountain vegetables at Full House Resort Restaurant or a local restaurant nearby. Sunset viewing from Wenwu Temple stairs (lit up at night) local tea tasting at Sun Moon Lake Antique Assam Tea Farm     Day 2 – Biking the Lake & Culture Morning: Rent an e-bike or mountain bike and ride the Sun Moon Lake Cycle Route — voted one of the top cycling paths globally Stop at: Ci'en Pagoda, Xiangshan Visitor Center, and (May-he) Meihe Garden Full loop is ~29km; consider a half-loop if you're feeling leisurely. There are places where you need to dismount and walk it. Some days you may not be able to go the full distance around, so ask. Afternoon: Take the Sun Moon Lake Ropeway (cable car) to the Formosan Aboriginal Culture Village Learn about the Thao, spelled T-H-A-O) and other cultural groups Optional: garden strolls Return via cable car or ferry Evening: Relaxing soak at your hotel's onsen-style hot springs Dinner at The Lalu's Moon Pavilion Restaurant for lakeside fine dining (worth it solo!)     Day 3 – Hiking + Temples Morning: Hike the Maolan Mountain Trail or Tsen Pagoda Trail for panoramic lake views and forest immersion Easy to moderate; solo-safe and well-marked Afternoon: Visit Xuanzang Temple – peaceful with Buddhist relics Snack on local tea eggs and tofu pudding from lakeside stalls Evening: Night market (seasonal, usually in Shuishe or Ita Thao area) – solo-friendly and fun for grazing Optional: Boat cruise at dusk (join a group tour or private hire)     Day 4 – Tea + Departure Optional walk in Xiangshan Forest Trail for one last quiet moment    Safety, Solo Vibes & Tips Taiwan is ranked one of the safest destinations for solo female travelers (source: Global Peace Index) English signage is plentiful in Sun Moon Lake; locals are helpful but modest Google Translate,  and Pleco app help with communication. I used the Line app for texting here. Public bathrooms are clean and common Tap water is not typically drunk directly — use filtered water   Sun Moon Lake Official Website Formosan Aboriginal Culture Village Lesson Learned: Don't schedule everything on Day 1   Leave several ideas for another day. Don't pack everything in right away.  I tried to do that in Paris, but it did not work. I did return and enjoyed the visit much more that time. Imagine you'll be back if you like the destination. Travel Tip: Trust your gut instincts, if unsure, pivot fast.   If you walk into a restaurant, store, or even your hotel and it does not look right, you can trust your gut. Consider a pivot to plan B. Be safe, not sorry.   I want to bring meaning to your future travel. Sign up for the Dr. Travelbest newsletter. We can connect on my websites, Facebook page, group, or Instagram. Find the 5 Steps to Solo Travel series on Amazon. The show notes have more details for you to connect. Please support this podcast with a review. We need your help to help others.   Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest onYouTube In the news

    8 min

  5. MAY 1

    Athens, Greece, Part 2 of 2

    Where in the world am I? In San Diego, talking about Athens, Greece, Part 2 of 2 This is the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast.  The FAQ is: I'm currently taking 2 "high-risk" medications and will be traveling to Germany, Austria, and Czechia from the US in the fall (will be in each country less than 5 days). I know I'll need a doctor's note, keep everything in the original packaging, and declare them. What has your experience been traveling with prescription medication? Have you ever been pulled for extra questioning, had medication confiscated, or forgotten/skipped declaring, etc.? Answer: No, I've never been stopped for medication, nor has anyone I know. But you should always have a doctor's prescription, and it should be in the original packaging. You should have the supply amounts for the trip you are taking. So be mindful of any country laws and regulations. Always check first. Please note that I am not a medical doctor, but a business and marketing DBA.  60-second confidence challenge Your challenge today, Confidence Challenge in travel, is to get tickets to an event in a different country. If you're trying to see a big event like the World Cup, you may need to check the current conditions, pricing, and immigration rules. I attended the 1984 Olympics in Los Angeles, and I hope to go to the next games in 2028, but it's not a sure thing to get a ticket. You can sign up now if you want. See the show notes. https://la28.org/en/newsroom/la28-launches-global-olympic-ticket-sales.html   If you like today's Confidence Challenge, my book series delves deeper into specific events for travel, like Olympic Games, while moving through the 5 steps to solo travel, from easy to more challenging, with foreign language communication tips. See Book A for addressing this concern. Find it on the website​​ at https://www.5stepstosolotravel.com/ or on Amazon. It's a several-part series, and part C is almost ready for pre-sales. Today's destination is Athens, Greece, Part 2 of 2 Remember, it's a Step 5 destination. Here's some guidance for you on the places to see in Athens. Acropolis Visit I entered the Acropolis at 7:10 PM, so I only had 50 minutes, but that was enough. Visiting at night was better since it wasn't too crowded.  But you get kicked out at 8 pm, so I had another couple of hours to explore the areas around the buildings, and they were still visible from the nearby hillside. It did get cooler after 8 p.m., too. I think that there is so much more than just the main attractions. Spend more time here in the evening, when it's still light outdoors. Saturday: M2 to Elliniko I took the metro to the Acropolis station, but it was under construction, so I had to change my plans. No problem Last Day in Athens I went swimming in the bay near Edem, a public beach accessible by tram. There, I met Don and Joan from the USA, who are now locals thanks to the Golden Visa program, having obtained resident status here for $250,000. They're living the good life now! They showed me the ropes at the beach and provided great insight into life and culture here. They are a sweet couple, probably in their 55s or 60s. In the '80s, Don lived in San Diego with his former wife, raised kids there, and worked for General Dynamics.  Afterward, I visited Poseidon Taverna, a restaurant near the tram station, and later hiked up Proponisia Mountain, or Hill. I enjoyed a beautiful sunset on the roof of my hostel while talking to Damien from Holland and my roommate, Danny from Takoma.  I also had breakfast with another hostel roommate, Amanda, a tech expert traveling solo. Additionally, I spoke again with Ryan from Melbourne, Australia. He missed his flight and expressed his desire to run with the bulls in Spain soon. I gave him some of my leftover books and food for his future trip. Food: Gyros with pork  Recommended Activities: Hop-on, hop-off bus, Architecture Museum, and a city tour.  I did a lot of walking this week, averaging 10-17 kilometers every day. A side note: I just hit the 5,000-mile mark on my walking badge app, some of it in Greece. My missteps: I got scammed online I was scammed on Amazon for a product I did not order. A random vendor mailed me some jewelry. I did not order it. Then I saw a bill for $400. It was impossible to get a refund, because the seller was no longer on the website. After several months, I did receive a refund, but it was a challenge to get it. Don't let that happen to you.  AI was used to select some of the suggestions for this episode. Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube In the news

    8 min

  6. APR 24

    Athens, Greece Part 1 of 2

    Welcome to the  Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast for 5 Steps to Solo Travel. The FAQ is: What is going on with the number of cars on the road these days? Is traffic increasing, and why? Answer: Americans are sitting in traffic longer than ever. Last year, commuters lost an average of 63 hours, or almost 8 workdays, stuck in traffic, according to a Texas A&M study reported by Kiplinger. It is a 16% increase in national congestion costs from 2099 to 2024. Truck congestion rose 19%. A shift in traffic patterns has contributed to overall increased traffic times. Delays are no longer just during weekday rush hours. Traffic congestion is spreading to midday, midweek, and even weekends, due in part to hybrid work schedules.   60-second confidence challenge Your challenge today, Confidence Challenge, is to find your way through traffic congestion.   If you like today's Confidence Challenge, my book series delves into alternatives to traffic congestion and how to pick places to visit off-season or in shoulder season, while moving through the 5 steps to solo travel, from easy to more challenging, with foreign language communication tips. You can find the series at the link in the description.   See Book A for addressing this concern about traffic and congestion while traveling. Find it on the website at https://www.5stepstosolotravel.com/ or on Amazon—it's a several-part series.   Today's destination is Athens, Greece. Part 1 of 2 My missteps: Getting lost in Athens The hostel manager pointed outside. "Don't go that way when you leave," and I did not ask. I did get lost a few times, though, finding my way back. I may have walked that way by accident. I found the metro station, which served the modern, faster blue line. I changed lines at Monastiraki and arrived at Omonia Square, but I got a bit lost. The neighborhood was quite confusing and not very safe, with only small markets around. I felt scared at times. It was 9:15 PM and dark when I finally reached the hostel, but no one was at the reception. I bought some yogurt and a banana for my trip.  AI may have been used to select some of the suggestions for this episode. Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube In the news

    8 min

  7. APR 17

    Best of Archives. Japan

    Japan is one of the most visited places by those from the USA. Listen to this archived episode from years' past about Japan. It's still relevant today. It's a Step 5 Destination, and you can travel there solo. Find out more from the book series: The Five Steps to Solo Travel. And if you leave a review, you will make Dr. Travelbest so happy. Happy 2026 to you. Read what others say and then make your own words. It's an authentic voice, and it's really me!

    9 min

  8. APR 10

    The Garden Route, South Africa

    Episode: The Garden Route, South Africa Today's episode is an FAQ on what the Garden Route is, a bit about the route, and my mistakes on it. The FAQ is: What is the Garden Route? It sounds lovely, but what is it actually? Answer:  The Garden Route is a re-branded name for a region in Africa. It's a 190-mile stretch of South Africa's southeastern coast, stretching from Mossel Bay to the Storms River. It is a popular tourist road trip known for lush forests, dramatic mountain scenery, lakes, and sandy beaches. The area features a mild, year-round temperate climate, making it a premier, safe destination for outdoor activities. I drove it in 2025, all on the left side of the road, in a rental car, and there were almost no traffic lights or even traffic. Listen to the full episode to learn how I got a traffic ticket and what happened later. 60-second confidence challenge Your challenge today is the Confidence Challenge on the Garden Route Driving on the left side of the road was a huge challenge for me. To do it well, think of big right turns and small left turns. Follow the car in front of you if you get mixed up. It should be practiced on local streets before you enter a busy city, like Cape Town, South Africa. If you like today's Confidence Challenge, my book series delves deeper into getting around in Step 4 travel, while moving through the 5 steps to solo travel, from easy to more challenging, with foreign language communication tips. Find Books A, and B and soon C, on the website​​ at https://www.5stepstosolotravel.com/ or on Amazon. It's a several-part series. Today's destination is the Garden Route, South Africa. Today we're heading to one of the most spectacular coastal drives in the world — The Garden Route in South Africa, just about six to seven hours from Cape Town. I was inspired by Rose from our Bucket List Travel Series and had to visit for my own experience. Six hours of driving sounds long. But here's the question: when was the last time you permitted yourself to take the scenic road? And I split it into two days of driving. You can drive it yourself as I did, or take a Greyhound bus, which is comfortable and reliable. If you prefer less stress, the bus is a solid option. But driving gives you flexibility — and plenty of lessons. And the buses weren't flexible with their pickup times, like one am, which isn't my idea of a convenient pickup at a bus stop. I left Fish Hoek in the Cape Town area at 8 a.m. on a Sunday. Within thirty minutes, the coast was visible — waves crashing, sand drifting across the road, endless sky. And yes, you'll also see contrasts. There are informal settlements along the way. Women carrying water jugs. Shacks near beaches. South Africa is breathtaking — and complex. Once I found the N2 — after missing a turn and driving nearly an hour too far — the journey truly began. Note to self: don't rely only on instinct. Download your maps offline. And don't speed. Tickets are expensive. My first major stop was Knysna (NICE-nuh) Heads — two dramatic cliffs guarding a lagoon entrance. I is spelled: K N Y S N A. Knysna means NICE-nuh (/ˈnaɪznə/), with a silent 'K'. It is a Khoikhoi word meaning "place of wood" or "fern leaves," and it is located in the Western Cape of South Africa. The views from above the cliffs are unforgettable. It's hard to describe, but picture what Robinson Curuso (spelling) may have seen from his travels. Then on to Plettenberg Bay, where I walked Lookout Beach. Here you will see Volleyball games, rustic beach restaurants, and wide open space. If you swim, check the tides — and yes, the water is cold, but refreshing. Around 17°C in some areas, and slightly warmer than Fish Hoek. For nature lovers, Robberg Nature Reserve is worth the small entrance fee — about 65 Rand or 4 dollars.  I hiked partway. It's rocky and slippery, so take care. I saw seals — hundreds of them — birds soaring, and even a whale in the distance. I walked over 16,000 steps that day. Alone. Strong. Capable. And here's something beautiful: I stayed at a simple hostel in Sedgefield — about $25 a night. The owner made us dinner. My roommate, Mary, from Germany, had been traveling solo for 12 months. She quit her corporate logistics job and became, as she said, "the package." She left for Kazakhstan the next morning. Inspiring, isn't it? On the drive back toward Cape Town, I saw baboons crossing the road — mothers with babies on their backs: cows, sheep, rolling hills. One truck had spilled cement across the highway. Life happens. Stay alert. Top speed is 120 kilometers per hour. You pass on the right. Big sweeping turns. It's not a casual drive; it requires focus. Now, while you're near Cape Town, consider booking a private taxi driver for a full-day tour if you don't want to drive on the left side of the road as I did. Include Chapman's Peak Drive, Boulders Beach to see penguins, Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens, and sunset atop Table Mountain. You can hike up via Platteklip Gorge or Skeleton Gorge (which includes ladders) and take the cable car down if your knees prefer that option. There is no shame in the cable car. Add a visit to Stellenbosch wine country, Blaauwklippen for its weekend market, Guardian Peak for views, or Ernie Els for something more upscale. And don't miss the (oh-RUN-yuh-zicht) Oranjezicht City Farmers Market on a Saturday morning. Here's the mistake some first-time visitors make: they rush the Garden Route. This is not a checklist destination. It's a rhythm. It's Youth Day celebrations on June 16th. It's cheering runners at a 10K before you can drive out because your house sits on the course. It's dinner with strangers who become friends. The Garden Route reminds you that solo does not mean alone. If you are 50-plus and wondering whether the Garden Route drive is "too much," I would gently challenge that thought. With preparation, awareness, and pacing, it's absolutely doable. And unforgettable. AI was used to select some of the suggestions for this episode.   Connect with Dr. Travelbest 5 Steps to Solo Travel website Dr. Mary Travelbest X Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Page Dr. Mary Travelbest Facebook Group Dr. Mary Travelbest Instagram Dr. Mary Travelbest Podcast Dr. Travelbest on TikTok Dr.Travelbest on YouTube In the news

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You can travel at your age, level, status, and interest. Wherever you are in your journey through life, take a minute to consider where you want to travel and our tips will help you get there and our mistakes will make you smile, knowing you got this! Dr Mary Travelbest wrote "5 Steps to Solo Travel", and knows what you need to get going, one woman at a time.

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