Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast

Annette Hines
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Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast

Welcome to Parenting Impossible, the podcast dedicated to empowering and supporting the disability community. Hosted by Annette Hines, this podcast was born out of a mission to combat the scattered and sometimes inaccurate information that parents and caregivers of disabled adult children often face.In each episode, we delve into the pressing questions and concerns that weigh on the minds of the entire special needs community including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, physical disabilities, mental health issues and more. From navigating the complexities of special needs trusts and planning for the future to addressing the fundamental question of "How will my child be okay when I cannot do this anymore?"—we leave no stone unturned.Attorney Annette Hines is a special needs mom, author of the best-selling book Butterflies and Second Chances, national expert speaker, writer and contributor to publications, and founder of the Special Needs Law Group based In Massachusetts. She shares personal insights and her guests (parents, siblings, and experts and sometimes parents who are experts!) discuss many issues facing the special needs community including raising children with different abilities, transitioning into adulthood, sibling challenges and how to effectively navigate the complex systems in our world. We're not just here to talk; we're here to make a difference.In a society where the disabled and their caregivers are often devalued, Parenting Impossible stands as a beacon of advocacy and support dedicated to giving compassionate advice for all stages of life. Join us as we tackle the challenges, break down barriers, and strive to create a more informed and compassionate world for the disability community. Because when it comes to parenting in the face of impossibility, you're not alone—we're here with you.

  1. 269: Embracing Imperfection: Parenting Through Chaos with Cynthia Di Filippo Elomaa, Author of Nicky’s Very Messy Room

    6 DAYS AGO

    269: Embracing Imperfection: Parenting Through Chaos with Cynthia Di Filippo Elomaa, Author of Nicky’s Very Messy Room

    Parenting can be a whirlwind of chaos and imperfections, but sometimes, it's in those messy moments that growth and learning truly happens. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with children's author, Cynthia Di Filippo Elomaa. Cynthia embraces imperfection and chaos in parenting, emphasizing that seeking support and tailored assistance is essential while recognizing that each child learns at their own unique pace. Her inclusive educational book series, "Nikki's Very Messy Room," centers on planning, collaboration, and involving children in chores to foster responsibility and ownership, all of which challenges traditional notions of order and perfection by celebrating the natural, messy rhythms of family life.   In this episode, you will hear: Why involving children in planning is important. Why seeking support and asking for help is essential in parenting. What activities can be provided to engage children in learning independently. How interactive reading experiences benefit children. Why it is important to understand that not every child learns at the same pace. Resources from this Episode: Website: https://cynthiadifilippoelomaa.com/ Read: Nicky’s Very Messy Room Register for classes: Stillwater Book, West Warwick, RI  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1144567134109?aff=oddtdtcreator No Other Book Like This, Mystic CT https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1144392291149?aff=oddtdtcreator LinkedIn & Twitter/X: @cynthiaelomaa Instagram: @authorcynthiaelomaa YouTube: @AuthorCynthiaDiFilippoElomaa Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    34 min
  2. 268: How Embracing Culture Transforms Inclusion with Christa Preston, Founder & Executive Director of Embrace Kulture

    JAN 30

    268: How Embracing Culture Transforms Inclusion with Christa Preston, Founder & Executive Director of Embrace Kulture

    Embracing culture is more than just a statement; it's a way of life. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sat down with Christa Preston, founder of Embrace Kulture, to share her journey of fostering inclusion for children with developmental and cognitive disabilities in Uganda and East Africa. Inspired by her brother, Nick, and local Ugandan child, Olivia, Christa grew the organization into a fully Ugandan-led movement that has reached over a million people, influenced national policies, and transformed inclusive education. She also highlighted #NoMoreHiddenChildren, a growing social movement empowering ambassadors to identify undiagnosed children and spread the message of acceptance. Join the movement and help make a difference by visiting Embrace Kulture’s website to learn more and get involved! In this episode, you will hear: The importance of community support for individuals with disabilities, regardless of culture. How Embrace Kulture empowers parents of children with disabilities in Uganda and East Africa What role parents of children with special needs play in the community. How Embrace Kulture collaborates with local experts and organizations in Uganda. Why it is important to respect and reflect the culture and community when working towards inclusive practices. Resources from this Episode: Website: https://www.embracekulture.org/ Facebook, Twitter/X, Instagram : @embracekulture YouTube: ​​@embracekulture6061   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    53 min

  3. JAN 23

    267: Proactive Caregiving: A Practical Guide to Fiduciary Responsibilities

    Being a fiduciary is like being a financial superhero with great power and great responsibility. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I break down the critical role of fiduciary responsibilities and how to navigate them effectively. Acting as a fiduciary goes beyond managing finances; it requires transparency, organized documentation, and a deep understanding of beneficiaries' needs to make informed decisions. Fiduciaries wield the power to make decisions that significantly impact others' lives. It’s a role that demands not only expertise but also a strong sense of duty and ethics. By embracing this checklist, fiduciaries can confidently fulfill their duties and make a lasting positive impact on the lives they touch.   In this episode, you will hear: What key public benefits fiduciaries need to understand and track. What important responsibilities fiduciaries should be aware of. How fiduciaries can ensure effective financial oversight. Why positive relationships and open communication is important in caregiving and fiduciary roles. Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    26 min

  4. JAN 16

    266: Passion vs. Purpose: Driving Change for Individuals with Disabilities

    Supporting the special needs community is crucial for creating an inclusive and welcoming world for individuals with disabilities.    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about the importance of intentional planning to support the special needs community and ease the anxiety that often weighs on individuals with disabilities and their caregivers. I share my experiences and how thoughtful accommodations can make all the difference as a parent. Passion is important, but real change comes from purposeful actions and planning. It’s about creating a world where everyone feels included and supported regardless of ability.   In this episode, you will hear: Ways to educate yourself about the challenges and barriers faced by individuals with disabilities. How to support organizations and initiatives that promote inclusivity and accessibility. Learn to speak up against discrimination and promote acceptance and understanding. Discover ways to encourage others to join you in advocating for the rights of individuals with disabilities. Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    24 min

  5. JAN 9

    265: The Ultimate Checklist for Updating Your Estate Plan

    In the ever-evolving landscape of personal and financial circumstances, regularly updating your estate plan cannot be overstated. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about why it’s so important to keep your estate plan up to date. Life happens—families change, finances shift, and you might buy a new property or start a business in another state. That’s why I recommend reviewing your plan every year and doing a deeper dive every three years, or whenever a big life event happens. From my own experience, I’ve seen how essential it is to adapt your plan so it truly reflects where you are in life. Working with the right attorney can help you address things like creditor issues and make sure your loved ones are taken care of, especially if you’re managing unique needs or navigating state-specific rules. Estate planning might not sound exciting, but it’s all about protecting the people and things that matter most to you.   In this episode, you will hear: Why it is important to regularly review and update estate plans. Key considerations when preserving assets for disabled beneficiaries. Why it is important to regularly update beneficiary designations. When estate plans should be revised when relocating to another state. Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    24 min

  6. JAN 2

    264: Avoid the Scarcity Trap: How the Disability Community Can Thrive Together

    Individuals with disabilities often encounter significant hurdles in accessing quality healthcare due to limited accessibility options and a scarcity of available services. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I address the challenges individuals with disabilities face in accessing quality healthcare, including limited services and barriers like Medicaid restrictions. I advocate for policy changes to enhance resources and emphasize the importance of building community to share experiences and solutions. By shifting from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance, focusing on strengths, and setting personalized goals, individuals can better navigate these hurdles. I also highlight the value of education, online resources, and mindfulness in creating a supportive network that fosters growth and advocacy. In this episode, you will hear: Why advocating for policy changes is crucial to increase accessibility and support. How to shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset when setting goals. The importance of individualized planning for individuals with disabilities. Why building a community is important in supporting individuals with disabilities.   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    22 min

  7. 12/26/2024

    263: Building Letters of Intent: Your Guide To Safeguarding The Future of Your Children

    The process of planning for the future of disabled children is often overwhelming.    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I share how planning for the future of disabled children is a daunting yet essential task for their well-being and security. I talk about setting big goals for their future, including where they will live and work, who will support them, and the importance of creating a letter of intent to document their needs, routines, and preferences. I also highlight choosing trusted guardians and trustees who understand disabilities and complex systems like benefits and education. If you need support or resources to start this process, visit my website or reach out. You’re not alone—I’m here to help.   In this episode, you will hear: The importance of letters of intent in a child’s future. How creating trusts benefits children with special financial needs. Why it is crucial to choose the right individuals for financial decision-making roles. Key elements to consider when planning for disabled children's future. Why clear communication of goals and plans are essential. Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    49 min

  8. 12/19/2024

    262: Patient vs. Profit: The Shooting That Exposed a Broken Healthcare System

    The healthcare system is a battleground where profits often triumph over patient needs. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I take a closer look at our profit-driven healthcare system after the assassination of UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson. Financial goals often outweigh patient care, with rising denials for essential treatments and CEO compensation tied to profits—creating a troubling conflict of interest. As a mom who fought tirelessly for my daughter’s Medicaid support, I know firsthand how broken this system is for families just trying to get the care they need. It shouldn’t be this hard. We can learn from healthcare models in countries like Canada and England, where patients—not profits—come first. It’s time for change.   In this episode, you will hear: Some challenges individuals face in navigating complex health insurance policies. How profit-driven healthcare models can impact patient care. Why advocacy is important in ensuring adequate patient care within the healthcare system. Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    17 min
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Welcome to Parenting Impossible, the podcast dedicated to empowering and supporting the disability community. Hosted by Annette Hines, this podcast was born out of a mission to combat the scattered and sometimes inaccurate information that parents and caregivers of disabled adult children often face.In each episode, we delve into the pressing questions and concerns that weigh on the minds of the entire special needs community including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, physical disabilities, mental health issues and more. From navigating the complexities of special needs trusts and planning for the future to addressing the fundamental question of "How will my child be okay when I cannot do this anymore?"—we leave no stone unturned.Attorney Annette Hines is a special needs mom, author of the best-selling book Butterflies and Second Chances, national expert speaker, writer and contributor to publications, and founder of the Special Needs Law Group based In Massachusetts. She shares personal insights and her guests (parents, siblings, and experts and sometimes parents who are experts!) discuss many issues facing the special needs community including raising children with different abilities, transitioning into adulthood, sibling challenges and how to effectively navigate the complex systems in our world. We're not just here to talk; we're here to make a difference.In a society where the disabled and their caregivers are often devalued, Parenting Impossible stands as a beacon of advocacy and support dedicated to giving compassionate advice for all stages of life. Join us as we tackle the challenges, break down barriers, and strive to create a more informed and compassionate world for the disability community. Because when it comes to parenting in the face of impossibility, you're not alone—we're here with you.

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