My Love Life Was A Sh*T Show

Sarah Duff

Embark on a hilarious journey through the chaos of modern dating with "My Love Life Used to Be a Shit Show." Join me, your gal from Hull, weekly as we explore the ridiculous, cringeworthy, and absurd experiences in the quest for love. From terrible dates to relationship roller coasters, we're navigating the highs and lows, complete with my own unforgettable stories. But it's not just about laughs; we're also uncovering valuable lessons from the madness of love. Share your tales, and let's learn and laugh through the world of dating together!

  1. 11/22/2023

    S4 19.Are You Living In Sync? Here's how to know.

    çheck out the membership and other black Friday Offers here: https://www.livelovethrive.live/black-friday 🎙️ Hey friend!! Here's the scoop in a nutshell of what's on today's episode: 🔍 Getting Aligned: I chat about living in sync with what feels right – in career, love, the whole shebang. 🛤️ Spotting Alignment Signs: I'll spill on how to tell when things feel heavy or frustrating and why it matters for making decisions that really light you up. 🌈 My Shifts & Sustainable Style: Get the deets on my new styling adventures and why sustainable fashion is making its mark in our world! 🌈 I share big news today – the podcast is getting a makeover! 🎉 The name just isn't clicking anymore, so I'm taking a quick break for the revamp, but I'll be back in two weeks with a fresh vibe, a brand-new name, and all the good stuff! 🚀 Grateful for you💖 📣 Important links! 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/11-coaching 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here: ⁠https://www.instagram.com⁠/thriveinloveafter40.podcast/ ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    18 min
  2. "Are You Your Own Worst Critic? Navigating Negative Self-Talk in Relationships and Life

    11/16/2023

    "Are You Your Own Worst Critic? Navigating Negative Self-Talk in Relationships and Life

    Introduction: Welcome to the Magnetic You, a new podcast series hosted by Sarah Duff and Marci Nevin. Join us for conversations about life, relationships, and personal growth. Today's Topic: Body Image and Relationships: Exploring body image issues among women over 40 in dating and relationships. The impact of changes in the body on confidence and the fear of getting intimate again. Overcoming the challenges of accepting one's current body and navigating the dating scene. The importance of addressing negative self-talk and inner criticism regarding physical changes. Shifting mindset, finding self-acceptance, and embracing personal growth in the dating journey. Join us on Magnetic You for insightful discussions on navigating life and relationships with authenticity and confidence. Tune in and explore the magnetic force within you! Don't forget to follow the podcast, and if you would love us a 5-star review, we would be so grateful. 📣 Important links! FOLLOW MARCI on Instagram @marcinevin 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: 🌟⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Discover The Love Makeover Membership⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/11-coaching 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/thriveinloveafter40.podcast/ ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    53 min
  3. 11/09/2023

    S4 17. Should You Date Someone Younger Than You?

    "Should You Date Men That Are Younger Than You?" That's the question I'm answering on this episode of the Thrive in Love After Podcast. Watch this episode on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/KGLewHWrSdI Key Takeaways from the episode: Challenge conditioning: Question societal expectations influencing your dating choices. There is no right or wrong: Understand there's no fixed rule for age in dating, just personal preferences. Trust your instincts: Follow your heart when deciding to date someone younger. Shared values matter: Ensure compatibility in life stages and values for a healthy relationship. Your choice, your life: Don't be swayed by others' opinions; make decisions that feel right for you. IMO, good and bad decisions don't exist! 📣 Important links! 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: 🌟⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Discover The Love Makeover Membership⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/11-coaching 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/thriveinloveafter40.podcast/ ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    11 min
  4. 11/02/2023

    S4 16. Is Playing The Cool Girl Sabotaging Your Relationships?

    Take my new assessment. here: https://thriveandmanifest.com/taketheassessment Hello friend, it's great to be back after a short break. Today, I want to dive into a topic that's been on my mind for a while – Cool Girl Syndrome in dating and relationships. I'm excited to talk about this because it's something I struggled with during my twenties and thirties, and I'm sure many of you can relate. Key Takeaways from the episode: Cool Girl Syndrome (CGS) involves being overly accommodating in your interactions, going along with everything the other person wants. It's driven by the fear of coming across as needy, desperate, or being rejected. Engaging in CGS prevents authentic connections and makes it hard to assess compatibility. The longer you stay in CGS, the more resentment builds because you abandon yourself. Over time, CGS creates an unhealthy relationship dynamic where your partner thinks their behaviour is okay. You block intimacy and genuine connections when you don't show your true self. CGS leads to overthinking and overanalyzing situations. Action Steps: Reflect on your past dating and relationship experiences to identify instances where CGS may have influenced your behaviour. Write a story about what you'll do differently in the future to break free from CGS. Ask yourself what feels light and authentic in situations rather than following norms or overthinking. Get clear on your wants, boundaries, and true needs, and practice communicating them in various areas of your life. Conclusion: I want to encourage you to be yourself and communicate honestly in your dating and relationships. Remember, relationships involve two humans with insecurities and vulnerabilities. Owning your side of the street and working through your fears can lead to personal growth and more fulfilling connections. Closing Notes: Don't forget to check out the episode on YouTube: I'd also like to remind all the amazing women over 40 that if you need guidance and support on your journey to a love life makeover, you can find more information in down below ⬇️ Lastly, consider taking our Relationship Awareness Quiz for personalized insights into your relationships. Thanks for tuning in, and I'll catch you on the next episode. Bye for now! 📣 Important links! 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: Watch the episode on YouTube: 🌟⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Discover The Love Makeover Membership⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/contactpage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    34 min
  5. 10/19/2023

    S4 15. The No Episode Episode!!

    If you're struggling with dating anxieties and repeating love patterns, especially if you're a woman over 40 looking for a love life makeover, check out below for details on how you can work with me. I'd love to help you on your journey to healthier, happier relationships. And, as always, your support means the world to me! If you're tuning in via YouTube, don't forget to hit that like button and subscribe to the channel for more insightful content. If you're on your favourite podcast platform, please give the show a follow and leave some sparkly stars and a review to help others discover this valuable information. For any questions or further insights, feel free to connect with me on Instagram or drop your questions to me in an email: sarah@livelovethrive.club --your questions and feedback are invaluable, and I love hearing from you. Thank you for spending your precious time with me today, and until next time, keep growing, evolving, and loving. 📣 Important links! 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: 🌟⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Discover The Love Makeover Membership⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/11-coaching 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    5 min
  6. 10/12/2023

    S4 EP14. Mastering the Art of Not Getting Too Attached Too Soon

    Howdy, friend, and welcome back to another deep delve episode of The Thrive in Love After 40 Podcast. In this episode, we'll dive into a common dating challenge – finding that delicate balance between investing enough in someone during the early stages of dating without diving in headfirst and becoming overly attached. We've all been there, right? We meet someone new, and our minds start crafting these grand fantasies of what the future might hold. But too much too soon can be a recipe for heartache. What You'll Learn: How to avoid early attachment in dating The dangers of projecting your fantasies onto someone new The importance of Staying present and getting comfortable with uncertainty Overcoming the urgency to rush things Breaking free from the scarcity mindset So grab your favourite drink, get comfy, and join me in unravelling the mysteries of early attachment in dating. Key Takeaways from this episode: Don't ignore your issues; address them head-on Practice being present and embracing the moment Overcome the urgency and scarcity mindset The importance of self-awareness and addressing your own patterns and conditioning If you're struggling with dating anxieties and repeating love patterns, especially if you're a woman over 40 looking for a love life makeover, check out below for details on how you can work with me. I'd love to help you on your journey to healthier, happier relationships. And, as always, your support means the world to me! If you're tuning in via YouTube, don't forget to hit that like button and subscribe to the channel for more insightful content. If you're on your favourite podcast platform, please give the show a follow and leave some sparkly stars and a review to help others discover this valuable information. For any questions or further insights, feel free to connect with me on Instagram or drop your questions to me in an email: sarah@livelovethrive.club --your questions and feedback are invaluable, and I love hearing from you. Thank you for spending your precious time with me today, and until next time, keep growing, keep evolving, and keep loving. Pod episode mentioned: 📣 Important links! 👉🏻I'd love to connect with you further and support you on your journey. Here are some ways we can stay connected: Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s942wEWYks0 🌟⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Discover The Love Makeover Membership⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️Work with Me One-to-One: If you're ready to take the next step in your personal growth and relationship transformation, I offer one-to-one coaching sessions tailored specifically for women over 40.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://thriveandmanifest.com/contactpage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💋Visit My Website: Check out my thriveandmanifest.com website for more empowering content and resources. You'll find articles, freebies, and much more! Follow Me on Social Media: Let's stay connected on social media! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on ⁠Instagram here ⁠for daily inspiration and updates.⁠⁠⁠⁠

    48 min

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Embark on a hilarious journey through the chaos of modern dating with "My Love Life Used to Be a Shit Show." Join me, your gal from Hull, weekly as we explore the ridiculous, cringeworthy, and absurd experiences in the quest for love. From terrible dates to relationship roller coasters, we're navigating the highs and lows, complete with my own unforgettable stories. But it's not just about laughs; we're also uncovering valuable lessons from the madness of love. Share your tales, and let's learn and laugh through the world of dating together!