Wannabe Clutter Free | Declutter, Simplify, Find Freedom

Deanna Yates | Professional Organizer, Decluttering Coach, Wannabe Minimalist
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Ready to finally calm the overwhelm and create a home and life you actually enjoy? The Wannabe Clutter Free podcast is here to help you clear the clutter, simplify your routines, and find freedom in the life you’re building. I’m Deanna Yates, a busy mom who knows what it’s like to juggle family, career, and the never-ending piles of stuff. From selling 80% of what we owned to travel with our toddler, to managing the daily chaos of running a home with a school-aged kid, I’ve learned that living with less isn’t about deprivation. It’s about creating more space, more peace, and more joy. Each week, I share real-life stories, simple decluttering strategies, and mindset shifts that make it easier to let go of what’s weighing you down. You’ll also hear from inspiring guests who share practical tips and fresh perspectives on minimalism, home organization, intentional living, and building habits that last. If you’re tired of feeling buried in clutter and crave a home that feels calm, welcoming, and easy to manage, this show is for you. It’s not about perfection. It’s about progress, freedom, and finding space for what truly matters to you.

  1. 2d ago

    October Holiday Prep: 4 Ways to Make December Feel Calm (Ep 331)

    Boo. It's October. Thanksgiving is only six weeks away. Christmas is only ten. Deanna shares the four things she's doing right now so December feels calm, cozy, and intentional instead of frantic. This is her family's first holiday in a brand new house, and her goal is to buy as little as possible. 1. Decisions before decor. Decide how you want your home to feel, then ask what the minimum is to get there. Most of what makes a home cozy is already in it. Plus: why holiday decor should leave your house by the end of October, while a thrift store can still sell it and someone else can still use it. 2. Create your holiday zones. A spot for incoming packages and hidden gifts. A surface for wrapping, crafting, and card writing. Clear counters for baking. And a dining table that isn't buried when people show up. 3. Start the gift conversations. Declutter outgrown toys before new ones arrive, why Thanksgiving is better timing than Christmas for moving them out, and the mindset shift that frees you from gift guilt. Also: how Deanna's family uses a Secret Santa exchange, and why experience gifts are her favorite workaround. 4. Calendar the season now. In pencil. Including asking everyone in your house for their top three must-dos, so you stop doing the things nobody actually enjoys. Your challenge this week: Spend 30 minutes with your decoration bins. If that's too much, set a timer for ten and open one box. Then come tell Deanna what you found on Instagram @wannabeclutterfree. These tips aren't specific to any religion. December is a full month for everyone. Resources Mentioned: Clutter Free Holiday Blueprint: https://www.wannabeclutterfree.com/clutter-free-holiday-blueprintTry the Tindy AppCheck out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.comCheck out BetterHelp and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    October Holiday Prep: 4 Ways to Make December Feel Calm (Ep 331)

  2. Oct 7

    The 4 Jobs We Call "Cleaning" and Why That's the Problem (Ep 330)

    Deanna moved from a 1969 single level house into a home with a second floor and three full bathrooms. Standing in the new kitchen, her first thought wasn't "look at all this space." It was "how am I going to keep up with all of this?" After a few days she realized she wasn't behind on anything. She had been treating four completely different jobs like one job. The four jobs: Decluttering is deciding what leaves. All decisions, and it takes your whole brain.Tidying is putting things back where they already live. No decisions at all.Cleaning is dirt. It has nothing to do with how much you own.Organizing is deciding where things live. Zones and containers, and it does not have to be pretty.Three ways mixing them up backfires: you start cleaning the kitchen and end up frozen over a mug. You buy bins before decluttering and end up with organized clutter. You tidy every single night and it never holds, because tidying can't fix a decluttering problem. You are not bad at this. When you don't name the job, your brain picks for you, and it usually picks the hardest one. Also in this episode: how to look at a room and diagnose which job it needs, how Deanna's family splits 21 ten-minute cleaning tasks across the week so it doesn't all fall on her, why she's treating her moving boxes like drawers, and the app she had her husband build so the reminders don't live in her head. Your challenge: Say out loud which job you're doing before you start. Set a timer to match. Ten minutes to tidy, 30 to declutter. If you switch jobs mid-task, put the mug down and finish what you started. Mentioned: Tindy at tindy.app (Lightning Tidy, Mighty Tidy, and the new Sm'ores), Dana K. White's container concept, episode 329. Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/330 Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    The 4 Jobs We Call "Cleaning" and Why That's the Problem (Ep 330)

  3. Sep 30

    The 3 House Rules I'm Setting Before This House Fills Up (Ep 329)

    Two weeks into a new house, Deanna is still living out of boxes on purpose. She's running a Packing Party, and while she unpacks, she's doing something that matters more than where the dishes go. She's deciding how this house will work before it fills up. After 17 moves, she knows a house decides how it works in the first few weeks whether you're paying attention or not. So this episode is the three house rules she's putting in place, all built on one framework: if this, then that. A real rule has two parts. A trigger you'll actually notice, and one action. "Be tidier" isn't a rule. It's a wish with a stern voice. Rule 1, for the no: If you pick something up and know you don't want it, it goes straight into the donation bin. No setting it back down and deciding all over again next week. Rule 2, for the surfaces: If you have a flat surface, put a container on it. A tray, a bowl, a basket. The surface isn't the problem. A surface with no boundary is the problem. Rule 3, for the maybe: If you hesitate, it goes in the Pause Box, with a date on it. One to three months. And check the box before you buy anything new so you don't rebuy what you already own. Also in this episode: why willpower fails exactly when you need it, why your cluttered house is a decision problem and not a caring problem, where Deanna's donation bins live while they unpack, the console tray, the entry bin, the fruit bowl, and how house hunting got her family on board with clear surfaces. Your challenge this week: Pick one to three rules. Write them as if this, then that. Say them out loud at dinner tonight and let everyone add one. Then come tell Deanna your house rules on Instagram @wannabeclutterfree. Packing Party results coming at the end of October. Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/329 [Next week: decluttering, tidying, cleaning, and organizing are four different jobs] Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    The 3 House Rules I'm Setting Before This House Fills Up (Ep 329)

  4. Sep 23

    My Family Is Running a Decluttering Experiment (Ep 328)

    Five nights into a brand new house, Deanna is recording from a room full of boxes. The furniture is up. A few kitchen things are out. Everything else is still packed. And all three members of her family are about to unpack in completely different ways. In this episode: Method 1: The Packing Party (Deanna's). From Ryan Nicodemus of The Minimalists. Whatever is still in a box stays there until she reaches for it. She's giving it one month.Method 2: The Traditional Way (her husband's). Open the box, decide on every item, finish it, move on.Method 3: The Pause (her daughter's). Unpack what you love now, put the maybes in a box, and revisit them at the end of November.Also in this episode: why moving feels so heavy even when you own less than most people, how Deanna searched every box she owns in about an hour, the sentimental things that earn their place without being useful, and why she and her husband are ready to pare down even further. Your challenge this week: Pick the method that sounds most like you and try it on one space. Packing Party: box up a category and only take out what you need for two weeks. Traditional: empty one drawer and decide on every item. The Pause: put away what you love, box up the maybes, and date the box. Then come tell Deanna which one you picked on Instagram @wannabeclutterfree. Results episode coming in about a month. Mentioned: Tindy, the nightly 10-minute reset app, at tindy.appCheck out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.comCheck out Omaha Steaks and use my code BEEF for a great deal: https://www.omahasteaks.comCheck out BetterHelp and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/328 Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    My Family Is Running a Decluttering Experiment (Ep 328)

  5. Sep 16

    The Clutter Wasn't in My House (Ep 327)

    Deanna Yates thought the hardest part of moving would be the packing. It wasn't. Nine weeks ago, her landlord told her family she was selling the house they had rented for almost five years. It was the longest they had lived anywhere, and everyday there felt like winning the lottery. Now they're packing up the whole house in less than a week. In this solo episode, Deanna shares six mindset shifts from one of the hardest seasons her family has had in a long time. Not one of them is about her closet. In this episode: Shift 1: It's never really about the stuff. Why her uneasiness came from feeling out of controlShift 2: Same reach, different bag. How the donation bag and the Add to Cart button come from the same placeShift 3: You can't declutter a feeling. What a waiting season teaches someone who likes to take actionShift 4: "Just in case" is just fear. The crowded Labor Day showing that flipped her into scarcity modeShift 5: Stop chasing, start trusting. The late-night Zillow message that turned into keys four days laterShift 6: Clutter free starts in your head. Let go, create space, release your grip Plus the question her family is asking about every item they pack. Try this week: Pick one drawer. Pull everything out. For each item, ask: would I unpack this? Mentioned in this episode: How to Change by Katy Milkman Tindy, the 10-minute nightly tidy app: tindy.app Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/327 Instagram: @wannabeclutterfree Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    The Clutter Wasn't in My House (Ep 327)

  6. Sep 9

    This Japanese Concept Changed How I See Clutter with Amy Nesbitt (Ep 326)

    My clutter threshold broke this year. I am a decluttering expert. Our house is not cluttered. And I still hit a wall, because we are in the middle of an unplanned move, my husband had back surgery, and I am 46 and doing most of the lifting myself. That is the exact season I was in when Amy Nesbitt came back on the show, and I am so glad she did. Amy is a full time corporate working mom of two boys, the creator of the This Japanese American Life YouTube channel, and the host of the Whole Wellness Mamas Summit, now in its fourth year. She is also the person who got me into summits in the first place. This year she built the summit around four Japanese concepts, and they reframed how I am thinking about my own home. In this episode: Why the popular Venn diagram version of Ikigai misses the point, and what it actually meansMa, the concept of intentional empty space, explained through the pause in a songWhy your empty counter is not wasted space, and why we fight so hard to fill itThe two minutes you sit in your car before walking in the door, and why that countsKaizen, and why going smaller than feels impressive is the thing that actually sticksKintsugi, the art of gold in the cracks, and why your hardest chapters are not the ones to hideHow to bring your family into something without becoming the household nagAmy's answer for how she does it all, which starts with four words: it does not have to be you Amy and I are both speaking at the Whole Wellness Mamas Summit, September 14 through 17. It is completely free, completely virtual, and you can watch in whatever you slept in. My session is How to Face the Challenge of Midlife Decluttering, which I am currently living in real time. Grab your free seat Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/326 Find Amy: Instagram and TikTok: @wholewellnessmamas YouTube: This Japanese American Life Books: AmyNsReads Find me: Instagram: @wannabeclutterfree Website: wannabeclutterfree.com Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    This Japanese Concept Changed How I See Clutter with Amy Nesbitt (Ep 326)

  7. Sep 2

    How "Would I Unpack This?" Changes Decluttering Forever (Ep 325)

    You will get rid of more in two weeks of packing than in five years of living in the same house. Not because you tried harder. Because the rules changed. Deanna Yates has moved 16 times as an adult, and number 17 is happening right now, unplanned and unwanted. In this episode she breaks down exactly what moving does to your brain, and how to steal that effect without touching a single roll of packing tape. On a normal day, everything you own is already in your home. Every item has a spot. So when you try to declutter, each thing has to argue its way OUT, and if you cannot find a good reason, it stays. That is why decluttering feels like a fight. It is why so many decisions end with "well, I have room for it." When you move, everything comes out. And now every item has to argue its way back IN. Same stuff. Same you. Opposite default. Deanna hands you the one question that flips it: Would I unpack this? In this episode: The real reason moving makes you ruthless (it is not motivation)Why "I have room for it" is the sentence that kills most decluttering sessionsHow to use the unpack question on your kid's artwork without feeling like a bad momWhat that box you never opened from your last move is actually telling youWhy show ready and move-in ready are not the same thing, and which one you deserveThe five minute photo exercise that will show you exactly what feels off in a room Plus, Deanna is taking a small group through her move-in method in real time as she packs up her own home. Six years of helping families declutter, a background in property management, and 17 moves worth of lessons. Waitlist link below. You do not have to move to declutter like you are moving. Homework this week: Stand in the doorway of one room. Take a wide angle photo like it is a real estate listing. Then look at it the way you would scroll past it on Zillow. It will click. Show notes: wannabeclutterfree.com/325 Join the move-in method waitlist: https://www.wannabeclutterfree.com/move-in-waitlist Come say hi on Instagram: @wannabeclutterfree Next week: Amy Nesbitt on wellness, energy, and how to be a whole mom when your time is completely constrained. Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    How "Would I Unpack This?" Changes Decluttering Forever (Ep 325)

  8. Aug 26

    5 Ways to Donate Smarter Without Fueling the Landfill (Ep 324)

    If you're decluttering the chances are that there is a bag in your trunk right now, isn't there? You did the hard part. You went through the closet, you made a hundred decisions in a row, you got everything bagged up and loaded in the car. And then you drove past the donation center. Twice. The problem is that there are two decisions inside every declutter, and almost nobody warns you about the second one. In Episode 324, Deanna is answering this question in real time. Her house is selling, her family is moving, and she is decluttering 500 items right now while her husband recovers from back surgery. Some of it is going to Buy Nothing. Some of it is going on Vinted. Some of it is going in the trash. None of it is happening perfectly, but it is happening. She is also going to tell you the truth about where donated items actually end up, because she thinks you can handle it, and because knowing is going to make you feel better instead of worse. In this episode: The two decisions inside every declutter, and which one stalls you outWhat percentage of your donations actually make it onto a thrift store shelfWhere the rest of it goes, including the millions of garments that arrive regularly in GhanaHow to tell in 30 seconds whether a parking lot donation bin belongs to a real charityThe 1938 labor law behind the unease people feel about big box thrift chains, and how to research your own local one in two minutesWhy the guilt you are carrying is not keeping a single item out of a landfillThe donation Deanna found while volunteering that made her want to throw her hands upFive places your decluttered stuff can go, ranked in the order you should try themThe new Target Textile Drop Spot that takes stained and torn clothing in every California storeWhere to send shoes, makeup empties, electronics, and batteriesFull permission to throw away actual garbageWhy we need a lot of people doing this imperfectly instead of a few people doing it perfectly FREE RESOURCE: The Guilt-Free Exit Plan One page that tells you where anything goes, a short vetted list instead of forty links, and the 30 second donation bin check. Comment the word TRUNK on Instagram to get it, or grab it here.LEARN MORE Show notes and free resource: wannabeclutterfree.com/324The 19 for $19 Ultimate Decluttering Bundle: wannabeclutterfree.comGo to https://OmahaSteaks.com and use promo code BEEF at checkout for $35 off. Minimum purchase may apply.CONNECT Instagram: @wannabeclutterfreeLISTEN Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wannabe-clutter-free-declutter-simplify-find-freedom/id1485473251Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ATUIVONi0kyoVUKOQV4OT?si=f555de5388164b10YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wannabeclutterfree Our Sponsors: * Check out 1-800-GOT-JUNK and use my code 1800gotjunk.com for a great deal: https://www.1800gotjunk.com * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Ready to finally calm the overwhelm and create a home and life you actually enjoy? The Wannabe Clutter Free podcast is here to help you clear the clutter, simplify your routines, and find freedom in the life you’re building. I’m Deanna Yates, a busy mom who knows what it’s like to juggle family, career, and the never-ending piles of stuff. From selling 80% of what we owned to travel with our toddler, to managing the daily chaos of running a home with a school-aged kid, I’ve learned that living with less isn’t about deprivation. It’s about creating more space, more peace, and more joy. Each week, I share real-life stories, simple decluttering strategies, and mindset shifts that make it easier to let go of what’s weighing you down. You’ll also hear from inspiring guests who share practical tips and fresh perspectives on minimalism, home organization, intentional living, and building habits that last. If you’re tired of feeling buried in clutter and crave a home that feels calm, welcoming, and easy to manage, this show is for you. It’s not about perfection. It’s about progress, freedom, and finding space for what truly matters to you.

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