Owning Your Sexual Self

Rachel Maine
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Hi! I'm Rachel Maine! I am a sex coach and sexuality educator that helps women discover and embrace what brings them pleasure so that they can own their sexual self. This podcast provides a space for listeners to think openly about their sexuality and discusses all topics surrounding sexual health and wellness through a sex positive lens. Of course, there will be humor and profanity involved because well... that's my jam! Be sure to subscribe and review the podcast so you never miss a beat!

  1. 5d ago

    278. Emotional Safety with Stefanos Sifandos

    Hey and welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’ve been looking forward to this conversation with Stefanos Sifandos because he brings such a unique depth to the way he talks about relationships, emotional safety, and human connection. With 25 years of experience working with Olympians, world champions, CEOs, military operators, individuals, and couples, his work brings together behavioral science, trauma resolution, and personal transformation. I’ve followed Stefanos for quite some time, so having him here to talk about emotional safety, the patterns we carry into relationships, and what it takes to create deeper connection feels especially exciting. In this episode:  What emotional safety can look like within a healthy intimate relationshipHow old survival patterns can show up during conflictThe role trust, boundaries, repair, and personal space play in emotional safetyHow a lack of emotional safety can create distance in sexual intimacyWhy moving through challenges together can strengthen connectionHow shame can interfere with authenticity and vulnerabilityWhy couples may benefit from talking more openly about their deepest sexual desiresThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to take a different look at what may be keeping you stuck in love? Love Magnet is a free three day workshop with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos focused on breaking old patterns and creating space for the relationship you want.  Join Love Magnet  *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Connect with Sefanos! Book: TunedinAndTurnedonBook.com Website: StefanosSifandos.com Socials @StefanosSifandos Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  2. Sep 14

    277. From Tension to Turn On with Sapphire Leela

    Hello hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I am thrilled to welcome Sapphire Leela this week! Sapphire is a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, Intimacy Educator, and Certified Somatic Sexology Coach who helps people navigate sexual shame, desire differences, people pleasing, and recurring relationship patterns. She brings such a unique perspective to intimacy by blending somatic sexology with psychosexual and relationship therapy, and I cannot wait for you to hear everything she brings to this conversation! In this episode: How somatic work can complement traditional talk therapyHow sexual shame and relationship patterns show up in the bodyWhy conflict can become a repeating loop between partnersHow to recognize and interrupt your relational reflexesThe role vulnerability can play in moving through conflictHow regulation can help create space for connection and intimacyPractical tools for regulating your nervous systemThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Foria. Visit ForiaWellness.com and use my exclusive code MAINE20 for 20% off your order!** Connect with Sapphire Leela Instagram: @intimacy.with.sapphire Website: SapphireLeela.com Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  3. Aug 31

    276. The Four Dates Every Relationship Needs

    Heeey! I'm back with a quick tip solo episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! If date nights keep getting pushed off, feel hard to plan, or always seem to fall on one person, this episode is for you! I’m sharing a simple tool called quad dating that gives you an easy way to make space for yourself, your partner, and your relationship each month. I’ll walk you through the four types of dates, how to make them work for your relationship, and why time apart can be just as important as time together. We’ll also talk about sharing the responsibility of planning so keeping the connection going doesn’t become one more thing for one person to manage. It’s a simple shift that can help you be more intentional with your time and keep dating each other even when life gets busy. Thank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Wellness Sexpertise with Rachel Maine. Visit pure.shop/shop?sh=V9S5E8R and use my exclusive code MY9PU44 for 15% off your order!** Resources Relationship Regroup - WellnessSexpertise.com/freebies Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  4. Aug 24

    275. Living in Sync With Your Cycle with Dr. Aumatma

    Hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’m thrilled to welcome Dr. Aumatma Simmons to the show this week! She’s a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, best-selling author, and founder of the Holistic Fertility Institute who has spent nearly 20 years helping people better understand their hormones and fertility. She’s also the visionary behind Hormonal Leadership, bringing a whole new perspective to the connection between our hormones, energy, and burnout. I can’t wait for you to hear her insight in this conversation! In this episode: How to support fertility before trying to conceiveWhat fertility really looks like after 35What birth control does and doesn’t do for hormonesThe role toxins can play in hormone healthWhy hormone health matters beyond fertilityHow your energy shifts throughout your cycleWays to work with your cycle in everyday lifeThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Instant Hydration. Visit InstantHydration.com and use my exclusive code RACHEL33826 for 40% off your order!** Resources Free Fertility Analysis: MadreFertility.com Connect with Dr Aumatma! Instagram: @HolisticFertilityDoctor Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  5. Aug 17

    274. Reclaiming Body Trust with Amber Romaniuk

    Hello and welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’m so happy to welcome Amber Romaniuk this week! Amber is an Emotional Eating, Digestive and Hormone Expert who has spent the last 12 years helping high achieving women break long standing patterns with food and build more confidence and trust in their bodies. Her work is deeply shaped by her own healing journey, and she now reaches women around the world through her work and The No Sugarcoating Podcast. I can’t wait for you to hear the perspective she brings to this conversation! In this episode: How early experiences shape our relationship with food The cycle of restriction and binge eating Why emotional eating goes deeper than food The problem with diet rules and restriction How body image affects intimacy Different ways to support a partner going through this Why you should be slowing down and listening to your body Thank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Foria. Visit ForiaWellness.com and use my exclusive code MAINE20 for 20% off your order!** Resources: The No Sugarcoating Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-no-sugarcoating-podcast/id1158699464 https://amberapproved.ca/podcast/ Free Emotional Eating Quiz: amberapproved.ca/emotional-eating-quiz/ Free Hormone Imbalance Quiz: amberapproved.ca/hormone-imbalance-quiz Schedule a Complimentary 30 Minute Body Freedom Session: amberapproved.ca/body-freedom-consultation/ Connect with Amber! Website: https://amberapproved.ca Socials: @AmberRomaniuk Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  6. Aug 3

    273. Is It Perimenopause or Health Debt with Bria Gadd

    Hey hey hey! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’m so happy to have Bria Gadd, also known as The Period Whisperer, on this week! Bria is a functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner, holistic health coach, certified personal trainer, and host of The Period Whisperer podcast. Her work helps women better understand their hormones and health through midlife, especially when their bodies start responding differently to the things they’ve always done. We get into perimenopause, health debt, and why understanding what’s happening in your body can make such a difference during this stage of life. In this episode: How health and hormone needs can change in midlifeWhat health debt is and how it builds over timeWhy healthy habits can sometimes add more stress to the bodyWhat perimenopause is and when changes can beginHow health debt and perimenopause can overlapWhy slowing down and paying attention to your body matters Practical ways to reduce health debt through sleep, nutrition, movement, and reducing unnecessary stressThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Wellness Sexpertise with Rachel Maine. Visit pure.shop/shop?sh=V9S5E8R and use my exclusive code MY9PU44 for 15% off your order!** Connect with Bria Website: BriaThePeriodWhisperer.com Instagram: @bria_period_whisperer Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  7. Jul 27

    272. Why Women's Stories Matter with Kayla Branstetter

    Hello hello! We're finally back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast and I’m so happy to have Kayla Branstetter on today! Kayla is an English professor, TEDx speaker, researcher, and the author of Don't Be an Athena. Through her writing and research, she’s creating space for conversations that too often get pushed aside, helping women feel seen, heard, and less alone in their experiences. I loved getting to hear more about the story behind her book, the work she’s doing to challenge shame and silence around women’s health, and the incredible heart she brings to everything she creates. I know you’re going to get so much out of this conversation! In this episode: Why storytelling helps women feel less aloneThe importance of creating spaces where women feel seen and heardWhy period education and body autonomy matter for the next generationThe lasting impact of shame, silence, and medical gaslightingThe meaning behind Don't Be an Athena Why believing women can change the way we respond to traumaThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Instant Hydration. Visit InstantHydration.com and use my exclusive code RACHEL33826 for 40% off your order!** Connect with Kayla Website: kaylabranstetter.wpcomstaging.com Instagram: @kbranstetter87 Get her book: kaylabranstetter.wpcomstaging.com/dont-be-an-athena-book-orders Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  8. Jun 1

    271. Your Body is a Genius with Laura & Morgan

    Hello, hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’m so happy to have Laura and Morgan here today! These two have dedicated so much of their work to helping people better understand their bodies and access information that far too many of us were never taught. Through their work in sexual health, midwifery, hormones, and body literacy, they’re helping people build trust in themselves and approach their bodies with more curiosity, confidence, and compassion. This was such a thoughtful conversation, and I know you’re going to take a lot away from it! In this episode: The lack of education around hormones and cyclesHow cycle tracking can build body awarenessThe importance of body literacyWhy every hormonal experience is uniqueCommon myths about cycle phasesTracking apps pros and consWhy hormone education should start earlierThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Wellness Sexpertise with Rachel Maine. Visit pure.shop/shop?sh=V9S5E8R and use my exclusive code MY9PU44 for 15% off your order!** Connect with Laura & Morgan Instagram: @ItsLauraAndMorgan Website: ItsLauraAndMorgan.com The Cycle Book can be found anywhere you buy books Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

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Hi! I'm Rachel Maine! I am a sex coach and sexuality educator that helps women discover and embrace what brings them pleasure so that they can own their sexual self. This podcast provides a space for listeners to think openly about their sexuality and discusses all topics surrounding sexual health and wellness through a sex positive lens. Of course, there will be humor and profanity involved because well... that's my jam! Be sure to subscribe and review the podcast so you never miss a beat!

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  • Creator
    Rachel Maine
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    280
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Owning Your Sexual Self
  • Show Website
    Owning Your Sexual Self

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