Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

Brent & Lucy Howell
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Covenant Army Marriage is a movement for husbands and wives who refuse to retreat. We train couples to fight for unity, guard their covenant, and stand firm against the spiritual attacks designed to divide them. If you’re tired of passive marriage advice and ready to build a relationship forged in purpose, discipline, and Christ-centered strength — welcome to the Covenant Army. One Flesh. One Fight. Unified in Christ.

  1. 1D AGO

    Battle Tested & Spirit Bound: The Journey of Three Cord Marriage

    Most couples underestimate the spiritual battle for their marriage — until chaos erupts. Brent, Lucy, Raymond, and Leslie Funk reveal the hidden warfare every believer faces and how they turned their mess into a ministry of hope and victory. In this transformative episode, you'll discover the powerful story of a marriage dragged through addiction, betrayal, and nearly destroyed by the enemy — yet redeemed through obedience, prayer, and the Holy Spirit's unwavering power. Raymond and Leslie Funk share how God took their brokenness and birthed Three Cord Marriage, a ministry rooted in biblical truth and practical warfare strategies that equip couples to fight for their union.We break down their groundbreaking Tactical Marriage Training, a high-impact experience designed to strengthen marriages by teaching couples how to deploy spiritual weapons during real-life battles. Raymond and Leslie share how fighting with faith, boldness, and unity can expose lies, rebuke darkness, and restore hope even in the darkest moments. You'll also hear their candid testimony of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and spiritual deception — lessons that can save your marriage from the enemy’s schemes. Why does this matter? Because your marriage isn’t just about you — it’s a legacy that influences generations. The enemy wants to divide and destroy what God has joined, but through spiritual warfare, obedience, and relentless faith, your marriage can become a mighty example of God's victory. This is not just another episode — it's a battle-cry for every couple fighting to stay united under God's purpose. Whether you're in the storm or seeking to prevent one, this episode offers spiritual tools, real-life grace, and a message of hope that will leave you equipped and encouraged to stand firm. Perfect for couples, ministry leaders, or anyone desperate for a breakthrough in their marriage — this is your call to fight in love, walk in truth, and walk in God's victory.Raymond and Leslie Funk are founders of Three Cord Marriage, devoted to helping couples discover their divine purpose and build resilient, faith-centered unions. Their journey from brokenness to breakthrough proves that with God, nothing is impossible.If you’re ready to lead your marriage into victory, don’t miss this episode. Every couple needs this spiritual warfare strategy — because the fight for your marriage is worth it, and you’re already equipped for the victory. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 02:44 The Birth of Three Cord Marriage 05:44 The Journey of Faith and Obedience 08:28 The Transformation of Raymond and Leslie's Marriage 11:02 Facing Challenges and Seeking Restoration 13:46 The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Testimonies 29:29 Confronting Chaos: A Moment of Truth 31:48 Spiritual Warfare in Marriage 34:47 The Power of Prayer and Faith 36:24 The Journey of Healing and Reconciliation 42:01 Building Trust and New Beginnings 45:15 The Importance of Inner Healing 48:54 Navigating the Path to Restoration 52:36 The Influence of Christ-like Responses 54:56 The Power of Response in Leadership 56:20 Three-Cord Marriage: A Journey of Healing 57:35 Fighting for Your Marriage: The Covenant Army 59:58 Tactical Marriage Training: A Unique Experience 01:06:05 Building a Legacy Through Marriage 01:17:15 Final Thoughts: The Impact of Marriage on Generations Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! ⁠https://linktr.ee/ck4life ⁠ Give to the Covenant Army Mission! ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC⁠ Three Cord Marriage https://www.threecordmarriage.com/ Tactical Marriage Training event https://www.threecordmarriage.com/tactical-marriage-training-day/

    1h 32m

  2. MAY 6

    Before Marriage, Nobody Told Us This About Conflict

    In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy dive deep into the often misunderstood topic of conflict in marriage. They candidly share their personal journey, revealing how they initially believed love and commitment would shield them from conflict, only to discover that it is a natural part of any relationship. Through heartfelt discussions, they explore how conflict can be a powerful tool for growth and unity when handled in a God-honoring way. Listeners will learn practical strategies for navigating disagreements, the importance of humility, and the transformative power of inviting God into their marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your relationship and embrace conflict as a path to deeper connection and understanding. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Conflict in Marriage 06:19 The Nature of Conflict 09:58 Handling Conflict Effectively 18:27 The Role of God in Conflict Resolution 25:24 Seeking Help and Community Support Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! ⁠https://linktr.ee/ck4life ⁠ Give to the Covenant Army Mission! ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC⁠

    34 min

  3. APR 29

    You’re Marrying More Than Each Other: You’re Marrying Your Upbringing Too

    Nobody tells you this before marriage, but they should. You’re not starting from scratch. You’re bringing patterns. The way you handle conflict, show love, shut down, or take control was shaped long before your spouse ever came into your life. And when pressure hits, you don’t rise to your intentions, you fall back on what trained you. That’s why so many couples feel blindsided. Marriage doesn’t create problems. It reveals patterns. In this week's episode on the Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy breakdown this poweful topic. Here’s the truth and the hope. You are not stuck with what shaped you, but you are responsible for what you build. If you don’t confront it, you will repeat it. But in Christ, you can break cycles, choose a different blueprint, and build a marriage that reflects Him, not your past. You’re not just inheriting a tree. You have the power to plant a new one. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating 18 Years of Marriage 02:39 The Importance of Community in Marriage 05:15 Tactical Marriage Training Experience 08:30 Understanding Baggage in Marriage 11:14 Expectations and Upbringing in Marriage 13:58 Navigating Conflict and Communication 16:46 Breaking Unhealthy Patterns 19:59 Building a New Foundation in Marriage 22:51 The Role of Faith in Marriage 25:41 Invitation to a Relationship with Christ Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! ⁠https://linktr.ee/ck4life ⁠ Give to the Covenant Army Mission! ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC⁠

    32 min

  4. APR 22

    The 1 Mistake Every Couple Makes Before Marriage

    Falling in love feels powerful, but it’s not enough to sustain a healthy, God-honoring marriage. In this episode, we break down the truth most couples overlook before saying “I do.” You’ll learn why feelings alone cannot carry a marriage, what actually builds lasting unity, and how to prepare for a covenant that thrives through every season. If you’re dating, engaged, or even married and struggling, this episode will challenge and equip you to build your relationship God’s way. Chapters 00:00 The Foundation of Love in Marriage 09:14 Navigating the Journey of Commitment 18:52 Understanding the Difference Between Love and Infatuation 23:29 Covenant vs. Convenience in Marriage 26:33 Commitment Over Emotion 30:07 Growing Together Spiritually and Emotionally 34:10 Building a Marriage on a Strong Foundation 37:26 Choosing Love Daily 40:40 Transforming Marriages Through God 43:55 The Power of Prayer and Faith Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! ⁠https://linktr.ee/ck4life ⁠ Give to the Covenant Army Mission! ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC⁠

    49 min

  5. APR 15

    This Is How Your Kids Lose Their Faith… (And Most Parents Miss It!)

    How does one generation walk closely with God… and the next forget Him completely? This episode unpacks the warning from Book of Judges 2:10 and brings it straight into your marriage and home. The truth is simple but urgent: faith isn’t inherited, it’s imparted. If it’s not lived out in your marriage, it won’t last in your children. You’ll be challenged to stop assuming and start leading as the spiritual gatekeepers of your home. Because your kids won’t follow what you say, they’ll follow what you model. But here’s the hope:If faith can be lost in one generation, it can be restored in one too. It starts with you. Right now. Build more than a marriage. Build a legacy that points your family to God. Chapters 00:00 Generational Faith and Spiritual Warfare 09:11 Building a Legacy of Faith 18:16 Intentional Parenting and Spiritual Training 27:56 The Power of Prayer and Worship in Family Life 33:45 Invitation to Faith and Community Engagement Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! ⁠https://linktr.ee/ck4life ⁠ Give to the Covenant Army Mission! ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC⁠

    40 min

  6. APR 8

    Why You and Your Spouse Feel Spiritually Out Of Sync (And How To Fix It)

    How can two people share a life… yet slowly drift in opposite directions? This episode confronts one of the most common and dangerous realities in marriage: being committed, but not aligned. Fresh off a deeply moving Resurrection Sunday, Brent and Lucy unpack how the sacrifice of Jesus doesn’t just save your soul, it sets the standard for your marriage. Through raw reflection, biblical truth, and real counseling insight, they expose why so many couples feel disconnected even while living under the same roof. This is not about falling out of love. It’s about falling out of alignment. From spiritual division and silent expectations to pride, miscommunication, and unclear direction, this episode gets to the root of why marriages lose unity and what it actually takes to restore it. You’ll discover why spiritual unity is the foundation, how unspoken frustrations quietly destroy connection, and what it really means to be “on the same page” in a God-honoring marriage. If your marriage feels off, distant, or directionless, this conversation will challenge you, awaken you, and give you a clear path forward. Because a divided marriage will always struggle…but a marriage aligned under God becomes powerful, peaceful, and purpose-driven. It’s time to stop assuming you’re aligned and start building it intentionally. Chapters 00:00 The Disconnection in Marriage 05:55 The Impact of Resurrection Sunday 11:50 Understanding Alignment in Marriage 18:33 Walking Together in Agreement 23:42 Navigating Imperfections in Relationships 25:08 The Importance of Spiritual Unity 26:33 Unspoken Expectations and Their Impact 28:23 Communication: The Key to Alignment 30:10 Misconceptions About Unity in Marriage 32:18 Aligning Values and Roles in Marriage 34:08 Practical Steps for Alignment 36:25 Intentional Conversations for Unity 38:13 Establishing Roles and Responsibilities 39:37 Ongoing Alignment: A Lifestyle Choice 42:48 The Call to Surrender and Seek God Click the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage! https://linktr.ee/ck4life  Give to the Covenant Army Mission! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC

    51 min

  7. APR 1

    What Biblical Respect Really Looks Like for Wives (And Why It Changes Everything)

    Respect in marriage isn’t optional… it’s biblical. In this episode, we tackle a hard truth: Respect isn’t based on your husband’s performance. It’s rooted in your obedience to God. We break down what respect is not: Not silence. Not weakness. Not tolerating wrong. But also expose what many miss: Disrespect often shows up in tone, correction, and public criticism… and it slowly tears a marriage down. Here’s the reality: A disrespected man withdraws. A respected man rises. If you want real change in your marriage, this will challenge you. 🔥 Listen now and learn how to build unity, not division. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Respect in Marriage 05:36 What Respect Is Not 12:09 The Importance of Communication 18:35 Why Respect Matters to Men 21:46 Defining Biblical Respect 25:51 What Respect Doesn't Mean 29:03 The Call to Action for Wives Resources Ephesians 5:22-24 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+5%3A22-24&version=NIV Romans 12:10 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+12%3A10&version=NIV 1 Peter 3:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Peter+3%3A1&version=NIV Proverbs 14:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+14%3A1&version=NIV Covenant Army Marriage Resources - https://covenantarmy.org

    38 min

  8. MAR 25

    Irreconcilable Differences?

    In this episode of Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy challenge the notion that some marital conflicts can't be resolved. Discover how pride and spiritual warfare can turn minor issues into major divides, and learn how God's Word offers a path to healing and unity. Explore the origins of “irreconcilable differences” and how it became a tool for easy divorce. Brent shares biblical insights on overcoming pride and embracing humility and forgiveness to transform your marriage. Perfect for couples on the brink of separation or anyone committed to a biblical marriage, this episode provides practical tools to turn conflicts into opportunities for growth. Is your marriage fully submitted to God? Tune in to find out how to fight for your covenant and see God's power restore what the enemy has tried to steal. Join us to discover how your marriage can reflect Christ’s glory and stand firm against the enemy’s tactics. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Irreconcilable Differences 08:25 The Impact of Compassion Weekend 16:47 The Origins of No-Fault Divorce 27:52 The Purpose of Marriage and Conflict 31:53 The Battle Within: Pride and Selfishness 35:28 Unresolved Issues: The Roots of Conflict 40:00 Covenant vs. Contract: Understanding Marriage 45:24 The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships 48:09 Embracing Differences: Strengths in Marriage 53:12 Transformation: The Key to Reconciliation 57:50 Faith and Unity: The Path Forward Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life If you would like to help and support the mission, click the link below! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC

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Covenant Army Marriage is a movement for husbands and wives who refuse to retreat. We train couples to fight for unity, guard their covenant, and stand firm against the spiritual attacks designed to divide them. If you’re tired of passive marriage advice and ready to build a relationship forged in purpose, discipline, and Christ-centered strength — welcome to the Covenant Army. One Flesh. One Fight. Unified in Christ.

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