Driving to the Rez - With Inelia Benz and Larry Buzzell

Inelia Benz

A spiritual road trip with your two coolest, most insightful friends. Larry and Inelia dive into deep, no-nonsense conversations about leveling up your life, understanding the mysteries of the universe, and navigating those WTF moments we all face. They tackle metaphysics, consciousness, and practical wisdom with a side of humor and personal stories. It's the perfect mix of mind-blowing insights and laughs to keep you entertained and enlightened on your commute or workout. Buckle up, bro – it’s a ride you won’t want to miss! www.drivingtotherez.com

  1. 2D AGO

    [Free 1st Part] The Year of the Fire Horse 2026: A Pivot from Light/Dark to Light-Only - Final Chapter

    The Powerful Legions of Light Around the world, there are billions who carry light not as a trend, not as a reaction, but as a position of power. They may look ordinary from the outside. They have families, jobs, responsibilities, daily routines. But internally, they are steady. Trained. Clear. Although up to this day they have been asleep, indulging in light/dark, keeping the docket stamped day in and day out. For them, the flare in the sky that is shaped as a Fire Horse will tell them it is time to stop darkness in their lives and become their true selves. The selves that: Are not glued to outrage cycles.Are not baited by every provocation.Are not destabilized by headlines. But instead they are building. Creating. Anchoring. Clearly seeing reality for what it is. Correctly perceiving their true nature. As they look at the flare of the Fire Horse year, it is not a call to scramble. It is a signal of confirmation. Stand where you are. The powerful legions of light are not being summoned into battle. They are being reminded of their strength. They are asked to wake up and open their eyes to see what is now visible. Have you felt that you can no longer: Shrink to make others comfortable.Dilute clarity to avoid being labeled.Enter shadow arenas to prove endurance. That is because light-only is not softness. It is mastery. It is command. It is the discipline to hold coherence when chaos tries to recruit you. The powerful legions of light are not waiting for the Fire Horse. They ARE the Fire Horse. The force of this year does not belong to chaos. It belongs to those steady enough to direct it. The momentum, the acceleration, the exposure, all of it becomes power in the hands of those aligned with clarity and vision. The Fire Horse does not drag the legions of light. It is the legions of light. And the legions of light don’t brace for impact, they are the impact. I hope this article was long enough to find you, my friend. The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    32 min
  2. MAR 11

    [Free 1st Part] The Year of the Fire Horse 2026: A Pivot from Light/Dark to Light-Only - Chapter Two

    Why Lightworkers Will Feel This So Strongly For people who identify as lightworkers, the embodiment of light, the constructors of the light paradigm, leaders, or stabilizers, 2026 will feel like pressure.Not because something is wrong, but because intensity demands integrity. And this year will be intense from beginning to end. For example, you cannot consistently energize inner or outer despair and claim you are anchoring light. It simply will not work. Not only that, but it will be obvious you are doing it. It will bite you in the … you know where. You cannot fuel conflict online and call it service. Fueling conflict is simply feeding the beast. The moment you attack another person for their choices, you are part of the problem. The us vs. them cycle will burn you if you stay in it. You cannot rehearse worst-case, fear-filled futures and expect to stand as a stabilizing presence, a gate to the light. It just won’t work. The Fire Horse will blast you into space. This is not about pretending darkness does not exist, or about putting up with abuse, violence, exploitation, or other forms of darkness. It is about refusing to feed it as entertainment, identity, or habit. It is about refusing to give it excuses or value. It is about it becoming visible to us and us refusing to indulge in it anymore. That is the practical meaning of “light-only paradigm” in a Fire Horse cycle. The End of Indulgent Darkness For many years now, we have been educated and encouraged in a peculiar luxury: the indulgence of negativity. Not just experiencing pain. Not just healing trauma. But dwelling in darkness as an identity.Curating outrage. Performing victimhood or “justified” aggression. Giving darkness value for contrast, learning, lessons, or inevitability. It has almost become fashionable to orbit darkness while claiming awareness. The Fire Horse doesn’t allow time for these types of indulgences without the lightworker getting burned to cinders. A Fire Horse year does not sustain that indulgence comfortably. This year is a flare shot into the sky over a battlefield that has stretched for lifetimes. Not a flare to signal danger or a cry for help. It is a flare to identify positions. A flare that lights the dark landscape. Where the landscape becomes visible. A light that allows you to see not only where your guidance steps, but where you are, where you stand. A light that shows where the darkness lies in wait. Where the traps are, where their bullets are flying. I repeat, when a flare goes up, you see exactly where you stand and what is around you. There is no more romanticizing shadow work as a lifestyle. No more hiding inertia behind “processing.” No more pretending neutrality while feeding despair. The Fire Horse burns away the luxury of spiritual ambiguity. Or actions based on ignorance. Or the refusal to realize you are an adult and have been gifted with free will. That YOU choose. The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    30 min
  3. MAR 4

    [Free 1st Part] The Year of the Fire Horse 2026: A Pivot from Light/Dark to Light-Only - Chapter One

    Chapter One There are years that feel ordinary while you are living them. Whispered years. Years that you don’t remember once they are over. Maybe, if something did happen in one of those years, you only understand later that something shifted. The Year of the Fire Horse is not a whispering year. In the Chinese zodiac cycle, the Horse is movement, vitality, forward momentum, raw life force. Add Fire to that, and the energy does not stroll. It gallops. It blazes. It exposes. It refuses stagnation. The Fire Horse does not tolerate fences built from fear, complacency, or stagnation. It does not tolerate fences built from anything, actually. Historically, Fire Horse years have been associated with intensity and social change. They stir people from complacency. They amplify what already exists. They accelerate timelines. They reveal where something is alive and where it has decayed. In 1966, the world did not whisper. The Cultural Revolution erupted in China, unleashing ideological purges and youth-driven extremism. At the same time, The Beatles released Revolver, pushing music, consciousness, and culture into unfamiliar territory. Psychedelic experimentation entered mainstream awareness. The Vietnam War escalated. Protest movements strengthened. The space race accelerated. The collective drive to enlightenment and awakening was hijacked into a hyper-individual identity. The “I AM” path became louder than the shared field of true enlightenment. 1966 was not a quiet year. And it was Light/Dark. The same intensity that fueled creative breakthroughs also fueled destruction. The same fire that broke artistic barriers also burned institutions to the ground. The energy itself was neutral. The direction it took depended on who held it. And as the holders of power were light/dark, so were the results at a global social scale, dipped in light and dark. The energy from 1966 fueled the light/dark paradigm for decades. The light/dark paradigm drivers know about the Year of the Fire Horse. They know the energy it encompasses, and they know how to use it. Here is the clincher for 2026, however: The light rules. The words “light rules” are not said in a sentimental way. Not in a triumphalist way. But structurally. The field has shifted from light/dark to light-only. What worked in 1966 to derail collective awakening will not function the same way now. At least, it will not function in the same way for those who have chosen LIGHT. For those who choose to stay in light/dark, sure, it functions the same way for them. And it will be fast and furious as it materializes their choice. The Fire Horse runs fast this year. Darkness or hyper-individualism expressed as a personal path of enlightenment will no longer be an option for the rest of us, however. For us, the LIGHT, the Fire Horse opens its eyes, shakes the chains and dusts them off, rears, finds a focus, and runs fast and furious, not caring what falls in its path. And what falls in its path this year is darkness. Inner darkness, outer darkness, all darkness. It will burn. Burn. Burn. The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    35 min
  4. FEB 25

    [Free 1st Part] Why “What Do I Want?” Is the Wrong Question - Chapter Two

    Last week we ended with a question. A better decision-making question: Does this choice support the mission I am here to fulfill? One of the reasons I adopted this method is that I realized I had no idea how to live in a physical universe or how to make decisions within it. When I tried using conventional decision-making frameworks, the outcomes were often disastrous. A common example is the advice: “Get a degree so you can be financially independent.” That advice, by itself, isn’t wrong. But it is incomplete. It fails to address why financial independence is desirable. If the underlying motivation is fear of poverty, the result will likely be poor. If the motivation is the ability to support your village or community, the outcome will almost always be beneficial. Strange as it may sound, decisions made for the larger good reliably lead to greater happiness and satisfaction. Before I explain my method, I need to clarify two terms: purpose and mission. This distinction emerged during one of our WalkWithMeNow.com monthly calls, when Katrin, one of my students, pointed out the difference. We may be born with a purpose, while we consciously choose a mission to carry out that purpose. I was born with the purpose of “making the world buzz better.” That’s how I understood it in toddler language—and by “world,” I meant people. All people. As an adult, I translated that purpose into the mission of “delivering the message of empowerment.” So when I make decisions, I ask a single question:Does this facilitate the delivery of the message of empowerment? On our podcast, we’ll explore how effective this approach becomes when others adopt it. We’ll also discuss how to discover your purpose and how to define a mission that aligns with it. Curious? You should be. This is a vast and meaningful conversation. In the Wisdom Keeper segment of the podcast, you’ll hear directly from our panelists as they share their lived experiences with purpose and mission—the insights, the missteps, and the clarifications that emerged as they walked the path of empowerment. Inelia The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    40 min
  5. FEB 18

    [Free 1st Part] Why “What Do I Want?” Is the Wrong Question

    Choosing Beyond Comfort, Fear, and Personal Trajectory “What do I want?” feels intuitive, but it may be the wrong question to ask when shaping a life. I would like to have a discussion about decision-making through a method I have been using for many years. I could say I’ve used this method my entire life, but that wouldn’t be accurate. There have been entire decades when I discarded it and relied on other parameters instead—parameters aligned with social conditioning, pleasure, and the avoidance of pain. This method is related to stepping away from both body-based and soul-based trajectories within the light/dark paradigm (the material we came in with) and choosing outside of our personal trajectory altogether. The idea of a personal trajectory is actually a very recent invention. Historically, a person did not consider their life path primarily in terms of personal benefit, pleasure, wants, or pain avoidance. These considerations are quite modern—and not natural. Our natural state is to be cradled within the human collective. As part of that collective, we follow the path that brings the greatest benefit and harmony to the whole. It is widely recognized that we are living in unnatural times. As a result, our natural way of making decisions has become difficult—and largely forgotten. We are left asking questions like: How do I make decisions that guarantee what I want out of life? When “what I want out of life” was never a natural reference point to begin with? So what, then, are we left to make decisions from? Most people rely on either the body or the soul to guide them through the decision-making process, while leaving larger existential considerations entirely out of the room. Whenever I talk about including a larger purpose, mission, or collective well-being in personal decision-making, two concerns consistently arise. The first is: “Are you saying I have to become a martyr for the greater good?” The second is: “Does this mean that decisions based on my body are wrong?” A great deal of clarity around body- and soul-based decisions emerged after the publication of my article and podcast, When Pain Warps Your Timeline. Much of that clarification came during our WalkWithMeNow.com monthly call. Before we continue, let’s address the question of martyrdom—specifically, how to tell whether making an uncomfortable or even painful decision in service of a long-term goal or mission is actually a form of martyrdom. Martyrdom occurs when a person takes on pain so that others do not have to feel any. It involves suffering or dying for a cause or for others. There are additional patterns commonly present, such as betrayal by someone the martyr considers a close friend or trusted associate. When you make a decision for the greater good of the planet, it does not mean you are taking pain away from others. If that is how you currently define “the greater good,” then I would suggest that this belief itself is worth examining—specifically, whether it is a belief that genuinely serves life, or one that perpetuates harm. I make no secret of the fact that, for me, any teaching that frames pain as inherently good or necessary—for you or for others—is a harmful teaching. It validates and normalizes suffering. I teach that suffering disables individuals and entire populations. Period. Now, I’ll share the method I use to make decisions. I use it most days—for both the smallest and the largest choices in my life—and it consistently produces positive results. A better decision-making question: Does this choice support the mission I am here to fulfill? The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    40 min
  6. FEB 11

    [Free 1st Part] Larger Earth: What Luc Lake’s Lyrics Mean in Real Life - Continued

    What Happens After the Door Is Already Open The first conversation around the album Larger Earth asked a simple but destabilizing question: What if Earth is already larger than we were taught to perceive? The second conversation begins somewhere else entirely. It starts after the moment of widening. After the kitchen feels different.After the street you’ve walked a thousand times seems to have more depth than pavement should allow.After you realize nothing has changed, and yet everything is quietly rearranged. Part two of the podcast does not try to define the Larger Earth. It sits with what happens once perception has already slipped its old leash. When Expansion Becomes Ordinary One of the strangest things about expanded perception is how quickly it becomes… normal. There is often an expectation that awareness arrives with fireworks, or at least a dramatic internal monologue. In reality, it tends to show up like an extra room you suddenly realize has always been part of the house. You don’t gasp every time you walk through it. You just start using it. This is where many people get confused. They think the experience has “faded,” when in fact it has integrated. Suddenly, what seemed extraordinary is as much part of life as breathing. Were you alive before cellphones were released to the public? Yeah, like that. The Larger Earth does not pull you away from life. It threads itself through it. On this side, the containment side, bills still need paying. Conversations still happen. Emails still arrive. And yet, something fundamental has shifted in how those moments are held. Not transcendence.Choice of view. Why Music Works Where Language Stalls This is also where music quietly re-enters the conversation. Language excels at categorization. Music excels at awareness. You don’t need to understand a soundscape to know where it places you internally. Luc Lake’s work doesn’t instruct the listener to expand. It offers a frequency environment where expansion is nourished. Music is not there to convince you of anything, just allow you the space to remember. The conversation continues in part two of the podcast, where these ideas are allowed to breathe, overlap, and occasionally contradict one another in useful ways. You are invited, the door is open, it is up to you to step through. The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    45 min
  7. FEB 4

    [Free 1st Part] Larger Earth: What Luc Lake’s Lyrics Mean in Real Life

    Who Is Luc Lake, Anyway, and Why Am I Talking About Him? Luc Lake is one of my created artists, and his life is shrouded in mystery. No one at my studio knows where he lives, where he comes from, or where he goes after a recording session. His latest album, Larger Earth, comes with a disclaimer: “We, at IneliaRecords.com, will neither confirm nor deny that Luc Lake is from the Larger Earth, the stars (whether they are a lake or a reality), an ultra-dimension, the future or the past, or a planet with three suns that is not Earth.” What we do know is that Luc exists where sound meets perception, using music not to tell stories but to open space. He is not a performance persona or a character designed for spectacle. He is very serious about his work and his message. Luc uses few words and a Tech House expression to convey the energetic states he wants us to experience. His music is minimal, spacious, and emotionally rich without being overwhelming. It leaves room. It doesn’t rush meaning or require interpretation. Through Luc Lake, I explore states of awareness that resist explanation but translate clearly into feeling. The tracks are environments you enter and recognize through forgotten knowledge and buried memory. Larger Earth is the first full expression of what the Larger Earth feels like as a place. It is not symbolic. It is not hypothetical. It is not metaphor. It breaks from the known continents and from the shadow of illusion that has shaped how we have been taught to understand Earth. The album was not created to describe a future or propose an idea, but to reflect something many people already sense quietly: that Earth, as lived, is more layered, intelligent, and expansive than the version we were taught to believe exists. In this work, Luc normalizes what might otherwise seem fanciful. He opens doors to perception without telling us what is behind them. It is up to us to open those doors and walk through, or at least peek through the keyhole. There is a moment many people recognize but rarely talk about. Nothing dramatic happens.No vision. No collapse. No revelation scene. You are standing in your kitchen, walking down a familiar street, answering emails, and suddenly the world feels bigger and radically different. Not louder. Not brighter. Just wider. As if reality has more rooms than you were previously allowed to enter. Time stretches, or sometimes collapses, and suddenly several hours have passed. Luc Lake’s album Larger Earth was created to bring clarity to that moment. Not another world.This one, perceived differently. The lyrics on Larger Earth are intentionally spare. They do not tell stories in the usual way, and they do not explain themselves. This is not because something is missing. It is because Luc is not trying to convince you of anything. He is pointing to something you already sense. Something you already know. In real-life terms, the album is not about leaving Earth or escaping human experience. It is about what Earth reveals itself to be when perception expands beyond the narrow bandwidth we were trained to use. Same planet.More perception. Why the Lyrics Don’t Explain Themselves I do teach that meaning and understanding often arrive through definition. However, some experiences collapse when they are over-described. I was very tempted to explain every single line in Luc’s songs, but doing so would defeat the point. The lyrics are not puzzles to solve; they are coordinates. That said, for those who enjoy exploring inspiration and backstory, I will be revealing some of the sources behind specific descriptions, songs, and lines in the Wisdom Keeper section of our podcast, Driving to the Rez. How to Listen to the Album Feel into the music and the lyrics.Let the imagery take you as far as it can.Allow yourself to tap into the remembrance. If you’d like to spend more time with this work, you can download your personal copy of Luc’s album at my store, or listen on Spotify here. We also explore the Larger Earth and the role of music in greater depth on our podcast, where these themes continue to unfold through conversation. Enjoy the music, and the memories. Inelia The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    31 min
  8. [Free 1st Part] When Pain Warps Your Timeline - Second Chapter

    JAN 28

    [Free 1st Part] When Pain Warps Your Timeline - Second Chapter

    This article accompanies Part Two of our podcast conversation. In this episode, Larry, the Wisdom Keepers and I continue the exploration that opened last week, allowing the implications around pain, authority, and long-range decision-making to unfold more fully. The conversation is spacious, candid, and goes into places that are difficult to capture in writing alone. You can listen to Part Two of the podcast here: https://www.drivingtotherez.com/p/when-pain-wraps-your-timeline-second Part Two: Authority, Scale, and Long-Range Perception Once we stop treating discomfort as a verdict, a different question appears. Not How do I feel right now?But What actually is my long term purpose if it’s not simply body comfort or pleasure? This is where the conversation deepens. Because the issue isn’t pain itself. Pain is information. The issue is what happens when pain is given authority over time. How Timelines Quietly Collapse Timelines rarely collapse through dramatic failure. More often, they compress through a series of reasonable, well-justified choices that prioritize immediate relief. And sometimes by making one huge life changing decision that concentrates on body comfort instead of a broader awareness and information around the results. How do we know when we went for short term pleasure, over long term plans? The future becomes shorter. Options thin. Movement slows. Not because something went wrong, but because our future plans were never consulted. This is what timeline distortion looks like in real life. Not chaos, but a contraction between what we say our long term plans are, and our choice for short term pleasure. The Difference Between Sensitivity and Authority Sensitivity is not the problem. Being a sensitive person is not the issue here. In fact, it’s a strength. The problem arises when sensitivity is mistaken for leadership. When our discomfort and pain, or the pursuit of pleasure are allowed to lead us. Whether they are emotional, physical, mental or egoic relief or pleasure that is being sought. The body reacts to change, uncertainty, and unfamiliarity as potential threats. That reaction is honest. It is also incomplete. The body cannot see context. It cannot weigh the consequences across years. It cannot perceive trajectory. That is something it depends on you, the soul, to do for it. Yes, your Body depends on your Soul for context, for long term trajectory, for information and choice outside immediate comfort and pain. When bodily signals are obeyed rather than interpreted, authority quietly shifts from awareness to reaction. Being reactive is something we want to overcome because reactions always choose now over later. And being reactive never served us. Why Discomfort Often Appears at the Threshold Discomfort frequently arises at moments of expansion, not because something is wrong, but because something is unfamiliar. New environments, new roles, new responsibilities, and new ways of being all disrupt established patterns. The nervous system registers this disruption as stress, even when the direction itself is coherent. If discomfort is treated as a stop sign instead of a signal, growth stalls. Scale Changes Everything Soul wisdom operates at scale. It considers not only sensation, but timing. Not only emotion, but consequence. Not only relief, but direction. Scale allows discomfort to be placed inside a larger frame, where it can be understood without being automatically obeyed. I am not saying here to invalidate your pain and discomfort, but to see it in the larger context of your long term plans and desires. When scale is restored, the future becomes clear and your plans take precedence. I will stop now and let you get onto Part Two of the podcast. I hope you enjoy our continued conversation this week, it certainly has been very expansive to record. Inelia The discussion doesn’t stop here - listen to the full podcast episode for unfiltered insights from Inelia and our panelists. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.drivingtotherez.com/subscribe

    30 min
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A spiritual road trip with your two coolest, most insightful friends. Larry and Inelia dive into deep, no-nonsense conversations about leveling up your life, understanding the mysteries of the universe, and navigating those WTF moments we all face. They tackle metaphysics, consciousness, and practical wisdom with a side of humor and personal stories. It's the perfect mix of mind-blowing insights and laughs to keep you entertained and enlightened on your commute or workout. Buckle up, bro – it’s a ride you won’t want to miss! www.drivingtotherez.com