Write this Down! with Dot Bowen

Dot Bowen
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Bible teacher, author and founder of Cup of Joy Ministries, Dot Bowen, teaches listeners what it truly looks like to know, love and follow Jesus. Each week, Dot invites you to sit down with her and her daughter, Cara, to have an authentic conversation about Biblical Scripture and God’s Truth. Their honest and thought provoking conversations are full of wit and wisdom which will have you diving deeper into God’s Word. Whether Dot is teaching, speaking or simply grabbing coffee with a dear friend, she can often be heard saying with excitement, “Write this Down!” Her heart for the listener is to take the things she asks you to write down before the Lord and ask Him to open your eyes to His Truth and love. John 8:32 says, “and you will know the Truth and the Truth will set you free.” By the end of each episode, you’ll find yourself grabbing a pencil so that you can Write this Down! with Dot Bowen.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 289: But God, You Promised

    What do you do when God asks you to hand back the very thing he promised you? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit with the story of Abraham and Isaac, the moment when a father who waited decades for a son is asked to lay that son on an altar. They talk about the danger of writing our own narrative onto what God is doing, why Abraham's silence on that mountain says everything about his faith, and how trusting the process matters more than understanding the plan. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode RecapIntro (00:00)Write this down, Genesis 17:15-19, God renames Sarai to Sarah and promises Abraham a son through her (00:00)Cara welcomes everyone and frames today's question, what do you do when God gives you a promise and then asks you to sacrifice it (01:10)A quick refresher on Ishmael, how Sarah's plan led to Hagar, and why Isaac, not Ishmael, was always God's idea (02:12)Writing the narrative, Dot and Cara's shorthand for assuming we know how God's story ends before he's finished telling it (07:15)Jumping to Genesis 22, Abraham walks up the mountain with Isaac and never once brings up the promise God once took from him (11:39)Why Abraham telling his servants we will be back might be one of the boldest statements of faith in all of Scripture (17:18)Abraham had never seen a resurrection in his life and still trusted God could bring Isaac back, an easy detail to miss (17:49)Knowing God versus believing him, and why that gap is exactly where our faith gets tested (20:20)A story about a train ticket that never comes early but always comes on time, and what it teaches us about trusting God's timing (32:26) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseGenesis 17:15-19 (NASB 1977) — "Then God said to Abraham, 'As for Sarai, your wife, you shall not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall be her name. And I will bless her, and indeed I will give you a son by her. Then I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations. Kings of people shall come from her.' Then Abraham fell on his face and laughed, and he said in his heart, 'Will a child be born to a man 100 years old, and will Sarah, who is 90 years old, bear a child?' And Abram said to God, 'Oh, that Ishmael might live before Thee.' But God said, 'No. But Sarah, your wife, shall bear you a son, and you shall call his name Isaac. And I will establish my covenant with him for an everlasting covenant for his descendants after him.'"

  2. Sep 23

    Episode 288: You Don’t Have to Know Why

    Ever wish God would just tell you why? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit with the story of Job and his friends, three men who loved Job deeply but got it wrong by assuming they knew exactly what God was doing in his suffering. Together they talk about the difference between speaking for God and speaking to God, and why letting Him reveal the why, instead of manufacturing one ourselves, is where real trust actually starts. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode RecapIntro (00:00)Write this down: Job 38:1-7, God's answer to Job out of the whirlwind (00:00)Dot shares how Write This Down was actually born out of her deep study of Job's friends, and catching herself thinking "I would have said that too" (00:01:27)Job's friends genuinely loved Job and sat with him in silence for seven days, but the trouble started when they assumed they knew why he was suffering (00:03:14)We live in a culture that thinks it can know everything, even asking ChatGPT to translate a sign in a tunnel, and how easy it is to bow down to the god of knowledge instead of trusting God himself (00:06:07)Why the Book of Job never actually answers why, and what that means for anyone waiting on an explanation for their own pain (00:07:10)Cara opens up about her own season of wrestling with her trust in God being tested, and learning she could move forward without fully understanding why (00:10:10)The line Dot wants you to write down, Job's friends talked about God to Job, but Job talked to God about himself and about God (00:13:17)Learning to hold the fear and love of God together, and letting Him reveal what He wants you to know instead of stepping in to explain it yourself (00:16:23)The bottom line of Job's story, God isn't in the business of punishing you, He's shaping you stage by stage, so be careful of anyone who claims to know exactly what God is doing in your life (00:21:35) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseJob 38:1-7 (ESV) — "Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind and said, 'Who is this that darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Dress for action like a man; I will question you, and you make it known to me. Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me, if you have understanding. Who determined its measurements, surely you know! Or who stretched the line upon it? On what were its bases sunk, or who laid its cornerstone, when the morning stars sang together and all the sons of God shouted for joy?'"

  3. Sep 16

    Episode 287: When Your Trust in God Feels Broken

    What happens when your trust in God gets shaken, or even feels completely broken? In this honest conversation, Dot and Cara sit with Psalm 13 and David's raw prayer of doubt and praise, and open up about seasons in their own lives when trusting God felt like being led off a cliff. They talk through the real difference between a faith that's shaken and one that's severed, and why struggling with God is not the same as walking away from Him. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode Recap Intro (00:00)Write this down: Psalm 13:1-6, David's raw, honest prayer that swings from "how long, O Lord" to pure praise (00:00)Dot wonders if David has a split personality, until Cara points out the psalm is a perfect picture of being honest with God (01:32)Today's real conversation starter: a dear friend admitted out loud that her trust in God had been broken, and how rarely we say that in Christian spaces (02:15)Cara opens up about a season where she felt like she trusted God all the way to the edge of a cliff, and He let her fall (08:08)Dot's pool illustration, her husband Howard catching the grandkids mid jump, even in the split second before he lets them go under (10:05)The difference between a faith that is shaken and a faith that is severed, and why struggling with God does not mean walking away from Him (17:16)Dot shares how she prayed, even before knowing the details, that Cara would never mistake her hard season for proof that God did not care (26:57)Cara looks back at Psalm 13:5, written in her Bible years before this season, and how her past tense trust became her present hope (30:01)Dot tells the story of Jacob wrestling with God all night, and how whatever your circumstances are saying, the cross already proved God is for you (32:26) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VersePsalm 13:1-6 (ESV) — "How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me? Consider and answer me, O LORD my God; light up my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death, lest my enemy say, 'I have prevailed over him,' lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken. But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation. I will sing to the LORD, because he has dealt bountifully with me."

  4. Sep 9

    Episode 286: Why Trying Harder Never Produces Peace

    Can you actually force yourself into more patience, more peace, more joy? Dot and Cara dig into Galatians 5 and the fruit of the Spirit this week, landing on something freeing: this fruit isn't something you manufacture, it's what grows naturally out of abiding with God. They get honest about what real intimacy with the Lord looks like day to day, from Dot's own prayer journey to what it actually means to walk in step with the Spirit instead of white knuckling your way through it. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode Recap Intro (00:00)Dot and Cara's throwback to a song they used to sing the grandkids about being patient, and why willpower alone never actually produces it (02:11) Dot's shift in perspective, the fruit of the Spirit isn't something you chase, it's what grows out of walking in step with the Spirit (04:24) What Galatians 5 means by walking in the Spirit, the works of the flesh versus the fruit of the Spirit, and why you can fake goodness for a while but it never lasts (06:10) What abiding and intimacy with God actually look like day to day, hint, it's not striving, it's resting (11:39) Dot's story of picking prayer as her word for 2025, and why being honest with God, even about the ugly stuff, is what actually builds closeness with him (16:09) Dot's habit of writing down what she senses God saying in prayer, and the moments of confirmation that have followed (23:12) Everyday ways to build intimacy with God, from a grandkid's God time to Cara's prayer walks (32:19) Peter's do you love me moment with Jesus, and why falling in love with God has to come before we try to produce anything for him (35:16) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseGalatians 5:22-24 (ESV) — "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires."

  5. Sep 2

    Episode 285: Plot Twist — You’re an Influencer

    What does it really mean to be the light of the world, and whose light are you actually shining? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit with Jesus' words in Matthew 5:14-16 and ask the harder question underneath them, are we living to be seen by God, or to be seen by people? It's an honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversation about motivation, influence, and who you're actually representing every time you walk into a room. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode RecapIntro (00:00)Write this down: Matthew 5:14-16, you are the light of the world (00:00)Cara opens with this week's question, what light are we shining and who's influencing it (00:39)Dot admits this is a hard conversation to have without sounding judgmental (01:09)Keeping the why nearby, and the difference between existing and actually living (01:47)What Jesus really meant by being the light of the world, and checking whether it reflects him or us (03:27)You're representing someone everywhere you go, even when you don't realize it (06:39)Resting in the Lord lets his light shine through without you having to force it (09:26)Peter rebuking Jesus about the cross, and what it reveals about chasing our own agenda over God's (12:50)Closing challenge, ask God who you're influencing and who's influencing you, then write it down (17:54) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseMatthew 5:14-16 (ESV) — "You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven."

  6. Aug 26

    Episode 284: But Do You Believe It?

    Do you know something, or do you actually believe it? On this episode, Dot and Cara dig into the real difference between knowing about God and believing Him, from Dot's own journey with a prediabetes diagnosis to Cara's honest confession that she has believed God loves her but has struggled to believe He truly cares about the details. It is a raw, honest conversation about what it looks like to move from head knowledge to a faith that actually changes how you live, even when your circumstances have not changed at all. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode RecapIntro  (00:00)Write this down: Psalm 9:9-10, the Lord as a stronghold for those who seek Him (00:00)Today's question: what's the real difference between knowing something and believing it (00:29)Dot on birthdays as a turning point, and asking God "what's next" instead of pulling back from life (01:12)Dot's prediabetes diagnosis, and the moment the knowledge in her head finally became something she believed (06:30)Knowing what you deserve versus actually believing you deserve it (08:31)Cara gets honest about a hard season, and the moment she realized she believed God loved her but not that He cared (13:53)Choosing to believe God is tending the hard places even when nothing about the circumstances has changed (18:01)Why God wants a relationship, not a five step formula, and the invitation to just ask Him for the faith to believe (20:05)The miracle isn't God changing your circumstances, it's God changing your heart, something only He can do (23:03) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VersePsalm 9:9-10 (ESV) — "The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you."

  7. Aug 19

    Episode 283: Put it in Park

    What does it actually look like to trust God when you have no idea what's happening around you? In this final episode of their Switzerland and France series, Dot and Cara tell the wild story of driving onto what they thought was a tunnel and ending up on a car shuttle train, flying through a mountain in the dark with no idea where they were headed. They talk about the difference between leaning on your own understanding and actually trusting God, why obedience sometimes comes before understanding, and what it means to put the car in park and enjoy the ride through whatever tunnel you're in right now. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode RecapIntro (00:00)Write this down: Proverbs 3:5-8, trust in the Lord with all your heart (00:00)Cara sets the scene, driving from Switzerland to France through the Alps with no idea what they're doing (03:35)A confusing toll booth and a wrong lane start the chaos before the real story even begins (04:45)The cars ahead stop, chains appear between them, and nobody knows what's about to happen (06:32)Turns out it's a car shuttle train, and Scott has to decide whether to actually obey the sign (07:46)Flying through the mountain at 70 plus miles an hour, in the dark, engine off, for 13 miles (08:54)Why leaning on their own understanding of "toll booth then tunnel" could have messed up the whole line of cars (16:26)Our job is obedience, God takes responsibility for the outcome (19:03)Trusting God was never about being perfect, it just takes a little faith in a big God (20:09)Even in the dark parts of the tunnel, God wants you to feel the wind in your hair and enjoy the ride (24:16) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseProverbs 3:5-8 (ESV) — "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones."

  8. Aug 12

    Episode 282: Perspective Changes Everything

    Have you ever noticed how much your view changes depending on whether you're standing in the valley or looking down from the mountain? In this second episode of their Switzerland and France series, Dot and Cara pick back up on the porch overlooking the Alps and talk honestly about what it means to keep your eyes up even when clouds hide the mountain, or when you're the one sitting in the valley. They talk about the women at the tomb who mistook Jesus for the gardener, why gratitude has become Dot's lifeline through a hard season, and how one storm soaked afternoon ended with a double rainbow over Mont Blanc. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us. Got a question about today’s episode or something else you’d like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know!  Episode Recap Intro(00:00)Write this down: Exodus 19:3-6, God calling Moses up the mountain (00:00)Why Dot has always been drawn to mountains, and how this trip felt different (01:22)Meeting God on the mountain versus in the valley, and how faith can move mountains (03:34)Watching mountain climbers and thinking about what it takes to hold on when you feel like you're barely hanging on (04:59)Seeing Mont Blanc from every angle, and how that changes the way you experience a mountain, not just how you see it (06:19)Clouds can hide the mountain, but that doesn't mean it isn't there, and neither is God (12:41)The women at the tomb almost missed Jesus because their tears and their focus were in the wrong place (16:15)Gratitude as a lifeline, and how thanking God for small things opens your eyes to bigger ones (19:41)A storm hid the mountain completely, then gave way to a double rainbow as a reminder that God keeps His promises (27:52) Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com. Watch Write this Down! on YouTube Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook  This Episode’s Scripture VerseExodus 19:3-6 (ESV) — "While Moses went up to God, the LORD called to him out of the mountain, saying, 'Thus you shall say to the house of Jacob, and tell the people of Israel: You yourselves have seen what I did to the Egyptians, and how I bore you on eagles' wings and brought you to myself. Now therefore, if you will indeed obey my voice and keep my covenant, you shall be my treasured possession among all peoples, for all the earth is mine; and you shall be to me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation. These are the words that you shall speak to the people of Israel.'"

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Bible teacher, author and founder of Cup of Joy Ministries, Dot Bowen, teaches listeners what it truly looks like to know, love and follow Jesus. Each week, Dot invites you to sit down with her and her daughter, Cara, to have an authentic conversation about Biblical Scripture and God’s Truth. Their honest and thought provoking conversations are full of wit and wisdom which will have you diving deeper into God’s Word. Whether Dot is teaching, speaking or simply grabbing coffee with a dear friend, she can often be heard saying with excitement, “Write this Down!” Her heart for the listener is to take the things she asks you to write down before the Lord and ask Him to open your eyes to His Truth and love. John 8:32 says, “and you will know the Truth and the Truth will set you free.” By the end of each episode, you’ll find yourself grabbing a pencil so that you can Write this Down! with Dot Bowen.

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